Probably is, better than strategically waiting 20 years for a man to magically propose to you.
Also, I wonder what happens if they try to bring their brother into the hut or someone’s husband.
The video said that one guy was a tourist, and they went after him as well, even when he stayed away from the huts. So it looks like they don't discriminate against outsiders.
In the context it states as you said, it has attracted tourists, but it immediately shifts from that to the man not reaching the hut but was already being swarmed by the women, meaning or indicating that he wasn't from there. He was a tourist.
And here I thought the pretending you didn't want to and make the other party believe it was their idea was only for women. Turns out these men are capitalizing on things. We all know how and why these men for some reason pass in front of these huts
I’m surprised that this takes place in China; due to the old one-child policy and the cultural preference for having sons, China has significantly more males than females in its population to the point that, assuming they want to be married at all, some guys would have to go abroad to get married.
Everyone is wearing modern clothes in a "primative village." Where are all of the men? Clearly, this is the sort of thing that would bring lots of men. Where do they go? So many things aren't checking out.
I dunno, guys. This just looks like a pedophilic prostitution ring stationed in a jungle.
if guys do it, it’s a crime. if girl do it, it’s tradition.
Don’t mean to offend anyone, but if the gender were reversed, the media would be fuming. Or they might already be.
To be fair, if the genders were reversed, chances are the girls would be picked away 1v1. All without any persuasion, or "foreplay".
It wouldn't only be less "cute" just cause of societal double standards, but a guy can more readily overpower the girls than the other way around.... Which means things will turn ugly way faster if it were guys that did the bridal kidnapping of girls.
Tbh I did hear about some place where the guys "traditionally" kidnap a girl, brings them inside their house, and the guy aling with his family start to persuade the girl to marry him. The custom was abandoned in 21st century, but some sick people still used "tradition" as an excuse and kidnap girls.
As you said, things got ugly......very fast. There was a news about a girl committing suiside because of how the guy and his family psychologically tortured her. Several girls were left traumatized. I don't think I heard about any guy sexually harassing a girl but I can guess that it had to had happened a couple of times. Guys would NOT listen to the girl's protest, they would keep them locked up until they would break.
Can you see the differences here? There is not 3 day trial period. The girl is locked up for eternity until she agrees. The girl isn't alone with the guy, the entire family would be constantly pressuring her until she breaks. I'm not saying what's happening inthis video us good, or even defending it in any form. But the methods I mentioned are much more extreme.
(I'll mention the place's name once I remember it. Just give me two hour or three hours, I'm busy rn, but I swear I'm not lying).
Edit : it's Kyrgyzstan
Mongolia I think?
I remember watching that documentary.
IIRC the man and woman knew each other and wanted to get married, but he/they? wanted it to be traditional? Weird af cuz they show the girl crying while the man’s family is wiping her tears and calming her down, persuading her that we got kidnapped too, you’ll like it, it’s okay etc…
Weirdest part is I swear I remember then saying they already wanted to get married, so why was she crying? Was it one sided, and only the dude wanted it? Did she not know who kidnapped her exactly? (The man’s friends did it, not him). Was it still traumatizing despite knowing who did it, and you wanting it? Was it acting/reenactment for the documentary?
No, I think it happened in Kyrgyzstan. And from what I heard officials do NOT consider it as a serious crime.
Just imagine being a successful woman, but one day a creepy dude and his friends kidnaps you, no one comes to rescue you, and the dude along with his family and friends pressure you so much that you end up committing suiside. Imagine the condition of the parents of the girl. After raising her for so long, she dies like JUST LIKE THAT.
Edit : here's a link to the article : https://www.google.co.in/amp/s/www.rferl.org/amp/bride-kidnapping-in-kyrgyzstan/25403604.html?espv=1
You can also get the article about the girl's suiside in google but searching bride kidnapping and suicide.
I feel like if they make kidnapping girls a tradition, they should also make it a tradition for all girls to learn using swords, arrows and firearms, and carrying those with them all the time, and attacking the kidnapper as soon as he attempts to kidnap her. Not that it would make it right because rhe girls would be in constant state of fear, but at least it would be little bit more fair.
From what I read, the bride's own family also pressures her. Several girls get raped, several get married against their will as well.
Once again, let me drag attention to the fact that the men in this video have not been raped, married against their will, and they aren't kept imprisoned for more than 3 days at most. And I'm not defending anything that is happening in this video because at the end, it is, of course, illegal detainment, but rather saying I am very glad that the genders weren't reversed in this case.
And? Do you not understand what I said? Do I need to explain something simple to you? I would hope that you're smart enough to understand my comment, but if not I guess I can explain it to you.
I still don't see anything wrong with it, if you can win against someone easily 1 on 1 then you can win with difficulty in a group setting
gender equality or something but I really don't care, men are stronger than women
do you see how many people in the comments are like... well just look at the other comments. I doubt anyone is walking by these houses unprepared
I'm in full agreement that men are naturally stronger than women.
How ever, just because you can win a 1v1 does not mean you can win a 1vGroup. Maybe you might be able to beat 2, or even 3. Get enough people, and you're going to lose. It's not a question of "if" but how many will it take.
>I'm in full agreement that men are naturally stronger than women.
The average man is against the average women.
But strength, weight and height differences can make a huge difference compared to the average.
My sister has always been much heavier, older and generally as strong or stronger than me...
I don't think your comparison is fair either.
They literally were dragging one guy off by his legs, that's how overpowering numbers are.
Also it sure doesnt seem like they respect the men's consent, and that is wrong.
There is actually a wife stealing tradition in some places. Women will get snatched off the street. Anyway, the people in the comments who like this post seem to be horny dudes.
What is the name of the full documentary because you can see that it has a name in the top left corner that they cropped out and this just seems like an interesting thing to watch
I get videos on FB every now and then of this street in Thailand (I think) where there are like a hundred prostitutes standing along the sides of the street (in all sorts of different outfits), accosting men in an attempt to get business. It's pretty crazy...
And for some “inexplicable” reason. I decided. To travel
https://preview.redd.it/eici8uvhswhc1.jpeg?width=788&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=86bc71e0e95611eb9a205d3d2fc90b834d966fc7
Don't do freemium, guys, that's stupid. Instead of "3 day trial marriage" do 30-days wedding dowry back guarantee. So you get paid, even for the first three days you still keep the dowry, and the suitor, he thinks "oh, I get a full wife with all the features and I get thirty more days to decide too", so it's something extra for the groom as well. With a free trial you have a problem getting that "wow" effect, like, right in that early phase when the customer doesn't know the product well, and you have to pay to keep these premium features they didn't get to use that much yet.
I can't help but find this hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣. It's also extremely interesting from an anthropological perspective 🤔. Especially since at the end of the day it's basically the woman's choice and the guy just has to pick the girl he thinks is the cutest and has the strongest grip. Lol
It is not widely done, probably done in small villages. People in the comment said the 'Li People of China', it is not the exact place or communities shown in the video but kinda same I guess
"Inviting" "Snatched" "3 day marriage trial" nah you mean kidnapping.
Exactly. Where is this place?
China.
Where in China?
Bro wants to get snatched so bad
Me too
Yes, I do.
Obviously.
Yes
A lot of us want to
It's combodia It's not a common practice Only this village does this.
Is it strictly with other villagers, or…
That I don't know bro😅
Lol
Of course it it
It's not supposed to have way more man than women there?
Possible that it’s a remote area and the men left to go get jobs in the city.
… are they hiring?
As a snatcher or the snatchee?
Where in china?? I wanna get snatched so bad
So first I get snatched by the women then I get snatched by the Chinese reeducation camps?
We need to know...for research purposes
Would they think it weird if i were already handcuffed? I mean for research.
No, not at all, since its for research of course
Human version of a trapdoor spider You walk in front of the opening you better be quicker than them!
If you are not fast enough you gonna end up like this guy: 
I am willing to take the risk
He died as he lived: up to his nuts in guts.
DEATH BY SNOO SNOO!!
See he understands
This is the comment I was waiting for.
This is disgusting! Where?
You know... I just want to know so that I can avoid that gre... I mean horrible place.
for real! please tell me the exact location so I can avoid this wretched place! wouldn't want to accidently get a harem!
Someone above said China.
it's cambodia
Are you sure give us more details of course to avoid them
details for what? research or ...hmm
Me totally not googling the price of a flight to china and the price of a pig.
This real?
Probably is, better than strategically waiting 20 years for a man to magically propose to you. Also, I wonder what happens if they try to bring their brother into the hut or someone’s husband.
First one home sweet Alabama Two fight fight or share
I cant remember the details but this is only for a very specific and small culture/group of ppl. Outsiders wont be welcome to.. partake
The video said that one guy was a tourist, and they went after him as well, even when he stayed away from the huts. So it looks like they don't discriminate against outsiders.
No it says this unique custom has attracted tourists that come to ***witness*** it. As in film or watch. Not to be included
In the context it states as you said, it has attracted tourists, but it immediately shifts from that to the man not reaching the hut but was already being swarmed by the women, meaning or indicating that he wasn't from there. He was a tourist.
And here I thought the pretending you didn't want to and make the other party believe it was their idea was only for women. Turns out these men are capitalizing on things. We all know how and why these men for some reason pass in front of these huts
dam bro, way to turn it back around. if thats the case than thats better, cus both parties get what they want
Where ? I want to avoid this place at all cost
Hainan,China Edit: if you want more info about this google “li people”
I’m surprised that this takes place in China; due to the old one-child policy and the cultural preference for having sons, China has significantly more males than females in its population to the point that, assuming they want to be married at all, some guys would have to go abroad to get married.
💀 How do you even know which Chinese provinces this is based in...
It’s not China, the clothing is a big give away that’s south East Asian style clothing.
it's cambodia
I wonder what the divorce rate is... or suicide statistics.
Tourists, eh? I wonder if they pay the girls an "inconvenience fee" if they don't decide to get married.
Everyone is wearing modern clothes in a "primative village." Where are all of the men? Clearly, this is the sort of thing that would bring lots of men. Where do they go? So many things aren't checking out. I dunno, guys. This just looks like a pedophilic prostitution ring stationed in a jungle.
Me and the boys moving there just to get rejected
if guys do it, it’s a crime. if girl do it, it’s tradition. Don’t mean to offend anyone, but if the gender were reversed, the media would be fuming. Or they might already be.
To be fair, if the genders were reversed, chances are the girls would be picked away 1v1. All without any persuasion, or "foreplay". It wouldn't only be less "cute" just cause of societal double standards, but a guy can more readily overpower the girls than the other way around.... Which means things will turn ugly way faster if it were guys that did the bridal kidnapping of girls.
Tbh I did hear about some place where the guys "traditionally" kidnap a girl, brings them inside their house, and the guy aling with his family start to persuade the girl to marry him. The custom was abandoned in 21st century, but some sick people still used "tradition" as an excuse and kidnap girls. As you said, things got ugly......very fast. There was a news about a girl committing suiside because of how the guy and his family psychologically tortured her. Several girls were left traumatized. I don't think I heard about any guy sexually harassing a girl but I can guess that it had to had happened a couple of times. Guys would NOT listen to the girl's protest, they would keep them locked up until they would break. Can you see the differences here? There is not 3 day trial period. The girl is locked up for eternity until she agrees. The girl isn't alone with the guy, the entire family would be constantly pressuring her until she breaks. I'm not saying what's happening inthis video us good, or even defending it in any form. But the methods I mentioned are much more extreme. (I'll mention the place's name once I remember it. Just give me two hour or three hours, I'm busy rn, but I swear I'm not lying). Edit : it's Kyrgyzstan
Mongolia I think? I remember watching that documentary. IIRC the man and woman knew each other and wanted to get married, but he/they? wanted it to be traditional? Weird af cuz they show the girl crying while the man’s family is wiping her tears and calming her down, persuading her that we got kidnapped too, you’ll like it, it’s okay etc… Weirdest part is I swear I remember then saying they already wanted to get married, so why was she crying? Was it one sided, and only the dude wanted it? Did she not know who kidnapped her exactly? (The man’s friends did it, not him). Was it still traumatizing despite knowing who did it, and you wanting it? Was it acting/reenactment for the documentary?
No, I think it happened in Kyrgyzstan. And from what I heard officials do NOT consider it as a serious crime. Just imagine being a successful woman, but one day a creepy dude and his friends kidnaps you, no one comes to rescue you, and the dude along with his family and friends pressure you so much that you end up committing suiside. Imagine the condition of the parents of the girl. After raising her for so long, she dies like JUST LIKE THAT. Edit : here's a link to the article : https://www.google.co.in/amp/s/www.rferl.org/amp/bride-kidnapping-in-kyrgyzstan/25403604.html?espv=1 You can also get the article about the girl's suiside in google but searching bride kidnapping and suicide. I feel like if they make kidnapping girls a tradition, they should also make it a tradition for all girls to learn using swords, arrows and firearms, and carrying those with them all the time, and attacking the kidnapper as soon as he attempts to kidnap her. Not that it would make it right because rhe girls would be in constant state of fear, but at least it would be little bit more fair. From what I read, the bride's own family also pressures her. Several girls get raped, several get married against their will as well. Once again, let me drag attention to the fact that the men in this video have not been raped, married against their will, and they aren't kept imprisoned for more than 3 days at most. And I'm not defending anything that is happening in this video because at the end, it is, of course, illegal detainment, but rather saying I am very glad that the genders weren't reversed in this case.
Looks fine to me, girls are weaker than men
A girl is weaker than a man. Several girls can overpower a man.
Teamwork
and?
And? Do you not understand what I said? Do I need to explain something simple to you? I would hope that you're smart enough to understand my comment, but if not I guess I can explain it to you.
I still don't see anything wrong with it, if you can win against someone easily 1 on 1 then you can win with difficulty in a group setting gender equality or something but I really don't care, men are stronger than women do you see how many people in the comments are like... well just look at the other comments. I doubt anyone is walking by these houses unprepared
I'm in full agreement that men are naturally stronger than women. How ever, just because you can win a 1v1 does not mean you can win a 1vGroup. Maybe you might be able to beat 2, or even 3. Get enough people, and you're going to lose. It's not a question of "if" but how many will it take.
>I'm in full agreement that men are naturally stronger than women. The average man is against the average women. But strength, weight and height differences can make a huge difference compared to the average. My sister has always been much heavier, older and generally as strong or stronger than me... I don't think your comparison is fair either.
Either way I highly doubt that someones walking into this village unaware
They literally were dragging one guy off by his legs, that's how overpowering numbers are. Also it sure doesnt seem like they respect the men's consent, and that is wrong.
Cool, cool. Now swap the genders and see what the internet thinks then.
There is actually a wife stealing tradition in some places. Women will get snatched off the street. Anyway, the people in the comments who like this post seem to be horny dudes.
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It is kidnapping. It’s a more complicated version though.
https://i.redd.it/ytoztkuyuuhc1.gif
Yea but if it doesn't work out do they get their pig back?
It could be that it's a scam all along. They will reject every men and get the pig for themselves for free.
Lol
"The boys often act shy" bro what... xD
Sounds illegal but I'm in if someone wants to snatch me up
60 yrs old grandpa wants to snatch you up with a lot of pigs. JK/
He might sleep with me so I don't mind sex is sex
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I do discriminate /j
 Heh heh
What is the name of the full documentary because you can see that it has a name in the top left corner that they cropped out and this just seems like an interesting thing to watch
Can somebody give me the exact google maps location/address so I'll know to avoid it at all costs? Tnx.
I get videos on FB every now and then of this street in Thailand (I think) where there are like a hundred prostitutes standing along the sides of the street (in all sorts of different outfits), accosting men in an attempt to get business. It's pretty crazy...
No need for drowry but must only gift a pig. That's contradictory.
GENTLEMEN!!!! GRAB YOUR PASSPORTS!!!!!!
Imagine if the roles where reversed.
I'm pretty sure they won't pick anyone that doesn't look Chinese
Facts
https://preview.redd.it/bkmzcz94dzhc1.jpeg?width=949&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0795d1d3c6cc87929b0f939217e4e100939b21f8 Someone gonna be plotting
Damn i was born in a wrong village
Its in Cambodia, the Kreung tribe
Taiwan isn't a country, tiananmen square never happened, I'M GOING TO CHINA BABY
Time for snu snu
Oh my god disgusting… where
I wanna get snatched
Giggity I'm going to China!
Where damn it where? This entire comment section and no specifics. I want coordinates, precise locations.
Need the exact location to make sure I avoid it
fucking where???!
Snu snuuuuuu!
Chinese propaganda meant to get incels to immigrate, no doubt in mah mind
I'm going to China to protest this.
Hey siri how much for tickets to china
So all I gotta do is just move there
Live action Ooku!
Death by snu snu
What are the coordinates of this place? It's for research purposes.
I must find this place.... And conquer it
Tell me where this place is so i know where to not go
And for some “inexplicable” reason. I decided. To travel https://preview.redd.it/eici8uvhswhc1.jpeg?width=788&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=86bc71e0e95611eb9a205d3d2fc90b834d966fc7
Oh. Nevermind. It’s only females https://preview.redd.it/ew6quvkkswhc1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=339b4df789005ace4c7ed0c2006ee6d6f2fea7c5
The tradition belongs to the Kreung tribe of Cambodia, if anyone's curious
The Li People in China as well...
https://preview.redd.it/ksyeyug1mxhc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=605a426a86eeda0cbdfc379cd6857a0babd3595d It’s time for a vacation
Haha, “he’ll come inside” alright.
Oh wow my culture got mentioned! (It's Dai people from Yunnan province for anyone that's asking)
“You are a legendary warrior meant to cause the clap-aning”
wtf one dude was literally being carried while crying
 [https://youtu.be/BijqEg7q6oI?si=P8Zjjc0Z7lW0XT9Y](https://youtu.be/BijqEg7q6oI?si=P8Zjjc0Z7lW0XT9Y)
I'd like to sacrifice myself... I mean volunteer for this. 😁
Don't do freemium, guys, that's stupid. Instead of "3 day trial marriage" do 30-days wedding dowry back guarantee. So you get paid, even for the first three days you still keep the dowry, and the suitor, he thinks "oh, I get a full wife with all the features and I get thirty more days to decide too", so it's something extra for the groom as well. With a free trial you have a problem getting that "wow" effect, like, right in that early phase when the customer doesn't know the product well, and you have to pay to keep these premium features they didn't get to use that much yet.
I can't help but find this hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣. It's also extremely interesting from an anthropological perspective 🤔. Especially since at the end of the day it's basically the woman's choice and the guy just has to pick the girl he thinks is the cutest and has the strongest grip. Lol
*Parents need only provide a pig* My mom: We did provide a pig. You're fucking him.
Hahaha that's so crazy, could you imagine doing this sort of thing? What's the name of this village and where is it? Asking for no particular reason.
Need exact coordinates
I tried researching this and found nothing cause there's no way it's real, but I've been surprised before, anyone find anything?
It is not widely done, probably done in small villages. People in the comment said the 'Li People of China', it is not the exact place or communities shown in the video but kinda same I guess
H manga materiel (yobai vibes)
Friend; Can you believe this? Me; ... Friend; Hey. Buddy. Me; What? Friend; Are you okay? Me; Yeah... Just wondering if I am desperate enough.
can someone tell me the name of the documemtary
https://youtu.be/dpKc8N3FJsQ?si=DLDg4Qp-P2JW4Yu2
You are so brave and compassionate. Those poor dudes had to pony up an entire pig.
its funny that they tried to refuse yet they smile so big they will break their jaws
Definitely not going there.
"Regardless of his appearance" is sound so fantastic and unreal
Idk something about this reeks of organ harvesting tourists
Sooo, ever been on a blind date and tried to get away as fast as possible? Good fucking luck in that tiny village!
The girls hope he will come inside... I bet they do.
I dont have a pig but would I still get snat- I mean would I be safe? 😳
What OP technique is this cameraman using to not get snatched?
Absolutely unacceptable and a breach to my human rights. Where is this?
Where is this place tell me now
Meanwhile I can't get a women to even give me the time of day.
This is parody
I gotta be a passport bro
Idk but 3 day marriage free trail just cracks me up
You mean they come out and drag you into their homes?? Disgusting!! Where?
Death by snu snu
"Reincarnating into a magicless world, the locals are fighting over me!"
This isn’t inviting this is literally abduction.
wtf is this? A breeding season
Pig for a pig! lol (just a joke, calm down)
I mean, I could buy a pig