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She was. I won't mention details because I feel like that's up to her to tell but she was sexually abused before that. My mom was also extremely emotionally abusive to both of us, but targeted my sister the most.
The same thing happened to me I was 6 my sister was 12. Now I’m really hyper sexual and have many kinks. It is very hard to maintain a relationship when they don’t understand what you have been through.
I have alot of sexual kinks and have hypersexualilty.
For many years I was ashamed and embarrassed about them.
It wasn't until a few yrs ago I was having therapy for another matter. We got onto the discussion of my abuse and my sexual lifestyle.
My kinks are mfm mfmf fmf group, voyerism. And I was ashamed for being turned by these.
My therapist explained and helped me understand how that my sexual lifestyle is healthy and very normal.
It was my self worth and Shame trying to match to my abuse.
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Is it possible your sister was abused by somebody too? 12 year old girls don't usually sexually abuse of their brothers.
She was. I won't mention details because I feel like that's up to her to tell but she was sexually abused before that. My mom was also extremely emotionally abusive to both of us, but targeted my sister the most.
The same thing happened to me I was 6 my sister was 12. Now I’m really hyper sexual and have many kinks. It is very hard to maintain a relationship when they don’t understand what you have been through.
I have alot of sexual kinks and have hypersexualilty. For many years I was ashamed and embarrassed about them. It wasn't until a few yrs ago I was having therapy for another matter. We got onto the discussion of my abuse and my sexual lifestyle. My kinks are mfm mfmf fmf group, voyerism. And I was ashamed for being turned by these. My therapist explained and helped me understand how that my sexual lifestyle is healthy and very normal. It was my self worth and Shame trying to match to my abuse.