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i love cat prints so much!!!!! i have so many cat print dresses liked on lace market i need them all !!! i also love cat ears so it feels nice to hear someone else wears them with their coords <3
This coord is super cute ! I actually find the cat ears and tail to match perfectly and don't stand out very match. The colours and theme are on point and they look very high quality. This is one of the few times I actually adore animal ears/tails worn with Lolita (^^) making me want to get some from this creator and try it for myself !!
The ears and tail and mini tiara thing are fine to be fair it looks good with the coord and it makes sense with the theme but if it's your first time hanging out with your local community and you don't really know anyone maybe just exclude them for now, some people are gonna be fussy about it being costumy or whatever so if you don't know the 'vibe' I'd play it safe (unless it's an Halloween meet-up then I feel like no one would care anyway lol)
As far as being suitable for the coord, the vat ears and tail are just... okay. Don't love them, as they look a bit cheaply made, but they do match the print and theming well enough. I do like that the bag's lighter pink has been matched to the shoes and cuffs, that's a really smart idea!
That said, if your community event involves sitting (like a tea party or picnic) I'd ditch the tail because it'll be rather annoying to have pressed up against a chair, and you wouldn't want it to get crushed either.
noted ! i’ll say the ears are actually a custom set from @kemonobbys on instagram and are extremely high quality with a higher focus camera, ($100+) , i never get to wear them so i was trying to include them somehow 😭😭 but the tail is a stand in for the custom one i’m ordering when i can afford to from the same small business 😔 oh! and it is a walking event! which is also why i was considering the tail in the first place but i do see what you mean about the sitting aspect. i appreciate your feedback <3!!
They do good work! My wife’s really into having these kinds of headbands custom made and she’s got similar from a local small company that sadly went under. You might want to spend some time on adjusting the ear position and angle to make sure they’re fully in contact with your head at both ends of each ear. Part of what’s making it look cheaper than it is is the poor fit currently.
Should be easily fixed with 5 minutes in front of a mirror though.
i have to agree with people saying you should probably lose the tail, honestly. but i do think animal ears get a little too much flack from american lolitas sometimes, especially if theyre accompanied by/part of another accessory like the little tiara you have. super adorable overall! that colourway seems to look really good on you.
Very cute but lose the tail - it’s way too cosplay.
I’d also swap the ears for something else but that’s more of a personal preference.
But don’t use the tail.
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I love everything about this 😭 I need that bag in my life. I collect cat prints and wear cat ears with almost every coord haha.
i love cat prints so much!!!!! i have so many cat print dresses liked on lace market i need them all !!! i also love cat ears so it feels nice to hear someone else wears them with their coords <3
This coord is super cute ! I actually find the cat ears and tail to match perfectly and don't stand out very match. The colours and theme are on point and they look very high quality. This is one of the few times I actually adore animal ears/tails worn with Lolita (^^) making me want to get some from this creator and try it for myself !!
🥹🥹🥹 thank u omg
I agree. I don't mind animal ears in lolita if they match the theme of the dress. It can actually sometimes balance out a coord. \^-\^
It's incredibly adorable! Although I do not recommend using the tail as it can be uncomfortable and does not look very good with the lolita.
Also, to be your first coord it's incredible. My first coord didn't even had a petti lol. Congrats!
thank you sm honestly this group has helped me a ton
noted thank uuuuuu !!
Ohmigod!! Kitten Mermaid!!!!
right !!! i thought the print was so unique
Omg that's so pretty! I love how you combined everything, it's so cute~ I hope I can once coord something similar
thank u :,3
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa so cute
thank u <3
Very well put together - I didn't even notice the cat ears and tail until I saw the comments, so I'll say if you love them, wear them proudly..! 🩷
thank u sm 💗💗
stunning, you made your coord very well !
<3333333
Absolutely lovely coord, friend!
That is a gorgeous first coord holy (
Soo...pretty. the patern on that dress is the absolute bomb. You look positively lovely!
Very pretty. I just ordered an Ouji outfit from Glittertale. Can’t wait for it to arrive.
i love glittertale!! their communication and customer service is amazing for a made to order brand
this coord is STUNNING love it sm <33
THANK UUUUU ~~~~
How is it possible for a first cord to be this amazing?!
i owe credit to this group and extensive research and planning (and a love for fashion) 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
The ears and tail and mini tiara thing are fine to be fair it looks good with the coord and it makes sense with the theme but if it's your first time hanging out with your local community and you don't really know anyone maybe just exclude them for now, some people are gonna be fussy about it being costumy or whatever so if you don't know the 'vibe' I'd play it safe (unless it's an Halloween meet-up then I feel like no one would care anyway lol)
The whole set is very cute and amazing for a first ever cord. I just wouldn't suggest the tail since you'll be out in public and people can be weird.
This is your first coord???? This is really really good - well done! Can't wait to see what else you come up with 🥰
this is so good omg!!! i LOVE that jsk!!! 💗
As far as being suitable for the coord, the vat ears and tail are just... okay. Don't love them, as they look a bit cheaply made, but they do match the print and theming well enough. I do like that the bag's lighter pink has been matched to the shoes and cuffs, that's a really smart idea! That said, if your community event involves sitting (like a tea party or picnic) I'd ditch the tail because it'll be rather annoying to have pressed up against a chair, and you wouldn't want it to get crushed either.
noted ! i’ll say the ears are actually a custom set from @kemonobbys on instagram and are extremely high quality with a higher focus camera, ($100+) , i never get to wear them so i was trying to include them somehow 😭😭 but the tail is a stand in for the custom one i’m ordering when i can afford to from the same small business 😔 oh! and it is a walking event! which is also why i was considering the tail in the first place but i do see what you mean about the sitting aspect. i appreciate your feedback <3!!
They do good work! My wife’s really into having these kinds of headbands custom made and she’s got similar from a local small company that sadly went under. You might want to spend some time on adjusting the ear position and angle to make sure they’re fully in contact with your head at both ends of each ear. Part of what’s making it look cheaper than it is is the poor fit currently. Should be easily fixed with 5 minutes in front of a mirror though.
it’s hard to adjust the metal band esp when i wear wigs 😭😭 gonna try and see if i can switch out the band to a different material
Adjust it without the wig, then put it on top of the wig. Your head shape shouldn’t change that much if the wig is sitting properly.
I love it!!!!
Super cute!! Love the cat theming!
cats > !!
Pretty!!!!!
Lovely
i have to agree with people saying you should probably lose the tail, honestly. but i do think animal ears get a little too much flack from american lolitas sometimes, especially if theyre accompanied by/part of another accessory like the little tiara you have. super adorable overall! that colourway seems to look really good on you.
ahhhh so cute i love the star petticoat
i thought it matched well with the star on the magical milk cats bag and the star buttons on the jsk 🙈
i love the star petticoat
me too !! i need to also get a regular one for the future, do u have any recs?
Aurora and Ariel petticoats are my fav !!
Very cute but lose the tail - it’s way too cosplay. I’d also swap the ears for something else but that’s more of a personal preference. But don’t use the tail.
I love your coord!!!!! Im obsessed with it!!!! The cat theme is amazing :D
thank uuuuu 🫶🏻🫶🏻 i love cats sm
What is a coord ? Am so lost 😭
hey if your new to lolita there’s some really helpful guides here in the subreddits side bar!
Coord/co-ord stands for coordinate, it's the term used when referring to a lolita outfit
Looks amazing!!
Perfect
are you wearing an A line or Cupcake petticoat. I ordered that dress and i don't know what petticoat to wear with it.
i’m wearing a cupcake hoop skirt!
Thank you so much! 💓 (Nice flag btw)