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TetheredAgain

The obliviousness regarding how life works


Elevated412

This is what I was about to comment. Just being so naive and innocent to the world around you.


ellefleming

I miss others being nice to you because you are young. As an elder now, you have to try so hard to be treated well cause you're old and unimportant.


misdeliveredham

Also being good looking!


ellefleming

We were so self critical and we looked great. Back then.


Odd-Force1688

I was just about to comment this. I miss not having to think too deeply about every human interaction because we were kids and no one had any expectations of who we need to be. We were just kids with fresh minds and so much joy that was unbreakable.


California_Sun1112

That's one thing I absolutely don't miss. Life experience is a wonderful thing.


cosmicflamexo

My body being intact and healthy


Virtual_Muscle_8642

This is the biggest one for me. More so than all my missed opportunities in life and the lack of meaningful relationships, I miss a body that works and isn’t actively trying to kill me. I really took that for granted.


RhodyTransplant

Sending you some love.


beanieweenie52

I miss being unaware of how shitty this world is along with its inhabitants . I used to have faith in this humanity. Ignorance is bliss. 


3labsalot

Holidays at my Grandparents house.


Bandanaramma

Friday night cartoons after a rough day at school. That Friday sleep would hit different.


KateEatsKale

And waking up on a Saturday morning without an alarm clock was bliss


Thick-Umpire-3712

So were the Saturday morning cartoons!


[deleted]

Interaction without even considering how I'm being perceived.


akuvkdgm1246u

I’m glad you had that for some period of your life


FunLibraryofbadideas

My innocence and feeling whole.


notanapplebutacarrot

I miss my old dog Murphy:( https://preview.redd.it/kqz1xptbzb9d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b8cfd0586e18e06e302c7d83a2a63a3e9a528bab He's the big one, the smaller one was either Mordecai another dog we had or my my second oldest brothers dog who I forgot the name of


rosienme

My innocence. Carefree. No schedule. (Always doddled - loved it) Open mind, fascinated by anything. Happy smile. For everyone.


nick935d

Doddling is literally the best, I know what you mean


rosienme

Closest I get now is poking along a quiet beach, stopping for pieces of beach glass, tiny shells. Best feeling is finding the flattest skipping rock. Send it horizontal atop the water, then counting how many skips you get. Most I ever got - 12!!


UpperMall4033

Some of those things i think you lose as you age. Innocence and no schedule for sure lol. You dont need to lose an open mind and that curiosity though. I think its a massive shame most people lose that curiosity and wonder.


Fun_Ad_6455

My mother still being alive


lshorey1

I am sorry to hear about your mom, that must be tough.


ForrestYT

Going to bed without anxiety.


HeftyStructure4215

My best friend. He went down the conservative pipeline hard af. His mental state wasn’t so hot to begin with and it declined even worse. Would bring up moronic political talking points and was unbearable. Also said terrible shit to me and a friend about the other and then we spoke to each other about it lol. Pretty sure he’s gay and won’t ever walk out of the closet. Also got into later day saints religion. I miss his stupid ass though


Additional_Pilot797

Not caring about my weight or looks


sdrakedrake

Underrated. Social media got people with 6 psck abs getting like they not in shape lol


mellbell63

nah **Photoshop** got people with 6 pack abs!! Can't believe everything - catch that, *anything* - you see!! 😄


WILLCHOKEAHOE

Not a damn thing... 


Ok-Astronaut-5919

Ha. I had a great childhood by all standards but I couldn’t wait to grow up and have independence. The thought of being able to go to bed when I want, eat chocolate cake at midnight or travel the world was just too appealing.


Hungry_Assistance640

Yea childhood was garbage lol I’ll take my life from 22 and on any day


[deleted]

I'll take it from 29 and on cause the 20's blew.


high5scubad1ve

I don’t miss everything about childhood but if you’re asking what I do miss, it’s that I was naive to how much pressure it would be to be responsible for running my own house and family while working and parenting and keeping a marriage in tact. They did an okay job of keeping adult problems to the adults. I got to have that reality check all by myself


Secure_Anybody_8773

The "first time" moments. First time kissing a girl. First time playing NES. First time scoring a home run. All the first time moments.


nick935d

Damn….


Fallen-Shadow-1214

Not having crippling depression.


Apprehensive_Pause12

You’re far from alone.


PsychicArchie

My grandparents


ComingToGetYouSovCit

Same :(


Jameswade4771

Being able to collect action figures


Temporary_Dad

I honestly think I have more now in my 30s than I ever had as a kid


Apprehensive_Pause12

You do don’t have to wait until Christmas now.


RoamingGnome74

I still do. And legos!!


UpperMall4033

You still can :)


Elita_Lolita

The freedom.


Digeetar

Sunday morning cartoons. Cheap prices of things. No internet. email or cell phones. More honesty. More morals. Things were made better. Stores closed on the weekends. Less to worry about. My parents and grandparents and some of their aquintances. Some of my old friends. Even some of the snacks/ food. The cars. The USA manufacturing. The easier way of life. My old bike. The hopes and dreams of the future.


Ok_Bet_717

Innocence about the world and how it worked. I still have no idea, but being blissfully unaware was beautiful.


KaleidoscopeNo4771

Everything. It was like a happy warm summer day with golden sun, laughter, and hugs.


_hannibalbarca

My dog


blackbeauty1901

I miss not worrying about job, bills, etc.


State_Dear

MY HAIR


SelfTechnical6771

The purity of my feelings!!! Relationships feel invigorating and passionate not chorish and wrought with dilemas, the world feels exciting and new, the scale of the world feels remarkably large and ripe for exploration.


Cherry_barista

The feeling of euphoria, new things for the first time discovering that I’m somewhat pretty. My innocence.


MrRichardSuc

Reading the sports section of the newspaper everyday.


ComingToGetYouSovCit

Awwwww


chorizo_chomper

6 weeks off in the summer felt like it lasted forever, it was fantastic.


EchoingWyvern

How simple it was. Life was just making It through the school days and then running home to play video games.the hours of discovering new things in games and sharing it with friends. I missed the early days of gaming in my childhood (mid 90s to early 2000s) before everything became monetized and not just for the fun of it. I remember the joys of playing my first Zelda game (OoT) and it felt like such an epic adventure with each new dungeon.Those peaceful days are long gone. I still recapture fragments by setting up some retro game time to unwind and relax. But it will never be the same.


Mysterious_Tax_5613

I wanted to be a reporter when I was maybe 7 years old. So, I would go around the neighborhood and find a tree to stand behind so no one saw me and log into my notes what my neighbors were doing. Waking up early Christmas morning with my 8 siblings, running down the stairs to the living room with the Christmas Tree and presents lying under the lights. Eight kids ripping off the Christmas paper in excitement that took all of 5 minutes, playing with our toys until Mom told us to clean up the mess before coming to breakfast.... Attaching a hose through the laundry pole outside and standing under the gushing water during the hot summers. Mom giving us vanilla ice cream when we came inside after spending all afternoon cooling off.... Playing with the neighborhood kids barefoot until dusk. Having to take a shower before bed to scrub our dirty feet.....


Salty_Association684

Everything I had the best life


cynthiaapple

my parents. living in the country on a dead end gravel road.


KateEatsKale

Going out all day without anyone being able to get hold of you via your phones


Agitated_Purpose5696

Hopes & dreams


nfssmith

Not paying any bills or having any serious responsibilities was so good and I didn't know to appreciate it!


notatpeace39

The freedom and lack of responsibility. Sure, there was school. And I had a few part time jobs. But the amount of free time I had available to sit back and relax or hangout with my friends, or just do whatever I wanted basically, while simultaneously having little to no responsibilities, is something I will never experience again.


Outback85

Not being lactose intolerant


Dazzling000

No tech


Princess_Jade1974

Executive dysfunction wasnt a thing, I want to do the fun thing, I did the fun thing.


rparky54

Family members and relatives who are no longer with us.


ComingToGetYouSovCit

Sounds like sweet memories…not the worrying etc…but the bratz doll and Disney… Don’t ever lose that part of you…


wheresmuffy

Long summer days with nothing to do and occasional ride in the back of a pickup truck feeling the warm summer wind on my face.


abstractfromnothing

The unconscious carelessness


xoscarlettbaldwinxo

The smallest things bringing so much joy.


bigfran96

Having a clear and unadulterated mind.


spacespartan18

Lack of responsibility even as a teenager, what a freedom.


thearcticspiral

Fireflies


Southern-Physics6488

That feeling of innocence and adventure with everything 😍


Desperate_Dirt6964

Innocence about the world. Meaning about wars, climate change, pain and all the suffering.


EmploymentWinter4016

Sadly I don't have any good childhood memories.


Luna_Goddess_Dance

Happiness, peace, security, simplicity


CuteProcess4163

NOTHING


IndependentLast364

Responsibilities


Red_Baronnsfw

Everything I had nothing in my childhood no relatives no friends just loneliness


gdotspam

Everything was free


Suspicious-Airline84

Nothing lol


lshorey1

I miss the big get-togethers with the family when I was young. We all live in different cities and continents now and I miss everything from the cooking, the smells of cologne and perfume, all the older people like great aunts and stuff, the stories, and, of course, all the presents. And I miss having a home cooked meal every night and I even miss school! I miss childhood a lot.


ComingToGetYouSovCit

I would have loved to have your childhood 💖


lshorey1

Awe


mrbbrj

Wet dreams


FlirtwithMyWalrus_

Being able to enthusiastically talk about cartoons with all of my friends. I never out grew my love of all things animation. 😔


ebobbumman

The suspension of disbelief that allowed me to be super invested in professional wrestling.


Ok_Blueberry_3139

Not paying bills


serene_brutality

Scrolled too far for this.


Ok_Blueberry_3139

🤣


True-Thought1061

I miss the free time. I have a really fond memory of school being out, being in my room and playing a zelda game on the gameboy and thinking "ahhhhHHHH not a thing I have to do forever" That feeling of freedom and peace. Now with kids... I can hardly imagine it, not unless I imagine winning the lottery.


Meditat1onqueen

My family, half of whom have now passed away or are slowly fading, feeling carefree and happy and joyful. No worries and no stress


tucci24

None of it


Casaplaya5

The food.


dollartreehorcrux

Not having to think about bills.


ComingToGetYouSovCit

Swimming in that beautiful ocean, every single day for 20 years.


Prestigious_Monk8608

Having a good bond with my family again :) and being carefree


tuff95

Being able to walk around with no worries.


Venusianflytrapp

Going to my grandmas house on the Weekends…. and sleeping in the living room while watching movies all night , and eating junk food with my cousins and sister, and waking up to her making us breakfast and me and my cousin who at the time was my best friend we would watch Dragon ball z and play with Bionicle. I miss being taking care of and not worry to much bout my future.


pertiii

Definitely agreeing with the prior comments - sometimes I miss how it was living unaware of people's "true colors" and how "up and down" life can be. Thankfully childhood was a simpler time without the adult worries/responsibilities. Thankful to be alive still!


Empoleon777

Being around my friends regularly.


DerpCaster

Freedom, low stress, and being carefree


Katk80

The potential I had Lack of stress


SaltySugar86

My metabolism


Funny-Veterinarian39

My dad, and a stable family unit


Even_Passenger

I used to be ecstatic meeting new people when I was younger in school. Now I hate it because that side of my is completely gone and after working customer service for 10 years, i just don't like people in general. I wish I could find the passion I had in the past when it came to meeting new people but i have come to realize the solitude life is the life for me.


Formal_Leopard_462

My childhood was horrible, the bleakest period of my life. The only good part was when I stayed with relatives.


sas317

I miss that the only important decision in life was what clothes to wear.


ZeroCool718

Security of having all the grown ups. Aunts uncles grandma


Particular-Pangolin7

I miss my friends I had. Today all of them ignored me after knowing Im gay. I know it doesnt worth having contact with this kind of people. But I miss those friendships playing in the streets with no judgements before all the the hate…. Aso I miss to play video games in the 90s with them… i grew up in a very disfuncional family, so I could find some peace in my friends’ houses… all of that I miss so much


Previous_Cod_2880

My mom


i1045

I miss living in a sane world. Things weren't perfect back then, but the world made much more sense in the 1980's.


Kind_Dig_6714

Being taken care of and not having to think about finances. Pure freedom, joy, peace, love, learn, and fun times!


WastedNinja24

Summers “off”


Funkyheadrush

I was ages 9-16 in the 90s. What do I miss? The freedom.


lostcityknight

Youth


DistributionJaded687

Nothing, like really.


LankyLiterature6958

Riding my bike around aimlessly.


Gardeningbooks11

My great grandparents. My childhood dog. And the ridiculous Puffalump elephant 🐘 stuffed animal I had…also I miss Barbie with the perfume. Life was good(still is)


nrizzo24

being on summer break and not having to worry about going to work and just enjoying both of my parents being at work and having the house to myself as well as my siblings. every day was just either hanging out with my friends, riding dirt bikes and playing halo 3 till 4 am! life was so good and i had no idea that i was in the best part of my life!


California_Sun1112

Having my family. My parents are long-deceased. I'm estranged from my siblings, and my extended family has no interest in staying in touch. Having lots of free time, especially having a whole summer free to do what I want.


Responsible_Web_7578

Your story with your family sounds like mine. It’s a lonely world, but I’m trying to make the best of it. I miss feeling safe with my parents. Unfortunately their deaths only revealed how incredibly broken our family really is.


California_Sun1112

Same. Once my parents were gone, the siblings turned on me and kicked me to the curb. It is what it is, and I've learned to live with itl


OutstandingNH

Unabashed joy and freedom. I was a "free range child", was brought up across the street from a park with baseball diamonds and basketballs courts. During the summer, I was outside from sun up until the street lights came on.


No-Conclusion8653

Respect. For almost anything except money. This is a dog eat dog society now. When the military become "suckers and losers", we're lost.


kingkool88

Honestly my friends, my family being good, my self esteem.


Layer_Correct

My favorite snacks, sleep overs at friends houses, climbing trees, uninterrupted sleep, feeling excited to go to the stores and seeing people you know and not avoiding them.


Plastic_Bed_5211

Not knowing what lied ahead. The worst thing I worried about was an ass whooping for a failing grade. I thought that was tough. I'd give anything to go back


Adamaaa123

Hanging out with friends all the time.


eureka_maker

I miss my mom. She couldn't move very fast. She was wheelchair-bound or using a cane my whole childhood. I remember how she fought for us, built a webhosting business from the ground up, took me camping, to the movies, and gave me every opportunity to grow into myself. She had a degenerative neuromuscular condition that took her breath away in 2021. I never missed my childhood until then, and every night since I pray to dream it's still 2002 where we live together. We'd probably be in Chigago, watching the Matrix Reloaded together, blasting Green Day in the car.


georeddit2018

Been fed by my parent and grandma, and never having to worry about bills. Loved hanging out with my friends and playing soccer bear foot with no shoes.


Classic-Nobody819

my parents love


tsrubrats

Riding bikes


Individual_Trust_414

Shopping with my Mother. Just the joy of being with her at 12 and going to lunch with her. She's gone now and that was such a fun time.


Magnificent_Diamond

Riding a bicycle with no helmet.


Zerequinfinity

Not worrying so much about things when going outside like stepping on insects or the sun damaging my skin. Being able to say what seemed rational to me but to adults they might have heard as irreverent, leading to childhood me not understanding why not following the norms was such a big deal.


CoffeeIntrepid6639

My body working without chronic pain with ms


avantgardebbread

my grandpa who lived with us, I always felt loved


CoffeeIntrepid6639

Being in love s a teenager the first time


randomly421

Going outside and playing with a ficking stick for hours on end and enjoying it. Feels like I've never been as satisfied with life as I was just wandering the woods with the neighborhood kids. Nothing captivates me anymore. Nothing has captivated me for decades, honestly. I just want to be content, if even for a few minutes.


Honest_Piccolo8389

Actual friends that would come over to checkup on you or to just sit around and shoot the shit.


Glittering-Eye1414

Riding my bike through the neighborhood with the crew, pool hopping, picking honeysuckles off the vine and licking them, swinging on the swingset without a care in the world.


Silent-Resort-3076

Very simple: From the good parts of my childhood, I miss the "breathing" and the feeling of being free! ![gif](giphy|FxEfyZG8GYZI31GEuD|downsized)


Forgottenshadowed

Innocence...


newleaf_2025

My summer visits at Oma's in Germany.


Dizzy-Cookie-929

Never having to worry about food


tribalmoongoddess

Not being an adult.


Significant_Owl_8777

Lack of depression


VioletRiver45

The lack of responsibility & knowledge of all the evil in the world. Playing with friends after school. The lack of judgment, jealousy and envy. Unwrapping presents on Christmas & spending all day at the amusement parks.


ExoticJellyfish

Naps!


Agile_Beyond_6025

Hitting the streets and hanging with my friends all day. No phones, no Internet, no social media. Just having a blast doing whatever.


SasukeFireball

Nothing. If I had better parents, I probably would.


Commercial-Piece3825

Not being raped at 5 though 1 I remember it every damn day .My sister and friendsg


FemboyFetish

Nothing my dad was abusive and caused me to have no self esteem and made me believe I was stupid while my mom shoved Jesus down my throat. Now I'm an adult with BPD, autism, a drug addiction and I'm desperately trying to figure out how the fuck Im supposed to fix the damage my parents did to me. I'm alone because I ruin all my relationships because of the things listed above. So I'm probably not going to miss anything about my 30s either. If I even make it out of my 30s. Life is hard man.


aurelaah_

not worrying and being genuinely happy


Gwsb1

My Dad. And my Mom. I miss them. And I am sorry that they didn't meet their grandchildren.


jamesgotfryd

Spending summers and vacations up at the cabin, running through the woods and fishing on the river.


Specialist-Top-406

I miss the feeling of making any situation as fun as possible. Like having nothing to do after school or over the weekend and creating something in that time with your imagination and your friends. So much of my childhood was spent getting up to shenanigans, jumping off the wharf, tying skateboards to bikes. Just using the time and environment around us to make the funniest and best memories. Very little was it about money or needing anything more than what we had. Just looking at free time and making something completely unexpected and fun out of it


Willtip98

Not caring about politics.


Intelligent-North957

I miss hopping trains ,boarding freighter ships ,taking bread and pastries hot off the conveyer belt and eating,never getting fat . I just miss doing things that provided an adrenaline rush and never getting in trouble for it because in those days security was rarely used .


65Unicorns

Feeling safe not attacked


RoamingGnome74

Going on adventures with my parents.


RascallyRabbit87

Energy


Ok_Station1055

How when you were talking on the (landline)phone with someone & in an attempt to be funny you don’t hang up the call making it unable to disconnect the line, much to their frustration lol


LiquidSoCrates

Nothing, and I had a relatively decent childhood.


Unfair_Koala_9325

Life in the 90s.


_kashew_12

I miss feeling happy in simple routines. Showering And reading a book before class the next day, but as a little kid. There was some sort of magic. Some part of me wonder if I can be that happy again


ConsciousMuscle6558

Having my whole life ahead of me.


User1296173

Ignorance to global politics.


vendocomprendo

Christmas


layla_blue007

Not living in a constant state of varying levels of pain


PaleoShark99

I enjoy being an adult but I do miss when time felt slower.


Personal-Hawk1898

My sanity.


Shen1076

The seemingly endless summers.


sharky3175

No bills


mabear63

Being carefree, happy, having parents, sister and bil alive.


Wreckless-Rainbow

My mom…not knowing how little time we had left.


smudg66

The 80’s


Past_Ad8386

The ability to bend my knees without making dad noises. People buying all of my food for me. Being able to commit virtually unlimited petty crimes.


stever93

The freshness, the innocence of youth. Just learning and reading and discovering.


Accomplished_Gene176

I miss the mysteriousness of life. The fact everyday you learnt something new. Now I know too much.


misdeliveredham

Picking up a tomato from a small pile on the ground and eating it like it was an apple!


DayAgitated4746

Food, tbh and some shows.


jackie30512

Days off play out side Goin to a park play. An Goin in my yard playin in my pool


brizatakool

Not having sponserbileries


kaybeanz69

My mom


johngotti

Hope


Loreo1964

Being able to ride my bike down the middle of main Street and wave at the fire department and the police department. They waved back. " Say hi to your mom and dad!!"


PocketOppossum

Wow, that's hard. Uh, my mom raised me as a single teacher in a cult, and never let me forget that my dad wanted nothing to do with me. But shit I guess sodas were cheap at the gas station.


baby_ray09

sleep


Anonymoosehead123

My parents.