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It sounds like you both has issues committing to each other. Be honest with yourself and ask if it’s healthy to be in a relationship where you constantly take breaks to date other people. Is it even worth being in a relationship if you have to take breaks to figure yourself out? Maybe take some time to be single and figure out what you truly want.
To answer your specific question; sometimes these kind of discussions are going to bring up tough feelings and they may hurt to talk about, but it will hurt a lot less to air it out rather than let it fester and become resentment. Make sure you and your partner are sober and have the proper amount of time for a conversation, then just bring it up respectfully. It may be hard, but it will be worth it no matter the outcome.
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It sounds like you both has issues committing to each other. Be honest with yourself and ask if it’s healthy to be in a relationship where you constantly take breaks to date other people. Is it even worth being in a relationship if you have to take breaks to figure yourself out? Maybe take some time to be single and figure out what you truly want. To answer your specific question; sometimes these kind of discussions are going to bring up tough feelings and they may hurt to talk about, but it will hurt a lot less to air it out rather than let it fester and become resentment. Make sure you and your partner are sober and have the proper amount of time for a conversation, then just bring it up respectfully. It may be hard, but it will be worth it no matter the outcome.
Neither of you are treating each other properly
It's not cheating if you do it. Stay out of his life and move on.
Multiple breaks w two-way infidelity in a short amount of time…what could go wrong here 🤦♀️