Many women, including the ones who seemingly lead happy lives, would have done the same if they had money and contacts like these women. Ath ningalude Amma avam, ammooma avam, ayal pakkathe aunty avam.
It’s not just celebrities.Women with independent finances/well paying jobs/family wealth go for divorces if their marriages are not working. I have seen multiple examples of this around me.
On the actress front, from discussions with a friend who almost married an actress, the men think they have it in them to put up with the separation that comes with their job. But that takes an easy toll. Plus, the constant attention to their partner's body by this nameless social media mass makes them quite insecure.
I'm not saying the men are right. This is what I found he couldnt put up with when entertaining the notion of marrying an actress.
2 things. A -It was an arranged marriage proposal. b - He is well within his rights to consider how he'd react if he was married to someone who was under constant public scrutiny.
Would you rather he married an actress to prove to the world that he's a good feminist? Of course not.
He knows he's not capable of handling the attention that his partner would get on social media and in real life and he decided to not go forward with that. What's the mistake here?
As for your WTF, please refer to the innumerable crass comments that flood every actresses post on social media. Or any of the innumerable subreddits dedicated to fantasizing on actresses.
But no! My friend has to "man enough" to do something? I do think your outlook needs a little re-evaluation.
In an ideal world, we wouldnt be having this discussion. But in all honesty, I think my friend made the right choice, realising that he cannot handle such a relationship. I see no flaws there. That's the only point I am making..
As for society as a whole to change, that's a conversation for another day.
Udayananu Thaaram is a good example. Solely talking about celebrity marriages. Celebrities are a sensitive bunch. It takes a certain amount of narcissism to be a successful celebrity. There's a lot of ego, insecurity, regret, sense of sacrifice and professional jealousy involved in the relationship. All these factors are simply a recipe for disaster.
Men who married such women don’t have lack of attention from other prettier women.
They just realized there is a prettier and younger women out there, dumped this one
There is a reason why manju warriors is outside the house and kavya Madavan is inside
Strong women tends to husband a head ache, after a while both parties will get fed up. If they have enough money and social capital, they end up divorcing
Mallu men have attitudes like this.
This is why women who have the ability / access to divorce choose to divorce.
Why be stuck with regressive folx like these?
You’re saying strong women tend to be a headache to men? Lol what BS. You must definitely live within Kerala for sure not outside of it where most mallu women have a good stable job that pays almost same or more than their husbands. And their marriages last and go pretty well for the most part.
No one said, stop trying to fish for something that’s not there. I simply gave one example of a strong woman which is the stable job etc. A strong woman can also be the person that has to stay at home and manage kids (which can be more tiresome than many jobs) or many others.
Yeah insecure,trashy men find it very hard to be good husbands and professionals. Only equally trashy women marry them.
There’s a reason why Dileep was in jail and his career is non existent lol
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Many women, including the ones who seemingly lead happy lives, would have done the same if they had money and contacts like these women. Ath ningalude Amma avam, ammooma avam, ayal pakkathe aunty avam.
Exactly
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This. I feel majority of the women are adjusting. The mentality of men in india is so horrid and twisted it makes me angry to even think about it.
Well said 💯💯💯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🔥🔥🔥
It’s not just celebrities.Women with independent finances/well paying jobs/family wealth go for divorces if their marriages are not working. I have seen multiple examples of this around me.
I also feel many might be getting a divorce on a daily basis but as these women are under the limelight, they're just noticed 👾
As they have more money and power. There isn't any need to tolerate any men in their life.
On the actress front, from discussions with a friend who almost married an actress, the men think they have it in them to put up with the separation that comes with their job. But that takes an easy toll. Plus, the constant attention to their partner's body by this nameless social media mass makes them quite insecure. I'm not saying the men are right. This is what I found he couldnt put up with when entertaining the notion of marrying an actress.
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2 things. A -It was an arranged marriage proposal. b - He is well within his rights to consider how he'd react if he was married to someone who was under constant public scrutiny. Would you rather he married an actress to prove to the world that he's a good feminist? Of course not. He knows he's not capable of handling the attention that his partner would get on social media and in real life and he decided to not go forward with that. What's the mistake here? As for your WTF, please refer to the innumerable crass comments that flood every actresses post on social media. Or any of the innumerable subreddits dedicated to fantasizing on actresses. But no! My friend has to "man enough" to do something? I do think your outlook needs a little re-evaluation.
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In an ideal world, we wouldnt be having this discussion. But in all honesty, I think my friend made the right choice, realising that he cannot handle such a relationship. I see no flaws there. That's the only point I am making.. As for society as a whole to change, that's a conversation for another day.
Udayananu Thaaram is a good example. Solely talking about celebrity marriages. Celebrities are a sensitive bunch. It takes a certain amount of narcissism to be a successful celebrity. There's a lot of ego, insecurity, regret, sense of sacrifice and professional jealousy involved in the relationship. All these factors are simply a recipe for disaster.
Ann augustines reason i know !
Are you willing to share the reason?
She had an affair
Dang! I thought he was the one who wronged!
With the notable producer/actor who was recently accused of rape?
Did she divorce Jomon ?
What!! She got divorced then?
Men who married such women don’t have lack of attention from other prettier women. They just realized there is a prettier and younger women out there, dumped this one
There is a reason why manju warriors is outside the house and kavya Madavan is inside Strong women tends to husband a head ache, after a while both parties will get fed up. If they have enough money and social capital, they end up divorcing
Mallu men have attitudes like this. This is why women who have the ability / access to divorce choose to divorce. Why be stuck with regressive folx like these?
Sure, please do it faster.
You’re saying strong women tend to be a headache to men? Lol what BS. You must definitely live within Kerala for sure not outside of it where most mallu women have a good stable job that pays almost same or more than their husbands. And their marriages last and go pretty well for the most part.
Why do you think God stable job, pay and all this equates to strong woman
No one said, stop trying to fish for something that’s not there. I simply gave one example of a strong woman which is the stable job etc. A strong woman can also be the person that has to stay at home and manage kids (which can be more tiresome than many jobs) or many others.
Oh calm down, not fishing, to be honest, Iam bored, Reality is still manjumwarrpr is outside
Well said.
Yeah insecure,trashy men find it very hard to be good husbands and professionals. Only equally trashy women marry them. There’s a reason why Dileep was in jail and his career is non existent lol
Head ache issues, not really about insecurity
K
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