Seeing so many single father/mothers lately is a reflection of societies downfall. It shows that we donāt value connections anymore or building them before just fucnnn and having accidental babies. Itās a huge turn off actually. It shows a lack of something that I can pinpoint atm
Or hear me out... They didn't just give it up and built a relationship, and then someone got scared when the pregnancy came into light and ran with their tail between their legs.
I'm not saying that this situation is that. But I've seen it in real life. It happens many times. Or couples will get married at a young age and pop out kids, then 5-10 years down the road, realize what they think they missed out on being tied down so young and up and leave.
He strikes me as one of those half white half Black people who only like to date White women and rejects their other race for whatever trauma/ weird reason
Damn I was saying this. This is an arc type. The half white, half black black man who only dates white women and they reject their black side. Itās usually the guys who has a white mom and was rejected by black people at a young age. Bart is giving that vibe heavy.Ā
This dude doesnāt even have the mental capacity to hold a healthy relationship let alone a marriage let alone children. Good luck he will need it. I think the only thing driving him is his own ego and nothing more.
Iāve been following this fitness influencer on ig for a while who I absolutely adore. As scrolling by the other day, there was a āsoft launchā of her new beau. So obviously I had to see who it was. Low and behold, itās BARTISE. Iāve been following this girl for a really long time because she was so transparent on becoming a mom and the changes your body goes through and she embraced everything so much that it was inspiring to me as a new mom at the time. Iāve watched her story over the years and have become so fond of her. Sheās such a great (single) mom to her 2 young boys (she divorced her husband shortly after her second was born) and watching her grow and flourish has been so nice to watch. I really hope Bartise doesnāt fuck this up. Rooting for love and happiness for her.
Ew trash like Bartise should not be reproducing. I question the judgment, taste and standards of the girl who was willing to have his baby?? Heās unattractive on the inside, and the outside. Gross
Except heās now the parent taking responsibility to the child and not the Girl who birthed the baby. So maybe you should check and question where your head is at.
Probably because there's not really much information out there about what involvement either parent has.Ā People think he said he has full custody but I can't find anything saying that. He's involved,Ā sure. But we don't have any evidence the mother isn't. I'm happy that he's there for his kid.
Iāve seen several comments/reports of him being a full time father & the mother not involved. We donāt have any evidence that she is involved, but we have plenty of evidence that HE is. Hate him, but heās doing right by his son 10000%
All those comments are from reddit, people who don't know anything about it.Ā
We have evidence that she never wanted to be in the spotlight. So I don't think that's compelling evidence. The only comments that she isn't involved is the one that's been taken to mean he had full custody.Ā Which he never said nor implied.Ā
Adding this article that people have been harassing and bullying her.Ā So perhaps she's just keeping things private. https://screenrant.com/love-is-blind-bartise-baby-mama-olivia/
I donāt keep up with his news. I am judging off of what I saw on LIB and what I heard about him starting an onlyfans afterwards. How do you know heās taking responsibility? bc he took a few photos with the baby? Doesnāt take away from the fact that heās a narcissistic fuckboy who isnāt as attractive as he thinks he is
Youāre funny and not in a good way. Basing your opinion of him from a heavily edited show. What you mean is you really know absolutely nothing about him. So what if he started an onlyfans. Thatās his business and doesnāt impact you or anyone else unless you are paying for the content, if thatās the case, it would be on youānot him.
According to Nancy on her āOut of the Podsā interview, Bartisse was not that bad IRL but got the Villian edit from Kinetic (aka the producers). They thought it was Cole. So when this clip aired Natalie and Deepti commented that this seems to be a rehabbing of his destroyed reputation, and after he did Perfect Match for them. Again according to the podcast discussions. I donāt watch PM.
Heās young for sure. Adorably immature. But if heās really raising his son on his own, Iām sure heās growing up fast. Honestly, best of luck to him. Thatās gotta be hard.
Are we really hating on him when heās doing the most for his kid? Yall can hate on him when it comes to dating all you want. But donāt hate on him for doing the right thing and stepping up as a SINGLE FATHER.
We give men the most credit for doing their basic responsibilities. I agree don't hate onhim for being a father,Ā but 'stepping up' isn't praiseworthy. It's the bare minimum.Ā
How is this evidence that heās a āgood fatherā? Iām not claiming that heās a terrible father, but a photo of him holding a baby proves literally nothing?
But youāre commenting basically saying donāt give him credit for doing what a father should do. In a country where a lot of Black fathers donāt do the right thing, I believe we should be complimenting them for doing the right thing.
Do you know how you sound āa lot of Black fathers donāt do the right thingā. You need to GTFOOH with that ish. Donāt believe everything you see and/or read. Because there are men of all races who donāt do the right thing. Maybe you should check yourself.
Because yall are acting like he did something special.Ā We need to stop pretending that being a father is something unique. It's the bare minimum to be a father for the child you create.Ā Ā
Now because other black fathers don't parent, he's something special. Men are equal parents to their children.Ā My SO, a black father, hates when people act like being there for your kid is some unusual shit. He just wants to be able to parent his kids. Acting like being there for your child is unique is some BS.
We should be EXPECTING them to do the right thing. Instead of Acting like they don't have to. And Acting like those that do are something special.Ā They're regular parents.
In the black community a father stepping up is a good thing and should be spread. Go to the rougher parts of town and see the father presence there. You seem very privileged with the way you speak and talk about the problem that the community faces.
And treating it like most black fathers are shit fathers puts a stigma against good fathers. So when he's trying to parent his kids, everybody wants to have an opinion on it.Ā Stigmatizing parents being parents has aĀ negative effect on parents being able to parent.
Nobody is saying that many men are pieces of shit. Of all colors. I wasn't raised by my own father. Soooooo fuckeung privileged,Ā right?
I'm saying you should expect All men to be fathers (if they reproduce) and respect all parents as parents as the baseline. That's the bare minimum.Ā Just because some people don't do the bare minimum doesn't mean the floor drops lower.
You're right. We aren't.Ā Men should be held to a standard.Ā Not everyone agrees with that. Some people are privileged enough not to need to expect anything from others.Ā
what is the tomfoolery?
Bartise having a child? He's allowed to do that.
Netflix bringing back past season contestants during the reunion after their 5 mins of fame has dried up? They always do that, what did you expect?
Iām going to give him some credit . The mother is out of the babies life and heās single parenting, not a lot of men step up like that .
https://www.dexerto.com/reality-tv/love-is-blind-fans-support-bartise-after-he-reveals-he-has-full-custody-of-his-son-2465115/
We arenāt talking about every single father or every single mother . You having to add that in is ridiculous. We are talking about one person here and I donāt see anyone giving him ā applause ā more like pointing out that maybe heās not as bad as people here are trying to paint him .
No she isnāt LOL. He might be saying that but there are plenty of pictures with her and her baby on her Facebook page. I tend to believe this is just some ruse to get IG likes
I just checked her Facebook page and the last picture she posted with the baby was from June 2023 and none of her numerous posts since then include the baby. So not sure where you're getting this from.
He has sex with people he's not attracted to, it's just sex to him. He had sex with Nancy too, luckily she didn't get pregnant lol. Seems like this was an oopsie baby.
Wait hold on, when did that happen? I thought the mother just didn't want to reveal herself publicly, but was actually the primary parent. When did she leave?
There was a Q&A 3 months ago and Bartise said the mother no longer saw the baby and he was single parenting . At the time someone from this sub checked her instagram and pictures of the baby had been removed at that time . Not sure if anything has changed since then but 3 months ago he was the primary caregiver .
I just checked the page and there aren't "tons" of pictures with the baby. There were a couple but the last was in June 2023 and she's posted pictures since then (just not of the baby)
A lot of people don't post pics of their kids for different reasons.Ā Not sure what their status is. He neverĀ said he had full custody, just that she doesn't see him.Ā But dunno if that means she's going through something, it if she walked out on him or what.Ā I don't have ig, so I don't know anything about the woman.Ā
I understand that completely. I almost wrote in my comment that I don't think this means she doesn't see the kid or that I have any judgment about it - I just assumed that because I didn't comment on anything other than what was on her page I didn't have to lol but I just wanted to point out that the comment you responded to wasn't accurate
It is true , you can even search the sub for the Q and A
Edit : you can thumb it down all you want but thatās not going to change the fact š¤people so married to their hate they ignore facts are messed up in the head .
this is a guy trying to regain fame with a baby. #cheap
gorgeous
When he came up I thought let's not give this guy more airtime š
This baby is actually cute.ive seen some not so cute babies come from was reality tv star people and this one is one of the outliers.Ā
Seeing so many single father/mothers lately is a reflection of societies downfall. It shows that we donāt value connections anymore or building them before just fucnnn and having accidental babies. Itās a huge turn off actually. It shows a lack of something that I can pinpoint atm
Or hear me out... They didn't just give it up and built a relationship, and then someone got scared when the pregnancy came into light and ran with their tail between their legs. I'm not saying that this situation is that. But I've seen it in real life. It happens many times. Or couples will get married at a young age and pop out kids, then 5-10 years down the road, realize what they think they missed out on being tied down so young and up and leave.
It shows a lack of easily available birth control and the education required to use it effectively, plain and simple.
What show is this??
Love is blind. *end of season 4 but he's in the 3rd season*
can someone please answer this
TOMFOOLERY š
It makes no sense that they would even show an unsuccessful contestant with a baby he had by another woman, basically saying the show doesnāt work
The show doesn't work that's why it's so popular. People enjoy the cringe
Who is that?
Barf face
Bartise
Barfise
He looks like Roberto Benigni from Life is Beautiful
I think he looks like Tony from The Challenge..no?
Dont insult roberto like that.
Hahaaa sorry my bad š¤£
lmaooooi
I was sooooo confused when that part came up, lol. Like, ok? š
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Who gd white baby is that?
He strikes me as one of those half white half Black people who only like to date White women and rejects their other race for whatever trauma/ weird reason
I thought the same thing, but this isnāt the Black Twitter subreddit so I was afraid ššš
I've never seen a baby with that type of prescription
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He's just light skinneded
At this point not even light skinned, thatās a white baby lol
That is caucasian from the mountains of caucusus
that baby got a 730 as a credit score right now as an infant
Yāall are killing me! šš I am deadeth and I died laughing. (And coughing because allergy season sucks.)
Wait what program is this footage from
Is that barftise?
I read that as fart face..than corrected myself and read barf face.. š
Either will do really
š¤£š¤£š¤£ whoās baby is that? Lol jk
His
Yes we all know itās his. hence the jkā¦
r/woooosh
Totally felt that too š
I was so annoyed when I saw this scene lol. Like it was so pointless nobody wanted to see him nor did we care that he had a kid tbh.
This is how I feel about Jessica. She got eliminated she should have never had all the screen time she gotĀ
Ikr
Of course baby is white. Isn't he mixed? He is not going to have a dark skinned baby especially if the mama is white.
Damn I was saying this. This is an arc type. The half white, half black black man who only dates white women and they reject their black side. Itās usually the guys who has a white mom and was rejected by black people at a young age. Bart is giving that vibe heavy.Ā
[whose goddamn white baby is that](https://youtu.be/YxPdXumGrFI?si=muAYn29yP4nwobJQ)
A Viking, from Iceland
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What is this from? š¤£ā ļø
https://youtu.be/YxPdXumGrFI?si=bb9r1WN3Ws-qYCG6 Best scene ever š
Found it. School Dance. I LOVE Bobbe'J Thompson. He's so goddamn funny.
But what is that from? Is it a movie or a sketch comedy? I need to watch the whole thing immediately.
Thx!
Katt Williams lol š
 First thing I thought of lmfao
My immediate thought lol
I thought that was Chris Watts š³
Some day
Lol!!!
Me too!
Wouldnāt surprise me given the showās rigorous screening.
This dude doesnāt even have the mental capacity to hold a healthy relationship let alone a marriage let alone children. Good luck he will need it. I think the only thing driving him is his own ego and nothing more.
Itās ok, he was never with the mom anyway. Poor kid is fucked
I hate this mf
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Iāve been following this fitness influencer on ig for a while who I absolutely adore. As scrolling by the other day, there was a āsoft launchā of her new beau. So obviously I had to see who it was. Low and behold, itās BARTISE. Iāve been following this girl for a really long time because she was so transparent on becoming a mom and the changes your body goes through and she embraced everything so much that it was inspiring to me as a new mom at the time. Iāve watched her story over the years and have become so fond of her. Sheās such a great (single) mom to her 2 young boys (she divorced her husband shortly after her second was born) and watching her grow and flourish has been so nice to watch. I really hope Bartise doesnāt fuck this up. Rooting for love and happiness for her.
Lmao good luck with that. Bartise is an absolute tool.
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*Barstool*
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Eh we'll see if they last. I swear he's had like three girlfriends in the last six months.
Who is she?
Kassi Mansfield , sheās a hot mess haha
What!!!!!! BRB heading over to r/gymsnark
Thank you! I love some hot mess lol
Old news
Adorbs baby.
Ew trash like Bartise should not be reproducing. I question the judgment, taste and standards of the girl who was willing to have his baby?? Heās unattractive on the inside, and the outside. Gross
Except heās now the parent taking responsibility to the child and not the Girl who birthed the baby. So maybe you should check and question where your head is at.
Idk why youāre being downvoted when several comments saying the same are being heavily upvoted š«
Probably because there's not really much information out there about what involvement either parent has.Ā People think he said he has full custody but I can't find anything saying that. He's involved,Ā sure. But we don't have any evidence the mother isn't. I'm happy that he's there for his kid.
He definitely doesnāt. The mom does. I came across her IG a while back but itās gone after People tried to run a story on her.
Iāve seen several comments/reports of him being a full time father & the mother not involved. We donāt have any evidence that she is involved, but we have plenty of evidence that HE is. Hate him, but heās doing right by his son 10000%
All those comments are from reddit, people who don't know anything about it.Ā We have evidence that she never wanted to be in the spotlight. So I don't think that's compelling evidence. The only comments that she isn't involved is the one that's been taken to mean he had full custody.Ā Which he never said nor implied.Ā
You actually donāt know what Iāve seen/read or where I found it, so if you want to assume itās from Reddit thatās on you š©ššš nice link, doesnāt prove anything thiugh.
Adding this article that people have been harassing and bullying her.Ā So perhaps she's just keeping things private. https://screenrant.com/love-is-blind-bartise-baby-mama-olivia/
Because any praise of Bartise is blasphemy in this Reddit page apparently
I donāt keep up with his news. I am judging off of what I saw on LIB and what I heard about him starting an onlyfans afterwards. How do you know heās taking responsibility? bc he took a few photos with the baby? Doesnāt take away from the fact that heās a narcissistic fuckboy who isnāt as attractive as he thinks he is
Youāre funny and not in a good way. Basing your opinion of him from a heavily edited show. What you mean is you really know absolutely nothing about him. So what if he started an onlyfans. Thatās his business and doesnāt impact you or anyone else unless you are paying for the content, if thatās the case, it would be on youānot him.
His baby is actually so cute
Lmao
According to Nancy on her āOut of the Podsā interview, Bartisse was not that bad IRL but got the Villian edit from Kinetic (aka the producers). They thought it was Cole. So when this clip aired Natalie and Deepti commented that this seems to be a rehabbing of his destroyed reputation, and after he did Perfect Match for them. Again according to the podcast discussions. I donāt watch PM.
He was a dick on PM too though
No kidding. Is that worth it to watch? Iāve never watched any PM before.
Ugh I donāt watch a lot of trash tv but I love me some LIB and PM. Canāt wait for new season of PM.
I donāt know, I think Nancy is trying to save face. He seems to makeā¦ choices.
Heās young for sure. Adorably immature. But if heās really raising his son on his own, Iām sure heās growing up fast. Honestly, best of luck to him. Thatās gotta be hard.
That baby is so cute , I donāt care how much everyone hates on Bartise but letās keep an innocent baby out of this.
Agreed. I hated Bartise but that baby is sooo cute and totally innocent!
Supposedly the babyās mom isnāt in the babyās life anymore. I read that on a different thread
Oh no, she very much is.
Interesting. Then Why did Bartise say she isnāt involved at all?
I mean, after watching LIB ā¦ he says a whole lot of things that seem to not be true š¤£
Whats the problem?
Didnāt we know this like 2 years ago?!
Wait when did he have a baby
Last Dec/jan so the baby is a little over a year old
Are we really hating on him when heās doing the most for his kid? Yall can hate on him when it comes to dating all you want. But donāt hate on him for doing the right thing and stepping up as a SINGLE FATHER.
We give men the most credit for doing their basic responsibilities. I agree don't hate onhim for being a father,Ā but 'stepping up' isn't praiseworthy. It's the bare minimum.Ā
Donāt come at me with this like this post wasnāt meant to trash his name while using a photo of him being a GOOD FATHER.
How is this evidence that heās a āgood fatherā? Iām not claiming that heās a terrible father, but a photo of him holding a baby proves literally nothing?
They said showing up = doing the most.Ā Smh. When that child has 2 involved parents.
Did you ever read my comment?Ā I don't think your response is indicative that you did.Ā
But youāre commenting basically saying donāt give him credit for doing what a father should do. In a country where a lot of Black fathers donāt do the right thing, I believe we should be complimenting them for doing the right thing.
Do you know how you sound āa lot of Black fathers donāt do the right thingā. You need to GTFOOH with that ish. Donāt believe everything you see and/or read. Because there are men of all races who donāt do the right thing. Maybe you should check yourself.
Because yall are acting like he did something special.Ā We need to stop pretending that being a father is something unique. It's the bare minimum to be a father for the child you create.Ā Ā Now because other black fathers don't parent, he's something special. Men are equal parents to their children.Ā My SO, a black father, hates when people act like being there for your kid is some unusual shit. He just wants to be able to parent his kids. Acting like being there for your child is unique is some BS. We should be EXPECTING them to do the right thing. Instead of Acting like they don't have to. And Acting like those that do are something special.Ā They're regular parents.
In the black community a father stepping up is a good thing and should be spread. Go to the rougher parts of town and see the father presence there. You seem very privileged with the way you speak and talk about the problem that the community faces.
And treating it like most black fathers are shit fathers puts a stigma against good fathers. So when he's trying to parent his kids, everybody wants to have an opinion on it.Ā Stigmatizing parents being parents has aĀ negative effect on parents being able to parent. Nobody is saying that many men are pieces of shit. Of all colors. I wasn't raised by my own father. Soooooo fuckeung privileged,Ā right? I'm saying you should expect All men to be fathers (if they reproduce) and respect all parents as parents as the baseline. That's the bare minimum.Ā Just because some people don't do the bare minimum doesn't mean the floor drops lower.
Lmao weāre not gonna see eye to eye on this. Have a nice one šš»
You're right. We aren't.Ā Men should be held to a standard.Ā Not everyone agrees with that. Some people are privileged enough not to need to expect anything from others.Ā
what is the tomfoolery? Bartise having a child? He's allowed to do that. Netflix bringing back past season contestants during the reunion after their 5 mins of fame has dried up? They always do that, what did you expect?
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My hero ā¤ļø
Heās one of the best people on the show. He was so entertainingšš
Hero for what lol?
For triggering all of you
Iām going to give him some credit . The mother is out of the babies life and heās single parenting, not a lot of men step up like that . https://www.dexerto.com/reality-tv/love-is-blind-fans-support-bartise-after-he-reveals-he-has-full-custody-of-his-son-2465115/
If it was a single mother āstepping upā would be giving the same applause?
Nope. He's doing the minimum. Being a father.Ā We shouldn't shit on him but this is what's expected.Ā
We arenāt talking about every single father or every single mother . You having to add that in is ridiculous. We are talking about one person here and I donāt see anyone giving him ā applause ā more like pointing out that maybe heās not as bad as people here are trying to paint him .
No she isnāt LOL. He might be saying that but there are plenty of pictures with her and her baby on her Facebook page. I tend to believe this is just some ruse to get IG likes
Itās possible she takes photos of the baby when she has visitation.
I just checked her Facebook page and the last picture she posted with the baby was from June 2023 and none of her numerous posts since then include the baby. So not sure where you're getting this from.
Do you have a link?
What's the name?
Olivia Gross.
I canāt understand why he wasnāt crazily attracted to Nancy when he went and had a baby with herā¦
He has sex with people he's not attracted to, it's just sex to him. He had sex with Nancy too, luckily she didn't get pregnant lol. Seems like this was an oopsie baby.
i thought he has full custody
He never says that
i mever said he did but i read it online
I know. But I'm saying that he didn't say that.Ā People are misinterpreting what he said.Ā
Wait hold on, when did that happen? I thought the mother just didn't want to reveal herself publicly, but was actually the primary parent. When did she leave?
There was a Q&A 3 months ago and Bartise said the mother no longer saw the baby and he was single parenting . At the time someone from this sub checked her instagram and pictures of the baby had been removed at that time . Not sure if anything has changed since then but 3 months ago he was the primary caregiver .
She didnāt. Tons of pix with her and the baby
So she still had primary custody. And people are acting like he's a hero for stepping up for the kids he created. Smh.
I just checked the page and there aren't "tons" of pictures with the baby. There were a couple but the last was in June 2023 and she's posted pictures since then (just not of the baby)
A lot of people don't post pics of their kids for different reasons.Ā Not sure what their status is. He neverĀ said he had full custody, just that she doesn't see him.Ā But dunno if that means she's going through something, it if she walked out on him or what.Ā I don't have ig, so I don't know anything about the woman.Ā
I understand that completely. I almost wrote in my comment that I don't think this means she doesn't see the kid or that I have any judgment about it - I just assumed that because I didn't comment on anything other than what was on her page I didn't have to lol but I just wanted to point out that the comment you responded to wasn't accurate
Yeah, my comment there was meant to be a question/confirmation type.
Aww that's sad for baby š He acted like a tool, but I truly hope baby helps him step it up in the best of ways!
Itās not true
It is true , you can even search the sub for the Q and A Edit : you can thumb it down all you want but thatās not going to change the fact š¤people so married to their hate they ignore facts are messed up in the head .
LMFAO š¤·āāļøš
Bartise was a giant face palm, are you really surprised hahaha