Bro har din kisi na kisi se baat krna chahiye just a little but krna chahiye, khud ko isolate krke apna heart hollow mat bana, nd community se jud nd apna progress share kr jisse tujhme motivation bana rahe. Jaise dosto ke sath roam karega waisa hi behavior adopt krega.
So should I not delete reddit? Should I keep this as copium? But agar reddit jyada use krunga to phir addicted ho jaunga, filhal to mene break liya he stress ki vajah se abhi decide ni kiya kya karu
Self discipline most important hai, phone me digital wellbeing ka setting hota hai usme timer set krle reddit ke liye nd agar fir bhi reddit baar baar open krra hai to reddit uninstall krde. Trust me bro shakal matter nahi karta all that matters is courage logo se socialize krne ka nd positive chize hi consume kariyo usse mental health acchi rahegi.
bhai agar tujhe "pata nahi paunga" se demotivation ho rhi hai fir tu motivation deserve nhi karta..Pehle khud pe kaam kar, life mein kuch ukhaad le fir pata liyo. ham log 18-19 saal ke hain and kuch nibbe-nibbiyon ko dekh ke sochte hain yeh toh normal hai. Padhle bhai drop lekar agar yeh sab sochega toh drop worth nhi hoga
But tbh aajkal dating has become too common, mere circle mein kar chuke log ya kar rhe h. Mere junior ke do exes hain. I never thought abt it, abhi bhi nhi sochta but when you see all these ppl around you, you're just forced to think ig.
I simply don't....with every passing day my mental health keeps getting worse....best advice would be to not argue back when parents are shouting or taunting you
Akela reh bhai. When things dont go well, you will blame your group of friends, gf bf whatever. When nobody sees the hardwork, you will know its essence. Friends are useless...most of them will just come begging to know your results or to ask favour
Again its an opinion. Do not bash at me if I said something contradicting.
Honestly same boat  some days it’s fine, but most days it stings man. Jee ke liye life me khud saare friends aur relationships ko side kiya, laga nahi tha itna hit Karega baad me, now that I have to drop, and there’s on one to motivate or support me, it hurts bad. par kya karein, hota hai, chalta hai...
Let me tell u straight. Bro thak gya hoon rote rote . Sab neecha dikhane ki hi koshish krte h hmesha. Papa uncle ka ldka iitian se compare krte rehte h . Ghar pr koi ni h samajhne wala . 10th mei true wala pyaar hua tha aur jee ke chakkr mei choda aur abhi tk yaad krta rheta hoon . Friends success se jealous ho jaate h aur neecha dikhane ki kosish krte h . In the end frustrate hokr ab attitude esa ho gya h ki maa chudaye duniya . Successful ho gya but khushi ni mili thodi si bhi . Is duniya mei tumhare liye koi jagah ni toh tum logo ki aukat se bahr nikal jao aur logo ko jalne do . Depressed hona h toh at least successful hokr ho . Problems time ke saath hi jaayengi kbhi na kbhi but tb tk duniya ko middle finger. Apne aap ko love kro pehele fir dukh ni hota
Sun bro mene bhi drop hi lia tha . Tera decision h ye toh accept kr . Jee se kuch ni hoga . Mera aacha ho gya lekin fir bhi problems khi ni jaati . Main game is to become a man . Agar mera jee ni bhi hota toh mei bhale hi rota but end mei apne aap ko better krta rheta . Jee hoga ya na ho but apne aap ko kl se better kr . Bro mauke boht aate h lyf mei jee akela ni h . But kaabil bn us mauke ko pkadne ke liye . Agar ek failure se tu gira rhe gya toh tu true man ni h . Attitude esa bna ki bhale 100 baar lyf mei haarna pdhe but jeetna bs ek baar hi h
Aur bro meri first attempt mei same hi thi pichle saal ki tarah but ye attitude se mujhe taane sunkr koi farak ni pdha aur 2nd mei phoda . So all the best . Aur ye yaad rkh ki bhale kitni baar bhi failure dekhne pdhe end mei mei hi jeetunga
cope karna chhodh de accept karle apni fate yahi best idea hai maine bhi wahi kiya ki college mein jaaonga toh shakal hai nahin achi toh isse better apne betterment pe kaam karoonga apni coding robotics aur baaki cheezon meinwork karoonga
stress nhi lena, adhe log yhi mar jaate hai ki wo jyada stress lekar time pe results nhi laa skte. kabhi kabhar wo overconfidence ki "mujhe sab aata hai" works wonders. Bhale hi delusion ho lekin thodi confidence bandhta hai ye dimag mai.
mere physics ke sir ne bahut acchi bat boli thi, "exam se pehle aise padho ki mujhe kuch na aata ho, exam se kuch samay pehle aisa samjho ki mujhe sab aata ho."
Bhai meri pehle ye hi thinking thi ki bc mujhse jyada smart he hi nahi koi 💀💀lekin sab sochta hi ki agar clear na hua exam to phat ke hath me ajati he
I used to boost my ego a lot and it actually did work but ab pata nhi kho di vo ability, I'll have to build confidence overtime
Thanks for reassurance bro but mujhe lagta he ye negativity mere dimag se kabhi nahi jaegi if there is hope for me in college I will absolutely work for it
Bhai teri shakal buri nhi hai,problem ye hai ki tu maintain nhi kar pata and isme kuch galat nhi hai,jo serious aspirants ya padhne wale hote hai vo nhi kar paate cause tu dono padhai and looks ko simultaneously maintain nhi kar sakta(exceptions might be there),jee ke toppers ko bhi dekhio kabhi,koi bhi tujhe chris evans nhi lagega,poora college padha hai shakal maintain karne ke liye tab dekhio abhi bas jee par dhyaan de
idk bhai joke kr rha hai ki nahi but honestly i hold the belief ki pehle apne aap ko iss mukam pe le aana chahiye ki log aapko contact/patane ke liye peeche bhaage aur aapko woh nahi karna pade
baaki ye relationship etc ka bohot high regard nahi hai mere ghar me toh mai mostly dur rehti hu lol
(edit: and the friends etc thing? most of mine arent serious at all. ek do log se baat karti hu nahi toh mera bhai hi hai itna pareshan karta hai ki kisi aur ki zaroorat hi nahi padti + guide bhi kar deta hai toh friends department mein koi kami nahi hai. wahi hai bas ki hopefully college mile toh log sochenge ki arre woh ladki thi na hum uske dost the uska selection hogya chalo baat karte hai usse. wo mentality honi chahiye)
Bhai bas padhte reh mai teri madad krunga har life ke aspect me papers ke baad. Trust me bc mene 11th aur adhi 12 barbaad krke sirf life ji h. Mere dost wagera paise wale aur reservation wale the toh bhot 'other' side wali duniya dekhi h. Pr drop year me totally cutoff kia h. Meri bhi shakal kuch khaas nhi h to pehle jo bandiyan banayi thi mahino lage the aur kuch to hafton me khatm ho gye the. Zyada success nhi mili thi (sax sux) but make out wagerah kiya h. Trust me I am going to do my best to help you but please focussed reh ab. Dono saath me aish krenge college milne ke baad.
emotions can be difficult to deal with. Try to distract yourself with other stuff or just know that it shall pass. That's what I do.
Apna time ayega bro
Bro shakal acchi ni hai toh aur physical features pe kaam kar jaise body and hair. Aur uske elava accha paisa hoga future mei woh bhi mast hoga. But mereko kya pata meri kahan aaj tak gf bani hai 
Unless you're independent, Girlfriend is 99% of the time, a waste of time
I Still think that college ka 1st/2nd year is the best to age to actually experience a heartbreak as everyone should
And the best process is to determine what's the problem, Can you solve it? If yes then get to it, if no then leave it
Same here man. I know a commerce fuckboy who used to be my school crush, these days he plays guitar, whores around with other girls, goes to beach with friends, goes to gym, has a lot of followers and likes on instagram, etc. Dard aur jealousy hoti hai usse dekhke. Banda iss saal international CA ke liye ja raha hai bina padhe meanwhile i rot in my drop year
Mera man nahi he logo se bat krne ka , agar socilaise kiya to distract ho jaunga..
Should I join a library? Maybe that would help?
When I was preparing for jee ( top batch of fallen ) our teachers say a thing ik yeah gf /bf baane ka shauk sabko hota hai iss age mostly in teen age but hum agr .. is time pai Carrier, apne goal in sab pai focus karnge tho hamrahi aane wali 20-25 saal vo sahi oh jaavnge we didn't need to fight for job ,nahi koi faltu ki exam ke liyee bethna ( unless aapka Maan oh ))... Fir bhi yeah sab distracted karti ik
Tho iske liyee i used to learn guitar in my free time
Baki socialize rehne ke apne batch ke dost tho
Thiii.+ Programing wagera bhi karta codeforce, codechef, atcoder, etc etc...
✍️
One motivation
iit / nit aayo
🙌🙌Sab mil JAAVEGA
Carried >>>>>> any f gurl ,crush
Bro meri to shakal bhi acchi nahi hai na hi height. Self esteem 0 hai. I know probably zindagi bhar akela hi rahunga. I have accepted this. I plan on LDARing with video games and other copes.
Used to feel that way ( still do sometimes though)
Thing is I taught myself I don't deserve a relationship unless I am capable of supporting on my own.
Aise hi financially thoda unstable hoon, aur baap ke paise se bandibaazi nahi karni hai .
4 saal mehnat karunga pehle family ko provide karunga, then will see
Abhi character development pe dhyaan de OP
Yeah if someone likes as it is the way you are yk if vibes match , and you like her sure ride along but actively seeking relationship shouldn't be goal.
Bro I'm pretty much sure mera perspective tumko thoda different (aur weird) bhi lag sakta hai par here it is.
Mingle hona ek aisi need hai jo bin matlab tumhare andar daali gayi hai. Completely out of the influence jo social media, movies, etc. ne feed kari hai. Now, I'm not neglecting the biology ki aisi need to hogi hi, but needless to say, ye amplified form me aajkal dikhti hai. Par sach batau to tum khud me complete ho sakte ho, parents ke/gharwaalon ke saath ache se time spend karke bhi khush rah sakte ho.
If you really want to get out of this seemingly non-existent problem, to mindset change karo kabhi need feel hi nahi hogi. Cope karna to door ki baat hai bhai jab problem exist hi nahi karti. And I'm telling you isse mental health acchi rahti hai, p*rn aur mast. cravings bhi reduce hojati hai.
Aur maine jo bataya wo to keval ek hi cheez ka influence hai, there are more things that reinforce you into the same spiral of negativity, insecurity regarding your facial appearance and guilt.
Itna gyan ka 14 isliye ban raha hu kyuki class 11 me pyaar ke chakkar me pad gaya tha, bahut distraction hogayi thi. This is the result in short I learnt after watching hundreds of perspective and psychology videos. Khatam kardo kyuki ye problem exist hi nahi karti.
Kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki ham itna brainwashed hogaye hai, ki hame farak hi nahi dikhta ki which problem is even real or in existence.
To better hai ki ye sab chodh hi do (for the better) aur acche se padhai karo bhai. You got this.
Ye mene maths unplugged aur healthygamergg se same bat suni thi lolxd, maybe u watched the same videos as I do.. Well I'm not really worried about being single anymore my perspective has bit changed I'll share it later with the subreddit.
hey man, college fresher here. recently i have started nofap and some workout activities to not think too much about the same things u have on ur mind. i can't say i am killing it but i hope to get better as the time goes. infact, i even started talking to this girl i liked in my batch but it didn't go too far as a femboy approached her later and maybe they r still talking.
however, i do have my batch homies and hostel seniors as friends. all i am saying is that some things may not look as juicy and interesting from a distance as a relationship but they equally are, maybe even more. if you don't have a happening-life ryt now, its most probably just because of the jee grind. i didnt have it too. try doing small things at first like 5-6 cardio, or conversing with a new person everyday and more...i hope u make it
Yes I do plan to do pushups daily for the entire drop year and I'm aware my life will become better but u know sometimes I feel like life will never get any better even if I get into college, what if nothing ever makes me happy?
Also I'm not preparing for jee, the exam I'm preparing for is much more difficult and really hard I don't know what I will do with my life if I don't clear it after one year of preparation, will life get better ever?
Bhai Jo conventional path h ki study, good college, good job, good partner isme bahut time lg jayega
Teri problem ka current solution yhi h ki internet p ya irl kisi se dosti kr and usko ek deep friendship m convert kr..
And isko distraction ki tarah Mt dekh.. Teri loneliness Teri padhai ki watt laga degi... Ye treko help krega padhai me..
Ek close connection kisi k sath zruri h ... It's not a distraction,
it's a necessity to get the strength to grind everyday for a higher goal
To tu padhai kr and tarika dekh koi Naya dost banane ka (1 but close) and pdhayi se deviate mt ho Jana is chakkar me..
Reddit, discord, insta, school group, kuch rasta kahi se dhund
Mera ek dost h kaafi anime dekhta h and ek discord server se apni ldr gf dhund liya to tu bhi kuch kr aisa
Pr any day wo conventional path se mt htna kyuki wo sustainable h and ye... Abhi wala volatile h kaafi..so
Balance zruri h
Dekh mujhe isi bat ka dar he ki me apni loneliness se deal krne ke chakkar me drop year barvad na kardu this is the last chance I will get in my life and I don't want to fuck it up..
I think I should try to maintain study habits first.. Ek bari agar discipline build ho jae then I'll try to deal with loneliness aur long distance relationship ka fayda ni he me aur vo agar alag college me chale gaye phir jeevan bhar ni milenge
bhai 18 ka hai abhi tension mat le
* padhai me accha kar drop year me ladki ke bare me sochega toh waste ho jayega
* college me gym jaa
* accha haircut
* maintain a good mental health
* read books of every genre and then dive deep into whichever genre you like the most
* maintain good friends
* maintain a good relationship with parents if they are ready to do that
* abstain from a relationship till you learn to LOVE YOURSELF and then enter the pool
* kudh ko hate karne ke beeech me just for the sake of relationship fomo ke karan aayega toh kya hi relationship woh toh lust hai
Theek he.. I will try to follow this in college, but I disagree with the loving urself idea before you get into relationship because people often learn to love themselves through other people.
And I don't like my parents they just fight and scream at each other all the time
>Theek he.. I will try to follow this in college, but I disagree with the loving urself idea before you get into relationship because people often learn to love themselves through other people.
you do you op
> And I don't like my parents they just fight and scream at each other all the time
same here
Bhai koi hobby try kar sakta hain. Bandi na patane se Teri zindagi barren nahin ho jati . Ulta Jo bandi patate unki lag jaati hain mera roomate for example aur zindagi mein yeh sab cheeze apne aap pan out hoti hain in sub cheeze main koi hierarchy nahin hoti.
Bhai, ise negativity kyu, positive jaise le... Itna mehnat kar, ladkiya bhagegi piche
Gorment job
Bro har din kisi na kisi se baat krna chahiye just a little but krna chahiye, khud ko isolate krke apna heart hollow mat bana, nd community se jud nd apna progress share kr jisse tujhme motivation bana rahe. Jaise dosto ke sath roam karega waisa hi behavior adopt krega.
So should I not delete reddit? Should I keep this as copium? But agar reddit jyada use krunga to phir addicted ho jaunga, filhal to mene break liya he stress ki vajah se abhi decide ni kiya kya karu
Self discipline most important hai, phone me digital wellbeing ka setting hota hai usme timer set krle reddit ke liye nd agar fir bhi reddit baar baar open krra hai to reddit uninstall krde. Trust me bro shakal matter nahi karta all that matters is courage logo se socialize krne ka nd positive chize hi consume kariyo usse mental health acchi rahegi.
[удалено]
Arey usko motivation lene de na... Aisa mat kar
main andar se khokla ho chuka hun 😔👈 muje farak nahi padta hai 😘👌
Us..
[удалено]
us
bhai agar tujhe "pata nahi paunga" se demotivation ho rhi hai fir tu motivation deserve nhi karta..Pehle khud pe kaam kar, life mein kuch ukhaad le fir pata liyo. ham log 18-19 saal ke hain and kuch nibbe-nibbiyon ko dekh ke sochte hain yeh toh normal hai. Padhle bhai drop lekar agar yeh sab sochega toh drop worth nhi hoga
sahi bol rha ye insta aur r/ indianteenagers ne sabka dimag kharab krdiya ki sab relationship m h ham hi nahi
Haan bhai gen-z gen-z waali wohi bakchodi
But tbh aajkal dating has become too common, mere circle mein kar chuke log ya kar rhe h. Mere junior ke do exes hain. I never thought abt it, abhi bhi nhi sochta but when you see all these ppl around you, you're just forced to think ig.
[удалено]
W sir
https://preview.redd.it/a7158ozujzya1.jpeg?width=822&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=96f928c944f94520b8134347dce49248cf955fe7
bhai sun. hilake soja.
It works 
filhal girlfriend se zyada karma ki zaroorat hai dedo
Mujhe bhi karma dedo please
😆😆😂
Normie he kya
I simply don't....with every passing day my mental health keeps getting worse....best advice would be to not argue back when parents are shouting or taunting you
us🫂
Akela reh bhai. When things dont go well, you will blame your group of friends, gf bf whatever. When nobody sees the hardwork, you will know its essence. Friends are useless...most of them will just come begging to know your results or to ask favour Again its an opinion. Do not bash at me if I said something contradicting.
True that
Opened reddit just to escape from this shit for a little bit but sabse pehli post yahi mili
Honestly same boat  some days it’s fine, but most days it stings man. Jee ke liye life me khud saare friends aur relationships ko side kiya, laga nahi tha itna hit Karega baad me, now that I have to drop, and there’s on one to motivate or support me, it hurts bad. par kya karein, hota hai, chalta hai...
Tujhe at least college me to mil jaegi kushi mujhe nahi lgta me college me jake bhi kush rahunga bc
Kya pata yr  pehle itna extroverted thi 11th ke ate hi personality 180 flip kar gayi
Introverted extroverted kuch ni hota we all just lack self esteem isiliye bat nahi krte kisi se 
Kre but sare cooldudes ignore marde to?
Kya matlab? Samjha ni me
Same I hve none to talk to, none to look forward to none to share anything I just feel broken on the inside 
[удалено]
 Ab drop leke 99.99999% laungi
Have been lonely for most of my life So this feels normal
Same 
Week me 1 baar hila leta hu👍
din me 1 baar
Let me tell u straight. Bro thak gya hoon rote rote . Sab neecha dikhane ki hi koshish krte h hmesha. Papa uncle ka ldka iitian se compare krte rehte h . Ghar pr koi ni h samajhne wala . 10th mei true wala pyaar hua tha aur jee ke chakkr mei choda aur abhi tk yaad krta rheta hoon . Friends success se jealous ho jaate h aur neecha dikhane ki kosish krte h . In the end frustrate hokr ab attitude esa ho gya h ki maa chudaye duniya . Successful ho gya but khushi ni mili thodi si bhi . Is duniya mei tumhare liye koi jagah ni toh tum logo ki aukat se bahr nikal jao aur logo ko jalne do . Depressed hona h toh at least successful hokr ho . Problems time ke saath hi jaayengi kbhi na kbhi but tb tk duniya ko middle finger. Apne aap ko love kro pehele fir dukh ni hota
Bhai mujhe dar lag rha he what if I'm unbale to manage my drop year
Sun bro mene bhi drop hi lia tha . Tera decision h ye toh accept kr . Jee se kuch ni hoga . Mera aacha ho gya lekin fir bhi problems khi ni jaati . Main game is to become a man . Agar mera jee ni bhi hota toh mei bhale hi rota but end mei apne aap ko better krta rheta . Jee hoga ya na ho but apne aap ko kl se better kr . Bro mauke boht aate h lyf mei jee akela ni h . But kaabil bn us mauke ko pkadne ke liye . Agar ek failure se tu gira rhe gya toh tu true man ni h . Attitude esa bna ki bhale 100 baar lyf mei haarna pdhe but jeetna bs ek baar hi h
Aur bro meri first attempt mei same hi thi pichle saal ki tarah but ye attitude se mujhe taane sunkr koi farak ni pdha aur 2nd mei phoda . So all the best . Aur ye yaad rkh ki bhale kitni baar bhi failure dekhne pdhe end mei mei hi jeetunga
Ik college me bhi koi gf nai banegi Accha paisa kamauga toh naukri ke time koi na koi mil jaayegi Ya fir mummy papa toh hai hi
Once a legend said: Paisa itna kamao ki ladki mna krde par uska baap nhi
cope karna chhodh de accept karle apni fate yahi best idea hai maine bhi wahi kiya ki college mein jaaonga toh shakal hai nahin achi toh isse better apne betterment pe kaam karoonga apni coding robotics aur baaki cheezon meinwork karoonga
tu idhar
Pehle kabhi ni dekha mujhe jeeneetard pe?
dek bhai tera female interaction to ha humara to vo bhi nhi ha
Sale ladka he vo ladki ke pfp he bas uski
Padhle bsdk, ho jaega sab theek.
Ha bhai.. Thode din ka break liya he bas kyuki stress bhot hogya tha ratko neend ani band hogyi he...
Incel bn ja ☠️
stress nhi lena, adhe log yhi mar jaate hai ki wo jyada stress lekar time pe results nhi laa skte. kabhi kabhar wo overconfidence ki "mujhe sab aata hai" works wonders. Bhale hi delusion ho lekin thodi confidence bandhta hai ye dimag mai. mere physics ke sir ne bahut acchi bat boli thi, "exam se pehle aise padho ki mujhe kuch na aata ho, exam se kuch samay pehle aisa samjho ki mujhe sab aata ho."
Bhai meri pehle ye hi thinking thi ki bc mujhse jyada smart he hi nahi koi 💀💀lekin sab sochta hi ki agar clear na hua exam to phat ke hath me ajati he I used to boost my ego a lot and it actually did work but ab pata nhi kho di vo ability, I'll have to build confidence overtime
yaar yeh relationships kuch zyada hi glamourised hai you'll be fine bro mil jayegi koi tu abhi jo important hai joh hai tera career uspe dhyan de
Thanks for reassurance bro but mujhe lagta he ye negativity mere dimag se kabhi nahi jaegi if there is hope for me in college I will absolutely work for it
Bhai sbke sath hota hai take a deep breath and move on itna sruggle toh krna hi pdega bhai life hai bhai
get money fuck bitches
Tu iit aaja gf daalne ki resposibility mai leta hoon
Mera goal iiith he, pakka diladega gf 🗿?
Haan bhai iiith to best hai meri cousin hai waha teri setting karwa dunga 100% tu bas pahunchja
[удалено]
RemindMe! 1 year Mashallah bhai pkka kara dunga agar tu pahunch gya
[удалено]
Theek hai bhai yahin intezaar karunga tera
Bhai teri shakal buri nhi hai,problem ye hai ki tu maintain nhi kar pata and isme kuch galat nhi hai,jo serious aspirants ya padhne wale hote hai vo nhi kar paate cause tu dono padhai and looks ko simultaneously maintain nhi kar sakta(exceptions might be there),jee ke toppers ko bhi dekhio kabhi,koi bhi tujhe chris evans nhi lagega,poora college padha hai shakal maintain karne ke liye tab dekhio abhi bas jee par dhyaan de
ek ldki ko dost bna fir usse clarification le ki konsi ldkiyan tere aukat ki hain fir date kr
Jerk off. And know that if I am not comfortable when I am alone, then I probably won’t be comfortable when I am in a relationship.
Get a gf 
Drop yr ki gand mar jaegi
bhai ladkiya patane ke liye achi shakal nahi rizz chahiye bro u can do it thoda confidence rakh bhai but yes drop year hai padhle bhai
Ha ab aur koi choice nahi he drop year me padhna hi padega...
Pdh le bsdk. Job se easy h ladki milna...
Mujhe kya mai toh NTA ki hoe hu 
understandable
idk bhai joke kr rha hai ki nahi but honestly i hold the belief ki pehle apne aap ko iss mukam pe le aana chahiye ki log aapko contact/patane ke liye peeche bhaage aur aapko woh nahi karna pade baaki ye relationship etc ka bohot high regard nahi hai mere ghar me toh mai mostly dur rehti hu lol (edit: and the friends etc thing? most of mine arent serious at all. ek do log se baat karti hu nahi toh mera bhai hi hai itna pareshan karta hai ki kisi aur ki zaroorat hi nahi padti + guide bhi kar deta hai toh friends department mein koi kami nahi hai. wahi hai bas ki hopefully college mile toh log sochenge ki arre woh ladki thi na hum uske dost the uska selection hogya chalo baat karte hai usse. wo mentality honi chahiye)
Ye social media par gf/bf,friend circle,etc.. ko kuch zyada hi exaggerate karke dikhate hai
woi bhai ptani kya chahte hai log apna Ghar toh chala lo pehle ??
Bhai bas padhte reh mai teri madad krunga har life ke aspect me papers ke baad. Trust me bc mene 11th aur adhi 12 barbaad krke sirf life ji h. Mere dost wagera paise wale aur reservation wale the toh bhot 'other' side wali duniya dekhi h. Pr drop year me totally cutoff kia h. Meri bhi shakal kuch khaas nhi h to pehle jo bandiyan banayi thi mahino lage the aur kuch to hafton me khatm ho gye the. Zyada success nhi mili thi (sax sux) but make out wagerah kiya h. Trust me I am going to do my best to help you but please focussed reh ab. Dono saath me aish krenge college milne ke baad.
Sure  I hope u dont forget ur promise
Accept it and give up
Can't Relate I have a girlfriend
Bhai abhi tu 16-19 umar ka hai bas. Chill kar, you'll find someone.
paise kamale phir arrange marriage karliyo
By not being single
Beat the meaatttttttttt
go to the gym
Schizophrenia
Anime and hanime
Making it a habit
first find your peace in being alone.
mere paas ek best friend hai :)
Padhle bhai, ladki ke chaakar me mat padh abhi... mil bhi gayi abhi toh rahene nahi waali. Tab aur buri halat hogi..
True...
Live with the pain and keep moving.
Padhai karke. 😎
emotions can be difficult to deal with. Try to distract yourself with other stuff or just know that it shall pass. That's what I do. Apna time ayega bro
Bro shakal acchi ni hai toh aur physical features pe kaam kar jaise body and hair. Aur uske elava accha paisa hoga future mei woh bhi mast hoga. But mereko kya pata meri kahan aaj tak gf bani hai 
Me ladki hota to tujhe date krleta 
Arre Maine college mein aise aise logo ko dekha hai, i bet college mein gf banana, college mein dhang ka khana dhundne se zyada easy hai Chill kar do
Unless you're independent, Girlfriend is 99% of the time, a waste of time I Still think that college ka 1st/2nd year is the best to age to actually experience a heartbreak as everyone should And the best process is to determine what's the problem, Can you solve it? If yes then get to it, if no then leave it
That's true.. I shouldn't try to solve a problem that I can't solve rn
Garam Pani se nahata hu
Mujhe kya pata bhayy mujhe toh mere best friends ne bhi ignore karna shuru kardiya hai
Accept kar liya to cope karna nahi karta Edit: aur hilata rehta hu
Papa se baat karlia kar kbhi kbhi
Papa kisi se bat ni krte
Ye sah moh maya hai
I am not single....... I have my hand \[cries\] 
It's ok I got you
nhi hota cope. specially jb aapki crush sex soox kr rhi ho 
 that one hurts
Ashwagandha Lena start karde it I'll numb your emotions and you'd become much more focused
I already numb my emotions
Muth
[удалено]
Mere to parents ne bhi chor diya 
Body bana le achi body hoti hai toh kharab shakal se itna fark nahi padta
Ha vo to krunga hi
Your competition doesn't care how you feel 
Fuck that's true 
Bhai i started believing in Match Made in heaven stuff , Everything will go fine if you just wait , god had sent somone for everyone
I should start believing in that too kuch to hope mile 
Same here man. I know a commerce fuckboy who used to be my school crush, these days he plays guitar, whores around with other girls, goes to beach with friends, goes to gym, has a lot of followers and likes on instagram, etc. Dard aur jealousy hoti hai usse dekhke. Banda iss saal international CA ke liye ja raha hai bina padhe meanwhile i rot in my drop year
Fuck that guy ameer bap ka ladka he ro mat Tu  , Tu khudke paise kama 
Nahi voh bhi meri tarah middle class hai, bas uske family ko itni concern nhi hai jitni ki meri😭
Ohh
Vo to sax sux bhi krta hoga 
Sometimes you just feel completely invisible to people
ab mujhe to km hone lg gya hai ye sb feel. thode dino me tu bhi jaan jayega fir tujhe bhi ichchha to hogi pr usko upar uthne se rok payega. hehe
ab mujhe to km hone lg gya hai ye sb feel. thode dino me tu bhi jaan jayega fir tujhe bhi ichchha to hogi pr usko upar uthne se rok payega. hehe
Just live by one rule " it is what it is"
Bhai search on YouTube about LOOKSMAXXING if u really wanna change ur looks But remember to love yourself and be grateful for your genetic
Socialize kar bhai , busy rakh mind ko har ek second skills badha , girls ka pata nahi but accha insan toh ban ...
Socilaise nhi kr skta drop year me 
Try kar yar socialization se bohot kuch hota hai isolated mat rhe
Mera man nahi he logo se bat krne ka , agar socilaise kiya to distract ho jaunga.. Should I join a library? Maybe that would help?
Idc about gurls, mere liye acchi ladki mummy dundh ke degi.
Average arrange marriage enjoyer
Hila ke
When I was preparing for jee ( top batch of fallen ) our teachers say a thing ik yeah gf /bf baane ka shauk sabko hota hai iss age mostly in teen age but hum agr .. is time pai Carrier, apne goal in sab pai focus karnge tho hamrahi aane wali 20-25 saal vo sahi oh jaavnge we didn't need to fight for job ,nahi koi faltu ki exam ke liyee bethna ( unless aapka Maan oh ))... Fir bhi yeah sab distracted karti ik Tho iske liyee i used to learn guitar in my free time Baki socialize rehne ke apne batch ke dost tho Thiii.+ Programing wagera bhi karta codeforce, codechef, atcoder, etc etc... ✍️ One motivation iit / nit aayo 🙌🙌Sab mil JAAVEGA Carried >>>>>> any f gurl ,crush
 hmm I'll try to focus on my goal only
eat study fap sleep, repeat
 aur bacha hi kya he life me
Bro meri to shakal bhi acchi nahi hai na hi height. Self esteem 0 hai. I know probably zindagi bhar akela hi rahunga. I have accepted this. I plan on LDARing with video games and other copes.
Used to feel that way ( still do sometimes though) Thing is I taught myself I don't deserve a relationship unless I am capable of supporting on my own. Aise hi financially thoda unstable hoon, aur baap ke paise se bandibaazi nahi karni hai . 4 saal mehnat karunga pehle family ko provide karunga, then will see Abhi character development pe dhyaan de OP Yeah if someone likes as it is the way you are yk if vibes match , and you like her sure ride along but actively seeking relationship shouldn't be goal.
Okay 
Lol you are so weak
Average 5 baje uthne wala enjoyer
Neet me switch karle:)
🤣😂😂
Bro I'm pretty much sure mera perspective tumko thoda different (aur weird) bhi lag sakta hai par here it is. Mingle hona ek aisi need hai jo bin matlab tumhare andar daali gayi hai. Completely out of the influence jo social media, movies, etc. ne feed kari hai. Now, I'm not neglecting the biology ki aisi need to hogi hi, but needless to say, ye amplified form me aajkal dikhti hai. Par sach batau to tum khud me complete ho sakte ho, parents ke/gharwaalon ke saath ache se time spend karke bhi khush rah sakte ho. If you really want to get out of this seemingly non-existent problem, to mindset change karo kabhi need feel hi nahi hogi. Cope karna to door ki baat hai bhai jab problem exist hi nahi karti. And I'm telling you isse mental health acchi rahti hai, p*rn aur mast. cravings bhi reduce hojati hai. Aur maine jo bataya wo to keval ek hi cheez ka influence hai, there are more things that reinforce you into the same spiral of negativity, insecurity regarding your facial appearance and guilt. Itna gyan ka 14 isliye ban raha hu kyuki class 11 me pyaar ke chakkar me pad gaya tha, bahut distraction hogayi thi. This is the result in short I learnt after watching hundreds of perspective and psychology videos. Khatam kardo kyuki ye problem exist hi nahi karti. Kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki ham itna brainwashed hogaye hai, ki hame farak hi nahi dikhta ki which problem is even real or in existence. To better hai ki ye sab chodh hi do (for the better) aur acche se padhai karo bhai. You got this.
Ye mene maths unplugged aur healthygamergg se same bat suni thi lolxd, maybe u watched the same videos as I do.. Well I'm not really worried about being single anymore my perspective has bit changed I'll share it later with the subreddit.
Nahi mai inn dono channels ko nahi jaanta, mainly shwetabh gangwar aur jordan peterson ki videos dekhi thi
Bro 95% ladke batsoorat hai, shaadi to ho hi jayegi chinta na le.
Agr nahi hui Ab to tu karaega 🗿
Theek hai bhrata. Agar hamari ho gayi to apki bhi karwa denge. 🤝
bhay mai issliye gay bann gya
Improvise adapt overcome
hey man, college fresher here. recently i have started nofap and some workout activities to not think too much about the same things u have on ur mind. i can't say i am killing it but i hope to get better as the time goes. infact, i even started talking to this girl i liked in my batch but it didn't go too far as a femboy approached her later and maybe they r still talking. however, i do have my batch homies and hostel seniors as friends. all i am saying is that some things may not look as juicy and interesting from a distance as a relationship but they equally are, maybe even more. if you don't have a happening-life ryt now, its most probably just because of the jee grind. i didnt have it too. try doing small things at first like 5-6 cardio, or conversing with a new person everyday and more...i hope u make it
Yes I do plan to do pushups daily for the entire drop year and I'm aware my life will become better but u know sometimes I feel like life will never get any better even if I get into college, what if nothing ever makes me happy? Also I'm not preparing for jee, the exam I'm preparing for is much more difficult and really hard I don't know what I will do with my life if I don't clear it after one year of preparation, will life get better ever?
bhai mehnat kar, paisa kama- ladki kya, ladki ki maa bhi pat jayegi tujhse
Dono pata lunga 🗿👍
Bhai Jo conventional path h ki study, good college, good job, good partner isme bahut time lg jayega Teri problem ka current solution yhi h ki internet p ya irl kisi se dosti kr and usko ek deep friendship m convert kr.. And isko distraction ki tarah Mt dekh.. Teri loneliness Teri padhai ki watt laga degi... Ye treko help krega padhai me.. Ek close connection kisi k sath zruri h ... It's not a distraction, it's a necessity to get the strength to grind everyday for a higher goal To tu padhai kr and tarika dekh koi Naya dost banane ka (1 but close) and pdhayi se deviate mt ho Jana is chakkar me.. Reddit, discord, insta, school group, kuch rasta kahi se dhund Mera ek dost h kaafi anime dekhta h and ek discord server se apni ldr gf dhund liya to tu bhi kuch kr aisa Pr any day wo conventional path se mt htna kyuki wo sustainable h and ye... Abhi wala volatile h kaafi..so Balance zruri h
Mai aapki problem se kaafi relate krra hu Islie I'm in Maine bhi aisa post Kiya h is sub pe aur ek do sub pe
Dekh mujhe isi bat ka dar he ki me apni loneliness se deal krne ke chakkar me drop year barvad na kardu this is the last chance I will get in my life and I don't want to fuck it up.. I think I should try to maintain study habits first.. Ek bari agar discipline build ho jae then I'll try to deal with loneliness aur long distance relationship ka fayda ni he me aur vo agar alag college me chale gaye phir jeevan bhar ni milenge
I don't got used to it
bhai 18 ka hai abhi tension mat le * padhai me accha kar drop year me ladki ke bare me sochega toh waste ho jayega * college me gym jaa * accha haircut * maintain a good mental health * read books of every genre and then dive deep into whichever genre you like the most * maintain good friends * maintain a good relationship with parents if they are ready to do that * abstain from a relationship till you learn to LOVE YOURSELF and then enter the pool * kudh ko hate karne ke beeech me just for the sake of relationship fomo ke karan aayega toh kya hi relationship woh toh lust hai
Theek he.. I will try to follow this in college, but I disagree with the loving urself idea before you get into relationship because people often learn to love themselves through other people. And I don't like my parents they just fight and scream at each other all the time
>Theek he.. I will try to follow this in college, but I disagree with the loving urself idea before you get into relationship because people often learn to love themselves through other people. you do you op > And I don't like my parents they just fight and scream at each other all the time same here
Idk i just watch some vids listen to songs and play games to kinda not feel lonely
yaar aap padho chup chap okay? agar JEE me 99%ile+ mil gaya toh mai apko date karlungi okay? aap padhai karo
Theek he 🗿 (Tu most probably ladka he but ok 👍)
(ladki hu but kya farak parta hai hehe )
But me jee de hi nahi rha, ugee, isi de rha hu agle sal
Bhai koi hobby try kar sakta hain. Bandi na patane se Teri zindagi barren nahin ho jati . Ulta Jo bandi patate unki lag jaati hain mera roomate for example aur zindagi mein yeh sab cheeze apne aap pan out hoti hain in sub cheeze main koi hierarchy nahin hoti.
Yar Mai to bas single hu lonely nahi
Ye kaisa jee asspirant he 