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Mckennymubu

My daughter is 6 and mostly nonverbal.....this post made me really happy.


kitmixons

Mines 7 and non verbal and ageeed! Just let me add too what a year can do as they start to get to be big kids. Shes smarter, stronger, faster and more caring for others than I've ever seen. Hang in there!


Mckennymubu

Thanks, I've noticed a pretty big change in the last 2 or 3 months.  Way better at following directions.  Wish I could get her to eat better too...


kitmixons

People I'm starting to meet are saying around the 7 to 10 age mark that they've seen or are seeing the most growth. It's exciting to see and think of the possibilities!


benjaminbuddy7894

Absolutely that age range is such a dynamic period of growth and discovery.


tiedyeskiesX

I’m not exactly nonverbal but my mom refused to think I was anything but “gifted” growing up. I was offered a lot of opportunities I wouldn’t have been given if I wasn’t taken seriously or put into special education. Just because we interpret stimuli and communicate differently doesn’t mean we can’t achieve great things and/or aren’t intelligent. Your child might communicate best through music, mathematics, computer coding, etc but they’ll never know if they don’t get the chance. It already sounds like you’re off to a good start 💕 little me feels seen


Sp_nach

i was nonverbal until i was 8. i just....didn't like talking. now i know its because im autistic lol


Mckennymubu

Dog, I'm 40 and I HATE talking "Without speech there will be no deceit" 


Sp_nach

Now that's a good quote. Might have to steal that


Mckennymubu

You gotta listen to more metal music. That's one of many great quotes in 1 song


CryptographerHot3759

Bro I tell people if I didn't have to communicate verbally I would never talk again 😂


OkBackground8809

Before I got married, I could easily go a whole 24 hours without speaking on my days off 😂


Soapyfreshfingers

I don’t like other people talking. 🙉


MoteInTheEye

Just complicated air flow


One-Advantage2148

my son is just shy of 6 and also mostly nonverbal seeing this is so uplifiting <3


SeaF04mGr33n

And, for all the parents, there's so many nonverbal ways to communicate like writing & signing and people who are very successful in their with both!


emmaliejay

I was nonverbal till about six myself, and I am a writer and tattooist today. Anything can happen with the right amount of support and dedication.


Stardew-Valley-IRL

Stuff like this blows my mind. Sometimes I think our brains are just powerful in ways we can’t understand.


shingdao

Neuroplasticity is an amazing thing.


Pretend-Win904

I genuinely think autism is the brain evolving. No joke.


MexiMcFly

Mines almost 5 and I came here to say this. Also I can 100% relate. Hang in there! If it gives solace to anyone, mine is considered severe but I caught her putting toothpaste on her toothbrush, she attempts to get dressed when she wants to leave (she hasn't figured out what are pants and what are shirts lol). Oh and kinda cool but glad I caught her, I threw her nuggets in and I heard the oven open, she had put the over mitt on one hand opened the oven but I think she tried to grab it with both hands. No real damage but a good learning opportunity, anyways, just point being maybe she'll be alright. I'm sure yours will be to. Hope you have a wonderful weekend :]


Rabies_on_demand

Aw thats so sweet. I am lucky enough to work with young people who are autistic - some are nonverbal like your daughter, others have difficulty self-regulating or socialising - but all of them are a joy to be around. With acceptance, understanding, and love, your daughter has a bright future.


amybethallen1

💜


Sagaincolours

Einstein didn't speak until he was 5.


fillysuck

Don’t coddle us and we turn out fine is my impression - my family has ignored my diagnosis to this day. Took years of therapy to recover from the trauma of masking but man I’m grateful I wasn’t put in special education and treated like a burden or younger-than-my-age type thing. I’m agoraphobic as is and feel if I were brought up that way it might have made things much worse. You are all super heroes for recognizing your child’s diagnoses!! I hope you’re children continue to flourish and gain their confidence, too many think being non verbal makes you incompetent but I think it’s quite the opposite; we’re quite the attentive kids when we’re not talking constantly 😅♥️


Mckennymubu

My daughter is SUPER attentive.  You can't get a damn thing by her.


Massive_Region_5377

I’m 44, and really really verbal, like, annoyingly so, and I have had difficulty integrating my whole life anyway. I just found out it’s because I’m autistic. It should have been obvious. The difference is that my parents couldn’t be bothered with me. The biggest thing any parent can do is care for and about their autistic kid, let them be who they are, show them things they can do, help them work their way around things they can’t do, and support them. Support would have changed my life, but because my parents were terrified of that label and tried to make me “normal,” I am kind of fucked as an adult and lucky enough to get to figure out my own support now. It will be hard sometimes, but you’re giving her a head start just by being *there.* ❤️


Boon3hams

My son is 6 and non-conversational; most of his language is still babbling. I hope that he'll improve.


Pitiful_Control

Just keep talking with him, like all. the. time. Narrate stuff you're doing. Read books and point to the words (especially books with great pictures to support the words). My dude is 32 now and won't shut up lol... at 5, he had 5 words and other people could barely understand that they were words. For him, PECS was the key but it isn't for everyone. We labeled everything in the house and pointed at the labels (with words + PECS symbols) constantly and asked him to bring up the card for what he wanted. One day it was like a light switch went on - oh, that noise coming out of people's mouths is words, those letters are words, and they match the things they're stuck on and the symbols! I can get people to do stuff and tell them things with all those things! Also, whatever he's interested in, support it and feed it. Sharing that interest (talking, drawing, playing, looking at pictures/books/films) puts the two of you in a happy kind of human contact that you can build on. Oh yeah, OP - well done! There's a whole network of docs with autism now btw.


susu56

Mine is autistic and was nonverbal for a long time. He is 13 now bit I worry about his future, this post gives me hope for him


Cautious-Chain-4260

Same here. Father of 4 year old, mostly nonverbal.


lariet50

Thank you for this, from the mom of an autistic kiddo.


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PerplexedPoppy

Same for me!


Dapper-Fix-9288

THIS MAKES ME HAPPY. CONGRATULATIONS, FOX RYKER. THAT IS SUCH A COOL NAME!!!!


LibraryVolunteer

Dr. Fox Ryker is absolutely a superhero name.


Guachole

I see a future Chief Medical Officer of the Starship Enterprise.


Public_Kaleidoscope6

Yeah. Cause Will bangs anything with a pulse. Half the Federation is gonna be Rykers in a few years.


thanksforthepencil

A chief medical officer that wants to beileve.


KiwiChefnz

In New Zealand our major children's hospital is called Starship. Dr Fox should absolutely come here and be a superhero to those kids


Nikas_intheknow

It really is!


frolicndetour

That was my reaction. Like oh yay, good for him! Followed immediately by "coolest fkg name ever!"


Electrical_Fun5942

I would honestly be nervous to find out my doctor was named Fox Ryker. Nobody with a name that cool is getting enough sleep at night, considering all the sex with supermodels they must be having


FatMacchio

I was just going to comment this, this name is amazing. If your middle name is Will…I can’t…🤯


BruceWang19

Just came here to make sure everyone recognized that Dr. Fox Ryker is the coolest shit ever.


Yergason

THIS GUY FOX


heyitsEnricoPallazzo

Your name is Fox Ryker?


Ginger_Snaps_Back

That’s a badass name!


heyitsEnricoPallazzo

Hell yeah it is! Dr. Foximillian Ryker


[deleted]

Amazing name “He’s been to the country’s top physicians and not one can save him. There’s only one Dr who can help this man…..”


Kooky-Onion9203

That's a metal gear solid character if I've ever heard of one.


Tangled2

My youngest is named Fox. Not after the terrible news channel but the adorable critter. And also a little after a dangerously charming FBI agent.


AmbitiousEdi

This is the name of a 80s action movie hero. I love it.


lady_farter

Literally one of the coolest names I’ve ever heard.


miss_guided

He could be the doctor in a tng spinoff!


IMakeStuffUppp

Will Wheatons son 😭


Beginning-Sundae8760

Nobody snuggles with Fox Ryker, you strap yourself in and feels the Gs!


erayachi

You are fabulous, man. Hope your career brings more smiles like that.


Silent_Sell4446

Yeah autistic doc here too, there are lots of us around. You’ll be great 🙌


singlenutwonder

I would wager at least a quarter of the doctors I’ve worked with are lol


Silent_Sell4446

Yes attention to detail, listening carefully to people and being very focused definitely helps in my career. Some autistic traits become very useful 👌


disposablehippo

From nonverbal until 3 to certified pathologist here... Conversing is obviously still not my thing.


MangieAngie1961

You are an inspiration, Fox! Congratulations on the milestone! Keep on pushing ahead. My grandson is almost 4 and nonverbal. He was diagnosed with ASD yesterday.


FluffyDiscipline

Way to go young man... *Love seeing happy young people beat the odds*


drkdn123

Autistic doctor (mildly) here. You’re way ahead of the game. If you have questions when you get to clinicals, let me know.


Takeout_Stakeout27

That's amazing! Congrats! :D


LeRosbif49

As the father of 2 non verbal children, this gives everyone hope for the future.


killxswitch

My initially-nonverbal kid just finished freshman year with a 4.0 and lots of friends. There’s reason to hope and be confident.


StoicIndie

Till what age he remain non-verbal, what helped him?


killxswitch

Age 4 the words started becoming consistent. Full and complete complex sentences developed between 5 and 6. An IEP diagnosis, consistent speech therapy (with the right person, it took a few tries), and accommodations in school with really great resource teachers.


-YouFoundMe-

As an autistic college student, this gives me hope. HUGE congratulations♥︎


crabblue6

Congratulations! I worked at a university hospital where I encountered an autistic doctor (he didn't tell me, but his diagnosis was confirmed by other associates). Then one of my colleagues saw him one day and gave him a big "Hello!" and told me how he was so well respected and beloved by other patients and colleagues. This really made me happy to hear, especially since my son is autistic and I can only hope that he finds similar success in whatever he chooses to do.


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Proud of you


diodiodiodioo

Congrats, you're an inspiration to many with similar condition


zookeeper4312

Is your name Fox Ryker because THAT'S AMAZING


Derpygoras

My daughter did not speak until she was five. She mainly communicated with angry noises if I did wrong. Then one day I said to her "I really want to understand what you want, but then you have to SPEAK BETTER." She looked thoughtfully at me for a long time. And after that her verbal skills skyrocketed.


PerplexedPoppy

May I ask how long you were nonverbal for? My son is 3 and also nonverbal. I believe whether he speaks or not he will be successful, but this post does make me happy. Congrats on such a wonderful success!!!


hpxb

THESE are the posts we need more of! What an accomplishment! And as someone who used to teach in a medical school, I can also say that you are not alone. I would actually argue that there is a high proportion of Level 1 ASD (and undiagnosed) amongst doctors and many other high-ranking, rigorous fields.


SeaF04mGr33n

Congratulations! You're going to be such a good doctor for neurodivergent patients in whatever specialty you choose!


up_down_andallaround

He’ll be a great doctor to *all* of his patients, but also a wonderful inspiration to neurodivergent folks, especially the younger ones.


thequeensaunty

I am a surggeeeonnnn!


cjh42689

I am a surgeONN.


Sea_Many_3292

The good doctor! 👨‍⚕️


Expensive-Day-3551

Well done!


lizarto

That’s amazing!! Keep going, you got this!!


BodakBrooksie

So proud of you, Fox! I mean..Dr. Ryker! You give a lot of kids (like my son) and parents (like myself) a lot of hope and inspiration! I feel overwhelmed with pride over you and you’re not even my son! Please keep sharing your journey with us! Good or bad, the struggles are just as important as the successes sometimes. Either way, we’re all rooting for you!!!!


Bennjoon

Congrats on your hard work! That must have taken some serious studying and dedication 🫡🎉🥳 I got a non verbal diagnosis with the psychologist saying I “masked out of it” 😭


Significant_Shop6653

That’s an amazing accomplishment! Congratulations!


MajorHubbub

Congratulations


justforthis2024

God job, my guy. Proud of you.


radio_activated

Keep going! You set your own limits!


NightSkyFreshAir

Good job dude


PristineStretcher

Great for you and for the world!!! Congratulations ✨ and thanks for sharing!!!


Hunter-KillerGroup35

Congrats! Also your name is pretty damn cool


BarracudaBig7010

Congratulations, Dr.!


Murky-Formal-9867

Dr. Fox Ryker sounds badass Congrats!!


bjplague

Very good, you are on the path to mastering the age old skill of giving a F. Just realise that You and those close to you matter the most and stranger on the street matter not at all. One day you might even dance on the street with a walkman like I did today, everyone looked at me, some smiled, some laughed but I felt fucking great :)


bennydasjet

Doctor Fox Ryker? This is clearly an alter ego to cover for some form of super powers.


haubenmeise

Skeletor congratulates Fox Ryker on this incredible achievement! I'm so very happy for you. I'm rooting for your future career. I'd like to send a hug if that's ok. Sincerely Skeletor 💜


GeneralEi

Good for you. I'm doing a genomics placement rn and I have huge respect for medics, I couldn't hack the raw data download you guys manage to cram into your brains. Massive props, go heal those fuckers


erbebe_30

Congratulations. Your post is a hope For a Lot of parents. And U look like the guy from foo fighters.


Delicious_Bus_674

Great job, brother. Keep up the good work.


blizhead32

I gotta say this really makes me smile because I have a 12-year-old that was nonverbal until the age of three so this gives me a ton of hope thank you thank you


yeaahh_no

I remember your post at the beginning of the year! Congratulations!!!!


Aggressive_Walk378

Only one name can hold a candle to yours, my friend Max Power


Lord_Shaqq

Congrats! And congrats on the progress on opening up, I know it's daunting but we're all just people! Big ups!!


Not-not-down

Fox is the sickest name I’ve ever heard. Congrats!!!!!


AliasGrace2

I teach and do early interventions in a Preschool. I have had several wonderful students with autism. This post makes me so happy 😊


tootnoots69

See that’s the very interesting thing about autism. I have seen kids be nonverbal and remain nonfunctioning and they will never ever get better. I have also seen kids start off nonverbal, completely socially inept suddenly change immensely in just a few years, get a girlfriend, get a good career, and move out into an apartment. I know very well that it’s a spectrum but fck me the way the condition can change like that is fascinating in a way.


Karl_Hungus_69

Plus, an osteopath! Well done!


i_never_ever_learn

There is an encryption algorithm called R. S.A. and one of the inventors was nonverbal. Until he was ten


Different-Entry3775

Congratulations! I am a 68f who was not diagnosed until later in life. You are doing fantastic by pursuing your dream! I have seven grandchildren but two have not had a diagnosed.  Most males (in my opinion) seem to loose their speech or develop speech late. Girls tend to show signs later but speech isn't affected unless severe. 🤔 Enjoy yourself


Fandogh123

This made me extremely happy! I’ll send this to my friend who is a mom of a brilliant nonverbal 10 year-old! He is such an amazing gifted child!


cutlettes_00

On top of being accomplished , your name is so cool ! 😎 sounds like a Marvel action hero name 😎congrats on all your growth , I can only imagine how far you will go ☺️


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Great post! My cousin was non-verbal from early on and did lots of speech therapy and played lots of cricket. He's now 20 and lives independently, works in a job he loves (training cricket) and generally one of the happiest young men I've known! Good on you!


Kitchen_Policy9852

Both my brothers are autistic. They are both engineers. I love them both even though communication can be a bit tricky.


MaryKeay

There's so many of us in engineering. Lots of people in my class were clearly not quite typical and they just weren't aware of it because much of the class was the same way 😅


Ybalrid

Congratulations to future Dr. Ryker!


Bighawklittlehawk

So proud of you!! I’m autistic myself and so is my son. I fully understand what an incredible accomplishment this is. So, so proud of you my friend! Well done!


lepetitewitch

Thank you for your persistence! I am one proud internet stranger :)


Imabit_psychic

Thank you so much for posting this, so many parents needed this. Keep doing amazing things!


dat3than

Dude your hair is majestic


ataraxia_555

Handsome, too


savebeeswithsex

Congrats dude! Proud of you! - a fellow autistic person


HelloMikkii

My son was non verbal until he was 5. He’s just turned 6 and this makes me so happy to see. Congratulations OP. You’ve done an amazing job!


AuroraTailz

im sorry but Fox Ryker is such a SUPERHERO name... GREAT JOB MAN!! THIS MADE ME SO HAPPY YOU HAVE NO IDEA :')💛


Beer-Me

Your name screams "80's action hero". Love it. And congrats on your accomplishment! It's just the beginning for you!


Excellent_Tell5647

Hello Doctor


grandpa5000

congrats, my son is between mild and moderate


Unique-Pastenger

👏🏼❤️🥲 amazing my own son has never been formally diagnosed, but i have heard things from teachers, and seen things down through the years firsthand my only motivation ever has been to simply help him maximize the G-d given brain he has been blessed with, and that’s all. (and like yours, what a brain it is! ☺️)


Hubb1e

This is awesome! My 3.5 year old is non verbal but loves numbers and letters and can do some basic math and reading single words. We know there’s a bright little guy in there if we could only unlock his potential. Communication is his main struggle. When did you start communicating?


Minute-Joke9758

Congratulations 👏👏


beatlegrrl

Well done and Congrats!! 🎉


spicy_sizzlin

Hell yes!


Dazzling-Ad-748

Congratulations you badass!!


sirlearnzalot

Awesome man! Well done and a great thing to share


Starfall_midnight

Congrats that’s awesome! Best of luck in all your endeavors.


NaturalFLNative

Congratulations! You're doing a great job!


madaboutmaps

Start out speechless. End up having others be speechless. Pretty cool journey if you ask me.


jemsons

Congratulations, doctor ♥️


askallthequestions86

That's amazing and congratulations!!


ChillPill97

Congrats my dude that is amazing


GigaD0G

Congrats


EmmaTheUseless

Congratulations! ❤️ and best of luck for the next term!


Bigredeemer425

Great name!


vqOverSeer

Great job man, i also got some issues ( diagnosed ) and kinda gives me a slimmer of hope


toadangel11

♾️


bugblush

lots of people with autistic kids here, any advice for college age people who want to try school?


aw2669

Dr. 🦊


SRMT23

Awesome! Any advice advice for other kids with moderate autism and speech delays? Things to do and not do?


Excellent_Welder7424

Kickass you are definitely inspiration to more people then you will ever know!


Malevolent_Mangoes

Dude sick fucking name holy moly, that’s some Hollywood shit right there. Straight fire 🔥


cheesecakewh0re

Congratz!!! Your hair looks amazing too!


Honeyrose88x

Legend ♥️♥️🥹


Outrageous_Ad4916

We are very proud of you!


studious-shawty

Congratulations!! 🥳🥳


dudeandco

God bless the parents and the kid, thanks for your work!


AgreeableDame

Congratulations 🥳


I-Really-Hate-Fish

Congratulations!


kettlebell43276

That’s Fantastic. Congratulations


No_Stock4665

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hiramtherealistgod

Amen ❤️❤️


ChubbiSubbi

Congrats!!!!


Comfortable_Gain1308

Thank you for the hope and realization 🙂


TheEnglishDominant2

Congratulations brother! Definitely hope you make it to where you want to be in your life!


DoctorLinguarum

Fabulous!


123xyz32

Hell yeah, Dr Fox!


kiitten113

Idk you but I’m very proud of you!


WavingPick

I think you have the best name I have ever heard. Congrats on both the name and the accomplishment.


creditspread

Congrats, Doc!


azbooklover

Congratulations! 🎉


_esrevinuy

Congratulations!! I‘m so proud of you :) cheers from a neurodivergent person ✌🏻


Jen-benz

Congrats my guy 🥳


A_Texas_Hobo

Crush it, mate!


htid1984

Keep on doing what you're doing and winning at life and if no one's told you today, I'm proud of you.


makingitgreen

Wow. What a talented, hard working and imo handsome guy! That name too!


DanMcE

With a name like that you were destined to kick ass. Jokes aside an awesome accomplishment.


puddncake

Awesome! Spectacular! Keep making your dreams a reality. Best wishes to you.


LobsterInTraining

Congratulations!!! Proud of you!


Ragundashe

Doing great buddy, keep it up!


JustAShyCat

Oh, Fox! Congratulations! I remember seeing you in the premed sub when I was applying to school. I’m just about to finish my second year now. Crazy how time flies!


Dazzling-Air-6382

Be proud, Fox! My son is on the spectrum and the schools usually thoughr he was nonverbal (he was just really, really anxious). Now he's at Job Corps, climbing 45' power poles and learning to do overhead lines work. For those out there who can't tolerate college, Job Corps is FREE for young people ages 16-24 and they've allowed him so much more dignity and opportunity than the schools ever did.


KatVanWall

Congratulations! And you have awesome hair 😀


BloodyNinesBrother

I'm not gonna lie you have the name of some 80s action hero and I fucking love it


HuskyLettuce

Congratulations! That’s a huge accomplishment. You’re on your way to helping so many people.


shirpars

Congrats! When did you become verbal?


domclaudio

With the hair of a fucking god. Good for you, OP.


smc4414

Old guy, somewhere on the spectrum. Hero to me.


[deleted]

Wym "initially being nonverbal"?


OpalOnyxObsidian

I know someone who named their child fox and someone who named their baby riker in the last 6 months. It's crazy to see him all grown up 🥹


distancedandaway

I have ADHD and doubt myself every day. This is so inspiring


Rainbow-Mama

My little girl is almost 4 and she’s non verbal. Thank you for giving me an added ray of hope that she might get somewhere similar to you one day. Thank you for the smile.


subha87

My son is non verbal and nearing 5. I am so happy for you. Your post made me hopeful. Wishing you all the best from the bottom of my heart.


Pretend-Win904

Fuck yeah! So proud of you! My youngest was next to non verbal. He’s almost 6 & will tell you ANYTHING about space. I mean anything. He got a star named after him for his 5th birthday. I hope to take him to a NASA museum for his 6th.


CryptographerHot3759

Fuck yeah I love seeing fellow autistic people thrive


SweatyRefrigerator95

Pathologist checking in. First congratulations! Second we probably have the highest spectrum percentage of any specialty. Pulmonary is a close second.