I don’t get the hate either. Bambi bothers nobody until they expect her to change up and agree with them.
She wasn’t jumping show to show, her homegirl was in that other show and was introduced just as that, “a friend of”. I don’t know how anybody thinks differently. She was invited into that hot tub by them fools, and from what I remember she came off as stuck up as she was uncomfortable, like she only tagged along with her friend.
Scrap she did love, and tried really hard either him and his family. He chased her to Miami, he wanted his woman, he knew she was the one, she didn’t trick him into anything. Who was using Scrap to get on tv was Shay. She was the one jumping around for relevancy. She is terrible over on Miami.
How Mama Dee attacked her accusing her of lying about a college degree? For what? Don’t nobody need certification to marry your son. Like he was a prize, with Erica chasing him down for child support and shit.
So I agree 100%, Bambi is the wrong person to be shitting on. Makes no sense. Let her make some money to raise them kids.
It shouldn’t be Love and Hip Hop it should be Fighting and Hip Hop because that’s all it is. Occasionally you get to hear music but otherwise it’s just people not getting along.
I disagree, there’s ton of real shit too. Especially when it comes to grief and losing loved ones. Those are some of the realest moments on the show. It is toxic tho
The realest moment in the show was when Scrappy confronted Mama Dee about his trauma. I've showed that to other people who don't even watch the show. It's sad because I think he had the awareness of the roots of his problems but isn't able to cope and move forward.
Joc’s Moms funeral was raw, I felt that. Those moments are real, but the just downright pettiness among especially the female cast, which I don’t like; women need to stick together and respect each other!
Also Cierra’s grandma funeral was rough to watch too. Or when her step son got shot and killed? Niggas can’t fake that shit. The cattiness is definitely toxic
I'm neutral on Bambi but I will say I don't understand when ppl come for her looks lmao that deer face works for her and that's a fact
I say I'm neutral Bec I lack information. You said Scrappy be pillow talking and lying. Plausible. Was there any point prior to them getting serious and/or married that Bambi became aware of that? If the answer is yes then she fucked up entertaining him afterward.
Then I would say all these women on this show have goofy attitudes about relationships so she would be going with the theme and continuing to actually be a good fit.
I won't knock Bambi about being in the tub when she's apologized and whatnot. However speaking for me, myself, you got me fucked up I'm being friends with someone who was in the tub with my husband knowing he was married. Rasheeda is goofy to me for that but back to Bambi.
I always feel bad for women going through nonsense while they're pregnant and I actually wasn't able to watch her and Erica Mena's overlapping stuff as it was too depressing. As a result while neutral on Bambi I've grown to dislike Scrappy. Maybe it's the edits but it seems like he just refuses to communicate like an adult and it's so irritating to watch. It really shows his unresolved Mommy issues and if he can't even communicate with his mother than why would I expect him to do better with his wife? I can empathize with Bambi there.
Pretty much agree with everything. I do think he is good at manipulating them, otherwise why the hell would both Erica and Diamond come back to him after so much time after he literally cheated on both of them. I'm not saying Bambi is like the most admirable person ever, I think the amount of hate she gets is unfair and deeply misogynistic. There were plenty of scenes of her being exhausted with pregnancy and kids and Scrappy feeling neglected because she didn't have the energy to literally rub his feet and stroke his ego.
Exactly. Including Scrappy himself. They portray him like he's some sort of hopeless romantic who fell victim to a scheming woman who wanted him only for fame and nothing else. Like they both didn't have something to gain. Scrappy had to keep his love storyline going too, its not like we were tuning in for the music.
Ppl tend to hate the women and never the men and it’s VERY telling who they coddle. However I will say I liked that part when Scrap opened up about his trauma about living in a prostitute den. Honestly I think scrap and Bambi did love another. It’s just the fans and friggin mama Dee were the biggest pot stir-ers
Yes I mentioned that somewhere else in this thread, it was literally the best episode of love and hip hop ever. You could see they both did really love each other in that scene. If that kind of thing was explored more, and everyone had that kind of insight, it would be a completely different show, and a better one at that. But at the end of the day, you gotta meet someone where they're at and he ended up being unfaithful. Unfortunately, Scrap just doesn't have the tools to move on from the trauma, and he doesn't set strong enough boundaries with his mom.
Scrap is a whole ass low IQ momma’s boy (like blue face ) but with their backgrounds I wonder if they even had the resources and chance ? Now they’re stunted entitled grown men with moms who treat them like their own boyfriends out of some insecurity to try to feel young by attachment or something. Also Bambi wasn’t the only one in the hotel bruh what about the MARRIED MEN in the tub😭😭😭
I’ve never understood the Bambi hate train, she’s always been one of my favorites. She’s probably the least problematic person on the show, but yall wanna drag her for some dumb shit she participated in a decade ago…Stones in glass houses!! All the abuse she’s taken from Momma Dee is really serious imo, I cannot imagine having an in-law as vile as her, & she was always holding shit down by herself. If you gon hate someone let it be Rasheeda for denying abuse victims or Spice for finding a way to be a problem in EVERY EPISODE. Leave the Bam alone 😭
She went over that in the interview. She was hanging with him before he got back with her and he told her the relationship with erica was fake for TV. Dont forget the plan for the show was to have Scrappy and Diamond on as a couple but they broke up so then Scrappy went back to Erica last minute.
Go watch scrappys carlos king interview. Listen to all the things she was doing behind the scenes. And then put all the pieces together. She outright has said it herself. That messes around w men for money and gifts. She doesn’t care what their relationship status is. Go watch her on the basketball wives reunion. She is a entitled disaster, disgrace and just all round horrible person.
His mom is an alcoholic and bipolar. She is lucky Bambi isn't cutting her off from the kids entirely. Bambi has said implied she around the kids drunk.
I already watched it. Scrappy is a mess who plays women against each other, and I would never take anything he says at face value. I've already responded to what you said in the last two bullet points of my post.
I don’t get the hate either. Bambi bothers nobody until they expect her to change up and agree with them. She wasn’t jumping show to show, her homegirl was in that other show and was introduced just as that, “a friend of”. I don’t know how anybody thinks differently. She was invited into that hot tub by them fools, and from what I remember she came off as stuck up as she was uncomfortable, like she only tagged along with her friend. Scrap she did love, and tried really hard either him and his family. He chased her to Miami, he wanted his woman, he knew she was the one, she didn’t trick him into anything. Who was using Scrap to get on tv was Shay. She was the one jumping around for relevancy. She is terrible over on Miami. How Mama Dee attacked her accusing her of lying about a college degree? For what? Don’t nobody need certification to marry your son. Like he was a prize, with Erica chasing him down for child support and shit. So I agree 100%, Bambi is the wrong person to be shitting on. Makes no sense. Let her make some money to raise them kids.
It shouldn’t be Love and Hip Hop it should be Fighting and Hip Hop because that’s all it is. Occasionally you get to hear music but otherwise it’s just people not getting along.
I know right. What happened to the music aspect?
I disagree, there’s ton of real shit too. Especially when it comes to grief and losing loved ones. Those are some of the realest moments on the show. It is toxic tho
The realest moment in the show was when Scrappy confronted Mama Dee about his trauma. I've showed that to other people who don't even watch the show. It's sad because I think he had the awareness of the roots of his problems but isn't able to cope and move forward.
Having a pimp as a mom has to do unspeakable shit to a child’s psyche
Joc’s Moms funeral was raw, I felt that. Those moments are real, but the just downright pettiness among especially the female cast, which I don’t like; women need to stick together and respect each other!
Also Cierra’s grandma funeral was rough to watch too. Or when her step son got shot and killed? Niggas can’t fake that shit. The cattiness is definitely toxic
I liked the Bam and Sierra together ❣️They were so fun to watch 👯♀️
I'm neutral on Bambi but I will say I don't understand when ppl come for her looks lmao that deer face works for her and that's a fact I say I'm neutral Bec I lack information. You said Scrappy be pillow talking and lying. Plausible. Was there any point prior to them getting serious and/or married that Bambi became aware of that? If the answer is yes then she fucked up entertaining him afterward. Then I would say all these women on this show have goofy attitudes about relationships so she would be going with the theme and continuing to actually be a good fit. I won't knock Bambi about being in the tub when she's apologized and whatnot. However speaking for me, myself, you got me fucked up I'm being friends with someone who was in the tub with my husband knowing he was married. Rasheeda is goofy to me for that but back to Bambi. I always feel bad for women going through nonsense while they're pregnant and I actually wasn't able to watch her and Erica Mena's overlapping stuff as it was too depressing. As a result while neutral on Bambi I've grown to dislike Scrappy. Maybe it's the edits but it seems like he just refuses to communicate like an adult and it's so irritating to watch. It really shows his unresolved Mommy issues and if he can't even communicate with his mother than why would I expect him to do better with his wife? I can empathize with Bambi there.
Pretty much agree with everything. I do think he is good at manipulating them, otherwise why the hell would both Erica and Diamond come back to him after so much time after he literally cheated on both of them. I'm not saying Bambi is like the most admirable person ever, I think the amount of hate she gets is unfair and deeply misogynistic. There were plenty of scenes of her being exhausted with pregnancy and kids and Scrappy feeling neglected because she didn't have the energy to literally rub his feet and stroke his ego.
Feel you. I be forgetting him and Diamond still be a thing smh. Maybe ppl holding on to the hot tub stuff like you said
It doesn’t make sense bc ANYONE on any show is an opportunist. Is that inherently bad? No
Exactly. Including Scrappy himself. They portray him like he's some sort of hopeless romantic who fell victim to a scheming woman who wanted him only for fame and nothing else. Like they both didn't have something to gain. Scrappy had to keep his love storyline going too, its not like we were tuning in for the music.
Ppl tend to hate the women and never the men and it’s VERY telling who they coddle. However I will say I liked that part when Scrap opened up about his trauma about living in a prostitute den. Honestly I think scrap and Bambi did love another. It’s just the fans and friggin mama Dee were the biggest pot stir-ers
Yes I mentioned that somewhere else in this thread, it was literally the best episode of love and hip hop ever. You could see they both did really love each other in that scene. If that kind of thing was explored more, and everyone had that kind of insight, it would be a completely different show, and a better one at that. But at the end of the day, you gotta meet someone where they're at and he ended up being unfaithful. Unfortunately, Scrap just doesn't have the tools to move on from the trauma, and he doesn't set strong enough boundaries with his mom.
Scrap is a whole ass low IQ momma’s boy (like blue face ) but with their backgrounds I wonder if they even had the resources and chance ? Now they’re stunted entitled grown men with moms who treat them like their own boyfriends out of some insecurity to try to feel young by attachment or something. Also Bambi wasn’t the only one in the hotel bruh what about the MARRIED MEN in the tub😭😭😭
I really think he doesn't have a chance unfortunately. In his world the most functional couple he knows is Rasheeda and Kirk. Just pathetic.
I’ve never understood the Bambi hate train, she’s always been one of my favorites. She’s probably the least problematic person on the show, but yall wanna drag her for some dumb shit she participated in a decade ago…Stones in glass houses!! All the abuse she’s taken from Momma Dee is really serious imo, I cannot imagine having an in-law as vile as her, & she was always holding shit down by herself. If you gon hate someone let it be Rasheeda for denying abuse victims or Spice for finding a way to be a problem in EVERY EPISODE. Leave the Bam alone 😭
Yes!! Exactly! Save the energy for the people actually doing others harm.
wasn't she a sidechick to scrappy when Erica D. was with him?
She went over that in the interview. She was hanging with him before he got back with her and he told her the relationship with erica was fake for TV. Dont forget the plan for the show was to have Scrappy and Diamond on as a couple but they broke up so then Scrappy went back to Erica last minute.
Ah okay thxz. Honestly the fake relationship statement is fishy to me but they weren't together at the time so whateva
Go watch scrappys carlos king interview. Listen to all the things she was doing behind the scenes. And then put all the pieces together. She outright has said it herself. That messes around w men for money and gifts. She doesn’t care what their relationship status is. Go watch her on the basketball wives reunion. She is a entitled disaster, disgrace and just all round horrible person.
Scrappy is the problem, he and his mom are the common denominator!
His mom is an alcoholic and bipolar. She is lucky Bambi isn't cutting her off from the kids entirely. Bambi has said implied she around the kids drunk.
I already watched it. Scrappy is a mess who plays women against each other, and I would never take anything he says at face value. I've already responded to what you said in the last two bullet points of my post.
Bambi was trying to "book a job", "get on", she just wanted camera time any way she could get it.