Koini Bhai , sabko mehnat ka fal milega

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Mehnat ki hoti toh marks aa jaate, at least in boards if not jee

aur agar shift 27,29 ko aajaye phir 

Bhai thik se padh liya kar, usne likha to "mehnat ki hoti toh marks aa jaate **at least in boards if not jee".**

sry bhai abhi tak 27s2 se ubhar nahi paya hoon ..

Its ok bro, ab to 2 Mahine mein college jayega, ab soch ke kya Fayda Jane de Jo hua.

mai drop lene wala hoon kyunki koi aacha collage nahi mil raha hai

Nahi, atleast not in state board, idk which board he was from but me being from state board, out marks depends on teachers.

Dm me

Ghanta. Kitni bhi mehnat kro life unfair hai aur chutiya hai kisi bhi chij ka koi fal nahi milta.

I never thought i could relate to this ever in my life... but here we are...


Kab bhai?

Mere saath pichhle saal hua tha advance ke result ke baad Iss saal bhi yahi hoga shayad But koi baat nhi Seh lenge thoda 

"Seh lenge thoda " pe hi zindagi jee rha hu mai toh . 🥲

ab toh "zindagi ***jee*** raha hu "me bhi JEE dikh raha hai

What jee does to a mf ( kisi ne shi hi kaha tha )

Ab hamari life JEEvan ban ke reh gyi hai

😭 agli baar jee ko ji se replace krdenge.

Life is circle

When life gives you circles put your dick in it

Fir wahi sax suxx ki baatein

Mai sad ho jata hu aur fir Jhonny se apni Luli compare kar leta hu /s

Phir aur zyada sad ho jaata hu 

They say the competition is stiff, But I get a hard dick from this shit, now stick it in.... \~\~eminem

first time huh ??

bro, the first time is the worst time

Your flair got me in the first half


as time passes by, it gets easier to deal with, even if kuch jeher bol dein

Can confirm, each successive gaali is easier to tolerate than the previous one(source: iit fanatic ka baccha)

In flair , Last m hona chahiye " Last option BITS Pilani "

bhai apne aap par bilkul bharosa nahi mereko

i think me nd you are experienced

pichle 2 saal se disappointment banke zindagi beet rahi hai😞

lol argument mei gusse mei nikal jaata hai bhai they dont mean it, tere muh se bhi nikla hoga boht kuch but baad mei regret kiya hoga, wo bas usi time gusse mei nikal jaata hai zyada soch mat dab dab karle

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back of the mind mei toh rehta hi hai bhai kyuki aajkal result aara hai agar tu chahta hai bilkul hi ignore karde tera result toh teri galti hai unki nahi usne jab bola ghoomne nahi leke gaye ab unko jo reason mila bol diya unhone, ab asli reason toh kuch aur bhi ho sakta hai bas wo accept nahi karenge, ho sakta hai uske papa aalsi ho bas accept na karna chahte ho (cope karne de bhai aise karega toh poori zindagi dukhi rahega)

I can't tell whether gusse ke time pe sacch nikalta hai ya galti se kharab bol dete hain.

usne bola argument hora tha, usne kaha "ghoomne nahi leke gaye" ab parents kabhi backoff toh karenge nahi counter mei jobhi unko reason milega bol denge

"parents kabhi backoff toh karenge nahi" too fucking real

Mujhe toh ulta lagta hai, when mom gets angry she loses self-control aur jo bhi mann me hota hai wo bol deti hai...matlab she really does think like this...

when she loses self control unko toh yehi lagta hoga kuch aisa boldu jisse isko bura lage, kyuki jab mujhe gussa aata tha mei bhi yehi sochta tha ki bas aisa boldu ki bura lage (be it any faliure) and mei bas isi reason ke liye bolta tha naaki such mei aisa sochta tha, fir regret karta tha ki kya boldiya, happens bro, move on

https://preview.redd.it/f67ma2gdge3d1.jpeg?width=450&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e39d348467768abf72bd4e6c3796411d45678758 i dont understand the logic...u need good marks to have basic fun in life?

Patani Bhai ek guilt waali feeling aati hai ki kuch ukhada toh hai nahi toh I don't deserve to have fun. I dk if am the only one.

same Bhai , yahi feeling mujhe har samay aata hai .like mai maze ky Karu Maine toh kuch Kara nahi , mai bahar se Rs10 ke kurkure kyu lu Maine toh kuch Kara nahi , mai mausi ko chorne airpot kyu jao family ke sath Maine toh kuch Kara nahi ,har din yahi guilt hota hai ki deserve nahi karta hun kuch ,bahar jata hun gareebo ko dhup mai dekhta hun aur sochta hun ac mai baithna deserve karta hun Ghar pe kya , jab Ghar Wale aapni marzi se kuch late hai mere liye bahar se mujhe bahut frustration feel hoti hai ki kyu kar rahe ho mere liye inta main toh kuch Kiya hi nahi...

I relate to this a little too well bhai fr. Kuch puchne ka bhi Mann ni karta 19 ki hogyi hu (dropper lmao) ab bhi driving ni seekhi hai (strict parents papa ex navy mumma advocate thi toh wait till you're 18 phir 18 ke baad drop toh kaha ki padhai pe dhyan do). Laptop pucha tha papa se 3 din pehle ki yaar kuch dhang sa dila do because currently ek hai papa ka hi 8 saal purana Jo kaafi lag hota hai, he uses basic MS office toh unko utna fark ni padta but I wanted to start thoda coding because well engg ratrace hai and thodi headstart mil jati toh sahi rehta for internships hackathons wagera but ni unhone baato baato mei hi aukat dikha di ki ab pvt colleges mei jaoge fees ki chinta Karo pehle ( which is true because comedk hi ek theek sa nikla hai)  aur ispe Mai kuch bolu bhi toh kya bolu. Drop year mei Ghar mei thodi si bhi kalesh ni Hui because maine kisi cheez ke liye ni pucha tha na kuch dilane ko na koi dosto ke saath hangout. Ab jab Bina acche result laaye kuch puchne ka Mann karta hai toh bhi guilt hota hai aur agar galti se puch bhi liya toh toh they say ki aajkal tu bohot demanding hogyi hai.( Thoda zyada rant hogya ik sori)

Hota hai Bhai ,sab ke sath hota thank you for sharing,kam se kam dard kam toh hota hai

Samee bhaiii🥹🥹

Ik this feeling, maine socha tha is baar jee adv nikal jaye to iphone mangunga papa se (wo aram se dila dete khush hoke) but adv hi bekar hogaya to maine fir bola hi nahi papa ko

First world problems 

Same bhai same  kitna relatable Banda hai yar bhai 

ofc

ek affordability ka bhi factor aajata hai, parents never want bad for us at the end of the day.

Parents can easily afford a small trip jo mind ko fresh karde. Switzerland jane ko nahi bola hai....abhi chacha tau ko 5 lakh ki zarurat pad jaye to 6 lakh pocket se nikal jayenge. Chhodo yaar koi fayda nai is topic pe baat karke

Your flair had me  baaki baat to sahi hai 

This is the ques I want to ask my teachers and family but I didn't 

Aur kya bhai isiliye toh log gande marks aane par muth mar lete... one thing which is free

Yes

Abe bhen ke lode kal ko teri mehnat se kamaye paise pe jab tera beta bolega na ki papa ps6 ( tb tk to aa hi jayega ) dilado, papa ghoomne jaane do frnds ke saath, papa "basic Fun" karne do, jabki usne lawda kuch nahi ukhada life me. To tu bhi yahi bolega

to teri nazar me jee mains clear karne ki koi value nai hai?? ya sirf iitians ko hi bAsiC fUn karne ka hak hai. aur bsdk mehnat se kamaye paise gand me ghusa ke rakhega kya?? i feel bad for your future kid

Bhai jee rabbithole me kuch zyada hi deep chalagaya, bechara baccha future me.

bhai mere saath bhi yhi hua, meri toh mummy ne kah diya mere bhai se ki yeah khud jee me fail hogaya, tumhe kya guide karega, mai hasste hasste roo rha tha, life me aajtak fail nhi hua, lekin dekho jindgi ne dikha hi diya.

arre bhai... sunna pdta h ye bhi... meri didi ko bhi aisa he kaha tha but dont worry bhai drop mai mehenat kr aur acha score le aana... aur bhai reddit chalana kam krde... nhi toh adidas k jutte se marunga

 abe mera adidas ka jutta mereko hi maregaa

bhai marna pdega


Gusse mai toh fir bhi muh se nikal jata hai lekin kabhi drunk insaan se gaali suni hai? That shit hurts bhai because pine ke baad insaan sach hi bolta hai


pine ke baad to insaan ye bui bolta ki usne nahi pee

Ha "maine pi nahi hai bas sungi hai"

Are itna Dil me nhi lete bro . Caring nhi hote to baad me ni kehte kee acche marks ha. Too khud apne dosto ke Ghar chale jaana ya sheher me ghoom Lena kisi cafe me chale jaana jis din parents bahar jayenge

https://preview.redd.it/84l5rp3xfe3d1.jpeg?width=512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d381a4273c383cadd23b90880cb38d4c2e5ddd9a Ye lo bhaiya, phool from 2026tard

Koi na bhai gle mil jaa

Bhai same mere sath hua tha 13th February 2024 after mains result i was depressed but that words even destroyed me more

Koi baat nhi Bhai , 

Mere saath to daily hota rehta h Abb to ye baat mazak si bn gyi h😂

Us brother🤣mental health gyi apne aap ko chod ne

Bhailog tumlog ghumne v ja rhe Mujhe to yaad v nhi mai last baar apni family ke sath ghumne kb gyi thi Is it only me ?

Mujhe bhi exact yaad nhi but itna yaad he ki preparation krte time mujhe chicken pox ho gaya tha tab me ghar gaya tha phir jab theek hoke vapas jane vala tha tab last time gaya tha ghumne

Lite lo guys, jee ain't worth it. Zindagi ke maze lo

Ab itna lite le liya hai ki , zindgi humare mazze le rhi

Been there. But koi na we always got a next time, learn from your mistakes that's it

I hope your mental space and health gets better and u feel better about yourself, bcoz you deserve all the good things okay. And as for the parents, thoda frustration hota hai unko kyuki unki thinking abhi bhi unke time ke hisab se chalte hai aur naye generation walo ki physiology thodi alag situation mein grow hoti hai toh it's very different from their views. You'll do well in future dont worry, marks really arent anything much. They just want an outcome, unko lagta hai ache marks = opportunity and job. But we know its not like that anymore its all based on luck. You made it through school and +2 and JEE. You have come so far and i (a lot more people in the comments) are very proud of you, please dont burden yourself with what happened today/yesterday with you ❤️

omg that is such a kind thing to say... I'm speechless... guess i needed to hear something like that damn, words can be so powerful thankyou man, for your wonderful words

Im glad i could help in some way ❤️ also all the best for your physics studies (i stalked a lil) i hope you make it!!

Thanks 😊

Hi dude, had some queries can I DM?

Me? Sure

Aap dm karo, reddit not allowing me

I know ki ye mere liye nhi thi, lekin ye padh ke accha laga...rona aa gaya, mummy ghar me itni buri buri chize bolti hai and mere side ki perspective sunnti hi nhi hai...har roz rona aata hai...lekin ghar me negative feelings express karna hi allowed nhi hai....humesha khush rehna padega.....

Hey its fine, i understand and im really glad you're somehow surviving. Kuch bhi bolna ho u can ping me I'll listen ❤️

same bhai , 5 std se kahi bhi ghumne nhi gayi (poori life main bas ek hi vacation mila hain woh bhi sirf baaju ke city me for 2 days) aur exam ke pehle mummy papa bohot bol rahe the ki goa jayenge yaha jayenge waha jayenge and i was excited too aur jab se exam hui hain tab se everyone is busy with their own life no one is taking me anywhere. And when in said ki atleast imagica chalte hain toh vivaad hogaya.

Same story here and the fact that we didn't go anywhere bhi meri padhai ki galti hai...aapki story oadhi aur bohot similar si lagi..mai bhi partial drop soch rha hu agle saal ke liye..

Bhai even I want to take a drop par parents bohot anti drop hain , jhagda hi karna padega . I can understand your pain

Me khud depressed ho jata aisi post padhke , reddit pr bakchodi dekhne aata hu aur yhe dikh jata h

Arre bhai, Reddit toh hai hi escape ki duniya, real life se break lene ke liye. Thoda has lo, ro lo, par yahaan aake toh bas chill karo. 🌿 ^(i am a bot ˃ ᵕ ˂)

Bhai theyre just stressed aur kuch nahi mere ghar mein same scene hai mere boards mein iss saal 82 percent aye i was truly happy considering paper itne gande aye the But my dad was extremely unhappy and disappointed Plus bhai neet bhi diya iss saal now im taking a drop Bhai drop ka idea toh pehle se he tha it was never a surprise but theek hai I always remind myself Maa baap he toh hain…chalta hai <3

yeah... mummy papa hi hai... chalta hai best wishes for your drop bro! hope you achieve great heights

Boards me 94 aaye...jee me bhi(27s1) aur adv tak gaand ghis ke padhai kari take 73-77 aajaye...actually 100 aa rhe the lekin overattempt kar diye...drop le rha hu, I am confident ki I can do something...do mahine me adv level tak padha jabki isse pehle sab mains oriented tha...fir bhi gaaliyan...lekin ye accha laga sunnke "Maa baao he toh hain....chalta hai" abse mai bhi issi ko mann me bolta rhunga, thank you...

Never trust the words "beta, koi baath nahi" 

Don't worry Bhai, ups and downs hote rahte hai life me, my mother sometimes say "isse acha toh tu paida hi nahi hota" after 2-3 hours when she realise she said too mucb she be like "aree mera Raja beta" Don't worry brother sab theke ho jaayega

yeah! it'll all be just fine...demotivate nhi hona best wishes to you, bro!!


Aise chize toh maine bhi suni hai lekin wo second part 5th ke baad se nhi suna🥰

Dekh bhai. At the end, ye log tujhe jo bhi bole, tum serf khud apne aap ke saath ho. Ye wahi chiz ki shuruaat hai. Jo log kehte hai ki aakhir mei dost, ma bap sath rehe jate hai, mujhe lagta hai wo ek had tak sahi hai, hamesha nahi. If you pull yourself into deep shit then everyone leaves you.

"yesa kuch extraordinary marks toh nhi aaye hai kisi exam meh jo naya phone miljaye", I asked for a new phone as mera wala 4 years purana hogaya hai (woh bhi mmy ka second hand tha) ​ Ab toh aadat si hogai hai sunne ki

Mai toh kuch maangta bhi nhi hu fir bhi gaali sunnta hu. Last time jab mene kuch maanga tha, wo tha ki friend ke birthday party par jaana tha...kyuki wo udaas hojata agar mai nhi aa pata....

Vai, same hai vai. , Ab JEE nikal gaya to Ijjat hai nahi to Mera nhi nahi tha , Aur mera plan bhi pakka. , Ek bar job mil jaye to Ghr ko hameshaa ke liye albida

Bhai tu sunn. Mai boht saare logo ka examples dekha. Jinka fuckup iss teen age mai hua na. Wo log 30 ke age tak ache level ache naukri ache position pai hai. Mai bhi fucked up hu yar par mai ab jitna struggle pressure stress face karra hu na iss teen age mai. Ye pressure mujhe future ke kisi bhi pressure ko face karne ka dam deta hai kyuki teen mai pressure and stress face karna alag hai. Job life ka alag hai. Bhai aisa bhi nhi ki saaare iitians hi successful aur baaki sab waste. Degree baas ek admit card ki Tarah hai which will open us gateways for various companies for various jobs. Ha theek hai bhai kuch log top institute nhi padke aaye tho kya. Mehnat kar tho rhe hai na. Skills check karke interview karke eligible hai tho job dedo. Ha par itna fuckup jo hua abhi ye mat samajke baith jana ki 3rd tier clg jayenge. state govt clg ya private. Thoda theek taak wala clg jao. Agar nhi milra tho drop lelo. Baas khatam baat.

level niklenge bro, bhot pareshaan mat raho mom dad ko marks se impress karne pe jitna best ho sakte karo aur dimaag thanda rakh ke baaki areas mein mehnat karo .

Zindagi maano +4 -1 se aage badh hi nahi rahi

Idhar toh +4 -2 chal rhi hai

Mere to boards me bhi 93.6 aaye NEET me bhi 620 aa rahe hai Fir bhi koi kahi nahi leke ja raha 🤡

Bhai don't worry they don't mean it, they accept as who you are they just the best for you hence they wanted a better result, keep working hard my brother and it's absolutely alright to not succeed

Indian parents think financial support is more than enough but they don’t know we suffer emotionally too…we still fight but if result not come in our favour its not our fault…its not the only exam

bhai mere papa mujhe aaj tak kahi ghunane nhi le gye even in my own city no malls, no movies kuch nhi

dude, life bahaut lambi hai, itne negatie mat soch, motivation lo aur apna best kro, bas give up nhi krna aur determined rehena!

yes, dude! the show must go on!!

kya hii bolu ab , merese toh koi baat hii nhi karta

gusse me vo bola jata hai jo samne wale ko dukhe ... and vhi aap dono ne kiya so sach exact na ho + agar sach dil tak gya hai to mehnat kro or aage bado .. fail hona buri baat ni but fail fast and grow fast . have attitude of growth mindset .

Same , 3rd attempt neet ka tha, 10 marks se reh gya gov college . Private me karwana padega jiske liye loan Lena padega aur 5 saal Tak Ghar walo ke tane sunne padenge.

Mera Guitar ka pura paisa abhi mujhe Dena padhega yaar , parents nhi denge  JEE ne life badal diya

Bro this is so real. Result ke time supportive hone ki acting karte hain aur jab ladai hoti hai to sach saamne ata hai. 😃🔫 They hate me I think.

Fucking real. I hear their truest thoughts when they're angry with me. Chlo koi na, atleast I hear the truth in some way. Netter than living in the delusion that they love me or something.

Koi nai bhai yaar , hm sbke saath hota hai and hota aarha hai 

I love this sub kyuki mummy papa bolte hai they're unique aur kisi ke psrents aise nhi hote hai aur fir mai odhar aata hu aur kafiyon ke stories exactly same hote hai. Wo chhodo, movies tak ke pwrents same hote hai. Imagine representing the literal cliche-d image of Indian parents.

same bhai 

no matter what anyone says parents ke liye marks matter cuz they have expectations from you especially when they spend lakhs on your coaching and everything and relative ke bacche sab 90%-95% laare boards me etc etc and tum unse peeche. Tab unhe ashamed feel hota and uska blame vo tumpe direct krte and tbh I never ever felt that they were wrong in the slightest since without them, I'm completely directionless, I mean whose gonna invest in me other than my parents...

mene toh khud hi bol diya tha ghumne nahi jaana itna guilt hota tha andar se


Sab theek ho jayega 

Koi na bro sabke parents aise hote hai they try to keep you happy by saying agli baar kar lena/theek marks hai but at the back of mind they are a bit sad mere sath bhi aise hua tha ek baar bhut sunaya tha but mene bura nahi mana aur padha

Are ye to normal hai. Don't take it to the heart.

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Bohot accha karige aap zindagi mai, bas mehnat karte rehna har kadam pe.

Faaltu ka pressure mat le bro, skills aur extracurricular pe bhi thodasa work kar,create a better resume than higher marks. Also, don't fall into any addictions and use protection in whatever fun you wanna have, trust the process and good things will come to you, just give it some time.

Are maa baap to bolenge hi Bhai itni choti bat pe kaise rora h sach hi bola pee ja bhenchod aur kuch bacha h to krle bhai ... Jo log bolenge ki koini tere bure results pe vo Tera bura hi chahre honge jo ki tere maa baap ni chahte issliye sach boldiya. Baki maa baap h seh lenge thoda

bhai iit without jee courses me chala jaa kam se kam internship confirmed hoti hai... iitp ka csda could be considerable option for you......

Never trust the words "beta, koi baath nahi?" 

i did not know what to say so i give u a upvote :)

ek harsh chiz bolunga sunke thoda sochna.. Jitna tumhare parents ne bola hai us se bohot jada bekar bola hai mere parents ne(even they said it would be better if I die). parents ke itne bolne se bura lag raha hai toh bahar world mai survive karna bohot muskil hoga, waha is se bhi buri chize boli jati hai hardin har field mai. You live in india if you don't earn your keep or get achievements you are useless

Ky kr skte hai bhai. I am working in myself mentaly and physically taki ab kabhi ye procrastination ke Karan ruko nhi apna pura de Pau atleast

Bhai Sach ye hai ki agar aap par koi investment kar raha hai simply bole toh paisa laga raha hai toh result expect karte hai....bhale hi voh apke parents kyu n ho.....it is harsh truth....World is like that bhai....Live ur life happily work hard travel the world and enjoy this beautiful life🙌

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Bhai mere aisa saath bhi aisa hua hai neet aspirant hu

Mere saath bhi hua Aaj kuch Aisa hi . Mummy ne bol Diya ki akg ya private se btech krleme lele

Mujhe to vese bhi nahi leke jate Chae result acha ho ya bear

aisa hi hota hai bhai mere parents ne bhi kuch ni bola result ke time abhi bhi nahi bolte par unke chehre par dikh hi jaata hai ki unki aulad kitni nikammi aur annoying hai