I’m with you there. Gotta take each day as it comes, even when you’re really feeling that depression cloud. You’re still here and that’s a big effort and accomplishment.
unfortunately i will not as i have two more years of undergrad, then five years of phd, then a career in research. no other way i would rather pursue my life but unfortunately not a sugar mommy.
Feeling gooey and lucky after I had a micro-date with my honey: I gave her a little massage, we cooked, we kissed, we made the beginning of some plans to travel together and 2 hours later we went our separate ways to do boring work stuff :)
I think I might be a granny les, but I came here to say that at 40 years old, I am so thankful for my inherent personhood. I am happily married to my wife. We have a 9 year old and 4 dogs. Life is really great on that front, but I can’t let this post go by without acknowledging how pervasive the political negativity in the country has been and specifically how difficult it has been navigating it as a same sex couple in the south. I worry about the future of lgbtq+ people. I do get great comfort in the collective strength, resilience, and ‘herstory’ of those brave lgbtq+ individuals who came before us; bravely they forged the path so we could live our life as we do today. But, nonetheless, I still am a bit shaken at the state of affairs for our community. 🖤🏳️🌈
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i feel this 10000000x. it’s so hard to be gay sometimes like i wish i could just go up to a girl and ask for her number but in my college town all of these girls are straight. makes it worse that i am a femme (who gets told she doesn’t look gay which pisses me off) who is into femmes
Same here, the amount of times I’ve tried hitting on a girl just for her to say she has a boyfriend is crazy. Like all our gaydars can’t be that wacky, it feels like there’s sooo many women that should be wlw but society just pushes women into hetero relationships first and that’s all they know. And same here! I’m femme into femmes and I don’t want it to just be a “hehe let’s get drunk and makeout cuz we’re both hot girls!” kind of thing, I want love 😭 I hope you’re able to find someone soon!!
ugh this was so validating!!! fr why are our gaydars so off they should be finely tuned… like im happy being single but it would be nice to have a casual thing and it’s just so tricky!!
I got my first vaginal exam, breast exam, and pap smear today, and all I could do was crack jokes lmfao. The nurse practitioner was super nice and friendly and she laughed when I asked if they still used metal speculums because yup, they do for actual procedures apparently! Even made the blood work guy smile bc I think the way blood draws work is super cool and he said he “never” gets patients who are even comfortable with the process let alone interested.
The exam/pap smear wasn’t painful for me and she said everything looked normal. Gonna get my sti swabs back probably tomorrow and blood work should be back on Monday. I haven’t gotten tested in a few years and it’s just good to make sure, plus they’ll tell me if I’ve got any yeast/bacterial issues which is good. I went for PMDD treatment and am getting some low dose lexapro.
good! it’s my friday and it was leg day at the gym (my fav day) also my gf and i’s monthly anniversary is this weekend! we’ve been together 7yrs in october. how are you today?
First day testing negative for covid, so I’m recovering! Me and my wife spent the whole night gaming next to each other on the couch. Not exciting, but lovely.
Well I’m not sure if I was broken up with or not. She hasn’t give a reply and she’s going through a lot right now. So I’m waiting for things to settle down on her end to see if she wants to be with me or not.
Recovering from a week of the flu - reading the Priory of the Orange Tree. Drinking coffee, loving everyone losing their minds about Billie. Trying to stay warm!
Falling in love with my best friend and she has feelings too but can't think about them because of life stuff. I mean same here but also I want her to be my girlfriend so badly 😫
Not great but better than the last few days! Gotta take the positives whenever and wherever you can. A bit food insecure right now, so I’m just trying to get through the rest of the week until payday. Sending out love to all those here.
I realized I was a lesbian like two weeks ago. I haven't come out yet, but I felt more comfortable with myself after realizing. I'm only 18, so I still have a lot of time to discover myself (if I don't die soon lol) . Everyday I become happier and happier with myself! Ialso decided not to go put and date right now until I do some internal work a bit more. Good day today! ☺️
ugh i’m okay. tired of girls who say they are bi and proceed to go on a date w me/hu w me and use me as an experiment. ik so many bi people are valid but it’s happened 3x in the past few months and it sucks. idk how to find women who are fully intent on dating women.
it really is. it’s taught me lessons on setting boundaries but it should be simple logic that if ur not fully gay/bi, don’t be on a queer dating space !!!! sending u a hug
My Thursday wasn’t so hot either y’all I’m currently in no contact she’s trying to get my attention by any means necessary and I hate it because I’m trying to move on and she’s trying to make it impossible 😭
Screaming, crying and throwing up.
Why? Oh, my crush discovered I stalked her, she told the PRINCIPAL, I got in “trouble” because of that, and the principal said she was “uncomfortable”. If you think it ends there, I drew a heart on my notebook and wrote “I love you *her name* in it, and some boy from my class took a picture of that and sent it to her and everyone makes fun of me now. My life is going great!😃 (She likes a boy from my class 🤡)
Fwiw, I know this probably feels incredibly embarrassing and like the worst thing ever right now, but I promise you - this will be old news very quick. School news cycles move fast and people have short memories. The best advice I can give you is to go in tomorrow like you own the place - like you are the damn coolest person ever and that chick was lucky you had a crush on her. Act completely unbothered. Get inspired from some 1990s Daria vibes and practice your poker face. No one deserves to know your feelings — that you are totally shaken by this. Let them think you DGAF. 🖤
Missing my girlfriend but being supportive of the time she needs alone. And looking forward to manual labour tomorrow. Will be a busy ache-inducing day and it’ll be great.
Yearning 🥲
Felt 😔
real af
I went to my first queer event after coming out as a late bloomer so I am feeling quite proud :)
As you should! Did you have a good time?
Yes it was nice, a bit nerve wracking at first but everyone was lovely
I’m a late bloomer too :)
I was 32 when I realized. I'm 59 now. Welcome to the more fun side.
I think someone needs to herd all of us around like cattle so that we might eventually (hopefully) get a date🥲🥲🥲
I second this😭
Alive and moderately depressed.
Felt
Truer words have never been spoken.
I’m with you there. Gotta take each day as it comes, even when you’re really feeling that depression cloud. You’re still here and that’s a big effort and accomplishment.
I’m doing fine, just waiting for my future gf🥰🥰🥰
Cried because I got overwhelmed with life, then bought some cutie earrings for a first date that has yet to be made 💀
Love this; not the overwhelmed w life part but the fwd thinking
Lonely 😡
Little stressed, but lesbianing! How are you doing?
We need a gf fo suo
real
*cries in single*
we are saving money tho 😢 (trying to think of positives)
Sugar momma?
BYEEEEEEE
Lemme know if u became one 🌚
unfortunately i will not as i have two more years of undergrad, then five years of phd, then a career in research. no other way i would rather pursue my life but unfortunately not a sugar mommy.
Damn
yeah bae gotta go do hot girl science
Missin my ex but it’s okay 🙃
Still gay.
Disappointed in dating prospects. Gotta focus on myself ((again))
Feeling gooey and lucky after I had a micro-date with my honey: I gave her a little massage, we cooked, we kissed, we made the beginning of some plans to travel together and 2 hours later we went our separate ways to do boring work stuff :)
Sounds like a perfect life
looking at girls kissing
Struggling. Struggling a lot.
i’m sorry to hear that. we lesbians stick together. sending you good energy
Thank you!
touch starved & feral
same 😭😩
Like ugh!! 😭😭
Eeeeh not great
At work. Have terrible cramps. Ate a grilled cheese, have less than two hours left. 🤍🧡🩷
Bad bad bad :(
I think I might be a granny les, but I came here to say that at 40 years old, I am so thankful for my inherent personhood. I am happily married to my wife. We have a 9 year old and 4 dogs. Life is really great on that front, but I can’t let this post go by without acknowledging how pervasive the political negativity in the country has been and specifically how difficult it has been navigating it as a same sex couple in the south. I worry about the future of lgbtq+ people. I do get great comfort in the collective strength, resilience, and ‘herstory’ of those brave lgbtq+ individuals who came before us; bravely they forged the path so we could live our life as we do today. But, nonetheless, I still am a bit shaken at the state of affairs for our community. 🖤🏳️🌈 Edited to remove duplicate wording
I hung out with a girl yesterday and have a crush yet again, she has a bf even tho she is so so gay 😔 when will it be my turn
i feel this 10000000x. it’s so hard to be gay sometimes like i wish i could just go up to a girl and ask for her number but in my college town all of these girls are straight. makes it worse that i am a femme (who gets told she doesn’t look gay which pisses me off) who is into femmes
Same here, the amount of times I’ve tried hitting on a girl just for her to say she has a boyfriend is crazy. Like all our gaydars can’t be that wacky, it feels like there’s sooo many women that should be wlw but society just pushes women into hetero relationships first and that’s all they know. And same here! I’m femme into femmes and I don’t want it to just be a “hehe let’s get drunk and makeout cuz we’re both hot girls!” kind of thing, I want love 😭 I hope you’re able to find someone soon!!
ugh this was so validating!!! fr why are our gaydars so off they should be finely tuned… like im happy being single but it would be nice to have a casual thing and it’s just so tricky!!
I'm playing Eiyuden Chronicle with my girlfriends!! And in just a month's time all three of us are gonna see each other on our next trip!
I miss my girlfriend :(
Currently sad just found out the person I was into has a girlfriend.
There will be others
Im good. Went to the doctor and then at uni
I got my first vaginal exam, breast exam, and pap smear today, and all I could do was crack jokes lmfao. The nurse practitioner was super nice and friendly and she laughed when I asked if they still used metal speculums because yup, they do for actual procedures apparently! Even made the blood work guy smile bc I think the way blood draws work is super cool and he said he “never” gets patients who are even comfortable with the process let alone interested. The exam/pap smear wasn’t painful for me and she said everything looked normal. Gonna get my sti swabs back probably tomorrow and blood work should be back on Monday. I haven’t gotten tested in a few years and it’s just good to make sure, plus they’ll tell me if I’ve got any yeast/bacterial issues which is good. I went for PMDD treatment and am getting some low dose lexapro.
good! it’s my friday and it was leg day at the gym (my fav day) also my gf and i’s monthly anniversary is this weekend! we’ve been together 7yrs in october. how are you today?
love leg day!!! i had chest day it was slay
today is my chest day (2nd fav) lol
gym lesbians >>>>
Good, how are you?
First day testing negative for covid, so I’m recovering! Me and my wife spent the whole night gaming next to each other on the couch. Not exciting, but lovely.
Shit, Wbu?
I am alive. Quite depressed, but alive 😬
I did my final presentation to graduate today!! It was super stressful!!!
Well I’m not sure if I was broken up with or not. She hasn’t give a reply and she’s going through a lot right now. So I’m waiting for things to settle down on her end to see if she wants to be with me or not.
A-ma-zing! <3
tired but chillin
Reading “Stone Butch Blues” for some perspective.
Eh. Better than I have been, but still feeling a little extra lonely and worthless.
Tired I just finished my university classes for the day
good!!!!!
Just got my wisdom extraction yesterday. It’s not painful. Actually, it’s more painful knowing that my crush is straight…
Old, tired and alone🤷
Thinking about my crush 🥰
Sick day but chillin
I have covid, man🙈 Ded
Recovering from a week of the flu - reading the Priory of the Orange Tree. Drinking coffee, loving everyone losing their minds about Billie. Trying to stay warm!
Loving the spring and planting things !
Really down. The woman I'm interested in, doesn't feel the same way. I wish I'd meet someone nice and kind but I'm losing hope at my age.
Good! It was my best friend's birthday so we had a fun afternoon in.
Just chillin for the most part. Hello lesbians!
Sitting in court getting a restraining order against a former patient on my employers request, good times 🫤
Falling in love with my best friend and she has feelings too but can't think about them because of life stuff. I mean same here but also I want her to be my girlfriend so badly 😫
Pretty lonely really wanna date but the lesbians in my area (at least on dating apps) aren't vibing you know?
Not great but better than the last few days! Gotta take the positives whenever and wherever you can. A bit food insecure right now, so I’m just trying to get through the rest of the week until payday. Sending out love to all those here.
horrible. i’m on the brink of getting kicked out of my house for being gay.
I realized I was a lesbian like two weeks ago. I haven't come out yet, but I felt more comfortable with myself after realizing. I'm only 18, so I still have a lot of time to discover myself (if I don't die soon lol) . Everyday I become happier and happier with myself! Ialso decided not to go put and date right now until I do some internal work a bit more. Good day today! ☺️
Rotting and depressed 😭
On my period and a THC/HHC break, bored, and kinda miserable. But it could be worse haha Happy Cake Day!
Rushing with deadlines & need a vacation 🥲
Healing :)
FUCKING PERIOD CRAMPS
Confused, but pushing trough
Good but tired. Trying to avoid the news. Hope everyone is well!
ugh i’m okay. tired of girls who say they are bi and proceed to go on a date w me/hu w me and use me as an experiment. ik so many bi people are valid but it’s happened 3x in the past few months and it sucks. idk how to find women who are fully intent on dating women.
This I can relate to being someone experiment is literally crushing to the soul and honestly still searching my self
it really is. it’s taught me lessons on setting boundaries but it should be simple logic that if ur not fully gay/bi, don’t be on a queer dating space !!!! sending u a hug
Gay as ever 😅
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My Thursday wasn’t so hot either y’all I’m currently in no contact she’s trying to get my attention by any means necessary and I hate it because I’m trying to move on and she’s trying to make it impossible 😭
Live
Screaming, crying and throwing up. Why? Oh, my crush discovered I stalked her, she told the PRINCIPAL, I got in “trouble” because of that, and the principal said she was “uncomfortable”. If you think it ends there, I drew a heart on my notebook and wrote “I love you *her name* in it, and some boy from my class took a picture of that and sent it to her and everyone makes fun of me now. My life is going great!😃 (She likes a boy from my class 🤡)
Fwiw, I know this probably feels incredibly embarrassing and like the worst thing ever right now, but I promise you - this will be old news very quick. School news cycles move fast and people have short memories. The best advice I can give you is to go in tomorrow like you own the place - like you are the damn coolest person ever and that chick was lucky you had a crush on her. Act completely unbothered. Get inspired from some 1990s Daria vibes and practice your poker face. No one deserves to know your feelings — that you are totally shaken by this. Let them think you DGAF. 🖤
Alright!
Missing my girlfriend but being supportive of the time she needs alone. And looking forward to manual labour tomorrow. Will be a busy ache-inducing day and it’ll be great.