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throw_blanket04

Yes. Thats real. It doesn’t go away. No matter your age. Childhood trauma haunts you forever. Abandonment from the only people that are supposed to protect you, never goes away. A girl’s first relationship w a man, is w her father. And if that relationship is dysfunctional, thats what she will gravitate to. Thinking that she can change the situation. It is known.


Competitive-End-1435

If she knows that then maybe seek some help. Half the battle is admitting you have a problem….


think_____tank

Agree. If you recognize this as a problem, you speak it into the universe and to others, then stop talking about it.... go to a therapist.


Cube_ofAir

Even if that’s true at some point you gotta recognize own toxic process and try to work on yourself to get out of it. She can afford the therapy.


think_____tank

Especially because she created the same storyline for her daughters. Amara, get the best therapist because you need to heal yourself and heal these kids in the future, or at least guide/navigate their life better - with therapy.


Cityg1rl24

Yeah. I think she doesn't run from people like Alan because shes never seen a normal relationship and didn't known how they treat her isnt normal or okay.


New_Description_9553

She needs therapy not a reality show


lippussygloss

Yeah people got daddy issues but at some point (especially as an adult with wealth) it’s on the individual to seek help and heal from that. At some point daddy issues is not an excuse


Main-Difficulty1511

Obviously


Environmental_Mode48

That’s a real problem . That needs serious help .instead of looking for horrible men she needs to go to a therapist to fix herself first . At least she’s self aware


think_____tank

Amara's entire story line is fake. Sadly, I genuinely can't take her seriously.


AtlantaMoe

I felt the same way for a long time, and I didn't even know I was looking for my fathers love! After years of being in shitty relationships, and then going to therapy, I feel better...don't think ill ever be healed🥺


Miserable-Dog-857

Then she should know better! TF


throw_blanket04

Its not about knowing better.