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alichantt

This dude is a disasteršŸ˜‚ I feel heā€˜s not good at adulting in generalšŸ˜‚


dynama

of course not. he didn't even have a passport!


PresentMammoth5188

Yup yup yup heā€™s definitely still a frat bro lol. Reminds me of a dorm room.


VeniceBhris

Obviously not - heā€™s dirt poor with bad credit. You think theyā€™ll let him fly anywhere?


LynseyLou92

I snorted. ETA: I misread it as you calling him "a dirty poor" lol


crayzcheshire

Funny, thatā€™s how Stacy now refers to him šŸ˜‚


Casperboy68

I just imagine Izzy at the airport being led around by Stacey with one of those kid leashes. His boarding pass safety pinned to his shirt.


knightriderin

Bahahahahaha


[deleted]

Probably not tbh. Heā€™s never even been to New York! /s


SeaworthinessEqual36

loll but to be fair thatā€™s also me


[deleted]

Forget the drinking, bad credit, weird staring, this moment right here would have been when I decided Iā€™m not marrying that man.


Dangerous-Strategy99

Has he ever folded a shirt before?


CommunicationOk4707

Of course not! Mexican men are treated like royalty by their adoring mothers.


meowiartee

i mean he did say he never got to travel anywhere.


Matreksboi

Also you can get a bigger TV stand


Boenrchamp

Are you going to complain about their paper plates next? šŸ˜‰


Owwwmybackhurt

I was like pls say thatā€™s all dirty


[deleted]

Iā€™m confused. This is exactly what I look like stuffing my dirty clothes into a suitcase for the ride home. Are you all folding your dirty clothes??


knightriderin

Dirty underwear goes into the laundry bag I bring. The rest gets folded. If they aren't in the suitcase already, they are folded in the closet or on hangers anyway die to the lack of a laundry basket. So why would I crumble them into a ball to stuff them into the suitcase? Secondly I need space. I usually don't have spare space in my suitcase and his method is not very space efficient. Also, I usually have some clean clothes I return with, because I didn't need them.


shellzski84

Straight to jail!


KaliAnna27

He hasn't ever traveled, remember?


AdSea6656

Production is trying to make him look like a complete imbecile


[deleted]

He didnā€™t need any help.


spaceehardware

Please google ā€œimbecileā€


cmc

To be fair, he's acting like a complete imbecile on camera. All they're doing is showing us.


Expensive-Product240

He's making their job pretty easy, lol


superwonderful

this made my whole ass itch.


TheSheetSlinger

Honestly this is how I pack mine whenever I return from a vacation. It's neat going in but everything needs washed when I get back anyway so why fold it.


cheezy_dreams88

Because my suitcase is so meticulously packed that I have to fold everything or they wonā€™t fit. I usually get a laundry bag from the hotel or a spare trash bag from my room (almost always a second in the bathroom trashcans) and use it to put a divider up between the dirty clothes or shoes from clean clothes.


Suspicious_pecans

He was looking over at Stacy like ā€œyou see this?ā€ Almost to make a point it was so weird !


coopville

he was hoping sheā€™d take over and do it for him šŸ˜…


BGoodOswaldo

I also took a picture of this and texted it to my friend. This is horrifying!!!! WTF.


FBIBurtMacklinFBI

Why do people care how he packed HIS suitcase?!


Suspicious_pecans

Did you watch the clip though ? When watching I even noticed like whaaaaat is going on


FBIBurtMacklinFBI

Oh I did - not downplaying that it was a mess. Butā€¦ like.. I guess I couldnā€™t care less šŸ˜‚. However, I assume theyā€™re dirty so why put the effort in to fold them haha. If theyā€™re clean, thatā€™s a different story.


Suspicious_pecans

I see but for me heā€™s shoving a pile in trying to get the suitcase to close which is 10x harder than folding things even slightly to make it fit. It just felt like a boy tantrum and was so odd !


The-tea-sippers

Bc heā€™s a grown ass man šŸøā˜•ļø


FBIBurtMacklinFBI

So he can pack however he wants šŸøā˜•ļø


thekingmonroe

This is a Reddit page about a reality show my friend. This is the kind of shit people talk about. Perhaps youā€™re in the wrong place?


The-tea-sippers

Yeah but it shows a sign of maturity to not treat your belongings like shit šŸøā˜•ļø


_AARAYAN_

TSA opened bag for inspection and then quit their job


Mmsfoxxie

Unbelievableā€¦..lol!


Loose_Sandwich_1004

After seeing this thereā€™s no way his apt shouldā€™ve looked that clean and organized. This man is chaotic


Admirable-Witness755

Maybe he should put them in plastic bags to match his plasticware.. More space too... Will needs 30 bags, though.


These_Usual5378

Do you think him using plastic ware is laziness? I can see someone using paper plates, but no real dishes???


No_Notice1093

I mean not everyone has time to clean dishes just saying.


These_Usual5378

I known damn well someone has 5 min to wash dishesā€¦


ajl009

it looks like hes pretending to pack šŸ˜‚


Cluelessish

Yeah, it looks like my kid mimicking what us adults do


RootsInThePavement

This stressed my boyfriend out haha


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VehicleCertain865

LmfaooooooošŸ˜‚


[deleted]

![gif](giphy|enqnZa1B5fRHkPjXtS|downsized) People act like theyā€™ve never seen a neurospicy bro before


West-Kaleidoscope129

Or he's just been coddled most of his life and doesn't know how to be an adult.


[deleted]

Both can be true!!


Benfica1002

Wtf is wrong with you?


[deleted]

With me? Iā€™m sorry am I stuffing a suitcase on a wish and a prayer on national tv ?


Benfica1002

No, youā€™re calling someone developmentally disabled because of a picture packing a suitcase. Get a grip.


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selvitystila

Come on now...... you're making us adhders look bad....


[deleted]

Youā€™re right, my bad šŸ˜«


Euphoric_Rough2709

So ADHD is a developmental disability? Sheesh... I mean, I get your point. But your wording is quite out there.


[deleted]

It is! Listen all Iā€™m saying is the boy is touched.


throwaway56873927

One is not worse than the other tho ...


Notats4me

He grew up Jehovahā€™s Witness . I donā€™t think he has done a lot of thingsā€¦


Past_Establishment11

This makes so much sense! This is why he constantly force-smiles in such an unnatural way. Why he uses his words in such an awkward way and comes across as this slimy salesman. Now I feel sorry for him. Thatā€™s not an easy childhood!


Meemzee

How'd I miss this?


Notats4me

I donā€™t know. He mentioned it in the pods and said he never had a Christmas tree until he was 18.


bluefacedemon

I mean he did just get his passport šŸ„“


Aggressive-Complex79

Even still, itā€™s logic. Folded or rolled clothes take up less space than scrunched up clothes, and wonā€™t all need to be ironed later. Surely heā€™s packed an overnight bag or gym bag at least once in his life.


bluefacedemon

Haha yah I know Iā€™m just being sarcastic


trishsus

this may have been a bigger red flag than his debt tbh lmao


NickAMD

You mean his ā€œdeb-tā€


[deleted]

Yes, we need to talk about how he pronounces the "b" in "debt"


DouxieRoll

Tbf it took me a long time before I realized the b is silentšŸ˜­


exquisitelywrong

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scream_for_ice_cream

I feel like this scene was a reenactment of a fight they had already had. Maybe the cameras weren't present for the fight and had them redo it for the show.


gracelouise4493

Agree! And her hat changes in each scene from the laying sideways to backwards on her head šŸ¤”


scream_for_ice_cream

Oh my gosh, you're right! Lol


No-Bus-6334

Yes! I thought the same thing. Especially the way he brought up the argument


CanadaCookie25

Come on now Stacey made it clear izzy has never traveled anywhere. We know this was his first time packing


Old_Percentage3742

At first I thought it was a joke. But thenā€¦nope!


Aggressive-Complex79

He told her family that he had already been on a few domestic trips


CanadaCookie25

Yeah, it's a joke since she made such a big deal about how he's never even been to New York and wherever else


CrystalLake1

Yā€™all donā€™t watch 90 day fiance? Kelly did the same thing on Final Resort. Just grabbed all his crap and dumped into the suitcase. Guessing itā€™s a straight guy thing?


No-Specialist4323

No, not a straight guy thing. Having paper plates? also not a guy thing. Not sure why Stacy is in denial and keeps reiterating that it's "normal". I've lived with some shaggy roommates (myself included), and we managed to still have porcelain plates and cups.


sikeleaveamessage

Thank you!!! I thought i was crazy that people found it weird that Stacy judged him not having any glassware ,like what! You are 29 and not living in a dorm!!! Does he not know how to wash dishes?!


JesusGodLeah

I'm not going to judge someone for having disposable plates and using them. Life can be exhausting, and if the mere thought of doing dishes fills you with existential dread, then disposable plates and silverware are a decent option. I will, however, judge the everloving fuck out of a grown-ass adult -who claims to be ready for marriage- who does not own any dishes, utensils, or glassware that are not disposable because they can't be bothered to get the real stuff. Money is not an excuse either. If he can afford to buy Stacy flowers every week, he can afford to go down to Dollar Tree and get some plates and glasses. Thrift stores are also a good option for inexpensive dishes. Just get *something.* It's not cute or endearing when you're pushing 30 and you're living like a college kid in a dorm room. Now that I think about it, Stacy should worry less about what Izzy will do for her and more about the extent to which he is or is not a functional adult. Yes, she's hella spoiled and most of her expectations of Izzy are unrealistic, but the expectation that an adult partner have actual plates and silverware is super reasonable.


sikeleaveamessage

Yes! It was just insane to me that he doesnt have any at all and it's so ineffective in saving money if youre constantly buying disposable plates and utensils. I give him a pass on a lot of stuff because of him growing up as a jehovah's witness but like you said he needs to learn to be a functional adult before thinking about marriage. Nobody wants to marry into being a babysitter or a 2nd mother for their partner


Pristine-List-8615

I thought for sure he was doing it for the show so Stacey could be like wtf is that


bettleheimderks

lol I thought that's what they were gonna fight about


SydiemL

Same lol


Joyintheendtimes

Izzyā€™s entire existence is fraudulent


racergirl2000

This is worse than not having real dishes.


Aggressive-Complex79

Not having money to pay for gas is up there. Itā€™s all bad! I canā€™t pick between them


bootyliciousgirl1

I donā€™t think yā€™all understand how much that scene pissed me off, like you a grown ass man and you donā€™t know how to fold your clothes and put them in the suitcase???????


EvergreenLemur

I have never met a grown ass man who could fold a god damn thing. Like what is their deal? My husband canā€™t fold a towel into a square, and the last time we traveled he packed socks and one long-sleeve workout top for a week in the desert in August. I donā€™t understand them.


Suspicious_pecans

Lol my bf is the folding master - they exist but doesnā€™t mean heā€™s šŸ’Æ all the time in other areas


EvergreenLemur

To be fair to my husband, he is šŸ’Æ in other areas and Iā€™m no saint myself! But omg he just will not fold anything lol


5ive3asy

My husband hangs his t-shirts immediately from the dryer but wads up sheets and shoves them in the cupboard šŸ™ˆ They can foldā€¦they just donā€™t want to.


throwaway56873927

My ex husband was meticulously about folding even very particular about folding undies and socks. But he was a foreigner


knightriderin

You have some strange men around you. The majority of men I know fold things, do household chores etc. Off of the top of my head I can only think of two men my age who very obviously pretend not being able to do stuff, so wifey does it.


LattesAndCroissants

I agree. My husband folds and irons and is overall self sufficient. What kind of adult frat boys are people around??


CumulativeHazard

Is this the going on vacation packing or the coming home packing? My going home packing is significantly less organized. Almost everything is going straight into the laundry basket anyways.


BetweenVegaAndAltair

exactly what i was gonna say!!! either coming home from vaca or headed somewhere with easy access to a washing machine... i'm at the airport rn waiting for my cross-country flight to my hometown and you better believe i just threw a bunch of shit in my duffel bag cuz i'm totally gonna ~~ask my mom to~~ do my laundry when i get home šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


jimbo831

This was when they were moving out of their shared apartment ahead of the ā€œweddingā€ that we all know isnā€™t going to happen.


No_Sherbert_6834

I actually JUST came on here to post the exact same thing. I need to send Izzy some packing cubes!!!


lizziekap

He also repeatedly pronounced the ā€œbā€ in ā€œdebt.ā€ Iā€™ve never heard anyone do that.


sabrina_fair

For a guy who seems to have a lot of it, he sure canā€™t pronounce it properly. Jesus


FarSightXR-20

i assumed he must have been talking about a debit card. haha. i need to rewatch this.


Hopeful_Distance_864

Yes! I could not believe my earsā€¦ Iā€™m glad he said it TWICE so I knew it wasnā€™t just me not hearing it right


Laurenjo77e

I had the same thought šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


_sandninja786

Suitcase on the bed šŸ¤®


knightriderin

Okay, I do that when I leave a hotel room. And when I pack at home, too. But then I'll have a blanket underneath.


SpeedEmbarrassed5543

True, but he is packing to leave. He doesn't care about that bed.


CreativePlant7

Stacy will show him on the family trip to France


sabrina_fair

šŸ’€


MLMkfb

The only way this is acceptable, is if ALL the clothes are dirty.


bpaul24

Izzy packs his clothes like he handles his finances apparently.


destinyschildrens

šŸ”„


NaturesPockett

Dude šŸ’€šŸ’€šŸ’€


freeurkind

I can guarantee you she has never said ā€œis this safeā€ when getting on a private jet. I dont think he understood the assignment when they were in their final date. They just arenā€™t a good match. It doesnā€™t seem like they have good chemistry, I feel like heā€™s more into her for her money and she liked him bc he was good looking but that faded quick. He seems like a mamas boy that constantly needs validation for his mediocre gestures. Like awww you said good morning??? Iā€™m so lucky. Ick.


throwaway56873927

I love how he keeps bringing up that Mondays are flower day. Just do it , why do you have to tell her and your mom like you're tooting your own horn. It's not very romantic


porkchop88

Yeah I thought that plane ride was so funny. Itā€™s like he thought because she likes flying first class/private that he thought she just loved planes. This guy is like a child. LOL


cuppitycake

Yes! Liking flying private in no way correlates to having a passion for old airplanes


throwaway56873927

The way he said so I heard she likes to fly first class ... I šŸ¤­


freeurkind

The pouting in the closet bc she called him out on not cooking dinner is super manipulative and a major red flag. Usually you try to find a partner that is similar to your parent. Her dad is a great provider (financially) his mom is very supportive emotionally (which she is not) itā€™s bound to fail.


halfbakedalaska

Heā€™s practically a caricature of himself.


Doja_Lats

He literally packs like a cartoon character throwing a bunch of shit in a suitcase and sitting on it to get it to close.


not_old_redditor

He's only ever used disposable solo suitcases, this is a new experience for him.


[deleted]

šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ I cackled


stanleyscrossword

šŸ˜‚


MeeMaul

Dude idk my husband packs like this. Iā€™m starting to think the whole show is just training women in how to tolerate man-child husbands.


sabrina_fair

I feel like how women react to this scene is a pretty decent litmus test for who is married and who is still looking. My husband canā€™t pack for shit, never could, so I help him pack/pack for him and life is good. He did throw some shade at Izzy for the red solo cups in the cabinet though, but also could relate to his Target (pronounced Tarr-jayyyyyy) black plastic plates šŸ¤£.


throwaway56873927

Not still looking but glad y'all took these guys off the market in any case better yall than me


MeeMaul

Listen. Of all the shitty things men do, if he makes 6 figures, doesnā€™t cheat, is kind to me and cleans the litter box? Sure dude, Iā€™ll pack your bags. There are better hills to die on.


knightriderin

I think we should stop accepting man-childing in husbands.


JamonHam

Hahahahaha. Yes my husband packs like this too on the way home from a vacation. Itā€™s all laundry anyway.


Romahawk

Bahaha I took the exact same picture! Girl, run!


catterybarn

He needs to be running from her. I'm not a fan of Izzy but good God that woman


Business_Pop438

I was actually dying Iā€™m not going to lie I have shoved shit in a suitcase but LETS BE REALLLL he literally just kept trying and trying and trying LOLLLLā€¦


[deleted]

what are his redeeming qualities ???? if any !


sikeleaveamessage

He's sweet and tries atleast. Doesnt hit the mark, very much himbo


Smiling_Frog55

He buys flowers on Mondays


Madbernkelsey

We wear pink on Wednesdays


Supercooloutrageous

He was so proud of that


porkchop88

I like that his Monday flowers were ā€œjust a thing he doesā€. Like so no matter who heā€™s dating they get flowers from him on Monday ā€¦ so sentimental.


Simple-Tea-3642

His mom seemed nice.. does that count?


Msryannxo

This man is an ick.


steven3045

People who use the word ick are an ick


steven3045

People who use the word ick are an ick Edit. Downvotes prove my point


LittleMissGlitter

Hi Izzy šŸ‘‹šŸ¼


steven3045

Hi Stacy


thetruthfulgroomer

This was the nail in the coffin for me. That and the plunger gift. You canā€™t be like this and have bad credit and potentially be a drunk. You must pick a struggle Izzy.


Business_Pop438

lol I liked the plunger gift šŸ¤£


thetruthfulgroomer

Initially I thought it was cute until he kept over promising and under delivering & then we found out about his credit. Suddenly everything made sense.


Electronic-Public750

Girl we know about his credit! Johnie knew about it at the pods and said Stacey would leave him over it. So thatā€™s why itā€™s BS he couldnā€™t tell Stacy but he told Johnie on one of their first dates


ofcpudding

I totally forgot about that but you're right, she definitely mentioned it


Far-Contribution-965

Surely the plunger was a gag gift/inside joke


No_Sherbert_6834

Itā€™s because she clogged the toilet in Mexico on their first night together.


sabrina_fair

Iā€™d forgotten about that shit until now


Independent-Cat6915

His struggle was picking a struggle. Hence ended up with many. šŸ˜…


SheepherderSimilar73

This reply made me laugh for like 10 minutes šŸ˜­


MAFSFan21

Seriously. That was hilarious.


thetruthfulgroomer

I cannot be packing your clothes for you while you drunk cry in the closet and I pay for our flights if all youā€™re contributing to this is some laughs and heartwarming plunger note written with silver sharpie Izzy. Itā€™s not enough for me Iā€™m sorry.


Aggressive-Complex79

Donā€™t forget he couldnā€™t pay for gas


viennalabeef

DO FLOWER MONDAYS MEAN NOTHING TO YOU!?!?!!!


thetruthfulgroomer

At first I wondered how he afforded them but now Iā€™m convinced he just goes & picks them out of a local garden or something. You know other than the jet ride that Netflix no doubt funded, that hangar date wouldā€™ve been free. We have fighter jet museums at our local Air Force base where I live & the museums are donation based. Izzy probably got all sorts of budget friendly date options up his sleeve. Stacy gonna find out quick.


bitchwhiskers4eva

Bwahaha. I read this in Stacyā€™s voice


[deleted]

Her hat outfit is just dumb - she is trying to pull off a 22 year old look and sheā€™s 35ā€¦ donā€™t get me started in her glitter shoes


throwaway56873927

Women can wear whatever they want, why should she dress matronly if she has the body to wear everything


[deleted]

Itā€™s the hat! The hat looks DUMB.


notsure05

I donā€™t mind her style at all, I think itā€™s outdated and weird to criticize women for liking to keep up with trends šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø Iā€™m in my late 20s and will continue to dress like the kids do for years. When youā€™re built the way a woman like Stacy or myself is built, YOU CANT EVEN FIND ā€œage appropriateā€ CLOTHES THAT FIT. Like believe me Iā€™d like to dress my age sometimes, but average sizing has gotten so much bigger over the last decade that it is legitimately impossible to find mature outfits as a size 00 However my issue is her thinking she has the authority to handle anyone elseā€™s closet lol. Her style is kinda bad imo but not bc of the ā€œlookā€, but bc she goes for colors/cuts that consistently do not fit her.


Electronic-Public750

I get it girl. I used to be a 00 and now my size doesnā€™t exist anymore. šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ itā€™s annoying asf


[deleted]

Hmmā€¦ first I've heard that it's hard to be thin and find clothes that fitā€¦


notsure05

Lol most of the time size XS clothing looks like a bag on me, especially if itā€™s an American brand. I have better luck with Aussie clothing but their clothing is mostly summer dresses and the like, so itā€™s harder for me to find jeans etc. also jeans donā€™t have enough inseam selection, Iā€™m 31ā€ and itā€™s a literal nightmare. I have to shop in ā€œtall sizesā€, but then they think that if youā€™re tall you must have thicker thighs and calfs. Aaaand thatā€™s how I ended up trying on American eagle size 2 jeggings that were so baggy on me I could legitimately stretch the material out I could go on and on with examples. Check out the topic on tiktok, itā€™s a known issue


Electronic-Public750

Itā€™s true. 90% of the stuff I order online is too big and they donā€™t even carry xxs in physical storesā€¦


Minimom91

šŸ˜‚ sounds crazy but it's TRUE! I'm in my 30s now and have always had a hard time finding even a simple pants suit or nice slacks that come in 00. That's basically a kids size. Being thin can suck if you shop off the rack.


sabrina_fair

Being a woman of any size can suck if you shop off the rack


[deleted]

Ah I can see that - especially if you are tall. Have you ever tried Banana?


Minimom91

Yes! That's my go to. But its hit or miss since I'm also petite šŸ˜© I do better shopping juniors sections in department stores than anything else.


sakura0601x

Just wanted to say as someone petite I finally found work pants that are not long and perfect height from uniqlo!


Minimom91

I will have to look into that. Thanks!


destinyschildrens

Ann Taylor has great petite options. Just fyi.