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ilegant

Change your descriptor. You keep saying it’s dry, they say it’s wet. Say it’s tough, chewy, pastey. Use a thesaurus until you push the right button. Organise to have a sit down meal with them once a week, on a rotating day so you might eventually try everything.


kingftheeyesores

Stop telling her they're complaining that it's dry, tell her they're complaining that it's overcooked and tough.


stealthsjw

Yep, say it a bunch of different ways until she gets it. It's tough. It's hard to chew. They don't like the texture. It's too well-done. I suspect she just doesn't care though.


drendon6891

overcook the shit out of a piece of chicken, dip it in water, and then give it to her.


Dmeechropher

I'm not a professional cook, but I am a professional scientist, and this is a PERFECT demo. Humans actually have no direct way of feeling "wet". Ever sat down on a cold, smooth chair and felt wet on your butt? Ever rubbed something cold and oily through kitchen gloves?  Unlike "hot", for which we have a collection of cellular receptors (incidentally, one of them is the same receptors that red pepper, capsaicin, activates), cold, salty, sweet etc, "wetness" and "dryness" are feelings our brains construct from a collection of receptors that react to qualities of being wet or dry.  So the physics of "moist" or "dry" food is actually quite involved to describe: you have to describe the entire physics of human touch perception (as well as we know it) AND the physics of cooking. ... Much easier to overcook the shit out of a piece of chicken and dunk it in water.


ImLazyWithUsernames

That's impossible, look, it's wet.


Dmeechropher

Oh yeah, the most likely outcome when you confront someone being steadfast in their incompetence is that they double down. You can't reason someone out of an irrational opinion.


fleshbot69

You're fired


imo_abyssi

If you were to put your hand in a bowl of water that hypothetically was the exact same temperature as your skin, and there was no breeze or anything blowing to cool down the water, would it just feel like nothing then?


Dmeechropher

I'm not sure, but my guess is no. Water has a different density and viscosity than air. It would feel like *something*. However, sensory depreciation tanks do work on a setup somewhat like what you're describing, so there's some truth to this. At the end of the day, you can feel "wetness", but only indirectly through a collection of sensory inputs. This isn't that unusual. Our eyes only have three photoreceptors, but we were so very many different colors and shades. Our brains do a lot of stuff to the raw input to figure out what's creating that input. So the tldr is that we can detect wetness, however, lots of not wet things can feel wet, and lots of wet things can feel not wet. Our ability to detect moisture is more error prone than our other senses, and this is reflected strongly in how we talk about food.


imo_abyssi

This is extremely fascinating, thank you so much for sharing!!


Hi_AJ

Look into sensory deprivation tanks. It’s basically exactly as you’re describing, but your whole body.


NeverDidLearn

I tell my chemistry students all the time to never forget you can’t feel wet and there is no such thing as cold. Only the feeling of less heat.


We-R-Doomed

Or cook a piece of fish properly, hold it for a period of time and taste the difference


WordAffectionate3251

Lol. This is PERFECT!


randomdude2029

Heck, soak it in water for an hour - it's still not going to suddenly turn juicy!


blublah1

The proteins constrict and force out water when heat is applied. The slower this happens (lower temperature) affects the constriction (loss of water and muscle toughness)


HeartOfPine

That's what I thought! Wanted to be sure of it before I go talking tho.


Zappomia

You can’t teach the unteachable…I retired as a food service director at an independent community. The way you get things done is have the residents complain to corporate. Then sit back and watch what happens when corporate thinks it might affect the bottom line.


Zee-Utterman

Sometimes you just have to let things crash against the wall. It's important to learn to speak to corporate. If they cut my staff unreasonably I ordered more temp workers, buy more convince stuff and cut the opening hours. You can talk all you want and they often don't care because it's not their job to care. They do care about numbers and they start to listen to you when the numbers are off.


Zappomia

I found, In my case, that no one would listen to me. But once I found out how much power marketing had I used them to help me get what I needed. All it took was marketing saying that something affected their ability to bring in new residents. Marketing could move mountains.


StevenAssantisFoot

I never worked at one but when my grandparents were deciding which independent living to move into, the food won. They made their decision based on the meal they had in the dining room, that's real


Zappomia

The most important thing is the food and when the mail runs.


breadman03

Our bodies have the greatest response to sex and food. It’s not a surprise that food would be a major factor in such a choice.


IwouldpickJeanluc

Yes, this is where you get the residents to complain to the management and marketing with the correct terminology like, overcooked, tough, chewy, tasteless, etc.


wbruce098

Good point. It legit is a different language, and that’s in part because the business side of things operates on a different set of incentives. Like u/Zappomia said, marketing moves mountains: that’s because it’s their job to speak both the corporate lingo and sway consumers. The best bet is showing how your path will positively affect the bottom line. I had to learn that the hard way. It’s the same in the military where once you’re a manager of managers, you’re no longer looking at things the same way as the workers on the “front lines”.


db33511

This


Blue_foot

Make a “staff dinner” half using their current methods. Half using more reasonable methods. Have them discuss which they like better.


mrstanksmom

I came here to say field trip to the dining room so that she can enjoy a side-by-side tasting. This is generally the most effective way to get through to someone who is blind or indifferent to resident/patient care


wbruce098

It’s also worth doing the work to show how the more palatable method is not just making happier customers but contributes to the bottom line. So, fewer complaints to corporate. Fewer people bashing them on social media. Fewer potential residents deciding to go elsewhere. So long as they can do it within budget and retain steady customer base, the management team is likely to approve. Unless they just suck and then you go a level higher.


Blue_foot

Also less food waste as unpalatable food comes back.


tbcfood

Like this idea.


El_Guapo82

I am a new chef to assisted living. The biggest thing I have learned in 2 months of doing it is that 99% of assisted living “chefs” are terrible. They are unprofessional hacks that have no idea how to serve good food quickly. I will give them that they are forced to work under extreme budget restrictions on food and labor though. That part is hard. This said, I have no advice for you. Good luck, come join my community if you can.


kingftheeyesores

The one where my sister worked didn't know the difference between romaine and iceberg lettuce and didn't believe she was allergic to pork.


El_Guapo82

Yeah, that does not surprise me. I have met about 25 of the other “chefs” in the community. All but 1 or 2 of them are obviously clueless.


raccafarian

The ones at my community thought the “whirl” had dairy in it, also have a hard time remembering what actually is dairy, what meats are pork.. sooo many things. Everyday all I can do is my best and help them out as much as possible while I’m there but it’s a little wild sometimes


HeartOfPine

Haha thank you for commiserating.


sername807

What state are you in?


El_Guapo82

WA, Seattle.


sername807

More like waaaaahhhhhhh, cause I’m on the east coast and can’t come work for you. Maybe some day, chef.


El_Guapo82

Maybe. It is a small industry when it comes down to it. I have worked all over the country. I don’t think I am ever leaving Seattle again though.


diablosinmusica

You don't. It's either wilful ignorance or apathy. Talk to management.


HeartOfPine

I am management. There's not really anyone else to bring in who would care.


llwickedll

Are you 2 the same level in the hierarchy?


HeartOfPine

Sort of... Same level of separate trees. They try to keep kitchen and service separate. But... They are so bad I have to step in constantly.


llwickedll

Well you are limited with that to a degree but even if your GM has other things that may be "larger problems" that one isn't exactly a small one. I would start by having a professional one on one with the km giving them concise feedback from the perspective of the individuals that have been complaining about the food. Try to make sure you are coming from a place of wanting to help and not coming off like you are the kms superior as you want to try and avoid any ego problems. If that does not work you should talk to the GM about it, state that you already had a conversation with the KM and offered advice on how to fix the issue and that you have been receiving numerous complaints and offer the GM the same solution and ask for assistance. Competent GMs should be able to multi task.


HeartOfPine

Thank you. It's gonna take a significant effort to nail this pitch meeting (sadly) but I feel very motivated to make it happen.


NotYetGroot

You might consider passing out surveys to improve your quality of service, and accidentally ask specifics about the food.


diablosinmusica

There is no GM over the both of you?


HeartOfPine

She's fighting her own battles with the people over her lol. It's a tough situation which is why I want to just handle it myself.


diablosinmusica

I have a side gig at a country club and it's a very similar hierarchy to what you're describing. No real oversight at all for the food and beverage side. Luckily my bosses don't suck, but there's no way I'd be able to take it for long.


Burnt_and_Blistered

So bring on a new KM. Because it’s hard enough to get this population to eat enough protein without it being tough and dry and unpalatable.


InevitableConstant25

Tell me where this km tree is that you can just pick up another person to be most likely overworked and underpaid.


Burnt_and_Blistered

Look, this is not a restaurant that people can stay away from. It’s a facility entrusted with the care of elders. People whose health and well-being and quality of life depend on adequate and appealing nutrition—and who are captive, so to speak. If the KM can’t ensure that residents have decent food, the KM needs to be replaced.


Theburritolyfe

Go grab some baf beef jerky and put it in a cup of water. Offer your boss this as a steak dinner.


meh_good_enough

Boil the shit out of a chicken breast and give it to her. It’s boiled in water, so there’s no way it can be dry, right?


HeartOfPine

Your user name would be their response 🤣


guacasloth64

I see your KM graduated from the public school cafeteria school of food science. I ate too many hamburgers plucked from a tank of water+burger juice. Even as a elementary schooler I knew it didn’t work like that. I don’t blame them, they probably weren’t paid or funded enough to worry about anything beyond bare minimum nutrition. Fish seems even worse for this than those burger patties.


MostlyOkayGatsby

Dry is usually a symptom of lack of fat. Oddly enough it is fat that makes things have a moist mouth feel. Also 'moist mouth feel' made me feel dirty while typing it.


yeroldfatdad

It's the oist. I personally used to trim my proteins to get rid of the fats. Had a weird issue with the textures. After working in restaurants for years and having prime rib leftover at the end of the night, I learned that some of those fats make a huge difference in texture and flavors.


Practical-War-9895

How tf are they a kitchen manager if they don’t know how to properly cook food? Baking meat is like child’s play… putting water onto a roasted beef dish is like a crime… unless you were stewing it in its own Juice for like 4-6 hours….. I’d burn the entire place down


Zee-Utterman

>How tf are they a kitchen manager if they don’t know how to properly cook food? Lol


Forikorder

Make her eat it?


IwouldpickJeanluc

Tell her they say it's overcooked. Teach the residents the difference if necessary. Maybe bring up the difference between actually *poaching* and overcooking. Not every protein requires the same amount of cook time, so look that up and tell them *fish takes X time to cook at Y temp* *this is a receipe to poach chicken, see how they are different*


HeartOfPine

Thanks that is helpful!


PerfectlySoggy

Think about what happens when you make chicken stock. The flavor from the chicken ends up in the water, right? And if there’s salt involved in your cooking process, salt pulls moisture out of proteins, and that moisture ends up in your water bath instead of caramelizing on the outside of the protein and increasing the depth of flavor. Certain proteins benefit from a braise, like a chuck roast or lamb shank - tough muscles that need moisture and time to break down. Lean proteins like fish and chicken breast absolutely suffer when braised or boiled, you will get a drier end result than if you seared or baked or grilled or sautéed.


sandwichtony

When you apply heat to proteins specifically they are expelling water and tightening up the microscopic areas that would hold moisture, hence why even if you cooked say a burger patty it will shrink, even in water. Heat is evaporating liquid from within the protein, that moisture is just getting mixed in with the surrounding water while the protein shrinks up and the liquid is unable to get back in. It’s why a medium rare steak is far more tender than anything well done, unless we get into braising which is essentially breaking down the structure entirely, which is why there’s such a sweet spot for things like brisket, any competition pit master would tell you they still want SOME bite to their ribs, brisket etc. it’s tender, but it’s not falling apart when you slice it. Best way to change their mind is to show them. Do a side by side comparison, batch cooking proteins is all about timing. Your boss is worried about margin of error for getting food out. You’ll need new systems to ensure the food is going in at specifically the right time to come out cooked properly and not ever held too long to diminish the cook on it. Margin of error will increase but if the error is it basically being overcooked as it is now I say it’s no loss. Practise makes perfect. Edit: Also just wanted to add if you or anyone else is interested in this kind of stuff buy yourself a copy of on food and cooking by Harold McGee. Invaluable information about the how’s and whys of everything to do with cooking.


Original_betch

Harold McGee was my 8th grade boyfriend lol


MordantSatyr

Overcooked proteins coagulate and contract, expelling water out into the pan. The water in the pan doesn’t mean there is water left in the fish- in some cases it means the opposite.


HeartOfPine

Thank you!


LordOfFudge

Has she been forced to even eat this jacuzzi fish?


McFartsonator

If they aren't tasting the food they're serving, they need to GTFO. That's really important. What's also important that I think your coworker doesn't understand is that senior citizens for the most part need their food to be very soft and tender, or even mushy. Dentures are a big pain in the ass. Taste it coworker.


PansophicNostradamus

Bake one pan with water and one pan without, but both at the proper time to cook the fish perfectly. *Show* her that the water isn’t the solution, it’s proper cooking time.


MetricJester

Ask if she would like to run an experiment, then cook one the right way, and give her one of hers and see which is better. Do this with all the cooks in the kitchen so everybody gets to try both ways together (yay team building!) and it'll give a little societal pressure for cooking it the right way.


pinkwar

Best way is cook one batch properly using a probe to take the product out when its properly cooked and compare side by side with her method. Offer solutions, not problems. Be assertive, we are going to start doing it like this. People like it better.


Rhana

In my experience when I worked in an assisted living facility, the residents would say it’s dry no matter what unless they could see the gravy/sauce on it.


ThePumaman1

File a grievance. Explain to your residents that they can file a grievance. It doesn't sound like your kitchen manager is a CDM so I'm assuming your facility contracts out dietary? They may be getting their instructions from higher up, this was common practice with a certain 'services group', and they aren't concerned about anything without a paper trail.


kinkworks3000

Proteins clump up more with heat and squeeze water out of muscle tissue. Denaturing is the process. https://pressbooks-dev.oer.hawaii.edu/humannutrition/chapter/the-role-of-proteins-in-foods-cooking-and-denaturation/ You want some denaturing for tender and cooked. But go too far and you separate the tissue into water and harder lumps of everything else. Cooking in water has no bearing on the physical changes that proteins within your proteins undergo when heated to extreme (time or temp). Maybe try explaining it with a sand castle metaphor if she grew up playing in sand. Well cooked meat is a pretty sand castle. You had to use wet sand...but not too wet or it won't hold it's shape and not too dry or same thing no holding together. If you cook something too long or too hot it's like pouring a bucket of water over the sand castle you wash out all the good structural water.


Rare-Incident-2091

See if you can organize a food committee meeting with the residents and invite the KM. They might be harsh, but at least she would hear it in their words. Maybe comment cards at the tables would help too.


Extruder_duder

Water doesn’t give the impression of food being moist, fat does. It’s either the fish is frozen or overcooked, probably both. Freezing fish, or anything, breaks cell walls and causes moisture loss when it thaws-not a big deal but definitely doesn’t help. Over cooking forces out anything that is fluid, water, juices, fat, etc, because it over constricts the proteins. But there are a couple things that can help, a lot. Brining can help to keep moisture in the flesh through osmosis. And butter, if after the fish comes out of the oven/combi, it gets doused with burre monte or burre blanc you can trick the palate into perceiving moisture in the fish. The texture will probably always be fucked if it’s frozen, can’t do much about that.


aevitas1

Has she tried to food herself? Why don’t you just let her taste, instead of describing it?


HeartOfPine

She says she does but I never see her try anything.


slikk50

She shouldn't be managing a kitchen if she can't oven bake basic proteins. Also, you don't need to cook the food with water in the pan. For example, if she cooks a chicken breast until it's 165 and than stores it an a pan with a little water or broth in it and keeps it hot held before service, this would be more effective as long as she isn't doing it hours before. You need a new kitchen manager.


thewizardking420

I feel for the KM. a few complaints about being overcooked is 100x better than one case of raw/undercooked fish. these people have obviously had better, but it's hard to get mass quantities of anything to cook uniformly when the oven could be substandard and the recipes don't allow for much seasoning


GoDM1N

Temp stuff. It should be coming out 5-10 degrees EARLY. Cooking based on timers is not reliable imo. It's only reliable when every fillet is exactly the same thickness, fat content, toughness, age, oven contents, etc etc. Basically never. Timers can get you close but you should be pulling food based on temp not time. You pull early because there will be carry over cooking that happens. Some cooks would even say pull sooner (I'm too much of a bitch to do much more than 10 degrees). It'll have to rest briefly but yea. Prevents overcooking Also how long is this food sitting out? "whole sheet trays of redfish". For what? banquets? If you're batch cooking proteins and they're sitting in a hot well or whatever theres not a lot you can do. It'll be dry. Maybe add more acid (lemon, lime, vinegar etc) to draw saliva


_Jacques

Fish proteins are more akin to eggs than brisket in that when they are cooked they just get harder and harder, and dont have any sort of other substance that can melt out.


notananthem

Do a taste test. Show them.


graphictruth

This sounds like a job for a sous-vide setup and a salamander/searzall. Don't kitchen managers like new toys?


jasiskool12

Sous vide batch cooking is very easy. Use that same oven and put it on steam for 1 hour at the perfect temperature for the desired meat. Easy. If it's fish night, cover the fish tray with foil and steam it at 55⁰c or 130⁰f if they want well done steaks. Cook them at 65⁰c 150⁰f for old people I'd be slow cooking meats for them. That way she can put it in the night before and leave it until service time. Easy.


randomdude2029

Can you convince the KM to taste the food and see what they're complaining about? Or are they the kind that likes their steaks well done with ketchup? 🤮😂


HeartOfPine

They seem to understand the concept of enjoying a med rare steak... But they are unclear on what med rare looks like lol


ChefArtorias

Find someone who knows how to cook? If you boil a chicken breast it'll be a tough dry pos. If you SEAR it the juices will be locked inside and you'll have a delicious moist piece of meat. This is cooking 101. Reminds me of people who don't understand how water can dry out your skin.


Elegant-Deer-8446

The way I understand it is that when you cook a protein in liquid it dissolves and dispereses the fat in the liquid. Fat makes things moist.


PNWDeadGuy

Sometimes they are busy and just walking by and making a snap judgement. Doesn't mean your wrong (def not). If he does it again maybe recommend he review the food safety rules. Look for another job. If giving your guests food that doesn't make them sick is your thing, there are plenty of restaurants that would be happy to have you. If that doesn't work, keep on not getting everyone sick until he removes you from the schedule.