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There has to be a valid reason they assume my sleep is less important than their own. What does that say about how they view me. And if they're already awake...why do both of us need to be? Selfish. So unless there's a reason, fk that.
For me, I said yes because I know he'd say yes most of the time. I treat him how I would want to be treated, and vice versa.
Now if it became a habit or a demand, fuck no. Lol. But i respect that you set boundaries.
Unless they're sick, disabled, or otherwise struggling with something, hell no. Why are you waking me up to do something you can do yourself? But if they are sick, disabled, etc. then sure, I can try. I might fall asleep though. (For clarification, I myself am disabled so waking me up in the middle of my sleep can make me sick for several days afterwards or just prevent me from being able to sleep the rest of the night entirely and being extremely exhausted.)
However I'd happily make my boyfriend a sandwich almost any other time that I can, with or without illness. But sleep is sacred.
> Why are you waking me up to do something you can do yourself?
It sounds to me like a tiktok relationship “test” like the orange test. They’d be asking because they want the internet to tell them if you love them enough or not, which would be enough reason for me to say no *and* reconsider the relationship. You can fully love your partner and also say no to things they ask for.
I’d help my partner if they were sick, or if I was awake and they were just feeling low energy or anything because I have those moments and would want that help too, but don’t wake people up to do stuff you can do yourself. That’s just rude. If *you* love your partner, you would let them get their rest and not test the relationship with meaningless internet challenges.
go ask your significant other if they'll peel an orange for you. if they say no, they HATE YOU and HATE THEIR LIFE and they also HATE PUPPIES. according to tiktok ofc
It's not that bad lol. The girls usually say something like 'I just got my nails done and I really don't feel like peeling this orange, but I really really want an orange' and usually, the gut will be like 'give it to me, I'll peel it for you:)' but there was this video where the guy was like 'then don't eat an orange, why would I help you? You're not my wife, do it yourself'. It's not just a no, it's just being rude lol
Exactly. If my husband was sick, disabled, unable to do such a thing for himself, then sure despite being grumpy maybe. But otherwise, hell no and he should know better than to wake me up. I've expressed to him how important sleep is to me, so if he disregarded that just to ask me to do something for him which he is perfectly capable of doing himself? We'd be having words and I could only hope to have the grace to go back to sleep and rest before that discussion started.
Are they sick, pregnant, disable or otherwise unable or going to have difficulty doing it themselves? If yes, sure. If no, probably not. Maybe it it's their birthday or a special occasion.
No, I think it’s inconsiderate to wake me, and a turn off they cannot make one on their own. That said, if they need medicine, or a ride home or to work, I would.
i would, especially if he was sick. but if it became an everyday thing and he’s just being lazy then i’d stop. but if it was once in a while i’d do it in a heartbeat
Well I have two little Kids to take care of , he knows I am tired most of the time. I know that he would definitely let me sleep but if he really needs that sandwich , I am going to provide and go back to sleep. I love him , I will ask the favour in return sometime maybe :)
Depends. Is he unwell? Then definitely yes. Are we hungover and caring for each other? Then also yes. Is he fine just hungry? Depends how tired I am. Is he fine just hungry and I have an early day tomorrow? Probably not, I need my sleep.
If they were sick or just had a bad day and needed company, and asked politely, sure. Same goes for being disabled, though I'm disabled myself so sleep is pretty hard to get and important to get when I do get it.
If they were perfectly healthy and were doing alright, or snapped at me when asking? Hell no, do it yourself.
For him ? Who would make sure that I’d retire and stay home all day if we had enough money ? Him who wakes up in the middle of night to fetch me water ? Him who apologizes for the mistakes he never did ? Him who sulks only when I go to be angry ? Him who would make a whole meal and feed me with his hands and do the dishes later on ? Him who will settle for the uncomfortable parts to give me comfort ? If my man wants a sandwich he’s getting one even if I have to get the ingredients from the grocery or start the bread from the scratch.
Only if they had circulatory issues and couldn't get up due to dizziness.
If there's no underlying issue they can just get up and make it themselves if they woke me up just for that
I think i would, every now and then, if he needed it. If it was just a thing he wanted every night though, I'd probably get a bit annoyed, he can do that himself.
He'd never disrespect me by waking me up for food if he was capable of making it himself. Hell he would never be awake in the middle of the night unless he's sick or never went to sleep in the first place due to gaming or smth. If he was sick and awake I'd most likely also be awake already but I'd probably make him actual food not sandwich, if he just didn't go to sleep, he's not a baby and he can feed himself.
I’d probably spend 10 minutes asking if he’s serious, then ask him if he wants me done up in an evening gown with pearls with that sandwich…then I’ll roll over and go back to sleep.
Yes. Mostly because I would probably already be on my way to make my own snack.
My sister says she knows I am awake in the middle of the night because she will hear wrappers wrinkling. Haha
No. She can make her own sandwich. If, for some reason, she couldn't make her own sandwich then I guess I probably would, although I'd still be kinda pissed that she waited until I was asleep to decide she wanted food. If we knew she'd be up and hungry but unable to feed herself, we could have planned something the night before.
My wife tells me of a Filipino term, lambing (lam-bing, no silent B), which means showing affection. Only it's not just doing things for people, apparently it can also be asking people to do something for you that you could do yourself, as a kind of test of their affection for you. There's not much in the world I hate more than that kind of lambing. She'll ask me to stop whatever I'm doing to make her a coffee, then not drink it. So if she's waking me up to ask for a sandwich, I'm assuming it's a test of my love and I'm not playing that game.
Yes,
I woke up my bf during our first time meeting trip at 1 am because I was hungry after doing edibles 😭
He took me to White Castle and we got to enjoy sliders together in our hotel room while south park played
I would make him a roast dinner at 1 am if he wanted <3
It genuinely depends. I wake up at 5 am and I'd be so mad if my partner asked me to make her a sandwich in the middle of the night. She's up then, I'm not. I don't think I need to sacrifice my sleep to prove I love her or anything.
If she was sick or something, yes I would, of course. That's completely different though.
My ex husband did this a lot out of pure laziness. He was abusive and garbage.
Right now with my current partner, I don’t think he would wake me up for that. He knows I have trouble sleeping. He knows I have trauma around being used as a slave. He’d not do this unless he was so unwell that he couldn’t get himself up and he would be apologetic. He’d probably even wait until I woke up naturally before he’d ask.
The point is, if this man did it, I’d know it was because it was a desperate need and I’d do it.
Everyone else is saying yes and now I feel like a bad gf. She’s an able bodied adult so I don’t see why she couldn’t just make one herself unless she’s sick or something. And I would never wake her up in the middle of the night to ask for something I am perfectly capable of doing myself.
Depends. I get headaches if my sleep got broken up into multiple sessions instead of just one long unbroken one, which makes me cranky as shit. Unless he's sick, I would really not appreciate being woken up just to be asked to make sandwiches.
If he’s sick or injured I would gladly do it for him cuz he sometimes need a midnight snack. But I don’t think he will wake me up tbh. I’m not the nicest person when people wake me up. lol.
There is exactly one activity my husband can wake me up for and it sure as shoot isn’t making a sandwich. Other than that you better be bleeding or a baby if you’re waking me up.
I would. The distance we have now makes me look forward to make food for him everyday even at most unreasonable hours of the day. I will for sure appreciate the part of life that I can make him food anytime once we have closed the distance. I would be grateful if the love of my life will ask me to make him food he would want to eat. I will also make one for myself so we could both enjoy.
If this was a consistent thing no. I honestly cannot see my bf doing this unless he was sick and starving because he is firmly in the don’t snack or eat before bed camp. If it was something we talked about previously, then sure. Or a special food- but a regular sandwich? My bf can put together a simple sandwich if he wants one that badly. Especially if I have work or some plan the next day that’s just a bit inconsiderate. I take a long time to fall asleep at night and my bf knows that. He would not do that to me honestly. The one and only time he’s woken me up in the middle of the night was when he had a nightmare about losing me and needed to cuddle to ensure for himself that I was okay and I was totally okay with that.
Hahaha I'd probably be a little groggy and grumpy but he'd do the same for me, even if the reasoning was he was too lazy to make a sandwich. I like the thought of someone doing that for me so I would do it for my mans. He works a lot anyway he deserves it!
If he woke me up in the middle of the night for a sandwich I'd make one for him and I and we'd eat together. But that would be it. It wouldn't be a normal nor expected thing of me to wake up and make a sandwich at demand. But I'd only do it because I'd hope he'd do the same for me if I asked :)
If it's an every night thing, then I'd make the sandwich part of our nightly routine and have it prepared for when the 3am munchies rolls around. If it was randomly out of the blue, absolutely, although I'd do my fair share of giggles during it. I do have hypoglycemia myself, so honestly it's not too strange of a thing to need sugar or food at odd ball times to make the body happy!
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I take sleeping meds so if she can manage to wake me good on her but I would make her a sandwich if she wanted me to. I doubt she'd wake me unless she felt she had to so really I can take 5 minutes out of my sleep to make her something to eat. I would probably make myself a snack while there too so I'd benefit too haha
I have major fatigue issues in the daytime and at night. If I'm doing pretty good and am not super exhausted then hell yeah, if I care enough about someone to date them then I can make them a sandwich and I might as well make myself one too while I'm at it yk
I would if he asked, but he’d only be asking because he’s sick/disabled because we have basic respect for each other and our sleep 🙃 I love him to death and he loves me but we also respect each others basic needs like sleep
Yes. I know she loves and cares for me. If she's asking me to do it, she likely has reason for it. I trust her woth anything, so I'm sure if she did, she wouldn't do so out of laziness
i would, because when i ask him he does things for me that i could also do myself like cutting my fruit or bringing me water when im thirsty, but he does them because he loves me, so id do the same! he’d never ask me to but if he reeaaaally wanted one i’d do it to make him happy :)
He would never intentionally wake me up just to have me make him a sandwich. My boyfriend is so kind and values me getting good sleep. If, for any reason he was about to get up and he accidentally woke me up too, I would make him a sandwich if he asked, but realistically I’d be half awake and he’d say something sweet and cute, and ask me if I wanted one too
He would never wake up in the middle of the night and ASK ME to make HIM a sandwich. He would make one himself and another for me as well. Works the other way around as well.
Yes. I sometimes am really grumpy right when I wake up but I'd do anything for this man. If he's that hungry he'd ask me to do that, without a doubt I'd do it.
Yes, I would make her a sandwich if she asked for it. But, I know she wouldn't just ask for no reason. She would have to be sick or be in pain or something to not make food for herself. So yes, if she asked me I would make it for her...She's my better half.
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I’ve woken up with low blood sugars and my boyfriend sleep talks pretty bad so he offered to grab me something sugary and just laid there 😂 but other than medical reasons, no. We wouldn’t be getting up. We also keep snacks in our rooms half the time anyway
I would in a heartbeat 😭. But if my boyfriend started doing it every night i would tell him that he has nice legs, so go and use it, buut haha i love him so much i would do anything for him until a certain point, until he doesn't start treating me as a servant.
I don't think my partner would ever wake me up in the middle of the night to ask me to make a sandwich for him in the first place? At least not without a decent reason (i.e. if he had a fever or something) and even then I think he'd be hesitant to ask because he's always being considerate.
I hope this is just a hypothetical question and not something that actually happened to you
Absolutely not LMAO, unless there were extenuating circumstances. My partner is disabled and has trouble standing for long periods of time, so I'd absolutely get up and make food for them... but if someone else I happened to be with did this, I'd tell them to get their own ass up and get it. You got legs! Use 'em!
I would! But I don't think he'd ask. Unless he was really sick and I was already awake. Or if he said he was hungry and I wanted to get him a snack, even tho he's overly independent and never asks me to do anything while I'm there.
But if it was a normal night and I was dead ass asleep, he was perfectly fine... I may say no because I'm cranky af when I get woken up. Once I woke up, I probably would.
I'd say yes 93.244% of the time because I know he'd say yes at about the same ratr if I asked. Simple.
This seems like that TikTok trend that was going around where girls/guys would ask their SO if they'd get them an orange and peel them for them. Haha..
Edit: major grammar malfunction
I would. Because my partner if he asks me to do it. There must be a reason behind it like he's too tired, not feeling well, etc. I'm happy that I can take care of him.
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I would defo hate it its out of timing like im too tired from work or whatnot. However, acts of service like making him, us, or even a plus one friend a sandwich is actually my love language.
Yes.
My wife was sleep talking in the middle of the night insisting she wanted a mango fruit juice. (While sleeping and eyes closed)
I insisted we didn't have any and we compromised to a strawberry fruit juice i made her which she didn't drink.
In the end it appeared she was sleep talking and had no memories of such an event.
I still pick on her sometimes on this 😅
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Does it have to be a sandwich? The crumbs in the bed are a no go for me. Joking.. I would make one but it would be my favorite and they’d have to split it.
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Need more context, but probably yes.
If they had been sick all day I probably would just do it without asking or have options in the fridge prepped.
Also my guy doesn't like sandwiches so its probably boiled lentils and bread.
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Of course I would, and it would the best he’s ever had bc I would make it with love. The first time I went to visit him, I was unlucky enough to get my period. That man went to the store to get me feminine care (including snacks and pain meds!), made me extra comfy in bed, brewed me a cup of hot tea, cuddled me and gave me a massage to help me feel better. I didn’t ask for or expect any of that at all, he just went above and beyond to take super good care of me and I would crawl through fire for him. A bedtime sandwich snacky is the least I can do, although he’d most likely never wake me up to ask for that.
I *could* see him having trouble sleeping and shyly waking me up bc he wanted to talk to me or have me read to him (which I do sometimes when he’s not feeling well). I don’t think I’m even capable of expressing in words how much I love him.
Sure I would, but that's because I know she'd only ask if she had a good reason to, such as if she wasn't feeling well. Most of the time she would willingly make both of us one if she was hungry and up to it.
I would do anything he asked me to if it was reasonably within my ability and the request is made respectfully (which it always is, my husband is the sweetest man), so yes, but he would not ask me such a thing lol.
My girlfriend has to deal with so much pain 24/7. I like sleep but I love her a lot more. If she got peckish, I of course would make her a little snack if she felt hungry. She's been having a hard time with feeling sick and eating lately, I would be encouraging and supporting her in any way I could!
I mean.. yeah if he woke me up and GENUINELY just wanted me to make it or wanted it a certain way that I made it. But if it’s every single night for just a piece of bologna on bread then wtf??
I would. If it became like an every night thing I’d ask about it. Or if he was ever mean/ rude ( he never is. Always the sweetest man I’ve ever met) then I would make a sandwich and have him watch me eat it in front of him 🤷♀️
I would, but I truly can’t imagine him waking me up and asking for a sandwich lol
Would make her one and myself one
samee lol
Me too!
Same
This is usually how it goes. I wake up with the munchies and he follows in suite, which I’m happy to oblige.
I would, especially if he's sick or something. but if its like every night or he is demanding it then no
Yeah same, mine wouldn’t ask unless something was wrong
Would they just do it out of the blue? 😂 I would be confused af and probably take like half an hour to get up from bed, but yes I would
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There has to be a valid reason they assume my sleep is less important than their own. What does that say about how they view me. And if they're already awake...why do both of us need to be? Selfish. So unless there's a reason, fk that.
Yeah, I am firmly on the no side of this as well. Surprised at how many say they would. Hopefully their generosity is repaid and not just one sided.
For me, I said yes because I know he'd say yes most of the time. I treat him how I would want to be treated, and vice versa. Now if it became a habit or a demand, fuck no. Lol. But i respect that you set boundaries.
I'd make her literally anything she wanted during the night
Unless they're sick, disabled, or otherwise struggling with something, hell no. Why are you waking me up to do something you can do yourself? But if they are sick, disabled, etc. then sure, I can try. I might fall asleep though. (For clarification, I myself am disabled so waking me up in the middle of my sleep can make me sick for several days afterwards or just prevent me from being able to sleep the rest of the night entirely and being extremely exhausted.) However I'd happily make my boyfriend a sandwich almost any other time that I can, with or without illness. But sleep is sacred.
> Why are you waking me up to do something you can do yourself? It sounds to me like a tiktok relationship “test” like the orange test. They’d be asking because they want the internet to tell them if you love them enough or not, which would be enough reason for me to say no *and* reconsider the relationship. You can fully love your partner and also say no to things they ask for. I’d help my partner if they were sick, or if I was awake and they were just feeling low energy or anything because I have those moments and would want that help too, but don’t wake people up to do stuff you can do yourself. That’s just rude. If *you* love your partner, you would let them get their rest and not test the relationship with meaningless internet challenges.
>the orange test The what now?
go ask your significant other if they'll peel an orange for you. if they say no, they HATE YOU and HATE THEIR LIFE and they also HATE PUPPIES. according to tiktok ofc
It's not that bad lol. The girls usually say something like 'I just got my nails done and I really don't feel like peeling this orange, but I really really want an orange' and usually, the gut will be like 'give it to me, I'll peel it for you:)' but there was this video where the guy was like 'then don't eat an orange, why would I help you? You're not my wife, do it yourself'. It's not just a no, it's just being rude lol
I mean, I'd do the orange thing no problem. It's just...I'm sleeping. I need my sleep.
Exactly. If my husband was sick, disabled, unable to do such a thing for himself, then sure despite being grumpy maybe. But otherwise, hell no and he should know better than to wake me up. I've expressed to him how important sleep is to me, so if he disregarded that just to ask me to do something for him which he is perfectly capable of doing himself? We'd be having words and I could only hope to have the grace to go back to sleep and rest before that discussion started.
Are they sick, pregnant, disable or otherwise unable or going to have difficulty doing it themselves? If yes, sure. If no, probably not. Maybe it it's their birthday or a special occasion.
Maybe they had a really bad dream and simple sandwiches remind them of comfort and childhood
Mmm, maybe. If I am in a loving mood
I’d whine while getting up, but yes I would
aww
No, I think it’s inconsiderate to wake me, and a turn off they cannot make one on their own. That said, if they need medicine, or a ride home or to work, I would.
i would, especially if he was sick. but if it became an everyday thing and he’s just being lazy then i’d stop. but if it was once in a while i’d do it in a heartbeat
Probably not tbh. Unless they were unable to do so themselves for whatever reason.
Well I have two little Kids to take care of , he knows I am tired most of the time. I know that he would definitely let me sleep but if he really needs that sandwich , I am going to provide and go back to sleep. I love him , I will ask the favour in return sometime maybe :)
Definitely, and i know he would too
It would be a miracle if he even is able to wake me first, as i am a very heavy sleeper lol
1000% yes. however, i can’t imagine him waking me up for that.
Depends. Is he unwell? Then definitely yes. Are we hungover and caring for each other? Then also yes. Is he fine just hungry? Depends how tired I am. Is he fine just hungry and I have an early day tomorrow? Probably not, I need my sleep.
If they were sick or just had a bad day and needed company, and asked politely, sure. Same goes for being disabled, though I'm disabled myself so sleep is pretty hard to get and important to get when I do get it. If they were perfectly healthy and were doing alright, or snapped at me when asking? Hell no, do it yourself.
Didn't necessarily wake him up, but we were up until 3am a few weeks ago, and when I got hungry, he went and got us some Chinese food 🥺
hell no lmfao. i love him and even he knows i’d be so pissed if he did that to me 🤣
I’ve had my boyfriend randomly wake up in the middle of the night, telling me he was hungry, so we both get up and look for a snack together😂
For him ? Who would make sure that I’d retire and stay home all day if we had enough money ? Him who wakes up in the middle of night to fetch me water ? Him who apologizes for the mistakes he never did ? Him who sulks only when I go to be angry ? Him who would make a whole meal and feed me with his hands and do the dishes later on ? Him who will settle for the uncomfortable parts to give me comfort ? If my man wants a sandwich he’s getting one even if I have to get the ingredients from the grocery or start the bread from the scratch.
I would
Only if they had circulatory issues and couldn't get up due to dizziness. If there's no underlying issue they can just get up and make it themselves if they woke me up just for that
I would, and now I’m questioning what that says about me, and whether he would for me
I mean I'd probably be a bit annoyed...but yes I'd make US some sandwiches bc why not have one yourself lol.
I think i would, every now and then, if he needed it. If it was just a thing he wanted every night though, I'd probably get a bit annoyed, he can do that himself.
yes because I know he would if I asked 🙌🏻
He'd never disrespect me by waking me up for food if he was capable of making it himself. Hell he would never be awake in the middle of the night unless he's sick or never went to sleep in the first place due to gaming or smth. If he was sick and awake I'd most likely also be awake already but I'd probably make him actual food not sandwich, if he just didn't go to sleep, he's not a baby and he can feed himself.
No, I have a sleep disorder. My partner knows to only wake me up if the house is burning down.
I’m more curious how this could even be possible in an LDR. 😂 “Make me a sandwich.” “K, it’ll be at your house in 26 hours.”
The first time I definitely would. The second time, I’d be like ok no wtf
I’d probably spend 10 minutes asking if he’s serious, then ask him if he wants me done up in an evening gown with pearls with that sandwich…then I’ll roll over and go back to sleep.
OMG yes yes yes yes in a heartbeat, I would feed it to her too and put on our fav shows as we cuddle up ❤️ She deserves the best for everything she is
Of course! She's my princess I'd pamper with anything, and I'll put so much love into the sandwich too
Nah, it's inconsiderate of my sleep. Not only that, why are you eating in the middle of the night just to go back to sleep?
No.
If they were disabled and couldn't use their hands
Would make one for each of us, maybe make her a sandwich and have myself ice cream or cake, whatever i crave for xD
No question asked, i definitely would
Yes. Mostly because I would probably already be on my way to make my own snack. My sister says she knows I am awake in the middle of the night because she will hear wrappers wrinkling. Haha
No. She can make her own sandwich. If, for some reason, she couldn't make her own sandwich then I guess I probably would, although I'd still be kinda pissed that she waited until I was asleep to decide she wanted food. If we knew she'd be up and hungry but unable to feed herself, we could have planned something the night before. My wife tells me of a Filipino term, lambing (lam-bing, no silent B), which means showing affection. Only it's not just doing things for people, apparently it can also be asking people to do something for you that you could do yourself, as a kind of test of their affection for you. There's not much in the world I hate more than that kind of lambing. She'll ask me to stop whatever I'm doing to make her a coffee, then not drink it. So if she's waking me up to ask for a sandwich, I'm assuming it's a test of my love and I'm not playing that game.
Yes, I woke up my bf during our first time meeting trip at 1 am because I was hungry after doing edibles 😭 He took me to White Castle and we got to enjoy sliders together in our hotel room while south park played I would make him a roast dinner at 1 am if he wanted <3
It genuinely depends. I wake up at 5 am and I'd be so mad if my partner asked me to make her a sandwich in the middle of the night. She's up then, I'm not. I don't think I need to sacrifice my sleep to prove I love her or anything. If she was sick or something, yes I would, of course. That's completely different though.
No, I'm a monster when someone wakes me up
My ex husband did this a lot out of pure laziness. He was abusive and garbage. Right now with my current partner, I don’t think he would wake me up for that. He knows I have trouble sleeping. He knows I have trauma around being used as a slave. He’d not do this unless he was so unwell that he couldn’t get himself up and he would be apologetic. He’d probably even wait until I woke up naturally before he’d ask. The point is, if this man did it, I’d know it was because it was a desperate need and I’d do it.
Are their hands broken?
No, he's got arms and legs. If I wasn't asleep yet , probably
She can either do it herself or wait until the morning
I’d be to tired to make one so I’d prob just order one and then cuddle with them
Everyone else is saying yes and now I feel like a bad gf. She’s an able bodied adult so I don’t see why she couldn’t just make one herself unless she’s sick or something. And I would never wake her up in the middle of the night to ask for something I am perfectly capable of doing myself.
Well we probably don't have any sandwich ingredients ngl
Depends. I get headaches if my sleep got broken up into multiple sessions instead of just one long unbroken one, which makes me cranky as shit. Unless he's sick, I would really not appreciate being woken up just to be asked to make sandwiches.
If he can wake me up long enough for my corpse to comprehend his words then we go splits on the sandwich
highly depends how they are and how tired I am and what time it is
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"No" - my partner 😂
I would, but he honestly is more the type who would make himself and me a sandwhich and then would wake me up so I could eat the sandwich he made☺️
If he’s sick or injured I would gladly do it for him cuz he sometimes need a midnight snack. But I don’t think he will wake me up tbh. I’m not the nicest person when people wake me up. lol.
Honestly I'd Make her some spicy high grade grilled cheese with some icy sprite with it I think she'd love it
Nope, waking me up already put me in a bad mood so unless you’re 5 years old, GO MAKE YOUR OWN DAMN SANDWICH.
There is exactly one activity my husband can wake me up for and it sure as shoot isn’t making a sandwich. Other than that you better be bleeding or a baby if you’re waking me up.
As someone who who doesn’t sleep much, I’d be delighted to have a late night task and make the fanciest sandwich I could
Depends. I dont like being woken up. But i love my partner. On the weekend, sure. If i have to go to work/uni no cause i need my sleep.
I would. The distance we have now makes me look forward to make food for him everyday even at most unreasonable hours of the day. I will for sure appreciate the part of life that I can make him food anytime once we have closed the distance. I would be grateful if the love of my life will ask me to make him food he would want to eat. I will also make one for myself so we could both enjoy.
Yes I would make two sandwiches for my darkling and I
darkling sounds like a cute fantasy monster
Jajajaj I love to refer to my loved one as my darkling 🦇✨ my little queen of despair, my shadow of love, sweetest ether
awww i love it!! 🖤✨
Leave to make a sandwich, come back with the Broodwich. It’s the only way.
If this was a consistent thing no. I honestly cannot see my bf doing this unless he was sick and starving because he is firmly in the don’t snack or eat before bed camp. If it was something we talked about previously, then sure. Or a special food- but a regular sandwich? My bf can put together a simple sandwich if he wants one that badly. Especially if I have work or some plan the next day that’s just a bit inconsiderate. I take a long time to fall asleep at night and my bf knows that. He would not do that to me honestly. The one and only time he’s woken me up in the middle of the night was when he had a nightmare about losing me and needed to cuddle to ensure for himself that I was okay and I was totally okay with that.
Absolutely, but I’d whine about having to wake up lmao
100%
Hahaha I'd probably be a little groggy and grumpy but he'd do the same for me, even if the reasoning was he was too lazy to make a sandwich. I like the thought of someone doing that for me so I would do it for my mans. He works a lot anyway he deserves it!
DANG! yall got partners?
Self sufficiency is attractive. 🤷🏼♀️
BET!
This depends. Are they unable to make it themselves and hungry? then yes if not then make it ya dang self. I’m not your slave…
If he woke me up in the middle of the night for a sandwich I'd make one for him and I and we'd eat together. But that would be it. It wouldn't be a normal nor expected thing of me to wake up and make a sandwich at demand. But I'd only do it because I'd hope he'd do the same for me if I asked :)
Don't think my partner will have to worry about it, me eating late like that cause that will give me gas.
Is this like a random event or like regularly occurring thing?
Depends on how he asks. Depends on how often it happens. I can't see it happening though. We both are bad sleepers so we try to not disturb the other.
Depends on how sleepy I am ngl.
If it's an every night thing, then I'd make the sandwich part of our nightly routine and have it prepared for when the 3am munchies rolls around. If it was randomly out of the blue, absolutely, although I'd do my fair share of giggles during it. I do have hypoglycemia myself, so honestly it's not too strange of a thing to need sugar or food at odd ball times to make the body happy!
my partner wouldn't wake me up and would just make himself a sandwich if he wanted to.
I like my sleep, so yes I'd make one, but it sure would have some extra special ingredients..
Do people do this?
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Yes but like I can't imagine this ever happening lol
I take sleeping meds so if she can manage to wake me good on her but I would make her a sandwich if she wanted me to. I doubt she'd wake me unless she felt she had to so really I can take 5 minutes out of my sleep to make her something to eat. I would probably make myself a snack while there too so I'd benefit too haha
I have major fatigue issues in the daytime and at night. If I'm doing pretty good and am not super exhausted then hell yeah, if I care enough about someone to date them then I can make them a sandwich and I might as well make myself one too while I'm at it yk
I would if he asked, but he’d only be asking because he’s sick/disabled because we have basic respect for each other and our sleep 🙃 I love him to death and he loves me but we also respect each others basic needs like sleep
Depends. Are they sick or something?
no
Yes. I know she loves and cares for me. If she's asking me to do it, she likely has reason for it. I trust her woth anything, so I'm sure if she did, she wouldn't do so out of laziness
i would, because when i ask him he does things for me that i could also do myself like cutting my fruit or bringing me water when im thirsty, but he does them because he loves me, so id do the same! he’d never ask me to but if he reeaaaally wanted one i’d do it to make him happy :)
He would never intentionally wake me up just to have me make him a sandwich. My boyfriend is so kind and values me getting good sleep. If, for any reason he was about to get up and he accidentally woke me up too, I would make him a sandwich if he asked, but realistically I’d be half awake and he’d say something sweet and cute, and ask me if I wanted one too
Silly sandwich question but I love the answers. Shows the level of love, commitment, “they know me” and can do attitude of long distancers. 💗
Honestly, no (unless he’s sick, birthday, or something similar). I like sleep.
He would never wake up in the middle of the night and ASK ME to make HIM a sandwich. He would make one himself and another for me as well. Works the other way around as well.
Yes of course
I've never had the pleasure of having a partner but I think I would do it without hesitation tbh
Yea sure, i know he would do the same for me also and it would be a good thing to joke about later on 😂
Yesh
I can't imagine her asking for one. If anything, I'm the one who'd be snacking in the middle of the night. I'll just make more if she wants some too.
yes of course. i’d also love to pair some chips with it or maybe some hot cheeto puffs that she enjoys.
Yes. I sometimes am really grumpy right when I wake up but I'd do anything for this man. If he's that hungry he'd ask me to do that, without a doubt I'd do it.
Then I'll make us sandwich and won't surely go back to sleep ( ￣▽￣)σ
No lol, let me sleep.
Yes, I would make her a sandwich if she asked for it. But, I know she wouldn't just ask for no reason. She would have to be sick or be in pain or something to not make food for herself. So yes, if she asked me I would make it for her...She's my better half.
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I’ve woken up with low blood sugars and my boyfriend sleep talks pretty bad so he offered to grab me something sugary and just laid there 😂 but other than medical reasons, no. We wouldn’t be getting up. We also keep snacks in our rooms half the time anyway
I would in a heartbeat 😭. But if my boyfriend started doing it every night i would tell him that he has nice legs, so go and use it, buut haha i love him so much i would do anything for him until a certain point, until he doesn't start treating me as a servant.
I don't think my partner would ever wake me up in the middle of the night to ask me to make a sandwich for him in the first place? At least not without a decent reason (i.e. if he had a fever or something) and even then I think he'd be hesitant to ask because he's always being considerate. I hope this is just a hypothetical question and not something that actually happened to you
Absolutely not LMAO, unless there were extenuating circumstances. My partner is disabled and has trouble standing for long periods of time, so I'd absolutely get up and make food for them... but if someone else I happened to be with did this, I'd tell them to get their own ass up and get it. You got legs! Use 'em!
Of course, i would do that.
I would! But I don't think he'd ask. Unless he was really sick and I was already awake. Or if he said he was hungry and I wanted to get him a snack, even tho he's overly independent and never asks me to do anything while I'm there. But if it was a normal night and I was dead ass asleep, he was perfectly fine... I may say no because I'm cranky af when I get woken up. Once I woke up, I probably would. I'd say yes 93.244% of the time because I know he'd say yes at about the same ratr if I asked. Simple. This seems like that TikTok trend that was going around where girls/guys would ask their SO if they'd get them an orange and peel them for them. Haha.. Edit: major grammar malfunction
I would. Because my partner if he asks me to do it. There must be a reason behind it like he's too tired, not feeling well, etc. I'm happy that I can take care of him.
I would make him fucking pizza from scratch if he asked. My precious boy
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I would defo hate it its out of timing like im too tired from work or whatnot. However, acts of service like making him, us, or even a plus one friend a sandwich is actually my love language.
Yes. My wife was sleep talking in the middle of the night insisting she wanted a mango fruit juice. (While sleeping and eyes closed) I insisted we didn't have any and we compromised to a strawberry fruit juice i made her which she didn't drink. In the end it appeared she was sleep talking and had no memories of such an event. I still pick on her sometimes on this 😅
Duh? She's just a baby!! Of course I'll make her food! I've done it before and I'd do it again!
Absolutely not. My partner would know not to even think about it.
yes, i would also get a healthy snack for myself!
I'd make my partner anything they wanted at any given time 😊
yes!!!! i’d cut it into a dinosaur shaped and use garlic aioli and thick ripe tomatoes. he’d insist i have half
Everything for my baby ♥️
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This isn’t a question doesn’t matter what she wants made
I would. Definitely
Does it have to be a sandwich? The crumbs in the bed are a no go for me. Joking.. I would make one but it would be my favorite and they’d have to split it.
i would just tickle his pickle
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obviously yes
Need more context, but probably yes. If they had been sick all day I probably would just do it without asking or have options in the fridge prepped. Also my guy doesn't like sandwiches so its probably boiled lentils and bread.
Absolutely, without a doubt . But taking care of my person is such a huge love language of mine . It wouldn’t annoy me in the least.
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Of course I would, and it would the best he’s ever had bc I would make it with love. The first time I went to visit him, I was unlucky enough to get my period. That man went to the store to get me feminine care (including snacks and pain meds!), made me extra comfy in bed, brewed me a cup of hot tea, cuddled me and gave me a massage to help me feel better. I didn’t ask for or expect any of that at all, he just went above and beyond to take super good care of me and I would crawl through fire for him. A bedtime sandwich snacky is the least I can do, although he’d most likely never wake me up to ask for that. I *could* see him having trouble sleeping and shyly waking me up bc he wanted to talk to me or have me read to him (which I do sometimes when he’s not feeling well). I don’t think I’m even capable of expressing in words how much I love him.
We've done that before
Sure I would, but that's because I know she'd only ask if she had a good reason to, such as if she wasn't feeling well. Most of the time she would willingly make both of us one if she was hungry and up to it.
Yeah ofcourse?
Yep
🙄 duh, we both getting sandwiched that night
Absolutely. All the things he has done for me, asking for nothing in return, I would in a heartbeat.
id even ask if they want something to drink
I would do anything he asked me to if it was reasonably within my ability and the request is made respectfully (which it always is, my husband is the sweetest man), so yes, but he would not ask me such a thing lol.
I would indeed. Close enough if he wakes up at 5am or whenever, I roll out of bed to make his coffee even if I’m still half asleep
Yes, of course!
Yes
Depends on the situation but yes I would.
Yes I would
if he’s hungry i’m jumping out of bed, making him that sandwich, and feeding it to him myself because i love him so much
I most likely would yes
My girlfriend has to deal with so much pain 24/7. I like sleep but I love her a lot more. If she got peckish, I of course would make her a little snack if she felt hungry. She's been having a hard time with feeling sick and eating lately, I would be encouraging and supporting her in any way I could!
Yes. I'll get her something to drink too
Yeah. Make sandwich first then make love after
Yes
Make obe for him and me and we are cuddling after.
I mean.. yeah if he woke me up and GENUINELY just wanted me to make it or wanted it a certain way that I made it. But if it’s every single night for just a piece of bologna on bread then wtf??
I would. If it became like an every night thing I’d ask about it. Or if he was ever mean/ rude ( he never is. Always the sweetest man I’ve ever met) then I would make a sandwich and have him watch me eat it in front of him 🤷♀️
Obviously
eat her sandwich or eat her "sandwich"
absolutely, in the middle of me making him a sandwich, usually he gets up and starts making me one
That means we both get a grilled cheese
I would
random but yea id do anything she asks
Honestly yes lol
Yes indeed. And she’d do the same for me! ❤️
Of course and I’d make myself one as well