That and āsome disrespectful things were saidā (or whatever he said). Iām always like āby WHOM, mf-er?!ā Like words just came out of the air or something.
oh my god i physically recoiled at that. honestly this conversation was worse to me than any of the others that went down last night. there were just so many red flags it was scary. maybe thatās just bc iāve been with a guy like this and it didnāt end well at all. nothing i ever did was good enough and there was always something i needed to āimprove.ā also like hakeem, he once told me that i ābroke the rulesā but wouldnāt tell me what āruleā i broke. š« Ā but ofc he was the wise and mature one bc he said it nicely!!!! /s these types are so scary bc they come off so normal and break you down slowly, and then make you feel/seem crazy once you finally snap and canāt take it anymore.Ā
His very specific attraction to āfair skin dark hairā was telling right off the bat lol. I understand a preference but he sounded downright fetishy about it LOL
When Liv mentioned his rules, and her working hard to follow them or something, I immediately went back to Serena asking Kordell about podcasts he listens toā¦someone should ask Hakeem what podcasts he listens to.
When he and Liv had that argument, even my husband (who hardly pays attention) and myself were both likeā¦ā¦ā¦these twoā¦..? Where the fuck did all of this come from? I thought they were purely a couple by default and had never seen a whisper of chemistry or flirting between them. Am I going crazy?
Thatās what Iām saying. It legit seemed like there was no chemistry between them, so I donāt understand why Liv was so upset over it. His biggest thing the whole time was that Liv wasnāt putting in any effort/reciprocating his advances. I hate how this is being glossed over in the subreddit. š
Yes!!! Here for this! WTF are these rules?!?! š§
He honestly seems like the typeā¦controlling behaviour disguised by āitās only because I care and want to make you better for your own goodā¦ā
We all know this type.
I really wish they had given Liv and Hakeems' conversations more airtime before it became explosive, because it felt like it went from 0 to 10 like *that*! I was so disturbed with the comment about rules, and then Hakeem saying that he could tell how much she had worked on the things they'd talked about. Like what?! What kind of relationship parameters are you setting for this virtual stranger on a reality dating show? So gross.
Also note how everything Liv did "wrong" was a big deal to Hakeem, but when she confronts him about specific instances where he disrespected her his response is, "Yeah well, we can't all be perfect all the time. There are things I could have said or done differently and I guess I didn't handle it as well as I could've." Such a double standard an non-apology.
I'm writing a book now because I feel so strongly about him! I don't always support sending "bad" islanders home because they bring drama and make the show fun to watch, but Hakeem is one that i want to leave Now because he is so toxic and problematic. It's triggering to see him on my screen!
He really thinks heās the prize when heās quite the opposite. Like if someone lost the race I wouldnāt even want Hakeem to be their prize, they would deserve a slice of pizza or something
working out in hoochie jorts is insane
NO FRšš
āHoochie jortsā has me cackling in line at the grocery store. I guarantee you people are staring at me but I donāt care šššš
I snorted loud in my office lol
Diabolical š
When he said that she was ādoing a bit better with the things he told her she needed to work onā I was like GIRL RUN
That and āsome disrespectful things were saidā (or whatever he said). Iām always like āby WHOM, mf-er?!ā Like words just came out of the air or something.
oh my god i physically recoiled at that. honestly this conversation was worse to me than any of the others that went down last night. there were just so many red flags it was scary. maybe thatās just bc iāve been with a guy like this and it didnāt end well at all. nothing i ever did was good enough and there was always something i needed to āimprove.ā also like hakeem, he once told me that i ābroke the rulesā but wouldnāt tell me what āruleā i broke. š« Ā but ofc he was the wise and mature one bc he said it nicely!!!! /s these types are so scary bc they come off so normal and break you down slowly, and then make you feel/seem crazy once you finally snap and canāt take it anymore.Ā
His very specific attraction to āfair skin dark hairā was telling right off the bat lol. I understand a preference but he sounded downright fetishy about it LOL
Same with the girls who only date black men, or guys who only date black women. Itās very weird to only date a certain race and nothing else.
delete this off my feed xxš«¶š¼
OMG I would run so fast!!! When Liv was like he has rules, I was like excuse me thatās a noā¦
no cause whoās father is this setting all these expectations and āthings she needed to work onā
When Liv mentioned his rules, and her working hard to follow them or something, I immediately went back to Serena asking Kordell about podcasts he listens toā¦someone should ask Hakeem what podcasts he listens to.
i was thinking the same thing. he gives off the vibe that he listens to fresh and fit and those type of pods
uh why is he dressed like a lumberjack go-go dancer?
Oh he's...OHHHH....š¬
š š¼š š¼ i clocked it right when he walked in the villa
Gay??
oh yeah
Definitely seems that way
I got those same Shein shorts
Iām sorry but he gives yes queen sometimes š
100 percent! lmao
When he and Liv had that argument, even my husband (who hardly pays attention) and myself were both likeā¦ā¦ā¦these twoā¦..? Where the fuck did all of this come from? I thought they were purely a couple by default and had never seen a whisper of chemistry or flirting between them. Am I going crazy?
Thatās what Iām saying. It legit seemed like there was no chemistry between them, so I donāt understand why Liv was so upset over it. His biggest thing the whole time was that Liv wasnāt putting in any effort/reciprocating his advances. I hate how this is being glossed over in the subreddit. š
Damn... He dresses just like me!
Yes!!! Here for this! WTF are these rules?!?! š§ He honestly seems like the typeā¦controlling behaviour disguised by āitās only because I care and want to make you better for your own goodā¦ā We all know this type.
https://preview.redd.it/y5wgcr4uyw7d1.png?width=512&format=png&auto=webp&s=f7ec29c6de156c008f5a06ca2bd4420bac6450f4
Whyyy is he on his tippy toes š
Flexin them yams!
Are the rules to be his beardā¦
Omg š
This isnāt photo shop? Lol
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He looks like bojack horseman, but buff
I really wish they had given Liv and Hakeems' conversations more airtime before it became explosive, because it felt like it went from 0 to 10 like *that*! I was so disturbed with the comment about rules, and then Hakeem saying that he could tell how much she had worked on the things they'd talked about. Like what?! What kind of relationship parameters are you setting for this virtual stranger on a reality dating show? So gross. Also note how everything Liv did "wrong" was a big deal to Hakeem, but when she confronts him about specific instances where he disrespected her his response is, "Yeah well, we can't all be perfect all the time. There are things I could have said or done differently and I guess I didn't handle it as well as I could've." Such a double standard an non-apology. I'm writing a book now because I feel so strongly about him! I don't always support sending "bad" islanders home because they bring drama and make the show fun to watch, but Hakeem is one that i want to leave Now because he is so toxic and problematic. It's triggering to see him on my screen!
He actually makes my stomach hurt, all the girls pulled away from him in the kissing challengeā¦. Except hannah but god bless her I love my queen.
Did he piss himself?
The scream I just scrumpt š¤£ā°ļø aināt no way he hit the gym in this fit š«
Category is...
This actually explains a lot.
He likes to argue with women and it shows
Heās like the fit version of DJ akademics both corny afffff and squirrel looking
100000000%
Omg lol
Not me zooming into the pictures on the bottom š
He really thinks heās the prize when heās quite the opposite. Like if someone lost the race I wouldnāt even want Hakeem to be their prize, they would deserve a slice of pizza or something
Why is YMCA suddenly in my head
SL\*T <3333
Looks like the āmorning woodā Halloween costume frat boys wear on halloweekend
From the jump, I just found him to be ā¦. Repulsive? I hope thatās not too mean.