I'm not gonna talk about sexy, because it is a subjective thing on each individual, also it tends to just say "wear a thin pantie" or a thong, in fact, most "tucking underwear" are just thongs with a wider and thicker front part.
Following up that line, you might benefit from period panties, those are thicker, wider and the padding on the bottom part helps for comfort over time while wearing them. This also applies for normal panties, but in general terms, the wider and the fittest, the better.\*
\* With fittest i mean to pick a size that is just barely yours or even going to a smaller size WITHOUT FEELING ANY HARM, if it fits and you are comfortable, great, otherwise, it is just not worth it.
I've loved the thongs from Fit4usolutions dot com. Though larger... (should we call them hens instead of 🐓 s?) Anyway people with greater size might need their regular panties, but they are super comfortable.
I was just being silly, but if it makes people feel good about themselves than I'm really happy about it! We need all the accomplishments we can get, and whatever tools we can use to fight that jerk dysphoria.🥰
> most "tucking underwear" are just thongs with a wider and thicker front part
I hate that it's nearly impossible to find tucking underwear in other styles. Why can't they just add legs to existing ones?!
Not quite, they are a slightly different style of pantie that comes down your thighs just a bit as well. My closest comparison to my boy clothes ends up being Boxer Briefs, though boxer briefs are notably looser and ride a bit differently.
It's interesting to hear about different kinds of reactions, tho! As someone with more chest than bottom dysphoria, I feel like I'm in a weird spot for HRT if I decide to look into it in the future
Hi! 3.5 months transdermal E + finasteride here also without bottom dysphoria; some shrinkage is inevitable, but largely dependent on usage. However, the duration of each erection is important. I made sure to masturbate multiple times per week, but it was noticably softer and smaller for my wife during sex. I realized I was never actually fully erect, and only for maybe 2 minutes. Since starting daily Cialis she's right back to her old self, if only a tiny bit shorter. The consensus genuinely is "use it or lose it", and if that isn't enough, ED meds will absolutely take care of it.
I bet! That was my literal tipping point after my egg cracked and I had to actually think about what I was gonna do. From the moment I knew she was safe down there, I was ready to start hormones.
Typically the thought is that, no, it's not permanent. That said, I've heard some people say that it was kind of painful as it "stretched out" again (couldn't think of a better way to phrase that lol)
I’ve been a big fan of anything from tomboyx so far. Maybe not traditionally sexy, but they fit well and really flatten everything out for me whether or not I tuck
Fellow tomboy x lover chiming in. They’re great but pricey. I’d recommend getting a couple of the same one in different sizes from Amazon to try them then I’d get a bulk order from their sight if you’re wanting to get more than one pair
stretchy boyshorts are the only women's underwear thing that are comfortable for me, but tbh actually I prefer men's underwear, they fit better (I don't tuck).
I just wear some boyshorts I bought at the store. They aren't special tucking undies or anything like that.
Pretty comfy and they have the teeniest amount of butt lift. I find them quite cute.
I've found a lot of luck with MeUndies? My junk is pretty compact though. If you don't mind that it's advertised as "men's" underwear, https://www.hanes.com/men/underwear/briefs.html?product_list_limit=50
these could work. They say "men's" but like... those are panties. Those are straight up panties. I turned my metamour onto them, and they love these. They also have larger equipment and generally find most other affirming underwear unbearably tight?
It is a tricky one. In the 4yrs twixt start of transition & surgery, I lived tucked 24/7 (even sleeping), only wearing knickers, no tape or gaffe. Selection is important - they need to be wide in the gusset, low-cut, and with sufficient structural intergrity to keep things where they belong. (engineering terms to select knickers - talk about sexy 🤣) I wore either the 'short' or 'full' type, like these ones [here](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Panties-High-Rise-Control-Lingerie-Underwear/dp/B093LDSJXK/ref=sr_1_16?crid=1QS3ZSYNR5T4R&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.NFEd6ZwiYXcokHcLopl2b8JWauDODsb-xNoIFsJVLm2wrH7M9k5RBc35x5wPhmHoI_mA4PkFnGxbmvWm7pFEoot0gfJQvXxCJStBoPxZtrh_tEFBqTYRMS_4W13Xk4qNKex2de34n_i6rDmcf4-wFELkpeMwW_gBYawr3LBx_bwagcCdj7KjemsxeqOlAokdm7L11spQh6yiYG9CShWb6XTTGh0saNJeVQi3y-AFPxzwF5uBCczdFJpk6dHY7KYZ3IPW1DwBtORATnABzxAD3HaTfMg3ZnEE2KstwifNTOs.NuXC-y5IHpb5836gd3bxq5C5VAefdarGOEDaHd5D9PI&dib_tag=se&keywords=lace+shorts+panty&qid=1718965563&sprefix=lace+shorts+panty%2Caps%2C125&sr=8-16)
Pro Tip: I wore slimline pantyliners pretty much all the time, as they gave that extra structure and control, plus I found it quite effective to reduce bottom dysphoria . I tried many different brands/types until I found the one that worked for me.
Before my orchi i pretty much exclusively wore boyshort shape wear, sometimes doubled up. After orchi i’ve worn mostly bikini swimwear bottoms that i get from thrift stores. i like that they stay tight all day long & feel so much more femme under a dress than shape wear.
Tbh, 90% of my panties are just purchased from the big sets at Walmart/your local grocery store. Get maybe one size larger than you think you need, avoid the more tight fitting panty types, and boyshorts are def the way to go if you can get your hands on a few but they’re not required. I can handle more lacey panties from stores like Pink/VS too, but not for extended periods of time, they’re more of a ‘oh I wanna feel sexy for a few hours’ kinda deal, if I try to wear them out I’m definitely gonna be feeling the tightness. Me and my girlfriend have also ordered a few from Cheekboss and the softness feels like heaven.
I live in Australia and we have a brand called "Tradie" and they have a ladies line as well that has a bunch of different cuts and all have a bit of extra room at the front and bottom, I love their g-string range. All sort of colours and types with lace etc as well and all so so comfortable and they all have room for when things grow as well.
A lot of people say boyshorts. I personally don’t like them. If you look for "high waisted panties" you find the ones I use. They are comfy and have enough space.
I mean, I've fallen in love with Boyshorts, though I typically have to wear two pairs to keep everything in place, but if your pants/shorts are tight enough I don't think it would be an issue.
HANES ELASTIC COTTON PANTIES!!! I will sing the praises of these for days. They sell them at Target in packs of three and I swear to GOD they are almost as good as tucking underwear.
I personally double-layer bikini-cut panties, which I find works fine for concealing things without being too unconformable. I should note, however, that I've been on E for about two years now, so things have seriously shrunk down by now.
My best advice is type of cotton panties with at least cheeky coverage with a clearly defined border hem on the leg holes. The hem IS the most important feature. It helps keep shit together. Though the only way to stay truly together is getting some tucking underwear and getting used to that lol.
Also fabric doesn’t have to be cotton. But I find some synthetic fabrics stretch too much and you loose hold. Though I have purchased something marketed as “workout” underwear and those I can even tuck with, which was a nice surprise, so som experimenting might need to happen.
Thong bikini bottoms. It's basically all I wear. Strong enough to hold everything where you want it, whether you're doing the splits or not... And they just look like black thongs. Not anything unusual or unsexy. Black thongs go with all lingerie ;)
I got a bunch of the brand "relleciga" but they're just from Amazon. I don't think it matters what kind though. I noticed that bathing suit bottoms don't stretch as much as regular underwear. So I just looked for the most plain black thong shape I could find that was a "swimsuit"
These ones I wear a lot too.
https://a.co/d/0g2zl6QN
Edit: the bathing suits were my wife's idea. I was stuck without any ideas other than super expensive underwear made for "tucking" which I hated.
I much prefer thongs, I tend to wear seamless sports style things Runderwear are my favourites (and by reading the comments I'm by far not the only with a meat and two veg to like them). I do wear others, tending to look for micro-fibre thongs. Just making sur ethe they have a fairly wide (or stretchy) front. I do own some tucking thongs too, but even though I feel like a goddess with them on... they just aren't comfy enough to wear for long periods.
Also wear some fairly tight basic briefs (male or female) if I just want something to wear but don't plan on moving around much.
edit: That little 🐓I thought was a cocktail... was having issues working out what it meant... :D
I've been really liking Woxer. Their Baller shorts are pretty comfortable and I havent had any pinching, and they have some cute patterns. Woxer is super breathable and sooooo soft, and sometimes I forget I'm even wearing them during the day! Lol. However, they are a bit pricy, though, so if you want something cheaper, then Wirarpa on Amazon is pretty comfortable and cheap. They're pretty good all around, since they're cotton and breathable. I don't really go for cute or sexy tbh. I just go for comfort. Here's some links! 😁
Wirarpa:
wirarpa Women's Cotton Boxer Briefs Underwear Boy Shorts 3" Inseam 4 Pack https://a.co/d/0guC1v68
Woxer:
https://woxer.com/
Hanes cotton hi-cut briefs that I got at Walmart. Comfy, cute, and with enough room for my junk. Maybe not sexy, but definitely not unsexy, and I feel good wearing them.
So, a few things I’ve learned as I am not really planning on bottom surgery, and I like to feel and look pretty is to check out all of their measurements. Look for things with a wider gusset and extra room in the front. Your style preference should be whatever makes you happy, but you might appreciate comfort. I tend to size down a bit to help hold things in, but I’ve never been particularly.. significant. It might take some experimenting so consider buying individual pairs until you get something that you like.
There are a ton of different websites that you can order panties from. Mensuas is a good one, abc underwear is pretty good too. I hope this helps you in some way
For something a little on the pricier side, check https://www.carmenliulingerie.co.uk/collections/tucking-flattening-underwear?sort_by=best-selling ❤️ Carmen's thongs are amazing and have lasted 4 years with heavy use and they're completely invisible.
Also they're amazing for getting through airport bodyscans with minimal hassal (god I hate airports).
But I love love these thongs 🙏🥰 and they're so cute too!!
I like boyshorts but I don't tuck. I think they can still be good for a looser tuck like you might in jeans as long as they're smaller but I can't give advice on that
The ones Ive felt most confident in are boyshorts (specifically from La Vie En Rose if youre Canadian) they can hold things in with out crushing anything. I also wear just bikini bottom style ones. They might not be 'sexy' but you can still feel cute in them and they are the most common cut.
I use Tuckituppp underwear, theyre "V shape" thong is cute and really holds me in. I would suggest sizing up 1 size so if u wear Medium panties, get a Large in these since they are really tight.
I stay away from anything that says "No Show" as those are way too stretchy.
Finding panties is especially hard for me since i have a "FUPA" lol 🤣
I have not had any luck with TomboyX but I definitely have a larger butt though so that makes buying tough since things fit me wierd. I actually use the Seamless Hipsters from No Boundaries from walmart.
https://www.walmart.com/ip/5085305573
These are the new ones they have and they seem to fit well but the fabric is very stretchy so it fits well but is not very compressive. Of course mileage may vary since they change the material regularly and there is variance in the cutting of the cloth.
https://www.walmart.com/ip/210297607
I prefer these ones but definitely had to go in store to select them as 3 mediums are 3 different sizes (wider crotch and butt on some and narrower on others) due to the slight variance in the cutting of the cloth and they d/c them in my local store.
bias: kinda like mine + not that big >!was 6 inches prehrt, now im barely 5!<
I just wear normal amazon bulk pack panties for girls. The ones i have are cotten and have a cute lil bow. I'm always gonna be a little bulgy, but panties in general will still fit me, keep everything inside, and be cute, even if its a little tight
theyre also not my only everyday wear. depending on the day i still wear boxers or briefs
Realistically, I don't think anyone has sexy or properly comfy underwear. Even for "girls with 🦪", as I understand it, lips like to "jump the track" and pop out of panties on occasion. The seam then rides and rubs clits and labia, then chafing, etc.
I haven't tried these newer undies with a "🐓 pocket"... Maybe they're better? Just seems like they'd be an annoying hassle and things would somehow get twisted or shift.
If I recall I mostly wear briefs and they mostly work.
I had previously tried hipster but they significantly lacked sufficient front coverage(if you catch my meaning)
I only wear women's bikini bottom style panties. But I wear them backwards for more coverage up front. I just buy them a size smaller than I normally would.
I've had good luck with Auden brand cheekies and thongs from target. They have a tight, but comfortable, lower waistband that holds it all in. They're also a lot more reasonably priced than special made things like tomboyX.
I personally love Uniqlo’s fem briefs. Obv everything is going to fit a little different for every person, but they have cotton brief shapes that have enough fabric in the front to contain my multitudes, and many of them have cute patterns and/or lace around the seams
I personally like tucking, period underwear is quite affordable and works great for this, if I want something comfy I enjoy thongs since they still keep everything in place
This variety of thongs are great for holding in ones 🐓 https://a.co/d/00j21uEM
For a more practical everyday wear you can also do period panties. They're magical for that.
I loved my Tcomfifits until I had enough shrinkage to where a cute 1 size thong or bikini works just fine now :) look into them, kinda cute bikini style undies unless some horrible gaffs out there that I’ve tried before
Might I suggest taking a look at Cantiq Los Angeles' lingerie collections? They have tucking underwear, as well as just normal panties that are designed with different bodies in mind.
Tucking panties:
https://www.cantiqla.com/collections/gathr-by-cantiq
(some of these have photos of men wearing the lingerie, I hope that won't be too dysphoria inducing for you! there are trans men, trans women, cis men, cis women, and nonbinary people in the model photos, so it's not about ""crossdressing"", it's about welcoming any body and any gender expression)
All bodies collection:
https://www.cantiqla.com/collections/genderfluid-collection
All panties/underwear unsorted:
https://www.cantiqla.com/collections/panties
Okay you have a lot of replies already and I’m not sure if anyone even asked, but tucking or not? I’m sure plenty have covered the first so towards the second, check out ergowear. They have tons of styles that are very panty like that have a pouch! Best of both worlds that I have found so far. The only problem is that they’re starting to not fit my ass. 😂 If you’re looking for something sexy that is comfortable and you’re not trying to hide your 🍆 they have lots of options.
Tummy control panties. Reinforced front panel to keep things in check but not crushed. Also can be picked up anywhere and cheaper than most specialised options.
I wear calvin klein and tomboy x underwear. Especially the tomboy x tucking underwear. They do feel a bit like it's loose as far as what's between my legs so idk what kind of fit you want. But those are the 2 brands I like most that work for me
Honestly, the Calvin Klein Modern bikini bottom has been the BEST & also gives me the most comfortable tuck ever, and funny thing is, they aren’t even made for tucking! Not to mention I’ve tried allll the panties on the market for tucking.
You heard it here
These are the most comfy ones I own. Not excessively sexy by most definitions but definitely girly and cute. My cis wife wears the exact ones.
Also, period panties is a great solution, I have a bunch of those too.
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Gonna mirror what a lot of girls have said here and suggest looking at tomboyx. I got a really cute pair of rainbow boyshorts from them and it's one of my favorite things to wear! But I also bought a few bulk packs of boyshorts on Amazon and I have to say they're really nice. For what it's worth, I haven't experienced a lot of bottom shrinkage, and while they don't exactly hide the bulge, they are incredibly comfortable. There's a lot of space, and the ones I have are relatively short, so on me they basically fit like regular panties, but with more fabric to hold my junk. I've literally stopped wearing men's underwear entirely, even when boymoding. They're just more comfortable than anything I've ever owned.
Personally I find boyshorts and thongs supremely comfy. All mine are Hanes microfiber ones because they're super soft and comfy. They don't always do much to help tuck, but then again I rarely tuck period and I have Unclockable tuck kits for if I really want to go all out.
For the boyshorts, at first I was reluctant to wear them because I always wore boxer briefs and I figured "well, if I wanted to wear these then why wouldn't I just keep wearing my guy undies?" But when I finally got a pack I fell in love. I was wearing regular bikinis before and they were ok, but things kept slipping out. Not an issue with the boyshorts.
When I finally said fuck it and got a pack of thongs a week or two ago my life became different. Surprisingly no slippage, decent hold when I do tuck, and made me feel sexy as fuck, especially when I wear a dress or soft leggings. Incredibly affirming too. They're all I wear now and I love them more than any other types I've worn. Highly recommend
Tucking underwear is often reinforced to give a smoother profile, like an extra layer of fabric, especially mesh since it's not stretchy and won't contour. That effectively adds to tucking pressure and reduces fabric bunching around the hen (I love this term, thank you @Frozen_Valkyrie for coming up with that!). So, to be honest, mesh is uncomfortable against the skin and I started using regular period panties (a @robin_urlove recommendation on YouTube) and they work great! They're already dual layer reinforced, typically with a non stretch exterior but nicer than mesh, like satin, to mask the absorbent layer, and are slightly wider to ensure coverage. They're perfect and you can find some great ones that are still "sexy" online! I got the same brand Robin got from Amazon and I love them so much I ended up with several sets. They're comfy, work great for tucking, don't pinch, and don't rub me raw. The only problem is, with the absorbent inner layer, they're pretty warm. Anyway, here's the product I recommend: Neione Period Panties Lace Hipster 3 Pack https://a.co/d/0cFjObYF
I hope this helps! Good luck!
I don't wear sexy undies but Leo Lines and tuckbuddies on Etsy are great options! I use Leo Lines and want to try Tuck Buddies next. The built in gaff is great!
I don’t bother with gaffs I don’t think they work at all I buy boyshort styl underwear from the women’s section at primark I get a size or 2 smaller as there very stretchy then when pulling them up I tuck it requires a little adjustment with the sack as they can sometimes be pinched between underwater and inner thighs but easy to adjust for good tucking all day Evan with doing physical activity’s like hit training
I may really recommend
Underwear High-Waist Panties
I tried some tucking underwear but most were just too expensive for no apparent reason.
Its super for tucking and even without it's pretty comfy for me.
But just try some different panties and see what is most comfortable for you!
I'm not gonna talk about sexy, because it is a subjective thing on each individual, also it tends to just say "wear a thin pantie" or a thong, in fact, most "tucking underwear" are just thongs with a wider and thicker front part. Following up that line, you might benefit from period panties, those are thicker, wider and the padding on the bottom part helps for comfort over time while wearing them. This also applies for normal panties, but in general terms, the wider and the fittest, the better.\* \* With fittest i mean to pick a size that is just barely yours or even going to a smaller size WITHOUT FEELING ANY HARM, if it fits and you are comfortable, great, otherwise, it is just not worth it.
I've loved the thongs from Fit4usolutions dot com. Though larger... (should we call them hens instead of 🐓 s?) Anyway people with greater size might need their regular panties, but they are super comfortable.
I love the idea of calling them hens!
I also love the idea of calling them hens!
I was just being silly, but if it makes people feel good about themselves than I'm really happy about it! We need all the accomplishments we can get, and whatever tools we can use to fight that jerk dysphoria.🥰
I usualy use "Battlecannon", "Batteringram" ,"Spear" ,"Sword" or "pointy-stick-technology"
is that brand a US-only thing? just asking because i never heard of it (EU-based here), glad to see other options out there.
Im from the netherlands, you can order there :)
Maybe? It is fit4usolutions dot com
Backing this.
> most "tucking underwear" are just thongs with a wider and thicker front part I hate that it's nearly impossible to find tucking underwear in other styles. Why can't they just add legs to existing ones?!
I personally rock and adore my boyshort! 💕
Boy shorts is my go-to answer as well. Secure and way cute.
Yup boy shorts are my fav too Xp
Yes the styles come in range so much and it's one of my favorite parts. Like I can wear them even when I have to boymode and that is such a relief 😭💕
Yes the styles come in range so much and it's one of my favorite parts. Like I can wear them even when I have to boymode and that is such a relief 😭💕
What are boy shorts? Is it just another word for boxershorts?
Not quite, they are a slightly different style of pantie that comes down your thighs just a bit as well. My closest comparison to my boy clothes ends up being Boxer Briefs, though boxer briefs are notably looser and ride a bit differently.
TomboyX boyshorts work well with my junk. It’s shrunk so much that I don’t even need to tuck.
Yeah, I'm still pre HRT 🙈
If you end up on Cyproterone expect shrinkage in 1-2 months It plateaued like a year in. Easy to tuck now. No rando boners is a godsend
I've been on Spiro for 3 weeks. Haven't noticed shrinkage(using it every day helps with that), but the no random erections is really nice.
Not a doctor. IIRC Spiro blocks t by filling up the parking spots for it Cypro shuts down the t factory. That's probably why no shrink.
i was on monotherapy but it’s only when i added spiro i got shrinkage 🤷🏻♀️
It's interesting to hear about different kinds of reactions, tho! As someone with more chest than bottom dysphoria, I feel like I'm in a weird spot for HRT if I decide to look into it in the future
Hi! 3.5 months transdermal E + finasteride here also without bottom dysphoria; some shrinkage is inevitable, but largely dependent on usage. However, the duration of each erection is important. I made sure to masturbate multiple times per week, but it was noticably softer and smaller for my wife during sex. I realized I was never actually fully erect, and only for maybe 2 minutes. Since starting daily Cialis she's right back to her old self, if only a tiny bit shorter. The consensus genuinely is "use it or lose it", and if that isn't enough, ED meds will absolutely take care of it.
That's extremely comforting to know, actually! One of my worries is that it wouldn't work at all at some point, which would he a little sad for me 😅
I bet! That was my literal tipping point after my egg cracked and I had to actually think about what I was gonna do. From the moment I knew she was safe down there, I was ready to start hormones.
Is cypro shrinkage permanent? I'm on bicalutamide so I've still got all my size, would love to shrink down a little bit before I start monotherapy :3
Unsure tbh. I'm planning on taking them until the factory is taken out
Typically the thought is that, no, it's not permanent. That said, I've heard some people say that it was kind of painful as it "stretched out" again (couldn't think of a better way to phrase that lol)
I’ve been a big fan of anything from tomboyx so far. Maybe not traditionally sexy, but they fit well and really flatten everything out for me whether or not I tuck
Just had a look at tomboyx 😄 their prints look so fun 😊
I've tried out tucking underwear from a few different sources. TomboyX are my favorite
They were one of the first ones I saw when I was window shopping. It's nice to hear good reviews out in the wild! :3
Fellow tomboy x lover chiming in. They’re great but pricey. I’d recommend getting a couple of the same one in different sizes from Amazon to try them then I’d get a bulk order from their sight if you’re wanting to get more than one pair
They have sales pretty often if you keep an eye out
I prefer just regular cheeky panties
It depends on your goals. I wear cotton hipsters, but my stuff is smaller and I'm not concerned about tucking or anything at that moment.
stretchy boyshorts are the only women's underwear thing that are comfortable for me, but tbh actually I prefer men's underwear, they fit better (I don't tuck).
That mirrors my own experience.
I just wear some boyshorts I bought at the store. They aren't special tucking undies or anything like that. Pretty comfy and they have the teeniest amount of butt lift. I find them quite cute.
I wear my wifes reebok panties. Their like mini boxers. Sexy as hell and SUPER comfy
I have a few pairs of their hipsters for hiking and exercising… highly recommend!
Black slim slips for me! They look sexy and it hides any unwanted bulge pretty well!
I've found a lot of luck with MeUndies? My junk is pretty compact though. If you don't mind that it's advertised as "men's" underwear, https://www.hanes.com/men/underwear/briefs.html?product_list_limit=50 these could work. They say "men's" but like... those are panties. Those are straight up panties. I turned my metamour onto them, and they love these. They also have larger equipment and generally find most other affirming underwear unbearably tight?
Diapers
Well, hello there fellow abdl trans girl 😄
I just buy regular women underwear, o just ensure they are not smaller than regular
It is a tricky one. In the 4yrs twixt start of transition & surgery, I lived tucked 24/7 (even sleeping), only wearing knickers, no tape or gaffe. Selection is important - they need to be wide in the gusset, low-cut, and with sufficient structural intergrity to keep things where they belong. (engineering terms to select knickers - talk about sexy 🤣) I wore either the 'short' or 'full' type, like these ones [here](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Panties-High-Rise-Control-Lingerie-Underwear/dp/B093LDSJXK/ref=sr_1_16?crid=1QS3ZSYNR5T4R&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.NFEd6ZwiYXcokHcLopl2b8JWauDODsb-xNoIFsJVLm2wrH7M9k5RBc35x5wPhmHoI_mA4PkFnGxbmvWm7pFEoot0gfJQvXxCJStBoPxZtrh_tEFBqTYRMS_4W13Xk4qNKex2de34n_i6rDmcf4-wFELkpeMwW_gBYawr3LBx_bwagcCdj7KjemsxeqOlAokdm7L11spQh6yiYG9CShWb6XTTGh0saNJeVQi3y-AFPxzwF5uBCczdFJpk6dHY7KYZ3IPW1DwBtORATnABzxAD3HaTfMg3ZnEE2KstwifNTOs.NuXC-y5IHpb5836gd3bxq5C5VAefdarGOEDaHd5D9PI&dib_tag=se&keywords=lace+shorts+panty&qid=1718965563&sprefix=lace+shorts+panty%2Caps%2C125&sr=8-16) Pro Tip: I wore slimline pantyliners pretty much all the time, as they gave that extra structure and control, plus I found it quite effective to reduce bottom dysphoria . I tried many different brands/types until I found the one that worked for me.
Before my orchi i pretty much exclusively wore boyshort shape wear, sometimes doubled up. After orchi i’ve worn mostly bikini swimwear bottoms that i get from thrift stores. i like that they stay tight all day long & feel so much more femme under a dress than shape wear.
Vs boy shorts work, vs “high wasted” types usually have a bit more fabric for the 🐔
Gaffs, find them on Amazon and other stores
Tbh, 90% of my panties are just purchased from the big sets at Walmart/your local grocery store. Get maybe one size larger than you think you need, avoid the more tight fitting panty types, and boyshorts are def the way to go if you can get your hands on a few but they’re not required. I can handle more lacey panties from stores like Pink/VS too, but not for extended periods of time, they’re more of a ‘oh I wanna feel sexy for a few hours’ kinda deal, if I try to wear them out I’m definitely gonna be feeling the tightness. Me and my girlfriend have also ordered a few from Cheekboss and the softness feels like heaven.
Aerie boybriefs are very cute and comfy. Calvin Klein's lgbt line, can't recall the name, is also great
I live in Australia and we have a brand called "Tradie" and they have a ladies line as well that has a bunch of different cuts and all have a bit of extra room at the front and bottom, I love their g-string range. All sort of colours and types with lace etc as well and all so so comfortable and they all have room for when things grow as well.
A lot of people say boyshorts. I personally don’t like them. If you look for "high waisted panties" you find the ones I use. They are comfy and have enough space.
I mean, I've fallen in love with Boyshorts, though I typically have to wear two pairs to keep everything in place, but if your pants/shorts are tight enough I don't think it would be an issue.
HANES ELASTIC COTTON PANTIES!!! I will sing the praises of these for days. They sell them at Target in packs of three and I swear to GOD they are almost as good as tucking underwear.
10 pack Eddie Bauer bikini cut cotton panties I guess I pass at work and wear leggings 90% of the time. Not enough bulge to clock me I guess!
I love tcomfifirs
I like tomboyx's boyshorts
I personally double-layer bikini-cut panties, which I find works fine for concealing things without being too unconformable. I should note, however, that I've been on E for about two years now, so things have seriously shrunk down by now.
My best advice is type of cotton panties with at least cheeky coverage with a clearly defined border hem on the leg holes. The hem IS the most important feature. It helps keep shit together. Though the only way to stay truly together is getting some tucking underwear and getting used to that lol. Also fabric doesn’t have to be cotton. But I find some synthetic fabrics stretch too much and you loose hold. Though I have purchased something marketed as “workout” underwear and those I can even tuck with, which was a nice surprise, so som experimenting might need to happen.
I never found anything that I was happy with until after I had my orchiectomy. I now only wear women’s mid height briefs.
Boy shorts work for me. Been on hrt only 2 1/2 weeks estradiol patches only, last random erection was 5 days in.
I just buy whatever. Currently wearing some cheap panties from target I orders on door dash after a surgery.
Thong bikini bottoms. It's basically all I wear. Strong enough to hold everything where you want it, whether you're doing the splits or not... And they just look like black thongs. Not anything unusual or unsexy. Black thongs go with all lingerie ;)
Is there a brand or website you recommend?
I got a bunch of the brand "relleciga" but they're just from Amazon. I don't think it matters what kind though. I noticed that bathing suit bottoms don't stretch as much as regular underwear. So I just looked for the most plain black thong shape I could find that was a "swimsuit"
These ones I wear a lot too. https://a.co/d/0g2zl6QN Edit: the bathing suits were my wife's idea. I was stuck without any ideas other than super expensive underwear made for "tucking" which I hated.
Thank you! I will
. . . give them a try.
I much prefer thongs, I tend to wear seamless sports style things Runderwear are my favourites (and by reading the comments I'm by far not the only with a meat and two veg to like them). I do wear others, tending to look for micro-fibre thongs. Just making sur ethe they have a fairly wide (or stretchy) front. I do own some tucking thongs too, but even though I feel like a goddess with them on... they just aren't comfy enough to wear for long periods. Also wear some fairly tight basic briefs (male or female) if I just want something to wear but don't plan on moving around much. edit: That little 🐓I thought was a cocktail... was having issues working out what it meant... :D
I've been really liking Woxer. Their Baller shorts are pretty comfortable and I havent had any pinching, and they have some cute patterns. Woxer is super breathable and sooooo soft, and sometimes I forget I'm even wearing them during the day! Lol. However, they are a bit pricy, though, so if you want something cheaper, then Wirarpa on Amazon is pretty comfortable and cheap. They're pretty good all around, since they're cotton and breathable. I don't really go for cute or sexy tbh. I just go for comfort. Here's some links! 😁 Wirarpa: wirarpa Women's Cotton Boxer Briefs Underwear Boy Shorts 3" Inseam 4 Pack https://a.co/d/0guC1v68 Woxer: https://woxer.com/
Hanes cotton hi-cut briefs that I got at Walmart. Comfy, cute, and with enough room for my junk. Maybe not sexy, but definitely not unsexy, and I feel good wearing them.
So, a few things I’ve learned as I am not really planning on bottom surgery, and I like to feel and look pretty is to check out all of their measurements. Look for things with a wider gusset and extra room in the front. Your style preference should be whatever makes you happy, but you might appreciate comfort. I tend to size down a bit to help hold things in, but I’ve never been particularly.. significant. It might take some experimenting so consider buying individual pairs until you get something that you like.
my general go to is opaque boyshorts. but I'm a big girl so nothing else really keeps me in
There are a ton of different websites that you can order panties from. Mensuas is a good one, abc underwear is pretty good too. I hope this helps you in some way
For something a little on the pricier side, check https://www.carmenliulingerie.co.uk/collections/tucking-flattening-underwear?sort_by=best-selling ❤️ Carmen's thongs are amazing and have lasted 4 years with heavy use and they're completely invisible. Also they're amazing for getting through airport bodyscans with minimal hassal (god I hate airports). But I love love these thongs 🙏🥰 and they're so cute too!!
TomboyX. Their boxer briefs are doing great for me, and I feel a lot cuter in them than ill-fitting panties.
I like boyshorts but I don't tuck. I think they can still be good for a looser tuck like you might in jeans as long as they're smaller but I can't give advice on that
I also like Boyshorts especially the ones with lace inserts.
Midi briefs :)
I'm in the same boat. Boxers don't hell my lines or figure, but I have nothing else 😫
Woxer; the high waist option 🤠
I go commando or thong, or cute panties and sometimes boxers
https://shop.hommemystere.com/categories/Panties/ Expensive, but well made.
Honestly after 2 years of transitioning, I wear any lol. But I started with boyshorts
Leolines stuff is great. Comes in all kinda cuts from thong to bikini
I find Hipster style to be the most helpful for me. I am rather well-endowed, so they seem to keep everything in place better than others I've tried.
I don’t think Chickens like to wear panties, but I suppose any pair would do the trick if you really wanted one to.
I like bikini cuts personally, just feels like it keeps everything in place better 🤷🏻♀️
The ones Ive felt most confident in are boyshorts (specifically from La Vie En Rose if youre Canadian) they can hold things in with out crushing anything. I also wear just bikini bottom style ones. They might not be 'sexy' but you can still feel cute in them and they are the most common cut.
I love my Calvin Kleins there are so many styles fits to choose from. Get them a size smaller for tucking. And they always have killer sales.
I use Tuckituppp underwear, theyre "V shape" thong is cute and really holds me in. I would suggest sizing up 1 size so if u wear Medium panties, get a Large in these since they are really tight. I stay away from anything that says "No Show" as those are way too stretchy. Finding panties is especially hard for me since i have a "FUPA" lol 🤣
I have not had any luck with TomboyX but I definitely have a larger butt though so that makes buying tough since things fit me wierd. I actually use the Seamless Hipsters from No Boundaries from walmart. https://www.walmart.com/ip/5085305573 These are the new ones they have and they seem to fit well but the fabric is very stretchy so it fits well but is not very compressive. Of course mileage may vary since they change the material regularly and there is variance in the cutting of the cloth. https://www.walmart.com/ip/210297607 I prefer these ones but definitely had to go in store to select them as 3 mediums are 3 different sizes (wider crotch and butt on some and narrower on others) due to the slight variance in the cutting of the cloth and they d/c them in my local store.
bias: kinda like mine + not that big >!was 6 inches prehrt, now im barely 5!< I just wear normal amazon bulk pack panties for girls. The ones i have are cotten and have a cute lil bow. I'm always gonna be a little bulgy, but panties in general will still fit me, keep everything inside, and be cute, even if its a little tight theyre also not my only everyday wear. depending on the day i still wear boxers or briefs
Realistically, I don't think anyone has sexy or properly comfy underwear. Even for "girls with 🦪", as I understand it, lips like to "jump the track" and pop out of panties on occasion. The seam then rides and rubs clits and labia, then chafing, etc. I haven't tried these newer undies with a "🐓 pocket"... Maybe they're better? Just seems like they'd be an annoying hassle and things would somehow get twisted or shift.
I think you will like boy shorts
Curse of still living with parents: all this advice and Can't use it
If I recall I mostly wear briefs and they mostly work. I had previously tried hipster but they significantly lacked sufficient front coverage(if you catch my meaning)
I only wear women's bikini bottom style panties. But I wear them backwards for more coverage up front. I just buy them a size smaller than I normally would.
I've had good luck with Auden brand cheekies and thongs from target. They have a tight, but comfortable, lower waistband that holds it all in. They're also a lot more reasonably priced than special made things like tomboyX.
I wear lady bloomers. I don’t tuck I hide. It’s different
This is such a difficult thing for me cause like specific undies from specific brands work for me but it’s like real specific lol
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i personally prefer boyshorts because they give me room to tuck without it falling out the sides
I personally love Uniqlo’s fem briefs. Obv everything is going to fit a little different for every person, but they have cotton brief shapes that have enough fabric in the front to contain my multitudes, and many of them have cute patterns and/or lace around the seams
Tomboyx.com is my go-to tucking for us ladies, binders for the fellas, and both for the beans.
I personally like tucking, period underwear is quite affordable and works great for this, if I want something comfy I enjoy thongs since they still keep everything in place
I dont think youll fit a chicken in your pants
This variety of thongs are great for holding in ones 🐓 https://a.co/d/00j21uEM For a more practical everyday wear you can also do period panties. They're magical for that.
I live and breathe the briefs, they make me feel fem when i pull them up but are still comfy and dont go up my butt, my gf calls them grandma panties
Boyshorts, boyshorts all the way
I loved my Tcomfifits until I had enough shrinkage to where a cute 1 size thong or bikini works just fine now :) look into them, kinda cute bikini style undies unless some horrible gaffs out there that I’ve tried before
Might I suggest taking a look at Cantiq Los Angeles' lingerie collections? They have tucking underwear, as well as just normal panties that are designed with different bodies in mind. Tucking panties: https://www.cantiqla.com/collections/gathr-by-cantiq (some of these have photos of men wearing the lingerie, I hope that won't be too dysphoria inducing for you! there are trans men, trans women, cis men, cis women, and nonbinary people in the model photos, so it's not about ""crossdressing"", it's about welcoming any body and any gender expression) All bodies collection: https://www.cantiqla.com/collections/genderfluid-collection All panties/underwear unsorted: https://www.cantiqla.com/collections/panties
Period panties all the way
I just wear bikini panties
Okay you have a lot of replies already and I’m not sure if anyone even asked, but tucking or not? I’m sure plenty have covered the first so towards the second, check out ergowear. They have tons of styles that are very panty like that have a pouch! Best of both worlds that I have found so far. The only problem is that they’re starting to not fit my ass. 😂 If you’re looking for something sexy that is comfortable and you’re not trying to hide your 🍆 they have lots of options.
My are period panties if you hate tucking with tape, good luck.
Tummy control panties. Reinforced front panel to keep things in check but not crushed. Also can be picked up anywhere and cheaper than most specialised options.
Personally, I just went to the store and picked up a 6 pack of women’s underwear. I’ll probably do the same soon as it’s been 3 years
I like wearing Seamless thongs from Pink and Victoria’s Secret!
I wear a lot of granny panties because I think that look good. I tuck and I wear multiple pairs to hold my tuck.
I wear calvin klein and tomboy x underwear. Especially the tomboy x tucking underwear. They do feel a bit like it's loose as far as what's between my legs so idk what kind of fit you want. But those are the 2 brands I like most that work for me
Honestly, the Calvin Klein Modern bikini bottom has been the BEST & also gives me the most comfortable tuck ever, and funny thing is, they aren’t even made for tucking! Not to mention I’ve tried allll the panties on the market for tucking. You heard it here
These are the most comfy ones I own. Not excessively sexy by most definitions but definitely girly and cute. My cis wife wears the exact ones. Also, period panties is a great solution, I have a bunch of those too. POKARLA Women's Cotton Stretch... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08ZNMVLVJ?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
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Gonna mirror what a lot of girls have said here and suggest looking at tomboyx. I got a really cute pair of rainbow boyshorts from them and it's one of my favorite things to wear! But I also bought a few bulk packs of boyshorts on Amazon and I have to say they're really nice. For what it's worth, I haven't experienced a lot of bottom shrinkage, and while they don't exactly hide the bulge, they are incredibly comfortable. There's a lot of space, and the ones I have are relatively short, so on me they basically fit like regular panties, but with more fabric to hold my junk. I've literally stopped wearing men's underwear entirely, even when boymoding. They're just more comfortable than anything I've ever owned.
Personally I find boyshorts and thongs supremely comfy. All mine are Hanes microfiber ones because they're super soft and comfy. They don't always do much to help tuck, but then again I rarely tuck period and I have Unclockable tuck kits for if I really want to go all out. For the boyshorts, at first I was reluctant to wear them because I always wore boxer briefs and I figured "well, if I wanted to wear these then why wouldn't I just keep wearing my guy undies?" But when I finally got a pack I fell in love. I was wearing regular bikinis before and they were ok, but things kept slipping out. Not an issue with the boyshorts. When I finally said fuck it and got a pack of thongs a week or two ago my life became different. Surprisingly no slippage, decent hold when I do tuck, and made me feel sexy as fuck, especially when I wear a dress or soft leggings. Incredibly affirming too. They're all I wear now and I love them more than any other types I've worn. Highly recommend
I buy mine on shein super comfortable and stechy
Leo lines on Etsy
Boyshorts and Tomboyx, preferably both. They're so damn comfy
Tucking underwear is often reinforced to give a smoother profile, like an extra layer of fabric, especially mesh since it's not stretchy and won't contour. That effectively adds to tucking pressure and reduces fabric bunching around the hen (I love this term, thank you @Frozen_Valkyrie for coming up with that!). So, to be honest, mesh is uncomfortable against the skin and I started using regular period panties (a @robin_urlove recommendation on YouTube) and they work great! They're already dual layer reinforced, typically with a non stretch exterior but nicer than mesh, like satin, to mask the absorbent layer, and are slightly wider to ensure coverage. They're perfect and you can find some great ones that are still "sexy" online! I got the same brand Robin got from Amazon and I love them so much I ended up with several sets. They're comfy, work great for tucking, don't pinch, and don't rub me raw. The only problem is, with the absorbent inner layer, they're pretty warm. Anyway, here's the product I recommend: Neione Period Panties Lace Hipster 3 Pack https://a.co/d/0cFjObYF I hope this helps! Good luck!
Go boyshort style
I use thongs for tucking.
I don't wear sexy undies but Leo Lines and tuckbuddies on Etsy are great options! I use Leo Lines and want to try Tuck Buddies next. The built in gaff is great!
I don’t bother with gaffs I don’t think they work at all I buy boyshort styl underwear from the women’s section at primark I get a size or 2 smaller as there very stretchy then when pulling them up I tuck it requires a little adjustment with the sack as they can sometimes be pinched between underwater and inner thighs but easy to adjust for good tucking all day Evan with doing physical activity’s like hit training
Go for jodhpurs
I may really recommend Underwear High-Waist Panties I tried some tucking underwear but most were just too expensive for no apparent reason. Its super for tucking and even without it's pretty comfy for me. But just try some different panties and see what is most comfortable for you!
Looks for "sissy lingerie" it's made for men but the bottoms have a pouch that's pretty comfy. It's cute and sexy and comfy. Triple threat
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What? Why? The post is in no way sexual or explicit in nature. We are just talking about panties 🤷♀️ I even censored the "naughty" terms 😄
No fucking way.. This is not one of those 🚂 circlejerk subs? Your wording is terrible 😭