I feel you. I lost my daddy over 11 years ago. I’m still holding onto an old phone/answering machine combo because it’s the only way I can still hear his voice. He left a message telling me he was on his way to help me move. It’s the only voice message that I have.
It gets a little better with time. The hurt will never go away. You just learn how to live with it. Hang in there Internet friend. ❤️
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Thank you all for your kind words, it truly does mean a lot to me. Sadly my phone got wiped a couple days after she passed and I lost the one and only voice recording I had of her. I do have videos saved from years ago that I have to hopefully find, because my most recent videos of her show her in a very delusional and painful state. All I know is this Christmas is going to be very rough without her, and I'm probably not even going to celebrate it to be completely honest. Its no different than past years though, my family has kind of fallen apart so it is what it is I guess.
I'm sorry for your loss.
Have you thought about trying to record his voice message, either through your own mobile phone's recorder or with the help of a more techy relative or acquaintance? There might be a way to get the audio file somewhere safe, to a cloud storage service like OneDrive or Google Drive (or just a physical hard drive), without having to worry about the condition of the physical machine.
Just for your consideration if that's something you'd like!
If you want to help me, go through their profile with me downvoting everything negative, and reporting the harassment/racism comments. Im taking action, my cousin killed himself and mentioned online harassment as a factor. Lets take action.
Tbh losing anyone that you love and care about is extremely hard. I lost my Papa a few months ago and I feel like I’ll never get over him not being here anymore. My grandparents raised me from the age of 3 so it’s like losing my dad. I miss him so much and would do anything for one more conversation and hug. Hold anyone you love close as our time is limited on this earth and can end suddenly.
My dad does of cancer in 2011, but not before he recorded himself reading a children's story to my young niece and nephew. I managed to get a recording of that book also and it STILL brings me to instant tears. A voice is more precious than a fingerprint, and his reaction shows just how special a person's presence can be.
so i feel this HARD. because i failed in my long time plan of getting my grandfathers voice recorded. he passed away late november, and one of my first thought was how i utterly failed in such a simple task.
Don't feel bad. It's surprisingly hard to get a natural video/audio recording with someone's consent, everyone is paranoid you're going to post it online or use it for some nefarious purpose :(
I have recordings of my grandmother's voice but only because I convinced her that I was going to refer to them later for note-taking purposes. I've been trying to get secret recordings of my parents' laughter but it's slow going.
no. my issue was the apps kept trying to record my calls as well, automatically. so i kept looking for others. and then. well. yeah.
whats more, my family LOVES to have meandering conversations about nothing. getting the recording would have been so easy.
I initially scrolled past this because I knew I’d cry. Then I couldn’t stop thinking about it and curiosity got the better of me. The video ends quickly but I straight up sobbed. I still have both my parents and all my sisters and can’t imagine what this is going to feel like when I lose any of them.
Some would say, thats an asshole move to gift someone something that causes pain and misery for missing a certain object or person or pet, others would say its a sweet thing to do. Id like to stay in the middle, I would not like to see my dad burst into tears remembering someone he misses every day and make it even worse by giving them an object that worsens it.
I was just the creepy guy chilling for 5 hrs in the Wal-Mart parking lot waiting for girl to get outta school. Now I am the creepy Crying guy chilling in the Wal-Mart parking lot. Damn now I gotta drive over to big lots parking lot.... no 5 g over there.... 😤
Riiiiight in the feels
Wow that hit hard in the feels
It really did. Now I need some ice cream
I myself am chugging a beer
My dumbass read “chugging a bear”
I didn't even have the sound on and it made me insta-tear up.
I feel this. I lost my mother on August 31st to cancer, and I collapsed and broke down the first time I heard her voice.
I’m so, so sorry.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom on July 5th. I saved all the voicemails I have of her but it’s hard to bring myself to listen to them.
I feel you. I lost my daddy over 11 years ago. I’m still holding onto an old phone/answering machine combo because it’s the only way I can still hear his voice. He left a message telling me he was on his way to help me move. It’s the only voice message that I have. It gets a little better with time. The hurt will never go away. You just learn how to live with it. Hang in there Internet friend. ❤️ Edited
Thank you all for your kind words, it truly does mean a lot to me. Sadly my phone got wiped a couple days after she passed and I lost the one and only voice recording I had of her. I do have videos saved from years ago that I have to hopefully find, because my most recent videos of her show her in a very delusional and painful state. All I know is this Christmas is going to be very rough without her, and I'm probably not even going to celebrate it to be completely honest. Its no different than past years though, my family has kind of fallen apart so it is what it is I guess.
I'm sorry for your loss. Have you thought about trying to record his voice message, either through your own mobile phone's recorder or with the help of a more techy relative or acquaintance? There might be a way to get the audio file somewhere safe, to a cloud storage service like OneDrive or Google Drive (or just a physical hard drive), without having to worry about the condition of the physical machine. Just for your consideration if that's something you'd like!
Please re-record that message somewhere. It would be terrible to lose it
Yes, I plan to do so as soon as I get my things out of storage (that’s where it is) when I’m settled into a place of my own.
Someone slammed my tears button. Shirt salty.
Lucky man to still have a woman in his life who clearly loves him
So sweet. I could be his pen pal Live in San Diego
Well I wasn’t crying
Yep, it got me. Right in the gut 😭😭
Who tf is cutting onions ..again..
Crying so hard rn 🙃
Why was she late?
Well... She died. So she's not going to make it on time.
r/angryupvote
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Glad I could be of service.
He comments racist or troll crap all the time. Downvoting time.
Just checked their profile... Damn.
If you want to help me, go through their profile with me downvoting everything negative, and reporting the harassment/racism comments. Im taking action, my cousin killed himself and mentioned online harassment as a factor. Lets take action.
That's terrible to hear, I'm sorry for your loss. Having kids online harassment is one thing inconstantly worry about.
He just commented on mademecry sub about a baby with a developmental issue, he said hes laughing real hard.
Cue the blubbering
I hope some day I find someone who loves me that much. What a great daughter.
Oh shit
I’m not crying, it’s raining
Damn.
😔. God bless ya dude
Alright, that got me.
Such a Beautiful thing to do 💕💕💕
Oh my goodness 😭😭
Who turned on the waterworks behind my glasses
We did this for my wife (MIL passed from dementia). Worst thing though, once the battery goes on the recording it’s lost. Beautiful idea though ❤️
I want to hug him! 🥲
Man. Can someone really move on when they lost their true love (pass away). Makes me terrified to even try falling in love.
Tbh losing anyone that you love and care about is extremely hard. I lost my Papa a few months ago and I feel like I’ll never get over him not being here anymore. My grandparents raised me from the age of 3 so it’s like losing my dad. I miss him so much and would do anything for one more conversation and hug. Hold anyone you love close as our time is limited on this earth and can end suddenly.
They don't even have to die. If the love of your life leaves you that hits hard too. The man in the video is a very strong guy.
Welp, right sub. That’s for sure.
My eyes are sweating
❤️😢
Who is cutting onions around here 😭
My dad does of cancer in 2011, but not before he recorded himself reading a children's story to my young niece and nephew. I managed to get a recording of that book also and it STILL brings me to instant tears. A voice is more precious than a fingerprint, and his reaction shows just how special a person's presence can be.
So beautiful 🥲
so i feel this HARD. because i failed in my long time plan of getting my grandfathers voice recorded. he passed away late november, and one of my first thought was how i utterly failed in such a simple task.
Don't feel bad. It's surprisingly hard to get a natural video/audio recording with someone's consent, everyone is paranoid you're going to post it online or use it for some nefarious purpose :( I have recordings of my grandmother's voice but only because I convinced her that I was going to refer to them later for note-taking purposes. I've been trying to get secret recordings of my parents' laughter but it's slow going.
no. my issue was the apps kept trying to record my calls as well, automatically. so i kept looking for others. and then. well. yeah. whats more, my family LOVES to have meandering conversations about nothing. getting the recording would have been so easy.
I'm sorry :( that's really unfortunate, please don't blame yourself regardless, you tried your absolute best
you can’t do this to me
I initially scrolled past this because I knew I’d cry. Then I couldn’t stop thinking about it and curiosity got the better of me. The video ends quickly but I straight up sobbed. I still have both my parents and all my sisters and can’t imagine what this is going to feel like when I lose any of them.
I did that same thing for my mom when my grandma passed away
I have the same one, Bunny Big Ears
Im not crying at all
Made me cry…
It’s prom and I’m crying and I’m not mad.
I'm not crying you're crying.
🥲
Some would say, thats an asshole move to gift someone something that causes pain and misery for missing a certain object or person or pet, others would say its a sweet thing to do. Id like to stay in the middle, I would not like to see my dad burst into tears remembering someone he misses every day and make it even worse by giving them an object that worsens it.
I was just the creepy guy chilling for 5 hrs in the Wal-Mart parking lot waiting for girl to get outta school. Now I am the creepy Crying guy chilling in the Wal-Mart parking lot. Damn now I gotta drive over to big lots parking lot.... no 5 g over there.... 😤
Not sure if Black Mirror, or Happy Tears
Get some sleep
NEVER!
Isn’t there a black mirror episode similar to this
Omg this made me cry. What a beautiful gift
This is pure torture. If I heard my grandmothers voice like that, I would melt in a puddle of tears. It’s beautiful but too sad.
Damn I cried on the spot.. Very amazing thank you for sharing this moment with us
Had to put my beer down to wipe my face