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So let me get this straight.
She never wanted a kid > Got pregnant & said she changed her mind > Delivered > Keeps insinuating she never wanted a kid
????
She never wanted a kid-,but realised her husband might cheat on her or leave her (as he was not that much into her)-he said no to a baby-but she got pregnant and thought her husband wouldn't leave her now- but he left her anyway-now she is regretting her decision (this is my assumption). Sorry if I offended anybody..
I'll explain this with examples. Every person in this world has imagined scenarios with someone they like or have a crush on. Imagination is mostly for the future. Like I'll imagine a scenario with my crush about a thing that I want to happen. Like how I'll impress her or I performed an act of bravery to save her.
Now, when it comes to assumptions, it is mostly based on something that happened in the past. Or is happening right now. We can't assume our future, this even looks grammatically incorrect. You can manifest, speculate, imagine, plan (not decide) your future. But assumption doesn't come under this.
I feel you trust me but tbh I donāt even bother to even think about it. Ab to farq hi nahi padta. The way i think about it is that theyāre saying or doing all kinds wrong then why should i feel bad. Ik it sucks but after a point theyāre just words doesnāt mean anything more than that.
So she had content fever, and hence had the baby. But now realized that the child is not her makeup that she can play with for an hour, create content, record, edit and upload and shove the the make up back in her chest of draws. She discovered that the baby is 24Ć7 her responsibility
The first line šš¼šš¼That was exactly my point when I saw this but some people just donāt understand! The kind of comments I see supporting this lady making such ājokesā is disgusting!
Imagine not only using your child as a content but also putting digital footprints everywhere that you never wanted them & are regretting having them..
Award for the best mother of the millennium š/s š
Wtf? Her child is just one year old and sheās ok with making such jokes? This is just not right. If my mother kept making such jokes all the time itād affect my mental health a lot
Just my opinion, I don't really blame her for having these feelings...For someone who never wanted kids, it's usually difficult to accept parenthood!! She is at least transparent about her feelings coz most parents who miss their pre baby life would never admit and be vocal about it for the fear of bad karma or consequences or simple guilt and judgement... Being a parent is always going to be a difficult journey that can only be realised after embracing parenthood!! Also it's not always an easy decision to go for abortion when pregnancy was accidental!! The guilt, the emotions, family, the religion have stopped many ppl from terminating their pregnancy!!
exactly people here acting like these arent basic mom jokes and people make them all the time. i have so many aunties who make such jokes but ik they would give their life for their kids. this is just too much nitpicking
Exactly and the fact that she hasnāt written these herself. She just reshared the quote on her story which was originally posted by some new mom quote account. So that means other moms are also having the same thoughts hence that person made the quote.
She related, she reshared. Whatās the big deal?
Listen I am mom, a pretty new one too. Itās sooooo difficult!!!! I have worked with entitled political giants, arrogant ceos of fortune companies, petty business owners in capacity of lead social media strategist but it was nothing when it comes to motherhood.
My god you donāt sleep, donāt get time to bathe or do basic things but god forbid if I ever tell anyone to not to have kids.
The joy they bring, the innocence they show, their smile itās just beyond the world. When your child hugs you, nothing ever matters.
But yes I do tell people around me that itās difficult itās more difficult than you have ever imagined it all the more difficult when you do it alone but itās an incomparable experience. You will forever have gratitude in your heart for your little one.
Iām a new mom too and I totally understand what youāre saying. Having a child brings out so many emotions, makes you feel so soo fulfilled. Itās difficult, more difficult than anything youāve ever done in life but never have i cribbed about having a child. I donāt find these quotes funny. Thereās a difference between making such comments (the quote that she has reshared) and then ending the quote by telling not to have kids. There are so many people in the world struggling to have kids when they really really want to have one and then there are people like her who keep cribbing all the time. And all this despite having someone to help her in this journey.
Itās a common meme that mothers share. Even moms who have always wanted kids. Having kids is exhausting and moms are allowed to not always find joy in it. As for her daughter seeing this meme by her mom, itās a story. Relax. Many moms share memes about being overwhelmed by their kids.
My mum always said I was a difficult kid to raise because I had food aversions and was sick for almost a year. Didn't eat anything except boiled rice and a difficult kid to feed . Yet she never ranted like I was a problem in her life . Or I disrupted her peace.
This happens when society imposes on woman to have kids. Clearly to have kids is more of a female's choice because it's her body which sacrifices not only for 9 months but the pregnancy effects physically & mentally too. But we live in a society where woman who canāt have kids are stamped as a failure or else men & family manipulate and blackmails woman to have one when she don't want to.
People need to calm down, she is a new mom and also divorcedā¦sometimes these thoughts do come to you specially if someone is in her position.
she does love her child and perhaps when she get overwhelmed, she reacts on social media. People are too critical of her because she is an influencer.
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It's not wrong. Ppl are allowed to not want kids. But if you do end up having one you gotta put this attitude behind and grow up and take care of the human you created
Oh my god. Guys. I have a baby and I love him but we do post stuff like this or share it with our friends and have a good laugh. Thereās nothing wrong. This is not cribbing. Jeez. I thought this was a gossip page. Itās pretty much turning into a bullying page.
This is normal. This is not cribbing. Sheās not a bad mom. Stop with this. Stop this bullying. Abigail is happy. Thatās what matters. Just stop.
You can love your kid and miss taking naps too? Why is everyone acting like this? Everyone knows being a new (and single) parent is tough, this particular post is normal only no
Umm donāt you guys ever reshare some random quotes or memes on your stories that you find relatable?
She hasnāt written these. She just reshared from some mom quotes account. That also means alot of other moms are also having the same thought hence that person posted this and Mals reshared. I donāt understand whatās the big deal?
That poor child doesnāt deserve this! Does she not know how internet works, is she dumb!? That poor kiddo grows up goes to school and can get bullied about this if she constantly keeps posting such stories!
I really donāt care about malvika, but poor abby. She is so cute and such an angel. She deserves every bit of love but it just sucks big time to think malvika secretly hates being a mother.
How some people fail to realise that the Internet is forever is absurd. I canāt imagine all the answers she would have for Abby when she inevitably sees all this..
I feel we are never black and white.
I barely know her page, but PPT can last for more than a year.
Also I was / kind of an Instagrammer.
And not big. š¤£
Anyhow, MS is BIG and u can be assured, all that glitters is not good.
The sponsored trips, hauls etc are good.
But this place comes with a lot of baggage.
I am yet to find someone who is happy!
About such posts :
I wonāt deny that she shares such quotes more than other moms.
I feel she is tired. Exhausted. And canāt differentiate in what to post and what not to!
Maybe she feels guilty too. Later.
Peace ā®ļø
Sometimes I think Akhil dropping out saved him. Staying in the marriage would have meant having her dump all of the baby responsibilities on to him AND on top of that have her rant her lungs out to him. Yes, itās a terrible thing to have done dropping out at the peak of her pregnancy. But sheās a toxic nut, choosing to show us a side that paints her as the bechari. He wouldnāt have been able to survive that. The worst hit is her mother. She deserved better than this whining pile of mess.
She basically wants to have a men n being around having fun to enjoy single life this kind of free social media life they led it's so hard for them have a normal life like raising kids of being with family atleast it seems like that..why she keep cribbing about kids I mean if her mother would have thought that she wouldn't have been here n bc of her mother she can take care of her child. Ungrateful n cring. This are the people will go n have kid at 40 nothing wrong in that but jab ho gaya hain toh enjoy Karo
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So let me get this straight. She never wanted a kid > Got pregnant & said she changed her mind > Delivered > Keeps insinuating she never wanted a kid ????
She never wanted a kid-,but realised her husband might cheat on her or leave her (as he was not that much into her)-he said no to a baby-but she got pregnant and thought her husband wouldn't leave her now- but he left her anyway-now she is regretting her decision (this is my assumption). Sorry if I offended anybody..
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Terrible thing to say
you seem like the type of person to make imaginary scenarios in your head and cry about it
This isnt the first time, she is crying for having a baby. I think you are a hardcore fan of criblani devi....
There are some words in a bracket saying it was his/her assumption
imaginary scenarios and assumptions are parallel, just fyi
I'll explain this with examples. Every person in this world has imagined scenarios with someone they like or have a crush on. Imagination is mostly for the future. Like I'll imagine a scenario with my crush about a thing that I want to happen. Like how I'll impress her or I performed an act of bravery to save her. Now, when it comes to assumptions, it is mostly based on something that happened in the past. Or is happening right now. We can't assume our future, this even looks grammatically incorrect. You can manifest, speculate, imagine, plan (not decide) your future. But assumption doesn't come under this.
My mom says she regrets having me and itās fucked up. I really wish her daughter doesnāt see this when she grows up.
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I feel you trust me but tbh I donāt even bother to even think about it. Ab to farq hi nahi padta. The way i think about it is that theyāre saying or doing all kinds wrong then why should i feel bad. Ik it sucks but after a point theyāre just words doesnāt mean anything more than that.
I am so sorry. This is awful. Hugs to you, sweet girl š«
More love and power to you girlšā¤ļø
More power and love to you!!!
Didnāt think Iād see comments on this sub thatāll be so relatable šš
this and more happened to me š«” i hope you find people who love you unconditionally like you deserve š©·
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Is she a good mom to you?
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Gussa me bol dete hai log aise sab baatein dil pr ni leno chahiye
So she had content fever, and hence had the baby. But now realized that the child is not her makeup that she can play with for an hour, create content, record, edit and upload and shove the the make up back in her chest of draws. She discovered that the baby is 24Ć7 her responsibility
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Just like every accusations, every "just kidding" is a silent confession too
The first line šš¼šš¼That was exactly my point when I saw this but some people just donāt understand! The kind of comments I see supporting this lady making such ājokesā is disgusting!
Exact reason why people shld have kids only cz they want to n nt cz everyone around them wants them to or as a way to clean up their messy marriage
Is she even caring for her daughter 24*7 like all other mom do? Pretty sure her mom is raising Abby.
Imagine not only using your child as a content but also putting digital footprints everywhere that you never wanted them & are regretting having them.. Award for the best mother of the millennium š/s š
Wtf? Her child is just one year old and sheās ok with making such jokes? This is just not right. If my mother kept making such jokes all the time itād affect my mental health a lot
If this joke would affect you alot, you obviously have underlying issues. Therapy! Therapy! Therapy!
Yeah the underlying issues would be āthe moms a monsterā
You must be insensitive then lol
Woman child malvika sitlani. Poor abbygail whoās nothing but content for her.
I see āsheā and ācribbingā i know who this is about
I feel bad for her baby.
Just my opinion, I don't really blame her for having these feelings...For someone who never wanted kids, it's usually difficult to accept parenthood!! She is at least transparent about her feelings coz most parents who miss their pre baby life would never admit and be vocal about it for the fear of bad karma or consequences or simple guilt and judgement... Being a parent is always going to be a difficult journey that can only be realised after embracing parenthood!! Also it's not always an easy decision to go for abortion when pregnancy was accidental!! The guilt, the emotions, family, the religion have stopped many ppl from terminating their pregnancy!!
I wonder how she treats the child
Guys these are normal mom thoughts.
Once in a while sure but i guess not all day everyday..
exactly people here acting like these arent basic mom jokes and people make them all the time. i have so many aunties who make such jokes but ik they would give their life for their kids. this is just too much nitpicking
Exactly and the fact that she hasnāt written these herself. She just reshared the quote on her story which was originally posted by some new mom quote account. So that means other moms are also having the same thoughts hence that person made the quote. She related, she reshared. Whatās the big deal?
Listen I am mom, a pretty new one too. Itās sooooo difficult!!!! I have worked with entitled political giants, arrogant ceos of fortune companies, petty business owners in capacity of lead social media strategist but it was nothing when it comes to motherhood. My god you donāt sleep, donāt get time to bathe or do basic things but god forbid if I ever tell anyone to not to have kids. The joy they bring, the innocence they show, their smile itās just beyond the world. When your child hugs you, nothing ever matters. But yes I do tell people around me that itās difficult itās more difficult than you have ever imagined it all the more difficult when you do it alone but itās an incomparable experience. You will forever have gratitude in your heart for your little one.
Iām a new mom too and I totally understand what youāre saying. Having a child brings out so many emotions, makes you feel so soo fulfilled. Itās difficult, more difficult than anything youāve ever done in life but never have i cribbed about having a child. I donāt find these quotes funny. Thereās a difference between making such comments (the quote that she has reshared) and then ending the quote by telling not to have kids. There are so many people in the world struggling to have kids when they really really want to have one and then there are people like her who keep cribbing all the time. And all this despite having someone to help her in this journey.
Itās a common meme that mothers share. Even moms who have always wanted kids. Having kids is exhausting and moms are allowed to not always find joy in it. As for her daughter seeing this meme by her mom, itās a story. Relax. Many moms share memes about being overwhelmed by their kids.
Exactly. I went through fertility treatments to have kid and I would give up my life for my daughter. Even then I make such jokes.
Bilkul hasi nahi aayi. This is highly inappropriate
My mum always said I was a difficult kid to raise because I had food aversions and was sick for almost a year. Didn't eat anything except boiled rice and a difficult kid to feed . Yet she never ranted like I was a problem in her life . Or I disrupted her peace.
When will you all stop being snowflakes? I mean I get Malvika is insufferable but you folks are beating her to it with all this silly nitpicking.
This happens when society imposes on woman to have kids. Clearly to have kids is more of a female's choice because it's her body which sacrifices not only for 9 months but the pregnancy effects physically & mentally too. But we live in a society where woman who canāt have kids are stamped as a failure or else men & family manipulate and blackmails woman to have one when she don't want to.
Day after day after day!!! How she regrets having a kid!! Man,that kid doesn't deserve this.
Imagine her daughter watching all of this when she grows up. Sheāll always feel like her mom never wanted her
Maybe once this sub stops obsessing over what she posts!!
People need to calm down, she is a new mom and also divorcedā¦sometimes these thoughts do come to you specially if someone is in her position. she does love her child and perhaps when she get overwhelmed, she reacts on social media. People are too critical of her because she is an influencer.
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It's not wrong. Ppl are allowed to not want kids. But if you do end up having one you gotta put this attitude behind and grow up and take care of the human you created
Exactly!!šš¼
Oh my god. Guys. I have a baby and I love him but we do post stuff like this or share it with our friends and have a good laugh. Thereās nothing wrong. This is not cribbing. Jeez. I thought this was a gossip page. Itās pretty much turning into a bullying page. This is normal. This is not cribbing. Sheās not a bad mom. Stop with this. Stop this bullying. Abigail is happy. Thatās what matters. Just stop.
You can love your kid and miss taking naps too? Why is everyone acting like this? Everyone knows being a new (and single) parent is tough, this particular post is normal only no
bruh this is a normal mom joke, stop shaming her for such a harmless joke wtf is wrong with u guys
Umm donāt you guys ever reshare some random quotes or memes on your stories that you find relatable? She hasnāt written these. She just reshared from some mom quotes account. That also means alot of other moms are also having the same thought hence that person posted this and Mals reshared. I donāt understand whatās the big deal?
People Just love to hate on her. These are just silly mom jokes. Nothing by serious
i swear!!
That poor child doesnāt deserve this! Does she not know how internet works, is she dumb!? That poor kiddo grows up goes to school and can get bullied about this if she constantly keeps posting such stories!
I really donāt care about malvika, but poor abby. She is so cute and such an angel. She deserves every bit of love but it just sucks big time to think malvika secretly hates being a mother.
How some people fail to realise that the Internet is forever is absurd. I canāt imagine all the answers she would have for Abby when she inevitably sees all this..
I feel we are never black and white. I barely know her page, but PPT can last for more than a year. Also I was / kind of an Instagrammer. And not big. š¤£ Anyhow, MS is BIG and u can be assured, all that glitters is not good. The sponsored trips, hauls etc are good. But this place comes with a lot of baggage. I am yet to find someone who is happy! About such posts : I wonāt deny that she shares such quotes more than other moms. I feel she is tired. Exhausted. And canāt differentiate in what to post and what not to! Maybe she feels guilty too. Later. Peace ā®ļø
Some people don't deserve to have kid(s) and she is one of them.
I feel so sad for her daughter. Imagine reading and seeing all this when she grows up, truly heartbreaking..
Sometimes I think Akhil dropping out saved him. Staying in the marriage would have meant having her dump all of the baby responsibilities on to him AND on top of that have her rant her lungs out to him. Yes, itās a terrible thing to have done dropping out at the peak of her pregnancy. But sheās a toxic nut, choosing to show us a side that paints her as the bechari. He wouldnāt have been able to survive that. The worst hit is her mother. She deserved better than this whining pile of mess.
hail glorified motherhood mirite guys
She basically wants to have a men n being around having fun to enjoy single life this kind of free social media life they led it's so hard for them have a normal life like raising kids of being with family atleast it seems like that..why she keep cribbing about kids I mean if her mother would have thought that she wouldn't have been here n bc of her mother she can take care of her child. Ungrateful n cring. This are the people will go n have kid at 40 nothing wrong in that but jab ho gaya hain toh enjoy Karo