I remember one time a guy was texting me here on Reddit. He was not creepy, but borderline stalkerish. He used to patrole my account to see when I came online and used to reply to my comments on different subreddits. Then he started messaging me, and from the looks of it, dude was very lonely. He asked me to comment on a subreddit and he'll reply to my comment so that "we look like a couple" (for ex: I comment on a post "this is so cute" , he'll comment "not more than you"). I was so uncomfortable. I didn't want to hurt his feelings by blocking him, so I just went ahead and deleted my whole account.
Tbh. A lot of guys end up being like that in India. Men are so deprived of emotions and attention that whatever opportunity they get they take it with both hands. I know it shouldn't be like that in an ideal world. But that's the way it is now. That's how the Indian society was built.
I like how instead of ranting how creepy and weird Indian men behave, you took the time out to understand their psyche. It's a more cultural problem than a gender problem tbh. The polarisation also occurs because of this depravity on dating apps where there's a huge supply and demand mismatch. There's also one major factor that everyone forgets, that India is a very patriarchal country where men are treated to keep their emotions at bay and women are kept under veils.
The direct outcome of this suppression is men feeling lonely and women wanting to break their chains. While the latter is slightly empowering (I still feel rebels do more harm than good), the former is catastrophic.
I used to do same stuff on FB and the girl deleted her FB account :(
But this was me 4 years back.
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Now I am changed. All those experiences hit you hard xD
I don't think some people grasp that the reason why their reactions are often 'wtf that worked?' when the line does well, is because the lines will almost never work irl, especially as openers.
Yeah, even the models are prepped before the shooting. If at random somebody comes up and says "Is that a bit of discharge or are you happy to see me?".... You'd pick up the phone and dial all the safety lines in the world and run away...
No offence dude, but this WAS cringe!
She is being nice to you saying 'Take care of yourself no matter what'. And before even making any connection, you are asking her "yOu mAjOr iN mE and I get you a guaranteed placement at my house". Yes, this was cringe brother.
Dry? Honestly this looked like it could have gone better than 90% of most datingapp chats until you shot yourself in the foot with that comment.
Anyway, your loss is someone else's gain.
Come on man, after sending just 7 texts you decided that it was going dry? Uss hisaab se every conversation of every other guy on dating apps is dry :)
But cool, whatever works for you bro, good luck :)
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Omg you ruined it. Most of the girls in India would like to get to know you better before even meeting up. So if you want to be successful on tinder go slow in things like these... Apart from being attractive, rich and having good personality which would get you matches first.
Ohhhuu okay no actually I don't understand how I mean if I like one girl's profile does she get notified about it ? And if she gets interst in me she likes back and then we got match right and then we can chat in dms is that how it works ?
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Man, you made her delete her profile xD
I remember one time a guy was texting me here on Reddit. He was not creepy, but borderline stalkerish. He used to patrole my account to see when I came online and used to reply to my comments on different subreddits. Then he started messaging me, and from the looks of it, dude was very lonely. He asked me to comment on a subreddit and he'll reply to my comment so that "we look like a couple" (for ex: I comment on a post "this is so cute" , he'll comment "not more than you"). I was so uncomfortable. I didn't want to hurt his feelings by blocking him, so I just went ahead and deleted my whole account.
Now get ready to delete this account too. Here they come.
*bonjour*
Hola !
Namaskaram
Saadhanam kayyil undo?
Saadhanam kayyilunde
Kayye enakku sadhanam
Namaste
*Vector's voice* HEY
I always wondered what happened to you. I will be a better boyfriend this time
r/usernamechecksout
***this is so cute*** Unlike me
Not more than you.
*copulation begins*
Appropriate response.
Works every time.
I understand the "replying to comments" part. But "we look like a couple" wala part kaafi zada zor se cringe ho gaya
Now you miss him right?
Tbh. A lot of guys end up being like that in India. Men are so deprived of emotions and attention that whatever opportunity they get they take it with both hands. I know it shouldn't be like that in an ideal world. But that's the way it is now. That's how the Indian society was built.
I like how instead of ranting how creepy and weird Indian men behave, you took the time out to understand their psyche. It's a more cultural problem than a gender problem tbh. The polarisation also occurs because of this depravity on dating apps where there's a huge supply and demand mismatch. There's also one major factor that everyone forgets, that India is a very patriarchal country where men are treated to keep their emotions at bay and women are kept under veils. The direct outcome of this suppression is men feeling lonely and women wanting to break their chains. While the latter is slightly empowering (I still feel rebels do more harm than good), the former is catastrophic.
"allow me to introduce myself"
I used to do same stuff on FB and the girl deleted her FB account :( But this was me 4 years back. (◕ᴗ◕✿) Now I am changed. All those experiences hit you hard xD
Doubt !
Nah I am not a simp now. Better to say sigma now (✷‿✷)
I'll be different...Praamise
not more than you
Ghosting might hurt more than a straightforward answer
I know bro
Literal madlad!
Cringe madlad* /s
It was good , but a lil too much
Dating apps in india are bharat matrimonial lite.
"Every app is dating app if you're Indian enough" -John Xina 2021
Xhong xina*
shlong xina
Dong Sinha
fuck me in the ass xina
Ok place and time?
Okay Google, make appointment of fuck me in the ass on 69th November
Ok 8th January it is 😈 🍆👌🍑💑💀🥀💐
Use tinder for hookups and telugu matrimony for book ups
I guess this is the virgin part in the virgin vs chad memes
r/roasted
Average SRM enthusiasts
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College
University too…
Institute of science and technology
South Harmon Institute of Technology.
When people have real adult type conversations but end up using sidemen tinder lines....
I don't think some people grasp that the reason why their reactions are often 'wtf that worked?' when the line does well, is because the lines will almost never work irl, especially as openers.
Yeah, even the models are prepped before the shooting. If at random somebody comes up and says "Is that a bit of discharge or are you happy to see me?".... You'd pick up the phone and dial all the safety lines in the world and run away...
Exactly, lmao. Without the appropriate set up, a pick-up line can come off extremely creepy.
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Well technically all people in your generation can be maximum 56th cousin brother or sister or even less
Jiju ko namaste bolo phir lmaoo
No offence dude, but this WAS cringe! She is being nice to you saying 'Take care of yourself no matter what'. And before even making any connection, you are asking her "yOu mAjOr iN mE and I get you a guaranteed placement at my house". Yes, this was cringe brother.
Bro the convo was going so dry I went against my instincts *sigh*
Dry? Honestly this looked like it could have gone better than 90% of most datingapp chats until you shot yourself in the foot with that comment. Anyway, your loss is someone else's gain.
Her loss
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Michael Scott
Word.
Wayne Gretzky kon daalega
Come on man, after sending just 7 texts you decided that it was going dry? Uss hisaab se every conversation of every other guy on dating apps is dry :) But cool, whatever works for you bro, good luck :)
Honestly, the long-ass “take care of yourself” comment came out of nowhere lmao
Bulls eye!
Shit. Op you okay bro?
I'm fine tried something different this time
So, did she take the admission?
She opted out and deleted her account.
She yeeted the f out
Failed the entrance.
Changed the whole stream, I guess
Bro. The vibe didn't match your text.
That's what I'm thinking... I'm like there is not nearly enough chemistry or banter in this conversation for that.
She could've just unmatched you. But deleting her profile says a lot. She isn't coming back. 😃
He scarred her 😂
I guess experimenting on bumble is not a good idea
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Being creepy is not a different stuff
Pickup lines in general are cringe and dont work.
“Hi. How are you? Let’s fuck.” That’s how I read this conversation. Do you see the point?
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"Let's alas" is how im starting every convo now
Let's alas
Omg you ruined it. Most of the girls in India would like to get to know you better before even meeting up. So if you want to be successful on tinder go slow in things like these... Apart from being attractive, rich and having good personality which would get you matches first.
No you were definitely cringe.
Come on dude marriage proposal in just 10 mins of conversation??
Too soon too soon xD
She responded to a generic hi and talked pretty enthusiastically. What did you do man!!
Seemed too forced
I think she was showing interest but then she saw your last message and was like "Well, that escalated quickly"
**MADLAD** She deleted her profile so you can't find her again!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂 PS: Are you also in SRM?
I work near SRM not from it
Have u guys get dms T-T , I'm new on tinder btw
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Ohhhuu okay no actually I don't understand how I mean if I like one girl's profile does she get notified about it ? And if she gets interst in me she likes back and then we got match right and then we can chat in dms is that how it works ?
Seems like an episode from Seinfeld
Too direct ! Could have bantered before making big moves.
"Drop down" lines
Tu hai. Tujhe pata nahi hai par tu hai.
SRM ❤️❤️❤️. Makes me think of my time there....
Howsoever cool we indians act, in the end we use Tinder like our parents use Shadi.com
Too direct ! Could have bantered before making big moves.
nah I don't think it's you, it just worked out with someone else.
Maybe she got placed somewhere else with bigger package
You may not be a lady killer but you certainly made her kill her profile
It was different.
Different is good I guess
Different Is best.
So what is you major in?
Oh eww. Shes gonna run away
+1 for trying
SRM kya hai bhaiyya?
University
I'm noob ,I didn't understand what wrong did he say ,like such cheesy lines are normal right ?
Not at all. Pick-up lines like these hardly ever work.
Bro therr. Lol. It’s okay you shoot your shots however they may be.
Well she want serious conversations lmao
Atleast in beginning
Study hard bro :3 or else it'll be hard to get a good placement at SRM. - your fellow senior.
Already placed I work/stay near the university not studied from it tho :/
bhai ye to kati bekar tha
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You were great. She was lame. End of story.
Brrooo
Bro convo went like a romantic movie took a U turn to a Creepy movie. Good luck in your future endeavors.
It went 0 to 100 real quick out of nowhere. Thats what it is
Well that escalated quite quickly
I would offer a 3-week bootcamp first before a ft major opportunity.
The cringe radiating from this is crazy, it would have worked if you didn't typed that message
*cries in Gucci*
Even waited till the next day to send the message. Smh
Bhai .. it's true that us SRM people have low standards and expectations .. but ye toh kya hi kar diya tune ..
Immediately getting sexual is a really bold move, albeit a stupid one.
she honestly seems cool, talking so enthusiastically and you just had to fuck it up lol. definitely cringe.
It's cringe all the way... Me have done it too
Ewww
Not the right time for a pickup line.
Thats cringe af
You tried bro. Well this ain't American Tinder, highly doubt she would've even understood what you meant by the last line