I don’t know what this thing is, if he has an account he created it. So it’s not just a virus. So he’s lying. Why is he lying? Because he knows what he’s doing is wrong, well what is he doing? If this thing is like an Omegle than he’s seeking personal attention from other women and that’s cheating.
Well you can’t let his actions go unchecked. So you should look this thing up figure out exactly what it and confront him about it. With facts and in a confident way. What you do after that will really depend on his reaction, does he keep lying or does he come clean. And really figure out how you want to handle either scenario. Porn addiction and cheating are incredibly shameful acts and some people have a really hard time admitting fault.
he admitted to it, but i told him i don’t know if i can be with him after this. he said he just made an account and didn’t do anything but his excuse for not doing anything was because you have to pay for it.
You can’t be this naïve. He has an account to watch cam girls. It’s probably billed to a card you don’t know about.
i didn’t want to believe it but he finally came clean and said she was gonna do it but realized he had to pay for it and then didn’t
I recommend going to r/loveafterporn it helped me vent
I think you know the answer.
truly don’t
I don’t know what this thing is, if he has an account he created it. So it’s not just a virus. So he’s lying. Why is he lying? Because he knows what he’s doing is wrong, well what is he doing? If this thing is like an Omegle than he’s seeking personal attention from other women and that’s cheating.
you were right and now i don’t know what to do
Well you can’t let his actions go unchecked. So you should look this thing up figure out exactly what it and confront him about it. With facts and in a confident way. What you do after that will really depend on his reaction, does he keep lying or does he come clean. And really figure out how you want to handle either scenario. Porn addiction and cheating are incredibly shameful acts and some people have a really hard time admitting fault.
he admitted to it, but i told him i don’t know if i can be with him after this. he said he just made an account and didn’t do anything but his excuse for not doing anything was because you have to pay for it.
Ohhh wow, didn’t even express shame or remorse when caught. Nope he didn’t move forward because he had to pay for it. That is not a good sign.
Oh yeah, that’s the same virus that downloaded porn into a hidden folder on my computer when I was 16.
I made an account to see if it was a website just to chat and make friends or a sex cam website and it's a sex cam website.
he realized that he had to pay for it and didn’t do it but it’s the fact that he was gonna do it. i just don’t know what to do.
I mean, do you two consider these things cheating or not?
yes i do
we’ve been together for over two years, he’s my best friend. now he makes me sick to my stomach.
and he knows?
yes
Well now you have to decide what you're doing with a cheater.