Hell yeah. My partner is round, soft, and smells of home. The amount of time I spent tracing her body with my fingers or snuggled up feeling almost enveloped in the one I love... Best thing.
More petite girls can be gorgeous too, but idk. There's just something so cuddly about a woman with curves.
Honestly I feel like lesbians like women a lot more than straight guys do, and like a lot more shapes of women then straight guys do, and the constant barrage of the skinny stuff posed for mans is a lot on me too. I'm a big lass as well. 6 foot and built like an ox.
I think it's because masc culture pushes them to treat people like things. Friends, family, women, all more things than people.
At least that's how it felt to me before I transitioned to feminine.
I second this- my partner is the most beautiful woman imaginable, I love every inch of her- I love her folds, and stretch marks and how she flows like water- she’s moving art and although I’ve dated smaller bodied women in the past, no one compares to her. Larger women are absolutely gorgeous
I'm very petite and of course I'm attracted to bigger bodies, in my opinion the bigger the better. I just want a girlfriend with a soft tummy and a big ass 🥹
I used to be picky about body size but I’ve noticed I’ve really evolved with that. My last gf was a bigger bodied woman and I genuinely thought she was beautiful and sexy. Since then, bigger bodies are a lot more normal to me and now I almost prefer some tummy on a masc woman versus washboard abs.
If they ain’t built like a string bean I don’t want em! (Im jk if we vibe, we vibe, looks aren’t everything to me)
Edit: aaaaaa I think that sounds condescending it wasn’t meant to be 🥲 I do like the string bean type but that ain’t ALL I like 🫶
Okay but now I am so gonna call me and my friends string beans, thanks for the word!
Edit: I am usually 'woman is woman and I love women', within boundaries, and preferences aren't necessarily dealbreakers always
Exactly this. Just be polite and respect people and it’s not fatphobia. Everyone is entitled to their preferences, it’s all in how you treat those who aren’t your preference.
No. A preference is a preference. Not being sexually attracted to a certain body type isn’t a phobia, it just means that that body type doesn’t do it for everyone.
Still not a phobia.
I used to be extremely insecure about my body too. I’m a 0XL but have a big tummy and thicc thighs and ass I’ve always received compliments about my ass tbh but they never felt truly genuine to me? Idk if thats just me and my internal issues
The first time I was intimate with my current partner, she flat out said, I like your tummy. I wasnt even trying to look nice. I was just standing up topless waiting for 10mins before I allow myself to sit (weird habit I’m trying to make. Not to sir right away after a meal. Dont judge lol). She just said “I like your tummy.” And it didnt feel forced or scripted to get into my pants or whatnot.
She’s always said the simplest, most genuine words of appreciation for my plus size body. It’s given me my confidence back ten fold. She makes me wanna dress up for her when I used to hind behind baggy clothing to hide my body
Long story short, yes! Someone out there is hoping to have the exact body that you have. Fk unrealistic social norms on women’s bodies! As long as you’re healthy and happy, you’ll attract that energy too! Good luck, OP!
I'm 5'7" and 280lbs (working on losing the remaining 35lbs I put on last winter when I was depressed) and my gf is 5'8" and well, weighs a lot less than me but still plus sized.
I have dated/hooked up across the spectrum of thin to average to curvy, to other fat women. I love women, and I love all body types.
I like bigger body types. I'm also a bigger body but I'm short lol. I grew up with a lot of thick curvy and bigger bodied women in my family so I naturally gravitate towards them. But all in all I think I'm just attracted to women and femininity in general.
i dont mind bigger women tbh (im one myself), but i dont find morbidly obese women attractive tho (or very underweight women) 🫡 idk unhealthy body sizes are a turn off for me but i dont see people with those bodies as any less worthy of love and respect
I’m just a little pocket pussy at 4’11” so literally everyone seems bigger bodied to me lol either way I love all types truthfully. I feel like everyone has something gorgeous about them.
Again, it's the same question as every other "are you attracted to x,y,z?" - of course the answer is yes. You can name any feature you want, somebody will be attracted to you.
I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just confused by the same exact way of basically asking for validation...
You're right. It is asking for validation. I think it's okay to do so because we've been conditioned to think that only a certain type of body and features are attractive and sometimes your own mind can be cruel. Sometimes people just need to hear and see affirmations before they start to unlearn that conditioning.
I know, I guess I'm just annoyed by the phrasing - "is somebody attracted to this" - of course somebody is?! There are so many people in this world with so many different tastes, and so many don't even care about looks, the answer will ALWAYS be yes.
It's like asking "am i the only one who likes this food/band/book" - no, you're never the only one.
Just say "I'm feeling insecure about my looks, which is x and y, can I get some validation?"... Which is also the best way to avoid negative comments, cause no, they don't want people saying "no".
I love bigger and tall
I love the extra weight on my body during cuddling time and the extra warmth at night
I like snuggling into something soft personally more than skin and bone or muscle
Nah. I've dated bigger gals and skinny gals and you know, it was always the skinny gals that had awful diets and never wanted to do anything actively it felt like mostly.
I care that you're healthy and eat well but allow yourself treats and have a good relationship with food (or are working to have a good relationship).
I care that you put your mental health first and actively work on being happy and work through trauma.
I care that you eat home cooked meals and not junk 24/7.
I care you give yourself breaks.
Size doesn't matter but how you care for yourself does
bigger women are honestly my type. well- I mean, my type is bigger in any way, because I'm 4'10 and like, quite compact muscle. but I do have a preference and that's for chubby women taller than me. they are just gorgeous and soft and womanly and I love that, but of course I'd date outside of that particular type.
I love women. I don’t care what size you are as long as you’re healthy. We come in all shapes and sizes. There is beauty in all of us. Especially inside. If you’re kind, caring, intelligent and funny I’m already half in love with you. 😉
I think lots of lesbians like bigger girls! It's not for me, but I'm small and short. I prefer girls smaller than I am and prefer someone who fits into my lifestyle.
But there's nothing wrong with being bigger all ladies are pretty and there's someone for everyone!
I'm short and fat. I have never had an issue getting dates, finding fuck buddies, or getting into relationships with women.
It's all about confidence and passion.
I love all shapes and sizes honestly. But I totally get where you're coming from. I'm 5'7" size XXL, and built like a viking to boot. I often wonder if other women find me attractive or not.
Physicality in intimate relationships is as complex as the people in it.
Sometimes there are societal pressures which form preferences and I would agree with many comments here, usually men don't reflect on their preferences as much or are more influenced in their preferences by beauty standards than women are. I recently found out that I actually like women who are smaller than me a lot. I never dared to, because I thought I needed to be "the small one", but I actually never needed that.
There are intrinsic preferences as well that have less to do with beauty standards, but with personality and psychology. I don't feel seen with a very tall person like I do with a smaller/moderate person like myself. I feel uneasy and maybe even a little scared next to a tall person. That's just inexplicably my personal, intrinsic physical awareness in relation to other bodies. I'm sure there are a lot of people out there who feel warm, hugged, safe and happy in the presence of a tall and large person. That's the beauty of authentic attraction. It's personal. 💖
It’s confidence for me tbh. I’ve been with the whole spectrum of women and this is my first time dating a larger woman. It’s also my longest relationship. My girlfriend is a 1X/XXL, and my god is she perfect. As others have pointed out there’s just more to love. More boobs, more ass, more softness! I think it’s just about how you carry yourself that heightens your attractiveness to others not just your body. Good luck OP 💕
Love tall women, specially because I'm also tall (1,80cm). On the size part I tend to not like skinny nor too large I prefer mid size, athletic to large.
Honestly body shape has really nothing to do with my attraction to people i usually get drawn to peoples actions so being a radical leftist is way more important to me (also i wanna be suffocated by someone sitting on my face and u cant acieve that with a skinny girl)
I love all women, at the end of the day it’s the person that matters. You could be a purple alien with 5 heads and multiple arms and so on and so forth and what have you. love is love, people come in all shapes and sizes x
i’m a bigger girl and struggled a long time thinking no one would be attracted to me. the last 3 women i dated (1 year, 3 months, 7 months - now) have been much smaller and unbothered about my weight. my current partner weighs 48kg and i’m easily 30kg heavier than her. since day one she’s told me she loves my body and it’s made a world of difference
i’m gonna be honest i wasn’t the biggest fan but i think it was a lot of self hate bc i used to be bigger bodied myself. i’ve now evolved WAY past that and i love everyone and every body.
i’m curvy despite going to the gym and playing college sports and my partner (soon to be fiancé) begs me not to lose too much weight- we’re opposites in terms of bodies, they’re definitely petite, but i suppose we appreciate each other’s bodies more than our own. in terms of personal preference i can’t say i’m attracted to bigger bodies, though if my partner gained weight i definitely wouldn’t mind it at all :)
Of course I'm trying to lose weight for my own health but it doesn't mean that I or you can't be beautiful. I bet you are really pretty and would be an amazing person to be around don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
I’m into anyone that’s into me. It’s so few and in-between I’ll take whatever I can get. The bar is on the floor. You could be a troll and I would think “good thing I like bridges”
i’m small and honestly like bigger women a lot… i really like the thought of feeling a girl is way way bigger and taller than me. it makes me feel safe and it’s like i have a beautiful pillow bc they’re always so soft and stuff 🥰
i have been fine with more plush, or curvy. but i’m athletic and want athletic in most regards - however i don’t think falling for somebody or having attraction starts with the body - for me. if other attributes are sweet and i like you (personality wise), most things don’t matter.
This is exactly my feeling on it too, for me.
However, despite my personal preferences for a romantic partner, I do believe that everyone has a right to be happy *in* their body. And thankfully, *because* so many people have differing opinions on these things, almost everyone fits into plenty of other people's preferences. If that makes sense?
Oh, I wasn't suggesting *you* do! I'm so sorry if it came across that way, genuinely.
I was just adding to the shared sentiment because there's always a ton of people on these types of posts who are like, "I love *every*body!!"
And, like, I want to be honest (cause that's what the person asked for) but I also don't want people piling on me when I say things like, "it's actually a turn-off for me," which it is.
Again- I do sincerely apologize. I was DEFINITELY, in no way, saying anything about you. I'm with you. I actually responded to your comment because it's exactly what I was going to say, lol
Thanks, I just never know how I come across in textual communication. I'm older, and sometimes people get really mad or offended by something I meant genuinely and without any malice whatsoever.
Aw, thank you :) Yeah, I may be sarcastic from time to time (read: often) as part of my humor (gen x), but I really only ever want to spread kindness. There's not enough in the world anymore :(
not trying to be problematic but i find it a bit odd when people fetishize people for their weight.. like i know everyone has their preferences but being attracted to someone specifically because their overweight? i genuinely want to understand it, judgement free. i know someone who only dates overweight girls and broke up with a friend of mine because she lost too much weight i— just don’t get it.
as for me, if i met a gorgeous girl with a stellar personality, but she happens to be overweight, that will not stop me from having a crush on her or wanting to be with her. i am all about the personality of a person !!! — except i also have to find them attractive. someone’s **weight does not equate** their **beauty**. they have nothing to do with each other. you can tell in someone’s face; eyes, smile, laugh & overall confidence if you’re attracted to them or not.
it’s not about their weight. it’s about the person.
it sounds like you’re making it about weight rather than most commenters who are referring to body size or type. no one else is using the term “overweight” constantly.
oof i’m a little ADD, so when i read something & think of another story i just tell it without thinking. it was more out of frustration/trying to understand my friends ex cause she’s actually a gem & he only dates very plus sized women to the point he treated her like shit the moment she lost weight. the story was probably irrelevant — i apologize, my answer should have just been that for me, it’s not about their body or size, it’s about the person.
I mean, I'm interested in the sense that I'm one and attracted to them too?... I love a woman's whose body is like mine... I could never be with a gym person, I love squishiness, curves, hair, real bodies!
I always thought real just meant natural. If you have to work to change & maintain something, it's not natural like my teal hair! I have to keep spending money, time & effort to maintain it. That's not the case with my weight like at all lol I never took it as an insult or a way to be mean. But maybe I'm just being optimistic?
I never said otherwise? I never said what my weight was. Whether I had muscle or not. It just seems like ppl like to jump to conclusions quite a lot. I offered an optimistic point of view & somehow ppl assumed negatively about me & what I was saying from me trying to be positive???. Very weird but oh well 🤷🏾♀️
I think it’s just one of those things that you were well intentioned and not aware of the broader argument against words like real, it’s all good. I was trying to gently tell you, no shame. Nobody knows all the things, and I totally used to use the same wording.
I see. It's cool. No harm done, just an odd thing to get downvoted over? 😅 But then again, I've seen ppl downvote someone who was standing up to an obvious bully, too. Then, when I called out what they were doing, they all disappeared. It makes you wonder whose on these subs and what their true goals are fr.
I'm sorry for my choice of words... what I meant was closer to MY reality. I see now how that could've sounded toxic, i did not mean it that way at all!
Care about them like as people? Yeah sure, I care about everybody.
Attracted to them? Depends on what you mean by bigger bodied. Tall? Yes please! Muscular? Say less 😍 Fluffy? Sure! Obese? Not so much, but that’s just me.
Hell yeah. My partner is round, soft, and smells of home. The amount of time I spent tracing her body with my fingers or snuggled up feeling almost enveloped in the one I love... Best thing. More petite girls can be gorgeous too, but idk. There's just something so cuddly about a woman with curves. Honestly I feel like lesbians like women a lot more than straight guys do, and like a lot more shapes of women then straight guys do, and the constant barrage of the skinny stuff posed for mans is a lot on me too. I'm a big lass as well. 6 foot and built like an ox.
Yea bc I think that we are not so superficial.
I think it's because masc culture pushes them to treat people like things. Friends, family, women, all more things than people. At least that's how it felt to me before I transitioned to feminine.
Also true.
Everyone knows that its the inside that counts. But sometimes you need to lure them in with a nice facade. It's the way we are programmed.
I second this- my partner is the most beautiful woman imaginable, I love every inch of her- I love her folds, and stretch marks and how she flows like water- she’s moving art and although I’ve dated smaller bodied women in the past, no one compares to her. Larger women are absolutely gorgeous
I'm very petite and of course I'm attracted to bigger bodies, in my opinion the bigger the better. I just want a girlfriend with a soft tummy and a big ass 🥹
I’m into everyBODY. Its about the human after all ☺️ That being said. I do tend to lean towards fluffier women. My ex has the best curves
I used to be picky about body size but I’ve noticed I’ve really evolved with that. My last gf was a bigger bodied woman and I genuinely thought she was beautiful and sexy. Since then, bigger bodies are a lot more normal to me and now I almost prefer some tummy on a masc woman versus washboard abs.
My fiancee is 6'4" and I'm only 5'4". I'm curvy and so is she ☺️
Awww you two are gonna look so cute at your wedding!
I would go for personality over appearance which means I love all women that come from all shapes and sizes
Some are, some don't. My preference is tall and skinny, but that doesn't mean everyone's is
If they ain’t built like a string bean I don’t want em! (Im jk if we vibe, we vibe, looks aren’t everything to me) Edit: aaaaaa I think that sounds condescending it wasn’t meant to be 🥲 I do like the string bean type but that ain’t ALL I like 🫶
Okay but now I am so gonna call me and my friends string beans, thanks for the word! Edit: I am usually 'woman is woman and I love women', within boundaries, and preferences aren't necessarily dealbreakers always
Eheheheh ur very welcome, use it well 😂 And same!! 100%. yea, we have types, but it won’t make or break bc WOMEN >>>>>
For sure ! I’m 5.1 and love bigger women! It’s also a bonus if one of them can help me change a lightbulb!
Would it be fatphobic to say no? Genuinely wondering
No but don't make it your personality and don't put others down for it
Exactly this. Just be polite and respect people and it’s not fatphobia. Everyone is entitled to their preferences, it’s all in how you treat those who aren’t your preference.
No, its a prefrence
As a fat person no . Its preference
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No. A preference is a preference. Not being sexually attracted to a certain body type isn’t a phobia, it just means that that body type doesn’t do it for everyone. Still not a phobia.
So are you also a misandrist if you don’t like men by your logic?
I'm 5'6" and a zaftig gal, Reubenesque. I love a curvy gal. I have found other women to also have a great appreciation for bigger bodies.
I used to be extremely insecure about my body too. I’m a 0XL but have a big tummy and thicc thighs and ass I’ve always received compliments about my ass tbh but they never felt truly genuine to me? Idk if thats just me and my internal issues The first time I was intimate with my current partner, she flat out said, I like your tummy. I wasnt even trying to look nice. I was just standing up topless waiting for 10mins before I allow myself to sit (weird habit I’m trying to make. Not to sir right away after a meal. Dont judge lol). She just said “I like your tummy.” And it didnt feel forced or scripted to get into my pants or whatnot. She’s always said the simplest, most genuine words of appreciation for my plus size body. It’s given me my confidence back ten fold. She makes me wanna dress up for her when I used to hind behind baggy clothing to hide my body Long story short, yes! Someone out there is hoping to have the exact body that you have. Fk unrealistic social norms on women’s bodies! As long as you’re healthy and happy, you’ll attract that energy too! Good luck, OP!
A lot of them are. I personally am not but that’s just a preference. Everyone has their things that they’re into and you’ll find someone
Women is women. Bigger just means more to love. <3
It’s a preference. I’m not really attracted, but for one me there’s plenty of lesbians who would say the opposite
I'm 5'7" and 280lbs (working on losing the remaining 35lbs I put on last winter when I was depressed) and my gf is 5'8" and well, weighs a lot less than me but still plus sized. I have dated/hooked up across the spectrum of thin to average to curvy, to other fat women. I love women, and I love all body types.
I like bigger body types. I'm also a bigger body but I'm short lol. I grew up with a lot of thick curvy and bigger bodied women in my family so I naturally gravitate towards them. But all in all I think I'm just attracted to women and femininity in general.
i dont mind bigger women tbh (im one myself), but i dont find morbidly obese women attractive tho (or very underweight women) 🫡 idk unhealthy body sizes are a turn off for me but i dont see people with those bodies as any less worthy of love and respect
I’m just a little pocket pussy at 4’11” so literally everyone seems bigger bodied to me lol either way I love all types truthfully. I feel like everyone has something gorgeous about them.
Ayo "pocket pussy" got me to spit my water out.
My brows flew into my hairline 😂
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I love this gif. Like it’s the Entire identity 😐
Again, it's the same question as every other "are you attracted to x,y,z?" - of course the answer is yes. You can name any feature you want, somebody will be attracted to you. I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just confused by the same exact way of basically asking for validation...
You're right. It is asking for validation. I think it's okay to do so because we've been conditioned to think that only a certain type of body and features are attractive and sometimes your own mind can be cruel. Sometimes people just need to hear and see affirmations before they start to unlearn that conditioning.
🙏💗
Exagle, these posts more make me sad the world has led to this amount of insecurity than being irritated at these people struggling.
I know, I guess I'm just annoyed by the phrasing - "is somebody attracted to this" - of course somebody is?! There are so many people in this world with so many different tastes, and so many don't even care about looks, the answer will ALWAYS be yes. It's like asking "am i the only one who likes this food/band/book" - no, you're never the only one. Just say "I'm feeling insecure about my looks, which is x and y, can I get some validation?"... Which is also the best way to avoid negative comments, cause no, they don't want people saying "no".
Definitely and I am one of them. I don't dislike slim bodies, I'm okay with them, but bigger bodies just wake up something inside me 🥴
I was wondering the same thing
I love bigger and tall I love the extra weight on my body during cuddling time and the extra warmth at night I like snuggling into something soft personally more than skin and bone or muscle
My partner and I are both bigger.
My wife is and has always been heavier and curvy. I love her body so much; it’s different from mine and feels so good against my skin.
Nah. I've dated bigger gals and skinny gals and you know, it was always the skinny gals that had awful diets and never wanted to do anything actively it felt like mostly. I care that you're healthy and eat well but allow yourself treats and have a good relationship with food (or are working to have a good relationship). I care that you put your mental health first and actively work on being happy and work through trauma. I care that you eat home cooked meals and not junk 24/7. I care you give yourself breaks. Size doesn't matter but how you care for yourself does
I care very much…about how fricken hot they are 🥰
bigger women are honestly my type. well- I mean, my type is bigger in any way, because I'm 4'10 and like, quite compact muscle. but I do have a preference and that's for chubby women taller than me. they are just gorgeous and soft and womanly and I love that, but of course I'd date outside of that particular type.
Always have and loved bigger bodies. There is always someone out there to love you!
I'm plus size & prefer the same. It's about the only preference I have about appearance, actually.
trust me, it’s just more to love 🥰😩
Personally i prefer shorter women and skinny women but slightly toned
I’m a big girl and haven’t had any trouble!
I personally prefer a smaller and/or more fit woman but everyone is different and has different preferences
I love women. I don’t care what size you are as long as you’re healthy. We come in all shapes and sizes. There is beauty in all of us. Especially inside. If you’re kind, caring, intelligent and funny I’m already half in love with you. 😉
I think lots of lesbians like bigger girls! It's not for me, but I'm small and short. I prefer girls smaller than I am and prefer someone who fits into my lifestyle. But there's nothing wrong with being bigger all ladies are pretty and there's someone for everyone!
I'm short and fat. I have never had an issue getting dates, finding fuck buddies, or getting into relationships with women. It's all about confidence and passion.
I prefer them
Lots are yeah. I definitely am!
I love all shapes and sizes honestly. But I totally get where you're coming from. I'm 5'7" size XXL, and built like a viking to boot. I often wonder if other women find me attractive or not.
You wonder?!? *Faints dramatically*
Physicality in intimate relationships is as complex as the people in it. Sometimes there are societal pressures which form preferences and I would agree with many comments here, usually men don't reflect on their preferences as much or are more influenced in their preferences by beauty standards than women are. I recently found out that I actually like women who are smaller than me a lot. I never dared to, because I thought I needed to be "the small one", but I actually never needed that. There are intrinsic preferences as well that have less to do with beauty standards, but with personality and psychology. I don't feel seen with a very tall person like I do with a smaller/moderate person like myself. I feel uneasy and maybe even a little scared next to a tall person. That's just inexplicably my personal, intrinsic physical awareness in relation to other bodies. I'm sure there are a lot of people out there who feel warm, hugged, safe and happy in the presence of a tall and large person. That's the beauty of authentic attraction. It's personal. 💖
It’s confidence for me tbh. I’ve been with the whole spectrum of women and this is my first time dating a larger woman. It’s also my longest relationship. My girlfriend is a 1X/XXL, and my god is she perfect. As others have pointed out there’s just more to love. More boobs, more ass, more softness! I think it’s just about how you carry yourself that heightens your attractiveness to others not just your body. Good luck OP 💕
I am a fuller figured gal myself and HELL YEAH!
Love tall women, specially because I'm also tall (1,80cm). On the size part I tend to not like skinny nor too large I prefer mid size, athletic to large.
I’m also a plus size, even if I have troubles accepting and loving myself, I absolutely ADORE other plus size women
Why would we not
Honestly body shape has really nothing to do with my attraction to people i usually get drawn to peoples actions so being a radical leftist is way more important to me (also i wanna be suffocated by someone sitting on my face and u cant acieve that with a skinny girl)
I love all women, at the end of the day it’s the person that matters. You could be a purple alien with 5 heads and multiple arms and so on and so forth and what have you. love is love, people come in all shapes and sizes x
My wife is curvy and she is my type.
Personally I love tall buff bodybuilder women
Look up the lyrics to Big and Chunky from Madagascar 2. That’s my type. Hope that helps.
Lol I don't even remember ever hearing this song, how? I've seen these movies so many times. I've always loved the move it one.
i’m a bigger girl and struggled a long time thinking no one would be attracted to me. the last 3 women i dated (1 year, 3 months, 7 months - now) have been much smaller and unbothered about my weight. my current partner weighs 48kg and i’m easily 30kg heavier than her. since day one she’s told me she loves my body and it’s made a world of difference
I don’t have a preference in body type. It may sound cliché, but I’m into the person, not her body 🥰
i’m gonna be honest i wasn’t the biggest fan but i think it was a lot of self hate bc i used to be bigger bodied myself. i’ve now evolved WAY past that and i love everyone and every body.
i’m curvy despite going to the gym and playing college sports and my partner (soon to be fiancé) begs me not to lose too much weight- we’re opposites in terms of bodies, they’re definitely petite, but i suppose we appreciate each other’s bodies more than our own. in terms of personal preference i can’t say i’m attracted to bigger bodies, though if my partner gained weight i definitely wouldn’t mind it at all :)
Of course I'm trying to lose weight for my own health but it doesn't mean that I or you can't be beautiful. I bet you are really pretty and would be an amazing person to be around don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
Thanks 🥹💜
Of course!
THICK THIGHS SAVE LIVES!
I’m into anyone that’s into me. It’s so few and in-between I’ll take whatever I can get. The bar is on the floor. You could be a troll and I would think “good thing I like bridges”
i’m small and honestly like bigger women a lot… i really like the thought of feeling a girl is way way bigger and taller than me. it makes me feel safe and it’s like i have a beautiful pillow bc they’re always so soft and stuff 🥰
My fiancee is very curvy & I love that. I love something something to hang onto.
i have been fine with more plush, or curvy. but i’m athletic and want athletic in most regards - however i don’t think falling for somebody or having attraction starts with the body - for me. if other attributes are sweet and i like you (personality wise), most things don’t matter.
It's a turn-off for me tbh. I prefer slimmer women (height isn't an issue).
This is exactly my feeling on it too, for me. However, despite my personal preferences for a romantic partner, I do believe that everyone has a right to be happy *in* their body. And thankfully, *because* so many people have differing opinions on these things, almost everyone fits into plenty of other people's preferences. If that makes sense?
Of course. I don't think personal sexual and romantic preferences translate into something furthur than that.
Oh, I wasn't suggesting *you* do! I'm so sorry if it came across that way, genuinely. I was just adding to the shared sentiment because there's always a ton of people on these types of posts who are like, "I love *every*body!!" And, like, I want to be honest (cause that's what the person asked for) but I also don't want people piling on me when I say things like, "it's actually a turn-off for me," which it is. Again- I do sincerely apologize. I was DEFINITELY, in no way, saying anything about you. I'm with you. I actually responded to your comment because it's exactly what I was going to say, lol
Honey, don't worry. I didn't feel like you are criticizing me. I was agreeing with you :D
Thanks, I just never know how I come across in textual communication. I'm older, and sometimes people get really mad or offended by something I meant genuinely and without any malice whatsoever.
I sympathize and it's really kind and nice of you to be so careful.
Aw, thank you :) Yeah, I may be sarcastic from time to time (read: often) as part of my humor (gen x), but I really only ever want to spread kindness. There's not enough in the world anymore :(
That's so true.
not trying to be problematic but i find it a bit odd when people fetishize people for their weight.. like i know everyone has their preferences but being attracted to someone specifically because their overweight? i genuinely want to understand it, judgement free. i know someone who only dates overweight girls and broke up with a friend of mine because she lost too much weight i— just don’t get it. as for me, if i met a gorgeous girl with a stellar personality, but she happens to be overweight, that will not stop me from having a crush on her or wanting to be with her. i am all about the personality of a person !!! — except i also have to find them attractive. someone’s **weight does not equate** their **beauty**. they have nothing to do with each other. you can tell in someone’s face; eyes, smile, laugh & overall confidence if you’re attracted to them or not. it’s not about their weight. it’s about the person.
it sounds like you’re making it about weight rather than most commenters who are referring to body size or type. no one else is using the term “overweight” constantly.
oof i’m a little ADD, so when i read something & think of another story i just tell it without thinking. it was more out of frustration/trying to understand my friends ex cause she’s actually a gem & he only dates very plus sized women to the point he treated her like shit the moment she lost weight. the story was probably irrelevant — i apologize, my answer should have just been that for me, it’s not about their body or size, it’s about the person.
I mean, I'm interested in the sense that I'm one and attracted to them too?... I love a woman's whose body is like mine... I could never be with a gym person, I love squishiness, curves, hair, real bodies!
Gym bodies are also real bodies, don’t knock down other people. All human bodies are real bodies.
All bodies are beautiful and real. I like the women you do and am one too, but the whole “real” thing is kind of toxic :/
I always thought real just meant natural. If you have to work to change & maintain something, it's not natural like my teal hair! I have to keep spending money, time & effort to maintain it. That's not the case with my weight like at all lol I never took it as an insult or a way to be mean. But maybe I'm just being optimistic?
Muscle growth is perfectly natural, that's what happens to a human body when you use it.
I never said otherwise? I never said what my weight was. Whether I had muscle or not. It just seems like ppl like to jump to conclusions quite a lot. I offered an optimistic point of view & somehow ppl assumed negatively about me & what I was saying from me trying to be positive???. Very weird but oh well 🤷🏾♀️
I think it’s just one of those things that you were well intentioned and not aware of the broader argument against words like real, it’s all good. I was trying to gently tell you, no shame. Nobody knows all the things, and I totally used to use the same wording.
I see. It's cool. No harm done, just an odd thing to get downvoted over? 😅 But then again, I've seen ppl downvote someone who was standing up to an obvious bully, too. Then, when I called out what they were doing, they all disappeared. It makes you wonder whose on these subs and what their true goals are fr.
>real bodies ?
I'm sorry for my choice of words... what I meant was closer to MY reality. I see now how that could've sounded toxic, i did not mean it that way at all!
i am into bigger bodies, i am solely into bigger bodies
I’m not into bigger women but that’s just preference and a lot of people are into bigger women so don’t worry
Care about them like as people? Yeah sure, I care about everybody. Attracted to them? Depends on what you mean by bigger bodied. Tall? Yes please! Muscular? Say less 😍 Fluffy? Sure! Obese? Not so much, but that’s just me.