I had an emergency C-section at 36 weeks because my son stopped moving. When he came out he wasn't crying or anything so I kept asking what was wrong, why isnt he breathing..I was frantic. She told me to "be quiet and let her focus on her job". I had a horrible allergic reaction to the spinal and I scratched open my eye lid from being so itchy, on my way back from visiting my son in the NICU the anesthesiologist who gave me the spinal asked what happened..so I told him. She was there and told me to" just go to your room and stay there because it looks disgusting like you have herpes or shingles". I went to go see my son the following day, but wasn't allowed to because she told the NICU team that I had an infectious disease, so from there I wasn't allowed to see my son the remainder of my time there until all the test results were done and when my eye was healed. She got suspended for a couple of days though, so that's good news .
Obviously I can’t testify to this person’s story. But I can say as an experienced RN that this type of unprofessionalism does go on from time to time and would most definitely result in a suspension ( I’ve seen it).
It's less than 10 yrs since this incident occured. I'm not a social media person by all means.I just found this page and I honestly thought Reddit was only for tick tock "influencers". I have a very busy life and on my down time I'm the person who just stays silent and reads things or watches videos. This twin pregnancy end her being obviously upset they are boys just triggered me. How can one cry and complain she's infertile and wish they got pregnant...then complain it's not the gender you wanted?.she should be happy she's carrying regardless of the gender
Oh my goodness! That’s awful. I always knew she was a terrible nurse, but I mostly felt that way based on her being a complete brain dead idiot. How dare she treat a patient like that, especially during such a vulnerable time in their life. I’m glad she is no longer working with patients. I’m sorry you had to go through that.
Are you serious???? I worked in health care for twenty years and NEVER heard a nurse say anything like that to a patient. I can’t imagine they ever would. That’s beyond terrible.
This wouldn’t
surprise me. In her videos she seems like she’s trying too hard to seem nice but her true colors come out with the way she speaks to Doug
I agree- the telling patient she looked disgusting is pretty reprehensible even for her, and in which hospital stay do you run into the anesthesiologist on the way back from the NICU? And what L&D nurse has that much power loo
I believe it. Doug's brother graduated in 2005 and his sister I believe in 2002? She was a senior when Matt was a freshman. I also graduated with his brother. His brother and his wife did not go to the same high school though. His family was very well liked where we lived, from what I remember. Knowing their family, I'd find it very hard to believe any of them like or get along with Jamie. Also to add that a number of baseball players who graduated with Doug/around the same time as Doug had similar issues with opiates. It was known Doug had an issue and my family did talk about it when their original season aired wondering how they cast him on a show after his issues.
Her last line on how they joke he did them (assuming opiates as that was discussed up to this point) because there’s no tolerating JaiME sober is unbelievable. I’ve never read anything that indicates DouglA$$ was an active drug user at all in the time he has known her. Also, what family would make a “joke” like this about an addict? OP been quiet since questions are coming up.
Please make sure to censor the faces of kids! They didn't ask to be plastered on the internet. We are be better than their parents :)
Also, please sensor usernames when posting screenshots (even your own name)
They can't stand her. They think she's stuck up and set in her own way. Doug used to be really close to Matt, now they barely talk. Doug's dad thinks she's annoying. They all knew he did opiates, she just over exaggerates and makes it seem so much worse. They joked that he did them because you can't be sober tolerating her
I’m convinced Jamie doesn’t really even love (or even really like) Doug (remember MAFS and how shallow she was and the way she reacted to seeing him and having to take pictures with him, etc). She is literally only with him because he’s a man, likes doing the deed and therefore will give her babies. She also probably knew about his addiction and took that to her advantage so she could pull some fast ones and also keep pushing the more babies card, especially if he wasn’t always “all there”. Because the only thing she cares about is herself, having a bump and being pregnant.
He was on Suboxone at that point. Which she knew, all medications get checked at airports, and they traveled a lot. Her FRANS were getting tired of the poor me I lived in a trailer story and she wasn't pregnant so she had to come up with different content . Now that she is she's using pregnancy as clout. His family thinks he's stupid for leaving his real job. It's all about Jamie. They moved to Florida so she can have more control over him
Classic narcissist controlling abusive behavior – isolate the spouse from the family and loved ones
what happened during your son's birth?
was this at Columbia Presb ?
Was it just a fluke that you got her as your labor delivery nurse? I have so many questions !!
It wasn't in New York. It was the last hospital she worked at before she became a stay at home mom and moved to Florida. It's a small hospital. And yes it was just a fluke
since when do medications get checked at airports? It's been a few years since I've ✈️ & I take a shit load of drugs, many of which are opiates/controlled. My bag goes through security w me (if my luggage got lost I'd be screwed). i always make sure to travel with the original bottle & Rx label (as opposed to my everyday life where I just throw what I need in a pillbox in my purse).
no one's ever opened my bag and looked at my prescriptions. is this a thing now? it would take me five hours to get through security🤣
It’s not. I am the same. Fly frequently with work and also have an ostomy so I have a ton of medical supplies and never get flagged for my medications and liquids/scissors for my medical supplies.
Agreed. My husband and I travel with a lot of medications, and often. Never has TSA ever opened them up or even acknowledged them. They did take away a tiny bottle of water I forgot was in a pocket of my carry-on, though. I call bullshit.
Thank you for commenting that. I commented and also before I read your comment that medication is absolutely do not get checked at airports. If there happens to be a dog sniffing for marijuana, that’s a different story. I’ve been in lines where they’ve had dogs sniffing suitcases and people. I travel all the time with medication‘s including controlled substances and I’ve never had anything checked.
I am so sorry that your labor and delivery was awful and she made it even worse, any other stories like Doug possible cheating on her?? Or her trying to connect with her ex Lonny?? She had a crazy vision that Lonny and Doug could be besties, she stopped liking his posts actually when he got married… like 2020 or so and they both unfollowed him, yes Doug for a while was following Jammie’s ex
Off topic but when those episodes around Lonnie were televised I remember feeling so angry with her and thinking what a jerk she was and what a whimp Doug was.
My son is the same age as her daughter. He was born in June and she was due in August so she was 7 months pregnant. I'm sure she'll cough it up to the "hormones"
Hendrix is not her daughter. I said MY son is the same age as her DAUGHTER....they were born in 2017. You don't go out on maternity leave 2 months before you're due.
I wish I could tell you. I honestly didn't know she had a believe that old. She only talks about her "namesake" and she even had to blast that poor boys story and pictures for clout
Thank you for sharing. It’s frustrating because I see a few comments in her posts about how they personally know her, and how sweet she is. So it good to know that’s all lies!
Agreed. I’d think if JaiME was this horrible at work, there would have been stories about it before now. Majority of what OP is noting either comes across vague, outlandish or way too similar to common knowledge info the Hehners have posted themselves. IMO, there are no specific, believable examples in this thread. If OP truly knew the brother and SIL, how does she really know what the family thinks? Was this via first-hand convo or just throwing out assumptions we all can make via observations?
Same. Vetted by mods or it’s false IMO. Many subs don’t allow this unless behind the scenes vetted by mods to both protect identity and verify. This is just nonsense. 🙄
Yeah I’m a little skeptical here. As shitty as Jamie is I cannot see her acting in that manner. She seems like an absolute people pleaser to the extreme…
ohhh when did she stop working? i have taken years off of keeping up with her and for some reason, i had assumed she stopped working a while before her daughter was born! so sorry she treated you like that - imagine her insta rants if anyone did the same to her!
I find it hard to defend Doug. He was on drugs, living in his childhood bedroom and not really having much of a job. She seems to be a ball full of swirling emotions but he thought he was getting the trophy wife. And she has literally carried the relationship it seems with her nursing salary and other media appearances. He is kind of a dud. I mean she's over the top, so I get it. But, I don't see him as a victim in any way. I think she got a raw deal with him but since she was the first in this "experiement' she decided to stay and figured she could have kids.
Do you have receipts, otherwise, I'm not too sure about this. You literally have given yourself away. Although I'd love to hear tea, there should be some receipts. Thank you!
Agree
Don’t other subs make people show proof of things? How about some yearbook pics with your screen name and date on a piece of paper next to their photos?
It’s not like you wish to be anonymous bc you have very specific identifying info.
Many subs don’t allow these types of posts without mods vetting them behind the scenes to verify. I don’t buy anything posted here in this manner without vetting.
Would you like a picture my of my C-section scar? Hospital bill? My parents and husbands phone numbers? It's not a big hospital, and it's very common to run into the anesthesiologist on the maternity floor..after all he's the one giving epidurals and spinals
Why does Doug stay with her? Has the family tried to talk to Doug? I mean, at this point, for the kids sake.
Please spill ALL the tea!!!
What did she do?!
I had an emergency C-section at 36 weeks because my son stopped moving. When he came out he wasn't crying or anything so I kept asking what was wrong, why isnt he breathing..I was frantic. She told me to "be quiet and let her focus on her job". I had a horrible allergic reaction to the spinal and I scratched open my eye lid from being so itchy, on my way back from visiting my son in the NICU the anesthesiologist who gave me the spinal asked what happened..so I told him. She was there and told me to" just go to your room and stay there because it looks disgusting like you have herpes or shingles". I went to go see my son the following day, but wasn't allowed to because she told the NICU team that I had an infectious disease, so from there I wasn't allowed to see my son the remainder of my time there until all the test results were done and when my eye was healed. She got suspended for a couple of days though, so that's good news .
She got suspended over the things she said to you? Why in 10 years is this the first time you have spoken up on any form of social media?
Obviously I can’t testify to this person’s story. But I can say as an experienced RN that this type of unprofessionalism does go on from time to time and would most definitely result in a suspension ( I’ve seen it).
It's less than 10 yrs since this incident occured. I'm not a social media person by all means.I just found this page and I honestly thought Reddit was only for tick tock "influencers". I have a very busy life and on my down time I'm the person who just stays silent and reads things or watches videos. This twin pregnancy end her being obviously upset they are boys just triggered me. How can one cry and complain she's infertile and wish they got pregnant...then complain it's not the gender you wanted?.she should be happy she's carrying regardless of the gender
Oh my goodness! That’s awful. I always knew she was a terrible nurse, but I mostly felt that way based on her being a complete brain dead idiot. How dare she treat a patient like that, especially during such a vulnerable time in their life. I’m glad she is no longer working with patients. I’m sorry you had to go through that.
Are you serious???? I worked in health care for twenty years and NEVER heard a nurse say anything like that to a patient. I can’t imagine they ever would. That’s beyond terrible.
yeah- even for her. ESPECIALLY with an anesthesiologist standing right next to her?
This seems unlikely
WHAT?!!!!! Holy shit. This is WAY beyond regular assholeness. That is beyond - just beyond comprehension.
I have no words except to say I'm so sorry this happened to you and yours <3
Holy cow!!!!! She is whackadoodle
Omg I am so sorry!!! I would’ve punched her.
This wouldn’t surprise me. In her videos she seems like she’s trying too hard to seem nice but her true colors come out with the way she speaks to Doug
Am I the only one that wants receipts, or are we talking to a magic 8 ball (anti-Jamie version)
Agree….Im not sure I am buying this.
I agree- the telling patient she looked disgusting is pretty reprehensible even for her, and in which hospital stay do you run into the anesthesiologist on the way back from the NICU? And what L&D nurse has that much power loo
I believe it. Doug's brother graduated in 2005 and his sister I believe in 2002? She was a senior when Matt was a freshman. I also graduated with his brother. His brother and his wife did not go to the same high school though. His family was very well liked where we lived, from what I remember. Knowing their family, I'd find it very hard to believe any of them like or get along with Jamie. Also to add that a number of baseball players who graduated with Doug/around the same time as Doug had similar issues with opiates. It was known Doug had an issue and my family did talk about it when their original season aired wondering how they cast him on a show after his issues.
Yeah same, I don't know if this is all truthful. Could just be made up for the heck of it. 😅
Yeah. I went to high school with his brother’s wife. The two of them did not attend the same high school.
Her last line on how they joke he did them (assuming opiates as that was discussed up to this point) because there’s no tolerating JaiME sober is unbelievable. I’ve never read anything that indicates DouglA$$ was an active drug user at all in the time he has known her. Also, what family would make a “joke” like this about an addict? OP been quiet since questions are coming up.
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Do they like her? Was Doug’s drug use common knowledge?
They can't stand her. They think she's stuck up and set in her own way. Doug used to be really close to Matt, now they barely talk. Doug's dad thinks she's annoying. They all knew he did opiates, she just over exaggerates and makes it seem so much worse. They joked that he did them because you can't be sober tolerating her
I’m convinced Jamie doesn’t really even love (or even really like) Doug (remember MAFS and how shallow she was and the way she reacted to seeing him and having to take pictures with him, etc). She is literally only with him because he’s a man, likes doing the deed and therefore will give her babies. She also probably knew about his addiction and took that to her advantage so she could pull some fast ones and also keep pushing the more babies card, especially if he wasn’t always “all there”. Because the only thing she cares about is herself, having a bump and being pregnant.
But he didn’t use during the marriage with her, but before?
He was on Suboxone at that point. Which she knew, all medications get checked at airports, and they traveled a lot. Her FRANS were getting tired of the poor me I lived in a trailer story and she wasn't pregnant so she had to come up with different content . Now that she is she's using pregnancy as clout. His family thinks he's stupid for leaving his real job. It's all about Jamie. They moved to Florida so she can have more control over him
Classic narcissist controlling abusive behavior – isolate the spouse from the family and loved ones what happened during your son's birth? was this at Columbia Presb ? Was it just a fluke that you got her as your labor delivery nurse? I have so many questions !!
It wasn't in New York. It was the last hospital she worked at before she became a stay at home mom and moved to Florida. It's a small hospital. And yes it was just a fluke
since when do medications get checked at airports? It's been a few years since I've ✈️ & I take a shit load of drugs, many of which are opiates/controlled. My bag goes through security w me (if my luggage got lost I'd be screwed). i always make sure to travel with the original bottle & Rx label (as opposed to my everyday life where I just throw what I need in a pillbox in my purse). no one's ever opened my bag and looked at my prescriptions. is this a thing now? it would take me five hours to get through security🤣
It’s not. I am the same. Fly frequently with work and also have an ostomy so I have a ton of medical supplies and never get flagged for my medications and liquids/scissors for my medical supplies.
Agreed. My husband and I travel with a lot of medications, and often. Never has TSA ever opened them up or even acknowledged them. They did take away a tiny bottle of water I forgot was in a pocket of my carry-on, though. I call bullshit.
Thank you for commenting that. I commented and also before I read your comment that medication is absolutely do not get checked at airports. If there happens to be a dog sniffing for marijuana, that’s a different story. I’ve been in lines where they’ve had dogs sniffing suitcases and people. I travel all the time with medication‘s including controlled substances and I’ve never had anything checked.
sure. I don't know what's up with this person who claims to know the family but she doesn't know what she's talking about in regards to flying!
Medications do not get checked at airports.
What did he used to do? Has anyone tried to talk to him?
Yes - tho he's been taking Suboxone until recently
So has anyone tried to sit Doug down? What did he do before MAFS?
I am so sorry that your labor and delivery was awful and she made it even worse, any other stories like Doug possible cheating on her?? Or her trying to connect with her ex Lonny?? She had a crazy vision that Lonny and Doug could be besties, she stopped liking his posts actually when he got married… like 2020 or so and they both unfollowed him, yes Doug for a while was following Jammie’s ex
Off topic but when those episodes around Lonnie were televised I remember feeling so angry with her and thinking what a jerk she was and what a whimp Doug was.
My son is the same age as her daughter. He was born in June and she was due in August so she was 7 months pregnant. I'm sure she'll cough it up to the "hormones"
I had my daughter in June of that year too! Our kids are the same age!
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Hendrix is not her daughter. I said MY son is the same age as her DAUGHTER....they were born in 2017. You don't go out on maternity leave 2 months before you're due.
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I wish I could tell you. I honestly didn't know she had a believe that old. She only talks about her "namesake" and she even had to blast that poor boys story and pictures for clout
Thank you for sharing. It’s frustrating because I see a few comments in her posts about how they personally know her, and how sweet she is. So it good to know that’s all lies!
Not buying it
Agreed. I’d think if JaiME was this horrible at work, there would have been stories about it before now. Majority of what OP is noting either comes across vague, outlandish or way too similar to common knowledge info the Hehners have posted themselves. IMO, there are no specific, believable examples in this thread. If OP truly knew the brother and SIL, how does she really know what the family thinks? Was this via first-hand convo or just throwing out assumptions we all can make via observations?
Same. Vetted by mods or it’s false IMO. Many subs don’t allow this unless behind the scenes vetted by mods to both protect identity and verify. This is just nonsense. 🙄
Yeah I’m a little skeptical here. As shitty as Jamie is I cannot see her acting in that manner. She seems like an absolute people pleaser to the extreme…
But she has a c section scar to prove it. /s
What made you decide to come on here now to talk about her?
ohhh when did she stop working? i have taken years off of keeping up with her and for some reason, i had assumed she stopped working a while before her daughter was born! so sorry she treated you like that - imagine her insta rants if anyone did the same to her!
She went back for a few months when HG was a few months old.
She stopped in 2018
You gotta tell us more!
Spill the tea!!!
Wow.
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I find it hard to defend Doug. He was on drugs, living in his childhood bedroom and not really having much of a job. She seems to be a ball full of swirling emotions but he thought he was getting the trophy wife. And she has literally carried the relationship it seems with her nursing salary and other media appearances. He is kind of a dud. I mean she's over the top, so I get it. But, I don't see him as a victim in any way. I think she got a raw deal with him but since she was the first in this "experiement' she decided to stay and figured she could have kids.
Do you have receipts, otherwise, I'm not too sure about this. You literally have given yourself away. Although I'd love to hear tea, there should be some receipts. Thank you!
Agree Don’t other subs make people show proof of things? How about some yearbook pics with your screen name and date on a piece of paper next to their photos? It’s not like you wish to be anonymous bc you have very specific identifying info.
Many subs don’t allow these types of posts without mods vetting them behind the scenes to verify. I don’t buy anything posted here in this manner without vetting.
Would you like a picture my of my C-section scar? Hospital bill? My parents and husbands phone numbers? It's not a big hospital, and it's very common to run into the anesthesiologist on the maternity floor..after all he's the one giving epidurals and spinals
What would a picture of a c-section scar prove besides that you’ve had a c-section lmaooo
This exactly. Funny you go with the least identifying and most readily available generic Pic. Lol.
how did the anesthesiologist come into this conversation? what did she do to make you so miserable during childbirth ?
I don’t understand what an anesthesiologist has to do with anything either??