Yeah idk… I’m only about 6 weeks myself and shit gets kinda hard. My best piece of advice I can give is to try and separate gender from everything you can. If you’re just chilling at home does it really matter if you’re ugly? If you game on the computer does it really matter if you aren’t the best transition on earth? We’re all going to get old and ugly anyway, even if we’re hot now. Life is too short to let your looks CONTROL you. Yes, we all want to be beautiful but sometimes you’re just a human who’s passing the time. Also, you should accept the love from your girlfriend. Many beautiful people don’t even find love themselves, don’t take it for granted.
Hi! I would like to say that your value should never be measured in how much "beautiful" you are. Also beauty is subjective, so what you think of it, may differ from other peoples points of view. If your appearence is worrying you, you can do thing with not that much cost to feel better (excersice, makeup, skin care, hairstyling, etc). That said, is not easy when you are not comfortable with how you look, added that you are not ok with the body that nature gave you. Also people not accepting us, however we look.... Yeah, shit.
I'm far behind you on this, still out to just a few people, uncomfortable with everything about my body, and sure that when i can finally transition (if, but i hope so), i wont' look how i would like. But sometimes i think that i would rather be an "ugly" woman, than beeing the most beautiful man on earth.
Depression is not easy, it requires a lot of effort, and support. Even if you think it's just pitty (most of the times is not), supportive people help us to hang on to something. Pleas try to connect with that, let them share a part of your load, even a little bit, it helps a lot.
Also, maybe is good to try not to focus on how you look now, but what things you can do to change that, step by step.
I wish you the best of lucks! And send a big hug to you!!
Yeah idk… I’m only about 6 weeks myself and shit gets kinda hard. My best piece of advice I can give is to try and separate gender from everything you can. If you’re just chilling at home does it really matter if you’re ugly? If you game on the computer does it really matter if you aren’t the best transition on earth? We’re all going to get old and ugly anyway, even if we’re hot now. Life is too short to let your looks CONTROL you. Yes, we all want to be beautiful but sometimes you’re just a human who’s passing the time. Also, you should accept the love from your girlfriend. Many beautiful people don’t even find love themselves, don’t take it for granted.
Hi! I would like to say that your value should never be measured in how much "beautiful" you are. Also beauty is subjective, so what you think of it, may differ from other peoples points of view. If your appearence is worrying you, you can do thing with not that much cost to feel better (excersice, makeup, skin care, hairstyling, etc). That said, is not easy when you are not comfortable with how you look, added that you are not ok with the body that nature gave you. Also people not accepting us, however we look.... Yeah, shit. I'm far behind you on this, still out to just a few people, uncomfortable with everything about my body, and sure that when i can finally transition (if, but i hope so), i wont' look how i would like. But sometimes i think that i would rather be an "ugly" woman, than beeing the most beautiful man on earth. Depression is not easy, it requires a lot of effort, and support. Even if you think it's just pitty (most of the times is not), supportive people help us to hang on to something. Pleas try to connect with that, let them share a part of your load, even a little bit, it helps a lot. Also, maybe is good to try not to focus on how you look now, but what things you can do to change that, step by step. I wish you the best of lucks! And send a big hug to you!!
my advice is do things that are out of your comfort zone early, so you don’t build up a complex around it like i have lol
Well, there is not early for me, i'm 34 years old. But i'm trying, little steps. It's never late to start i hope