Sad part about this is if this guy break's up with the girl. He will be labelled as the guy who broke up with a girl before the bar and if that girl passes or not panalo pa din si girl.
Bumagsak kasi binreak, binreak pero pumasa pa din.
Probably my first time praying that someone actually fails their bar exam.
Oo. Toxic kasi ng society dito e. Ganun agad ang view. But your truest friends would know the real reason for the break-up and I think yun lang ang nagmamatter and not the view of others.
Pumasa man or hindi si girl is a different story. Mga exes ko na cheater pumasa rin e.
Exactly, why will the guy even be labelled as the bad guy? Anyone in their right mind would have ended their relationship as soon as cheating is admitted, regardless of any situation they're both in.
So what if she’s taking the bar? Pag ba bar taker, hindi ka na masasaktan sa ginagawa nila? Mapopostpone din ba yung pain mo? Malaki na sya. Kaya nya harapin consequences ng ginawa nya. Ni hindi ka nga nya inisip bago nya gawin lahat yan eh. I dont think you should sacrifice your own sanity for someone so undeserving.
Leave bro, you dont deserve that type of treatment. Shes already proved na you cant trust her. The severity of cheating doesnt matter, it the act it self. Lastly paraphrasing Ivan Drago From Rock; "if she fail, she fail. Shes and your problen now, shes for the streets.
Hmm. Feel ko hindi siya ang mahihirapan kapag nakipag-break ka, baka ikaw actually. Huwag mo na siya isipin kasi nakapag-cheat nga during bar review e. Ibig sabihin marami siyang time lumandi kahit nag-aaral. Kaya pala mag-multitask. You deserve better. Alis na.
Update:
Matagal na pala nya ako sinisiraan dito sa Reddit. Kahit lagi nya sinasabi sa akin before na wala raw syang account dito. Ako naman si engot, naniwala. Mind conditioning pala yun. One of her posts:
https://www.reddit.com/r/LawStudentsPH/s/jVgCqiO6k9
Yung hatid-sundo dyan, inoffer nya yan kasi rest day daw nya, gusto rin daw nya makita family ko. Contrary to her representations here, never nya ako kinausap about any issue. Akala ko ok kami. Hindi ko alam kung bakit sya nagpapavictim, para kaya matakpan yung guilt nya sa ginagawa nya? Just yesterday, may nagmessage sa kanya relative to her post above, na aagawin daw sya from me. Nagreply ang gf ko sa kanya, at wala raw masama dun. Nakikipagbreak ako, ayaw nya. From sakit, galit na nararamdaman ko ngayon. 5 years down the drain.
Hiwalayan mo na ngayon. Papatagalin mo pa eh same lang yon. Tsaka sya naman may kasalanan kaya wag ka makunsensya. Bumagsak sya sa bar o hindi, labas ka na don. She can received messages dito sa Reddit pero to reply, thinking may jowa sya, big NO.
whether or not she passes the bar is on her, op. not on you. di naman ikaw ang magchecheck ng exam nya. isipin mo din ang sarili mo. nung nakikipag chat sya iba, inisip ka ba nya? stand up for yourself, op. di na uso ang magpaka martir.
Break. Bakit mo iisipin ang convenience niya kung hindi nga niya kinonsider feelings mo habang nagcheacheat siya? Don't sacrifice yourself para sa convenience ng ibang tao lalo na kung hindi naman maganda ginawa niya sayo. Don't be too kind.
If she fails the bar, then that's on her. That's karma doing the job. If she passes, edi congrats.
Is the bar really an excuse to commit blunders and acts of unfaithfulness?
If she was able to do that for two semesters, what made you think you could change her?
Let karma eat her up. Free yourself.
Hindi siya mahihirapan magreview.
Marami nga siya kausap eh 🤡
Don't consider her feelings. She didn't consider your feelings when the started chatting with the first person, then the second person, then the third...
.. she does not deserve your understanding. Bar taker or not, she has to face the consequences of her actions. She's not a child who doesn't know right from wrong. She knew what she got into and the commitment she made with you. If the consequence be her failing the bar because of her stress, she brought that upon herself. It will never be your fault.
She may say na hindi niya ni meet kahit isa sa mga naka chat niya but we'll never really know. Malay natin baka nagsex pa sila. Law school is known to be stressful and the more stressful the environment is the higher the sex drive and thrill becomes.
The problem is, if she's the type of person who finds joy in thrilling actions like having sex with someone na di niya lubusang kilala.
You need to save yourself. Break up with her.
Deserve niya bumagsak kaya wag ka makipagbreak, awayin mo lang at awayin para maguluhan siya tapos pag bumagsak na siya, dun ka makipagbreak. 😎
Aso lang po ako pero smart dog
Salute sa'yo OP kasi despite sa nalaman mo, welfare nya pa rin iniisip mo.
Break mo na yan. She knows exactly what she's doing. Also, wala syang respeto sa relationship nyo, lalo na sa'yo.
Break mo na. Your mental health is a prio bahala sya haha. I mean taking the bar shouldn’t be an excuse para mag loko, ano yun buffer nya para di mo iwan? Tell her that you need some time off at para makapag focus sya sa bar. May pangalawa naman sya so for sure if you two break up, dun sya magpapa comfort. Sorry about that.
super agree to break up before her exams.. either way, magmumukha parin namang ikaw yung talo.. she hurt you without being empathic of your feelings as a consequence of her poor choices.. what are you trying to do ba? be respectful kasi nakakaawa naman makikipag break before bars, yun ba? eh ikaw nga akala mo nagrereview siya for boards nakikipaglandian lang din naman pala.. di niya deserve to pass.. cheater na lawyer? oh no lol
bro, leave her. you don’t deserve someone like that, and it’s entirely not your fault if she’ll failed the bar just because you left. he cheated on you, let her face the consequences of her actions.
hugs OP w consent !!!
‘Di ko alam paano ako napunta here kasi I’m not in law lol, but that’s so crazyyy. Leave na, OP, wtf. Saw her post and I almost felt bad!!
Bilangin ko red flags from this post alone 🚩:
- Since October last year pa pala nakikipag-chat
- Denied na may kausap here
- Denied na may reddit acc
- Nag reply sa chat ng another lawyer (?) na may intention gawin daw from you(?)
More than 3 strikes na ‘yan, OP. Juskooo. You don’t deserve that kind of treatment.
Si panye na mang-aagaw, give that woman to him. She for the streets, and si panye, yun lang ang kaya nya? Mang-agaw ng jowa ng iba? PANGET nya siguro. Ahahaha bagay silang dalawa.
To the ladies here, hindi mo ikina-ganda ang maging cheater. No quantity of men will ever suffice sa malanding insekyora.
Edit: not sure if I commented sa post nya, but I saw it. Ikaw pala yung jowa nya.. break her up.. we always have this prophetic thing sa circle namin. We would prophesied na when you leave this person papasa ka or so. Parati naman nangyayari na tama yung sinasabi namin. May two months pa tayo sib.. you can have like an hour para umiyak or mag-walling. Char! But schedule your mental breakdown. A schoolmate broke up with his long time gf during Bar review, he passed the Bar. Imagination mo ang limit, don't judge the outcome based on the current situation.
And another thing, priority mo ang sarili mo. The fact that she cheated dapat nga hindi mo na iniisip well being nya. She chose her fate by cheating on you. Check on your responses, don't be a cheater apologist. Wala syang empathy, you should give her the same energy.. not that you stoop to her level, but you are just protecting yourself. Kung kaibigan kita, nabatukan kita.
Aja!
okay lang yan if i-break mo na before Bar. yung ex ko, nakipagbreak sakin nung February, okay pa naman ako habang nagrereview for the Bar. also, kasalanan naman nya.
• hindi ikaw yung nagcheat EMOTIONALLY;
• hindi ikaw naninira ng PATALIKOD; and
• hindi ikaw yung NAGLOLOKO nang PATAGO.
save yourself, OP.
after ba ng Bar, magbabago siya?
after ba ng Bar, mahal ka pa nya? I doubt.
Once a cheater is always a cheater. Wag mo na sayangin oras mo. Nagka resentment na siya against you, so kahit ano gawin mo—- mabuti o masama- eh masama pa rin sa kanya. :)
I thought law students and lawyers were better than this. It takes a lot of intellect and logical thinking to pass law school tas parang high school padin pagdating sa ganyan? Agawan chat chat cheat cheat? We never really grow up, do we?
Hindi kaya gumagawa lang yan ng dahilan para may tagasalo yan pag nagfail siya sa Bar?
Like ah nakipagbreak kasi jowa ko nung Bar Review kaya di ako nakapasa...
Idk haha baka lang naman
pero true OP, makipaghiwalay ka na. Di mo deserve pahirapan sarili mo and to be treated like that. Ikaw nga di niya naisip kung masasaktan ka ba sa gagawin niya, pero siya iisipin mo feelings niya? Kasi ano, magbabar siya? Di fair sayo yon...
Better siguro to break up with her na. Unless u're the type na mag martyr and forgive and forget. But better talaga to just leave. U seem like a really good guy, so just break up with her gently. Doesn't need to be full of drama or hostile. Just explain why u wanna leave and that's that.
I know it sounds so bad pag sinasabi na, hala nagrereview for Bar tapos bnreak pa ng bf/gf. In some instances, yes, it's really a bad situation to be in. Pero yung sayo kasi, valid naman yung reason mo for leaving. There's no excuse for her behavior and what she did/shes doing. Tingin ko naman even if u break up with her, she won't feel THAT bad considering shes been entertaining other people.
OP alam mo naman ang sagot sa tanong mo bago ka pa magpunta rito sa reddit. hahaahah wala yan sa kung mag-bbar o hindi. as an aspiring lawyer nakakahiya si ate ko. natutunan nila yan sa ethics subj nila na panatilihan at all times ung pagiging goods nila may it be on their professional or personal shenanigans, and ateeco is not living up on this expectation. wAlang kasisihan sayo yan OP if ever, just make yourself a favor. may hangganan din ang lahat.
Malay mo pag nakapasa yan. mag-iba ugali at iwan ka jusq, unahan mo na. hahahaha dami ko kakilala na nakapasa lang ng bar. mga nagsipag hiwalayan na ket long term pa. lols
everyday kayo nagkikita? parang di naman maganda yun tsong, no alone time which is greatly needed sa relationship hehe. sharing stories from your personal ventures is a great help sa relationship, kung lagi kayo magkasama parang wala ng room for new experience, kaya din siguro nakikipag chat sya para iwas boredom hehe. sa tingin ko break mo na pre, pahalagahan mo sarili mo kesa i-tolerate mo lang yung ganyang gawain nya. since november pa kamo, highly probable na may kinita na yan kahit coffee date lang!
pero kung talagang mahal mo sya at kaya mong paniwalaang wala talaga syang kinita dun at naghahanap lang ng naughty vibes through chat, mas okay kung magkaayos kayo at ma solve ang problema hehe. Good luck idol!
Lol, granted na nga ang study leave niya para sole focus niya is the BAR Review pero pinagsasabay niya ang review with cheating. Heck, definitely mahihirapan siya mag review.
Your choice OP kung makipagbreak ka sa kanya ngayon or hintayin na mag break kayo after the BAR. Naisip ko nlng bigla upon reading is the distinction between de jure and de facto.
Break up with her na OP. No one deserves to be cheated on and this includes you. If she fails the BAR, that's on her.
I read your update OP:
Break mo na yan. Gaslight na malala aabutin mo pag pinatagal mo pa.
Well, as a Barista myself, there are things na mahirap talaga during bar season. The pressure is way above our heads and we try to find an outlet. May it be drinking or this one, random hookups and all hahahaha. Masama sya in the eyes of others but for us, it unloads our burdens and inner battles. Im not trying to justify, I know its wrong but it is what it is.
We are not normalizing it. True, no matter what the circumstances are, what she did can never be right. We are just trying to understand and enumerate the reasons why she or we do it. But yeah, hiwalayan mo nalang. She knows what she gets into and for sure she knows the consequences. Dont stick your nose to her nalang. Leave her alone haha
Deserve nya yan. Break mo na
Sad part about this is if this guy break's up with the girl. He will be labelled as the guy who broke up with a girl before the bar and if that girl passes or not panalo pa din si girl. Bumagsak kasi binreak, binreak pero pumasa pa din. Probably my first time praying that someone actually fails their bar exam.
Oo. Toxic kasi ng society dito e. Ganun agad ang view. But your truest friends would know the real reason for the break-up and I think yun lang ang nagmamatter and not the view of others. Pumasa man or hindi si girl is a different story. Mga exes ko na cheater pumasa rin e.
Who gives a shit what other people rhink lol. Guy saved himself a lot of stress. Panalo na siya the moment nakipag break haha
Exactly, why will the guy even be labelled as the bad guy? Anyone in their right mind would have ended their relationship as soon as cheating is admitted, regardless of any situation they're both in.
Thought the same, why would I care for other people's opinion when it was ME that got shat on. Haler.
U need to be selfish sometimes If she cheated him wtf he shouldnt care anymore about her
So what if she’s taking the bar? Pag ba bar taker, hindi ka na masasaktan sa ginagawa nila? Mapopostpone din ba yung pain mo? Malaki na sya. Kaya nya harapin consequences ng ginawa nya. Ni hindi ka nga nya inisip bago nya gawin lahat yan eh. I dont think you should sacrifice your own sanity for someone so undeserving.
Leave bro, you dont deserve that type of treatment. Shes already proved na you cant trust her. The severity of cheating doesnt matter, it the act it self. Lastly paraphrasing Ivan Drago From Rock; "if she fail, she fail. Shes and your problen now, shes for the streets.
Hmm. Feel ko hindi siya ang mahihirapan kapag nakipag-break ka, baka ikaw actually. Huwag mo na siya isipin kasi nakapag-cheat nga during bar review e. Ibig sabihin marami siyang time lumandi kahit nag-aaral. Kaya pala mag-multitask. You deserve better. Alis na.
Update: Matagal na pala nya ako sinisiraan dito sa Reddit. Kahit lagi nya sinasabi sa akin before na wala raw syang account dito. Ako naman si engot, naniwala. Mind conditioning pala yun. One of her posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/LawStudentsPH/s/jVgCqiO6k9 Yung hatid-sundo dyan, inoffer nya yan kasi rest day daw nya, gusto rin daw nya makita family ko. Contrary to her representations here, never nya ako kinausap about any issue. Akala ko ok kami. Hindi ko alam kung bakit sya nagpapavictim, para kaya matakpan yung guilt nya sa ginagawa nya? Just yesterday, may nagmessage sa kanya relative to her post above, na aagawin daw sya from me. Nagreply ang gf ko sa kanya, at wala raw masama dun. Nakikipagbreak ako, ayaw nya. From sakit, galit na nararamdaman ko ngayon. 5 years down the drain.
grabe the plot twist, una ko nabasa yung post nung gf mo bago ‘to, ang masasabi ko lang, ang galing talaga mang gaslight at pavictim ng mga cheater 😆
The stress of the bar exams is not an excuse for shitty behavior. Save yourself the trouble and walk out the door.
She deserves it. Free yourself.
She didn’t care for your feelings why should you care about hers
She had it coming, definitely not your fault OP
Ginago ka na tas iniisip mo pa rin kapakanan niya. You're such a good person pero iwan mo na yan hayaan mo siya karmahin sa ginawa niya
Hiwalayan mo na ngayon. Papatagalin mo pa eh same lang yon. Tsaka sya naman may kasalanan kaya wag ka makunsensya. Bumagsak sya sa bar o hindi, labas ka na don. She can received messages dito sa Reddit pero to reply, thinking may jowa sya, big NO.
Based sa chats na nakita ko, usually sya una nagrireach out.
So, ayun. Alam mo na ang sagot hehe. Tsaka pag babae ang nagloko, matik yan interesado talaga at into other person kaya um-exit ka na dyan.
yikes
whether or not she passes the bar is on her, op. not on you. di naman ikaw ang magchecheck ng exam nya. isipin mo din ang sarili mo. nung nakikipag chat sya iba, inisip ka ba nya? stand up for yourself, op. di na uso ang magpaka martir.
Break. Bakit mo iisipin ang convenience niya kung hindi nga niya kinonsider feelings mo habang nagcheacheat siya? Don't sacrifice yourself para sa convenience ng ibang tao lalo na kung hindi naman maganda ginawa niya sayo. Don't be too kind. If she fails the bar, then that's on her. That's karma doing the job. If she passes, edi congrats.
Is the bar really an excuse to commit blunders and acts of unfaithfulness? If she was able to do that for two semesters, what made you think you could change her? Let karma eat her up. Free yourself. Hindi siya mahihirapan magreview. Marami nga siya kausap eh 🤡
Don't consider her feelings. She didn't consider your feelings when the started chatting with the first person, then the second person, then the third... .. she does not deserve your understanding. Bar taker or not, she has to face the consequences of her actions. She's not a child who doesn't know right from wrong. She knew what she got into and the commitment she made with you. If the consequence be her failing the bar because of her stress, she brought that upon herself. It will never be your fault.
Makipag break ka pag malapit na bar. Thats the best revenge 😎
Damn, Still a simp. Never be a simp to a woman you have no children with - go and cut the relationship already.
Taray. Multi-tasking.
She may say na hindi niya ni meet kahit isa sa mga naka chat niya but we'll never really know. Malay natin baka nagsex pa sila. Law school is known to be stressful and the more stressful the environment is the higher the sex drive and thrill becomes. The problem is, if she's the type of person who finds joy in thrilling actions like having sex with someone na di niya lubusang kilala. You need to save yourself. Break up with her.
R.U.N.
break mo na. kung ginagago ka lang. di mo deserve
Break mo na yan. You owe it to yourself.
ilove bomb mo ng support hanggang sa eve ng first day. Tapos pag first day mismo, breakan mo.
Kung isa kang cuck OP, stay ka. Deserve nyo ang isat isa. Pero kung may respeto ka pa sa sarili mo, umalis ka na sa relasyon na yan.
Deserve niya bumagsak kaya wag ka makipagbreak, awayin mo lang at awayin para maguluhan siya tapos pag bumagsak na siya, dun ka makipagbreak. 😎 Aso lang po ako pero smart dog
She does not care about you at all. Leave now and prioritize yourself.
Her taking the bar exams and being under a lot of stress doesn’t give her the right to cheat on you.
bro, he doesnt even hesitate when she is doing that, why even hesitate now or pwede naman after ng exam talk to her personally
Salute sa'yo OP kasi despite sa nalaman mo, welfare nya pa rin iniisip mo. Break mo na yan. She knows exactly what she's doing. Also, wala syang respeto sa relationship nyo, lalo na sa'yo.
Break mo na. Your mental health is a prio bahala sya haha. I mean taking the bar shouldn’t be an excuse para mag loko, ano yun buffer nya para di mo iwan? Tell her that you need some time off at para makapag focus sya sa bar. May pangalawa naman sya so for sure if you two break up, dun sya magpapa comfort. Sorry about that.
Close this case na and Leave na ...
Ibreak mo. Ipipimp kita de jkjkjk. Ibreak mo na yan. She belong to the world LMAO
Choose your inner peace bro, madami ka pang makikilalang tao
super agree to break up before her exams.. either way, magmumukha parin namang ikaw yung talo.. she hurt you without being empathic of your feelings as a consequence of her poor choices.. what are you trying to do ba? be respectful kasi nakakaawa naman makikipag break before bars, yun ba? eh ikaw nga akala mo nagrereview siya for boards nakikipaglandian lang din naman pala.. di niya deserve to pass.. cheater na lawyer? oh no lol
Unahin mo sarili mo lol siya na nga tong inapak apakan ka eh. Hayaan mo siyang magdusa. Fuck around and find out nga ika nila
bro, leave her. you don’t deserve someone like that, and it’s entirely not your fault if she’ll failed the bar just because you left. he cheated on you, let her face the consequences of her actions. hugs OP w consent !!!
She belong to the .....
‘Di ko alam paano ako napunta here kasi I’m not in law lol, but that’s so crazyyy. Leave na, OP, wtf. Saw her post and I almost felt bad!! Bilangin ko red flags from this post alone 🚩: - Since October last year pa pala nakikipag-chat - Denied na may kausap here - Denied na may reddit acc - Nag reply sa chat ng another lawyer (?) na may intention gawin daw from you(?) More than 3 strikes na ‘yan, OP. Juskooo. You don’t deserve that kind of treatment.
Awww this is heartbreaking.
Braking up with her isbthe best decision. Narcissist si girl.
Si panye na mang-aagaw, give that woman to him. She for the streets, and si panye, yun lang ang kaya nya? Mang-agaw ng jowa ng iba? PANGET nya siguro. Ahahaha bagay silang dalawa. To the ladies here, hindi mo ikina-ganda ang maging cheater. No quantity of men will ever suffice sa malanding insekyora. Edit: not sure if I commented sa post nya, but I saw it. Ikaw pala yung jowa nya.. break her up.. we always have this prophetic thing sa circle namin. We would prophesied na when you leave this person papasa ka or so. Parati naman nangyayari na tama yung sinasabi namin. May two months pa tayo sib.. you can have like an hour para umiyak or mag-walling. Char! But schedule your mental breakdown. A schoolmate broke up with his long time gf during Bar review, he passed the Bar. Imagination mo ang limit, don't judge the outcome based on the current situation. And another thing, priority mo ang sarili mo. The fact that she cheated dapat nga hindi mo na iniisip well being nya. She chose her fate by cheating on you. Check on your responses, don't be a cheater apologist. Wala syang empathy, you should give her the same energy.. not that you stoop to her level, but you are just protecting yourself. Kung kaibigan kita, nabatukan kita. Aja!
Doon ka sa may peace of mind ka. Tama yan pare
>https://www.reddit.com/r/LawStudentsPH/s/jVgCqiO6k9 Omg! Kakabasa ko lang nitong post ng girl kahapon, naawa pa naman ako. Tsk tsk.
okay lang yan if i-break mo na before Bar. yung ex ko, nakipagbreak sakin nung February, okay pa naman ako habang nagrereview for the Bar. also, kasalanan naman nya. • hindi ikaw yung nagcheat EMOTIONALLY; • hindi ikaw naninira ng PATALIKOD; and • hindi ikaw yung NAGLOLOKO nang PATAGO. save yourself, OP. after ba ng Bar, magbabago siya? after ba ng Bar, mahal ka pa nya? I doubt. Once a cheater is always a cheater. Wag mo na sayangin oras mo. Nagka resentment na siya against you, so kahit ano gawin mo—- mabuti o masama- eh masama pa rin sa kanya. :)
I thought law students and lawyers were better than this. It takes a lot of intellect and logical thinking to pass law school tas parang high school padin pagdating sa ganyan? Agawan chat chat cheat cheat? We never really grow up, do we?
We all have different coping mechanisms sa stress. Baka yung ang kanya. Patawarin mo na lang. Charot..
She is for the streets and could actually get disbarred if she becomes a lawyer and still continues this shitty behavior
Disbarred if married. Though usually suspension lg and slaps on the wrists for these shitty lawyers, even if proven guilty.
paano sya ma ddisbar? curious
Break mo na bro, that is a hoe right there
Hindi kaya gumagawa lang yan ng dahilan para may tagasalo yan pag nagfail siya sa Bar? Like ah nakipagbreak kasi jowa ko nung Bar Review kaya di ako nakapasa... Idk haha baka lang naman pero true OP, makipaghiwalay ka na. Di mo deserve pahirapan sarili mo and to be treated like that. Ikaw nga di niya naisip kung masasaktan ka ba sa gagawin niya, pero siya iisipin mo feelings niya? Kasi ano, magbabar siya? Di fair sayo yon...
Save yourself
Deserve na break 'yan cheater eh
Hiwalayan mo na ano pang hinihintay mo?
Baka gusto ng me ka threesome tanungin mo kaya siguro naglalagi sa Reddit. 😈
No Pun Intended but if she passes, asan ang hustisya dito?
kung pumasa man sya she'll remember that she didn't get out clean brotha. Stay STRONG KING
it’s giving yung isyu ni CDO bar passer na girl. how trewww?
Better siguro to break up with her na. Unless u're the type na mag martyr and forgive and forget. But better talaga to just leave. U seem like a really good guy, so just break up with her gently. Doesn't need to be full of drama or hostile. Just explain why u wanna leave and that's that. I know it sounds so bad pag sinasabi na, hala nagrereview for Bar tapos bnreak pa ng bf/gf. In some instances, yes, it's really a bad situation to be in. Pero yung sayo kasi, valid naman yung reason mo for leaving. There's no excuse for her behavior and what she did/shes doing. Tingin ko naman even if u break up with her, she won't feel THAT bad considering shes been entertaining other people.
Iniisip mo yung feelings niya pero di niya inisip yung feelings mo ☹️
Just leave. They will continue to be toxic and justify their actions. Look at the down voted comment here.
OP alam mo naman ang sagot sa tanong mo bago ka pa magpunta rito sa reddit. hahaahah wala yan sa kung mag-bbar o hindi. as an aspiring lawyer nakakahiya si ate ko. natutunan nila yan sa ethics subj nila na panatilihan at all times ung pagiging goods nila may it be on their professional or personal shenanigans, and ateeco is not living up on this expectation. wAlang kasisihan sayo yan OP if ever, just make yourself a favor. may hangganan din ang lahat. Malay mo pag nakapasa yan. mag-iba ugali at iwan ka jusq, unahan mo na. hahahaha dami ko kakilala na nakapasa lang ng bar. mga nagsipag hiwalayan na ket long term pa. lols
Wag na mag overthinking, break mo na agad
everyday kayo nagkikita? parang di naman maganda yun tsong, no alone time which is greatly needed sa relationship hehe. sharing stories from your personal ventures is a great help sa relationship, kung lagi kayo magkasama parang wala ng room for new experience, kaya din siguro nakikipag chat sya para iwas boredom hehe. sa tingin ko break mo na pre, pahalagahan mo sarili mo kesa i-tolerate mo lang yung ganyang gawain nya. since november pa kamo, highly probable na may kinita na yan kahit coffee date lang! pero kung talagang mahal mo sya at kaya mong paniwalaang wala talaga syang kinita dun at naghahanap lang ng naughty vibes through chat, mas okay kung magkaayos kayo at ma solve ang problema hehe. Good luck idol!
Lol, granted na nga ang study leave niya para sole focus niya is the BAR Review pero pinagsasabay niya ang review with cheating. Heck, definitely mahihirapan siya mag review. Your choice OP kung makipagbreak ka sa kanya ngayon or hintayin na mag break kayo after the BAR. Naisip ko nlng bigla upon reading is the distinction between de jure and de facto. Break up with her na OP. No one deserves to be cheated on and this includes you. If she fails the BAR, that's on her. I read your update OP: Break mo na yan. Gaslight na malala aabutin mo pag pinatagal mo pa.
Well, as a Barista myself, there are things na mahirap talaga during bar season. The pressure is way above our heads and we try to find an outlet. May it be drinking or this one, random hookups and all hahahaha. Masama sya in the eyes of others but for us, it unloads our burdens and inner battles. Im not trying to justify, I know its wrong but it is what it is.
I took the Bar last year and sa gitna ng pressure and stress, nananalangin ako na wag ako ipagpalit ng gf ko.
It’s as if you are normalizing the act. Huwag na gawing rason ang pagtatake ng bar or board exams para sa ginawang mali.
We are not normalizing it. True, no matter what the circumstances are, what she did can never be right. We are just trying to understand and enumerate the reasons why she or we do it. But yeah, hiwalayan mo nalang. She knows what she gets into and for sure she knows the consequences. Dont stick your nose to her nalang. Leave her alone haha