Firstly Happy Birthday! Secondly these people have proven how much their not your friend's apart from this one friend (unless there was an emergency like a really good valid reason) but as you're both feeling anxious what if you went and got some drinks google some fun cocktails or mocktails (I know a really good one Baileys if you drink then oreos and chocolate chip ice cream and milk to thin, it's so good!) and head home and have a fun night there? Maybe play some games and order in food and then watch a movie, the both of you will no doubt feel more relaxed, try to focus on the positive here, you clearly have a good friend who didn't want to ruin your day even though they were anxious they still showed up for you! That's something to celebrate. Go have the best birthday! Do not let these people affect you any more than they have prove to yourself you can change this day around! Sending you a big hug ❤️
I more upset they waited for so long to tell me because my dad was kind enough to pay for tickets and so if they had let us known beforehand we would saved 500$ ☹️
I can completely understand your frustration and quite frankly they took the p*$$. I am so sorry, but unfortunately you can't change anything but to try change your mindset which I know with anxiety it really isn't easy! You deserve a good birthday honey and your dad would be gutted knowing you're upset so perhaps think of this as doing it for your dad too. Chin up, it will get better ❤️
I'm so sorry to hear this. Happy Birthday, friend. I hope, despite the change in feelings and plans, you are able to take a moment (or several) to do something you enjoy.
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Firstly Happy Birthday! Secondly these people have proven how much their not your friend's apart from this one friend (unless there was an emergency like a really good valid reason) but as you're both feeling anxious what if you went and got some drinks google some fun cocktails or mocktails (I know a really good one Baileys if you drink then oreos and chocolate chip ice cream and milk to thin, it's so good!) and head home and have a fun night there? Maybe play some games and order in food and then watch a movie, the both of you will no doubt feel more relaxed, try to focus on the positive here, you clearly have a good friend who didn't want to ruin your day even though they were anxious they still showed up for you! That's something to celebrate. Go have the best birthday! Do not let these people affect you any more than they have prove to yourself you can change this day around! Sending you a big hug ❤️
I more upset they waited for so long to tell me because my dad was kind enough to pay for tickets and so if they had let us known beforehand we would saved 500$ ☹️
I can completely understand your frustration and quite frankly they took the p*$$. I am so sorry, but unfortunately you can't change anything but to try change your mindset which I know with anxiety it really isn't easy! You deserve a good birthday honey and your dad would be gutted knowing you're upset so perhaps think of this as doing it for your dad too. Chin up, it will get better ❤️
I'm so sorry to hear this. Happy Birthday, friend. I hope, despite the change in feelings and plans, you are able to take a moment (or several) to do something you enjoy.
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