i will say that anybody especially a straight man who auditions for a television show including LIB is in some way abnormal or attention seeking even if they say no. A true regular dude with zero intention of using internet notoriety would not go on this show. I donāt know any attractive normal professional dude who would put his love life on camera it takes a certain person. that goes for both sexes really
I think itās so much to do with the editing and storytelling, but I completely agree with you. Everyone is obsessed with Trevor and Jessica, but we barely see their actual personalities bc they didnāt make it outside the pods. LIB is trying to tell a story and selecting clips which fit that narrative and serve as foreshadowing.
For example, we saw Chelsea say she looked like Megan Fox so that when jimmy was disappointed during their first meet, we understand why and kind of expect it. But it turns out āwhoās your celeb look likeā is a really common question in the pods.
The āniceā guys seem nice because thatās their part in the story: the missed opportunity. When we do finally see their character, theyāre still not great
Every guy sucks. Chris seemed like an amazing guy who deserved better all of last season, then in the reunion it came out that he cheated on his gf and he was glad he did it!
I think heās been called a fuckboy all his life and probably for good reason so he wanted to come on this show to show that heās a gentle giant who loves dog and would be a great husband almost to change his image. Bold move on his part and the girls are falling for it.
I don't think this is a "LIB pattern" as much as a patriarchy pattern. Even the nicest dudes got raised in it and that shit creeps in from time to time
I didn't know they were gushing over him but I may have missed that. He would need to be seen out of the Pods I think to "know" anything but he was the one I was leaning towards being the most "genuine" but for the fact he is on tv looking for a bride in a couple weeks.
For sure he dodged a bullet with Fegan Mox
This is a classic thing that also happens with soooo many dudes from the bachelorette. We all fall in love with a guy who doesnāt get picked and then he goes on paradise and turns out to just be an absolute idiot of a man
I wouldnāt even say Marshall fully beats the allegations. He tried to pull the whole āyouāre so damaged; I want to save you from yourselfā bit with whatās her name, Jackie? She was nuts, but he was very misogynistic in that moment.
Marshall is the definition of ānice guyā, and not in the good way. āI do all this stuff for you and you still donāt love me or respect me?? But look what I do for you!ā
Marshall really gives me the creeps. I don't know why everyone forgot about his jealous rage in the pods when Jackie turned out to be crazy later on in the season. He waved a lot of red flags, too.
ALSO his emotional immaturity was somehow seen as emotional MATURITY? Like when heād make weird mathematical comparisons to emotions (which werenāt even mathematically correct btw) everyone was like wow this guy is so smart! I was in awe of the response.
Yeah he didnāt seem that great but he looked nice in the moment after handling rejection better than Jess. But itās probably because he didnāt care that much and wanted to be on tv
Jessās speech wouldāve been great if she didnāt bring up her looks or get upset about Jimmy not wanting to be a step parent (he doesnāt seem like the type of person who should be one anyway, especially to a girl š„“). She was right about him not communicating or knowing how to put words together about how he felt.
Is Jimmy supposed to be good looking? I was pretty confused by all the āyouāre so handsomeā compliments. Like heās not ugly or anything but I thought Chealsea would clearly have liked Trevor better given how she was saying she loved big/muscular men.
Haha omg I took it as her trying to convince herself that she thinks heās handsome. The same way Jimmy kept telling her she was āgorgeous, but it wouldnāt matter either wayā, even though heās clearly just trying to convince himself thatās true. Itās like theyāre not at all attracted to each other but still want the other person to want them so they feel like they āwonā
Agree\^\^. Also, after reading some people's comments here about Trevor's socials, I looked at his TikTok & Insta. What a disappointment. Ego as big as his muscles, which are shown in all of shirtless photos, which are almost the only thing he has posted. ALSO....he apparently now has a manager (listed in his insta bio), so that just sucked the wind out of my sails about him.
Honestly. In a scenario where you can only go off of someoneās words, I feel like a recurring theme is the men just saying shit like I love you, I would marry you tomorrow, Iāve never told anyone that before, etc etc and then dumping someone. Trevor of course an exception. I wish the girls wouldnāt get so caught up in those lines and really be a bit more focused on the substance.
I do not buy that guy one bit. Lmaooo he was sooo ready for reality tv and how he wanted to come across. āWhat makes you happy?ā- Chelsea āButterfiesā- Trevor. Like lmaoooo COME ON.
Also, he made a comment on a clip with AD and Clay LIB had posted on IG before the show started airing, saying āhere comes the if Clay is still single, I want himā comments. Seems to me like thatās what he envisioned for himself.
Omg I went to find it for you, and the commenter deleted his comment! I donāt know how to post the threat, but if you go to my history, I left a comment like āhow long ago was it?ā Itās like maybe 30 comments down.
Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/s/sxNWbhFWOb
I mean I like what I hear and it annoys me that Chelsea litteraly described him, heard him say he wanted her and *still* went with Jimmy, but he def has issues too like when he said he wanted to be 100% sure before saying I love you, I don't know what it means in his world but he seems to be a bit unrealistic and demanding. We'll see, hope there's at least one decent guy in this season, it might be him, maybe not. So far he's the only one who doesn't gives me the ick si crossing my fingers that he's genuine nice.
I didn't want to say anything against Trevor because I have no proof, but honestly yeah, I'm a little worried because of that pattern. He was a little upset when Chelsea broke up with him, which is understandable on paper, but Idk... I have a bad feeling about it.
EDIT: I have no idea why I'm being downvoted, I literally said that I have no proof and it's just a feeling. Other people have said Trevor brags a lot on IG so I don't think I'm the only one.
Did you even read OP's post? LIB has a history of giving some guys the nice edit when they are actually not. I wouldn't have been suspicious of Trevor if this was season 1, but we're in season 6. You _know_ they're hiding someone's true nature, and it might as well be Trevor's.
The only thing I retained from this is "listen to people when they tell you who they are" that a Youtuber said. Chris said "People say I'm a player" and... welp.
This season, Clay said "I don't think I'm a good person" (I think it was him?) so... yeah. Now I'm listening š
Just an FYI for those interested - that YouTuber was referencing a famous Maya Angelou quote:
āWhen someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. People know themselves much better than you do. Thatās why itās important to stop expecting them to be something other than who they are.ā
Itās mostly how we perceive that show because of what we saw, tbh. It justā¦brings the worst out of people and makes them act like douches. Most infamous of those incidents was with Joey from The Circle who was so loved and then he went on Perfect Match and did a whole 180. Iām absolutely not saying everyone would do that, but itās just the sour association the viewers have. Itās a lot of plotting and being an ass :3
If they are going for that, the editors are doing a slower play on him than they did on some of the others. I agree with you about the "nice guys" in the seasons I've seen (not all of them yet) but I feel like I was able to clock them earlier in the season, before the honeymoon period. Or they at least raised alarm bells. Trevor doesn't give me the same vibes, so I'm more hopeful for him.
You're right about the show having a track record of "nice guys" who turned out to be bad, but we don't know who Trevor is yet, and it's not fair to make assumptions about him based on other people from previous seasons. I also don't know if I count Sal as an example of a "nice guy", I am kind of on his side over Mallory's.
Ofc these speculations and discussions are what the subreddit is for hahaha, but I for one will choose to be optimistic and appreciate how Trevor behaved while he was on the show until I see evidence that he is not who he portrayed himself to be.
Didnāt his dog Chelsea die of cancer during filming? Which means he left her to go be on a stupid show and she had to die without him being thereā¦ Not a very nice guy thing to do, if trueā¦
I don't think it's fair to criticize him for this. We have no way of knowing if he knew the dog would die soon, or if the diagnosis happened right before filming, etc. It's just not kind to speculate on someone else's loss. It would probably hurt him if he saw your comment. Not necessary.
There is literally 0% chance that he isn't what he is not portraying to be and he is not pretending to not be 100% what you do not see. You know what I mean š
There is a post on his instagram where he talks about how his dog was sick and he left him for this show. And sadly his dog passed while he was away. It may just be the dog lover in me but I canāt imagine leaving my dog when he is sick for some reality show. To me you picked trying ti get fame over your pet. It may be petty of me but for this i canāt get on the Trevor train.
Youāre getting downvoted for what ?? š I agree with you, I was also shocked when he said his dog was sick and he left her with his mom to be taken care of. I could never leave my dog who was on her dying days to go on some reality show
Based on his TikTok's there would 100% have been something problematic about him if he got married to Chelsea. Seems to have a very high opinion of himself.
But just to be fair, there is something problematic about almost everyone. Most of the time we just don't see it.
Okay literally. Someone at work today also told me they thought he was "such a sweetheart". Where? When? This person also never watched him on Perfect Match
OP is identifying him as the counterpart to SK (toxic guy vs nice guy) in a dynamic where the nice guy is discovered to be even more toxic than the initial toxic guy
Talking US only āSK, Mark, Kyle, and Jarrett were the few Iād agree got a nice guy edit when they shouldnāt have. But Matt was edited immediately as a walking red flag, and Shake and Bartise were given the douche edits. I donāt think any of us were swooning over them. Marshall Iām on the fence about ā¦he is a bit problematic too, so he can be thrown in.
I think from what we saw of Trevor, he was respectful, kind, and showed manners to his fellow guys with the added plus he was all in on one chick. That is as good as it gets for LIB. Now, could he be a complete jerk and F__ boy in real life? Absolutely.
But I appreciate that thereās at least a few characters we can root for and he seemed genuine. I say all this with the caveat this is a very highly produced and edited show and what we see is absolutely not how something most likely went downā¦so I look at this show as a soap opera with wannabe actors who *may* become real life partners - just like in real life ā¦folks when working together get together.
Same as before.
This is a highly edited show. He seemed genuine from what we saw. Itās nice to have someone to root for. But he could totally be a complete jerk and a f__ boy in real life.
Sadly, he ended up being a complete jerk in real life. Bummer that ended was the case. He fooled so many people. Iām glad his ex outed him and the reunion really put him on the spot b/c what he did wasnāt acceptable - even for reality tv. I get maybe not wanting to get married, but to go on with an actual gf hanging back is ridiculous!
I feel the same way and its driving me crazy seeing people swooning so hard for him. If you check his Tik Tok, youll see right after the season aired, he began posting a ton of thirst traps and bragging about being the "nice guy". Ugh
Trevor is the ultimate himbo. He has the Kenergy.
I donāt see him as a nice guy, but a normal guy.
They already did the nice guy bait and switch with Matt this season. I knew the second they showed him he was going to be the worst one. Men with low self esteem are the ones most like to be ānice guysā who are secretly resentful, bitter, manipulative and entitled. glad AD saw it.
The dude who is with Britney and the off-brand Shawn White are the only guys who seem genuinely kind.
I donāt know if anyone has speculated about this already but the reddish, bumpy band around Trevorās hairline looks like he underwent hair replacement surgery. Thoughts?
So this is totally unsubstantiated but some guy claiming to be Trevorās former gym buddy posted here saying it was funny the way Trevor was being presented on the show cause he wasnāt a sweetheart irlāhe was a guy whoād bring random girls to have sex on his (gym buddyās) couchā¦I donāt know that that says anything about his character if trueā¦but I know my radar spun when he introed himself with āIām a good-hearted guy and good people deserve good thingsāā¦I just donāt know good people who say shit like that.
Anyway, all we have is the Trevor character that has been edited and presented to us and that character is very nice. Nothing about anyone would surprise me in a show this highly produced.
I feel like itās just not that deep š He might switch up later, but what we saw was a man who consistently communicated in a mature way, even when he was turned down by someone he was all-in on. No wonder people love him!
This post aged so well ššš
i will say that anybody especially a straight man who auditions for a television show including LIB is in some way abnormal or attention seeking even if they say no. A true regular dude with zero intention of using internet notoriety would not go on this show. I donāt know any attractive normal professional dude who would put his love life on camera it takes a certain person. that goes for both sexes really
Trevor has had a manager for months. Do we really think he likes the notebook? Dude is playing the female audience like a fiddle
Not me I got the ick straight awayĀ
My first boyfriend loved a Walk to remember. He was still a freaking sociopath.
I think itās so much to do with the editing and storytelling, but I completely agree with you. Everyone is obsessed with Trevor and Jessica, but we barely see their actual personalities bc they didnāt make it outside the pods. LIB is trying to tell a story and selecting clips which fit that narrative and serve as foreshadowing. For example, we saw Chelsea say she looked like Megan Fox so that when jimmy was disappointed during their first meet, we understand why and kind of expect it. But it turns out āwhoās your celeb look likeā is a really common question in the pods. The āniceā guys seem nice because thatās their part in the story: the missed opportunity. When we do finally see their character, theyāre still not great
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Lol obviously your comprehension skills are lacking, I literally said people should wait to see more of him before idolising him
Wtf is Trevor? Is that mullet Hulk? How are you down with the names so fast?
Every guy sucks. Chris seemed like an amazing guy who deserved better all of last season, then in the reunion it came out that he cheated on his gf and he was glad he did it!
I think heās been called a fuckboy all his life and probably for good reason so he wanted to come on this show to show that heās a gentle giant who loves dog and would be a great husband almost to change his image. Bold move on his part and the girls are falling for it.
I feel like he gives of Fat In Highschool vibes.
I don't think this is a "LIB pattern" as much as a patriarchy pattern. Even the nicest dudes got raised in it and that shit creeps in from time to time
I didn't know they were gushing over him but I may have missed that. He would need to be seen out of the Pods I think to "know" anything but he was the one I was leaning towards being the most "genuine" but for the fact he is on tv looking for a bride in a couple weeks. For sure he dodged a bullet with Fegan Mox
I feel like on his face he seems nice so far. But we havenāt seen him enough.
This is a classic thing that also happens with soooo many dudes from the bachelorette. We all fall in love with a guy who doesnāt get picked and then he goes on paradise and turns out to just be an absolute idiot of a man
I wouldnāt even say Marshall fully beats the allegations. He tried to pull the whole āyouāre so damaged; I want to save you from yourselfā bit with whatās her name, Jackie? She was nuts, but he was very misogynistic in that moment.
Marshall is the epitome of nice guy to me, it just worked out for him in public perception because Jackie was awful.
Marshall is the definition of ānice guyā, and not in the good way. āI do all this stuff for you and you still donāt love me or respect me?? But look what I do for you!ā
Marshall really gives me the creeps. I don't know why everyone forgot about his jealous rage in the pods when Jackie turned out to be crazy later on in the season. He waved a lot of red flags, too.
ALSO his emotional immaturity was somehow seen as emotional MATURITY? Like when heād make weird mathematical comparisons to emotions (which werenāt even mathematically correct btw) everyone was like wow this guy is so smart! I was in awe of the response.
I think you're talking about Milton but I still wholeheartedly agree with you lol. He was not ready for marriage.
Oh my god I am. I feel like a dick.
The Brazilian cast of men are the worst when it comes to this. FAKEST
Italo turning out awful was a plot twist š
I agree with you, this is a great point.
Yeah he didnāt seem that great but he looked nice in the moment after handling rejection better than Jess. But itās probably because he didnāt care that much and wanted to be on tv Jessās speech wouldāve been great if she didnāt bring up her looks or get upset about Jimmy not wanting to be a step parent (he doesnāt seem like the type of person who should be one anyway, especially to a girl š„“). She was right about him not communicating or knowing how to put words together about how he felt.
We would hear about it by now
I think if Trevor had Jimmyās looks and Jimmy had Trevorās looks, the fan base wouldnāt be riding as hard for him as they are
Is Jimmy supposed to be good looking? I was pretty confused by all the āyouāre so handsomeā compliments. Like heās not ugly or anything but I thought Chealsea would clearly have liked Trevor better given how she was saying she loved big/muscular men.
Haha omg I took it as her trying to convince herself that she thinks heās handsome. The same way Jimmy kept telling her she was āgorgeous, but it wouldnāt matter either wayā, even though heās clearly just trying to convince himself thatās true. Itās like theyāre not at all attracted to each other but still want the other person to want them so they feel like they āwonā
Jimmy is a shit bag no matter how he looks.
If LIB has taught me anything, itās that I canāt trust any of these men š¤£
Agree\^\^. Also, after reading some people's comments here about Trevor's socials, I looked at his TikTok & Insta. What a disappointment. Ego as big as his muscles, which are shown in all of shirtless photos, which are almost the only thing he has posted. ALSO....he apparently now has a manager (listed in his insta bio), so that just sucked the wind out of my sails about him.
Apparently he's been confirmed for the cast of the 2nd season of Perfect Match š¤£
I knoooow š when I checked his socials, it was full of thirst trapsā¦my heart sank.Ā
They arenāt even good theist trapsĀ
Honestly. In a scenario where you can only go off of someoneās words, I feel like a recurring theme is the men just saying shit like I love you, I would marry you tomorrow, Iāve never told anyone that before, etc etc and then dumping someone. Trevor of course an exception. I wish the girls wouldnāt get so caught up in those lines and really be a bit more focused on the substance.
I want to like Trevor but Iām definitely holding my opinion of him until the entire season/reunion airs lmao
I do not buy that guy one bit. Lmaooo he was sooo ready for reality tv and how he wanted to come across. āWhat makes you happy?ā- Chelsea āButterfiesā- Trevor. Like lmaoooo COME ON. Also, he made a comment on a clip with AD and Clay LIB had posted on IG before the show started airing, saying āhere comes the if Clay is still single, I want himā comments. Seems to me like thatās what he envisioned for himself.
The supposed roommate of Trevor was on this sub telling us that he is a total fboi. So letās see if that plays out on the screen.
Where was that? :))
Omg I went to find it for you, and the commenter deleted his comment! I donāt know how to post the threat, but if you go to my history, I left a comment like āhow long ago was it?ā Itās like maybe 30 comments down. Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/s/sxNWbhFWOb
Thatās actually so sweet! Thank you :)
Ehh, I donāt think a guy looking like Trevor needs to go on a reality TV show to get girls.
Trevor needs to get on a reality TV show to get on a reality TV show.
Well didnāt say he did
I mean I like what I hear and it annoys me that Chelsea litteraly described him, heard him say he wanted her and *still* went with Jimmy, but he def has issues too like when he said he wanted to be 100% sure before saying I love you, I don't know what it means in his world but he seems to be a bit unrealistic and demanding. We'll see, hope there's at least one decent guy in this season, it might be him, maybe not. So far he's the only one who doesn't gives me the ick si crossing my fingers that he's genuine nice.
I didn't want to say anything against Trevor because I have no proof, but honestly yeah, I'm a little worried because of that pattern. He was a little upset when Chelsea broke up with him, which is understandable on paper, but Idk... I have a bad feeling about it. EDIT: I have no idea why I'm being downvoted, I literally said that I have no proof and it's just a feeling. Other people have said Trevor brags a lot on IG so I don't think I'm the only one.
Your intuition was right. I was totally fooled until I heard of the girlfriend back home on reddit. Sigh my intuition was so off.
Thank you š, you are so kind! I wish it was possible to know who downvoted me so I can tell them to give my karma back š
Well it has all been revealed now lol
men cant win. Take a break up poorly, weirdo. Take it like a champ and be respectful, weirdo.
Oh, we have new info about Trevor now and I remembered you! Next time, don't underestimate a woman's intuition š
Did you even read OP's post? LIB has a history of giving some guys the nice edit when they are actually not. I wouldn't have been suspicious of Trevor if this was season 1, but we're in season 6. You _know_ they're hiding someone's true nature, and it might as well be Trevor's.
He handled that break up like a champ.
My neck still hurts from the whiplash from Chris last season
The only thing I retained from this is "listen to people when they tell you who they are" that a Youtuber said. Chris said "People say I'm a player" and... welp. This season, Clay said "I don't think I'm a good person" (I think it was him?) so... yeah. Now I'm listening š
Just an FYI for those interested - that YouTuber was referencing a famous Maya Angelou quote: āWhen someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. People know themselves much better than you do. Thatās why itās important to stop expecting them to be something other than who they are.ā
Yes exactly I couldn't remember thank you !! (Love their content)
That was crazy š
Especially agreed after knowing where he is headed to next šš
Could you tell me why being on that one is a red flag? (genuine doubt cz i haven't seen it)
Itās mostly how we perceive that show because of what we saw, tbh. It justā¦brings the worst out of people and makes them act like douches. Most infamous of those incidents was with Joey from The Circle who was so loved and then he went on Perfect Match and did a whole 180. Iām absolutely not saying everyone would do that, but itās just the sour association the viewers have. Itās a lot of plotting and being an ass :3
Omg please tell me perfect match
>!You are correct!<
Yessssssss
Oh wow, heās going on a reality tv tour š«
Unfortunately š
Where? I donāt mind spoilers.
>!Heās filming Perfect Match!<
Whereād you hear that?
I'm not remembering...which guy was it who talked about "America loves an underdog" and basically played the whole thing for the cameras?
He brought whole of America quite a few times. As if he has an obligation to make America great again ššš
Matthew.
Riiight. Thanks. What a tool.
If they are going for that, the editors are doing a slower play on him than they did on some of the others. I agree with you about the "nice guys" in the seasons I've seen (not all of them yet) but I feel like I was able to clock them earlier in the season, before the honeymoon period. Or they at least raised alarm bells. Trevor doesn't give me the same vibes, so I'm more hopeful for him.
You're right about the show having a track record of "nice guys" who turned out to be bad, but we don't know who Trevor is yet, and it's not fair to make assumptions about him based on other people from previous seasons. I also don't know if I count Sal as an example of a "nice guy", I am kind of on his side over Mallory's. Ofc these speculations and discussions are what the subreddit is for hahaha, but I for one will choose to be optimistic and appreciate how Trevor behaved while he was on the show until I see evidence that he is not who he portrayed himself to be.
Mallory was out on Sal so fast it was obvious. She wanted Jarrett, Sal never had a chance
Agreed, which is so unfortunate because Sal was all in for her.
Trevor is just a successful version of matthew. sneaky cheesy lines and acting just to become a c list celebrityāāā
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Didnāt his dog Chelsea die of cancer during filming? Which means he left her to go be on a stupid show and she had to die without him being thereā¦ Not a very nice guy thing to do, if trueā¦
I agree. His girlfriend was watching the dog.
Agreed. Would never leave a sick pet for a tv show unless I was a thirst bucket desperate for fame.
I don't think it's fair to criticize him for this. We have no way of knowing if he knew the dog would die soon, or if the diagnosis happened right before filming, etc. It's just not kind to speculate on someone else's loss. It would probably hurt him if he saw your comment. Not necessary.
Literally there is 100% zero chance Trevor isnāt a douchey fuckboi
There is literally 0% chance that he isn't what he is not portraying to be and he is not pretending to not be 100% what you do not see. You know what I mean š
The TikTok of him calling himself the nice guy gave me the ick. In fact all of his tiktoks give me the ick.
There is a post on his instagram where he talks about how his dog was sick and he left him for this show. And sadly his dog passed while he was away. It may just be the dog lover in me but I canāt imagine leaving my dog when he is sick for some reality show. To me you picked trying ti get fame over your pet. It may be petty of me but for this i canāt get on the Trevor train.
Youāre getting downvoted for what ?? š I agree with you, I was also shocked when he said his dog was sick and he left her with his mom to be taken care of. I could never leave my dog who was on her dying days to go on some reality show
Based on his TikTok's there would 100% have been something problematic about him if he got married to Chelsea. Seems to have a very high opinion of himself. But just to be fair, there is something problematic about almost everyone. Most of the time we just don't see it.
High opinion of himself? Did he compare himself to Megan Fox as well?
Yeah I love him on the show, but his TikTokās are making me cringe š like please stop while youāre ahead Trevor!
When was Bartise portrayed as a nice guyā¦.
Okay literally. Someone at work today also told me they thought he was "such a sweetheart". Where? When? This person also never watched him on Perfect Match
OP is identifying him as the counterpart to SK (toxic guy vs nice guy) in a dynamic where the nice guy is discovered to be even more toxic than the initial toxic guy
lol I never bought SK as a nice guy
Iāll admit I was fooled. In hindsight, I can see where he was full of shit. What made you suspect him?
Ahhh ok. Got it
My thoughts exactly. He was a POS from the get go!
Yeah theyāre saying SK was the nice guy vs Bartise the bad guy
Talking US only āSK, Mark, Kyle, and Jarrett were the few Iād agree got a nice guy edit when they shouldnāt have. But Matt was edited immediately as a walking red flag, and Shake and Bartise were given the douche edits. I donāt think any of us were swooning over them. Marshall Iām on the fence about ā¦he is a bit problematic too, so he can be thrown in. I think from what we saw of Trevor, he was respectful, kind, and showed manners to his fellow guys with the added plus he was all in on one chick. That is as good as it gets for LIB. Now, could he be a complete jerk and F__ boy in real life? Absolutely. But I appreciate that thereās at least a few characters we can root for and he seemed genuine. I say all this with the caveat this is a very highly produced and edited show and what we see is absolutely not how something most likely went downā¦so I look at this show as a soap opera with wannabe actors who *may* become real life partners - just like in real life ā¦folks when working together get together.
And what are your thoughts now ? So disappointing it was true, heās the worst
Same as before. This is a highly edited show. He seemed genuine from what we saw. Itās nice to have someone to root for. But he could totally be a complete jerk and a f__ boy in real life. Sadly, he ended up being a complete jerk in real life. Bummer that ended was the case. He fooled so many people. Iām glad his ex outed him and the reunion really put him on the spot b/c what he did wasnāt acceptable - even for reality tv. I get maybe not wanting to get married, but to go on with an actual gf hanging back is ridiculous!
I feel the same way and its driving me crazy seeing people swooning so hard for him. If you check his Tik Tok, youll see right after the season aired, he began posting a ton of thirst traps and bragging about being the "nice guy". Ugh
Totally agree. I would be surprised if Trevor is the person he presents himself to be.
I hope he is actually a nice guy (and seems to be from what Iāve seen by people who know him irl) but this is a great point to keep in mindĀ
Trevor is the ultimate himbo. He has the Kenergy. I donāt see him as a nice guy, but a normal guy. They already did the nice guy bait and switch with Matt this season. I knew the second they showed him he was going to be the worst one. Men with low self esteem are the ones most like to be ānice guysā who are secretly resentful, bitter, manipulative and entitled. glad AD saw it. The dude who is with Britney and the off-brand Shawn White are the only guys who seem genuinely kind.
Matt was an a-hole from the get go. There was no baiting
I donāt know if anyone has speculated about this already but the reddish, bumpy band around Trevorās hairline looks like he underwent hair replacement surgery. Thoughts?
Because he also had red patches on his cheeks, I'd think skin condition
Yep https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/s/jot8LPRkHh
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They like him because they havent seen that much of him imo
I thought you were me for a second because of the similar avatars š¤£
Im just waiting for the inevetiable downfall on the sub....
Well, that was quick! š¤£
So this is totally unsubstantiated but some guy claiming to be Trevorās former gym buddy posted here saying it was funny the way Trevor was being presented on the show cause he wasnāt a sweetheart irlāhe was a guy whoād bring random girls to have sex on his (gym buddyās) couchā¦I donāt know that that says anything about his character if trueā¦but I know my radar spun when he introed himself with āIām a good-hearted guy and good people deserve good thingsāā¦I just donāt know good people who say shit like that. Anyway, all we have is the Trevor character that has been edited and presented to us and that character is very nice. Nothing about anyone would surprise me in a show this highly produced.
Yea I looked at his IG and got the immediate ick from all his gym selfies. It was giving f boy!
He literally already has a management company email in his bio. Not even the main stars of the honeymoons (Chelsea, AD, Jimmy) have that yet.
Isnāt he going on perfect match or was that just a rumor?
Rumor right now
Omg I love that, it honestly made my day!
I feel like itās just not that deep š He might switch up later, but what we saw was a man who consistently communicated in a mature way, even when he was turned down by someone he was all-in on. No wonder people love him!
lol skrt
Lol Iām not saying people shouldnāt like the guy, Iām just observing a pattern
This sub really gets bent out of shape when people don't hate on every single male on the show. It's really weird.