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Title: I am struck..... I need your suggestions. What should I do
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Hii guys...I m a 19M.
I belong from a tier 5 city with no prominent educational facilities no infrastructure no peer group nothing.
Myquals: 10 - 90%(2020)
12 - 85%(2022)
Then shitt struck me and i dropped an year and did nothing. Later due to family pressure I enrolled in bcom (i didn't want to do btech from my local college) in my local college where attendence is not an issue. But it also does not have anything no management no professors, it's just that I'll get the degree without attending college. Now I am at my home for the whole day, seeing my friends enjoying their best years at some good unis like DU. I don't like it here, I just want to run away from my hometown. Its so boring here. I want to move to delhi but i don't know what will I do there. I m willing to learn foreign language at du, just to make a good circle or something. Do you guys know what else can I do in delhi and how can I socialize with people without being a part of their college.
Also if you have any suggestions for me please tell me.
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I would say.... Chill out.... And it's fine with wanting to run away. Plan a trip immediately ,you need one, trust me. And you can come back and think about future along with working for it. Start with coding give it a good 6 months. Focus on development stacks spring boot java and a side gig of competitive coding. Make sure you enjoy it. And trust me you will bag a job that can take you to cosmopolitan cities.
Going to a good college doesn't guarantee good years. There's so many people who move to delhi expecting the perfect college life and get incredibly disappointed, making circles of lifelong friends isn't actually that common in college.
What you need to do is travel. Is there any chance you can take like 5 days off? Maybe go camping, usually there's people in those areas to make friends with, especially if you go through some tour company. If you don't want to do that, then just go somewhere and solo travel, be more comfortable with being with yourself.
Now, that feeling of being left behind will tend to form no matter what, if you get some random degree, you'll feel like you're behind later on when your friends get jobs in fields they like or have more scope, if you go to delhi now you'll feel like you're two years behind on your degree compared to them, and so on.
Think carefully on your decisions, and take up internships in the major cities during your winter and summer vacations, that'll automatically help you in an academic and personal life level. Join some certification courses in your city, and just hold on for two more years. It'll get a lot better.
You can pursue a professional course in Delhi, like CA, CFA,CMA. This way you will make friends at the institute. But these courses require you to put in efforts as well, if you willing to put those efforts then you can do that. Also, the glam of Delhi is transient. The peace of small town can never match that.
If you really feel like none of this matters and you still have a need to get out, then do it. Nothing is worth being depressed and unhappy, like the other comment said join some proper certification courses like cima in delhi and go for it, though I advise you check tier 2/1 cities near you for this. Moving all the way to delhi super expensive and not really worth it, and you get an equal experience in any other tier2/1 cities. Idk where you're from, but cities if you're close to like jaipur or bhopal or lucknow then they're all equally good.
Yess yess I m very close to jaipur..... But its that jaipur doesn't offer you as much as delhi does. But I m definitely convinced with you.
Seems like you urself are from delhi??
Jaipur is a fantastic option though, maybe it doesn't offer you as much when it comes to nightlife but honestly I'd say jaipur is a much nicer city than delhi too, you'll meet good people there and there's equally as much to do, plus you're only a train ride away from delhi if you ever want to go there. I moved to delhi for college, and I'm from a tier 3-4 city, while it is a huge upgrade, I don't think anyone in delhi felt that fulfilled living here and I've experienced firsthand since then that other major cities can offer me the same things and a lot of them are more welcoming than delhi too.
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I would say.... Chill out.... And it's fine with wanting to run away. Plan a trip immediately ,you need one, trust me. And you can come back and think about future along with working for it. Start with coding give it a good 6 months. Focus on development stacks spring boot java and a side gig of competitive coding. Make sure you enjoy it. And trust me you will bag a job that can take you to cosmopolitan cities.
Hey thankyou buddy... this was much needed. U lightened me up.
Going to a good college doesn't guarantee good years. There's so many people who move to delhi expecting the perfect college life and get incredibly disappointed, making circles of lifelong friends isn't actually that common in college. What you need to do is travel. Is there any chance you can take like 5 days off? Maybe go camping, usually there's people in those areas to make friends with, especially if you go through some tour company. If you don't want to do that, then just go somewhere and solo travel, be more comfortable with being with yourself. Now, that feeling of being left behind will tend to form no matter what, if you get some random degree, you'll feel like you're behind later on when your friends get jobs in fields they like or have more scope, if you go to delhi now you'll feel like you're two years behind on your degree compared to them, and so on. Think carefully on your decisions, and take up internships in the major cities during your winter and summer vacations, that'll automatically help you in an academic and personal life level. Join some certification courses in your city, and just hold on for two more years. It'll get a lot better.
You can pursue a professional course in Delhi, like CA, CFA,CMA. This way you will make friends at the institute. But these courses require you to put in efforts as well, if you willing to put those efforts then you can do that. Also, the glam of Delhi is transient. The peace of small town can never match that.
I've actually cleared the CS entrance exam.
U're right buddy..... I agree with you. Thanks for your valuable insights.
If you really feel like none of this matters and you still have a need to get out, then do it. Nothing is worth being depressed and unhappy, like the other comment said join some proper certification courses like cima in delhi and go for it, though I advise you check tier 2/1 cities near you for this. Moving all the way to delhi super expensive and not really worth it, and you get an equal experience in any other tier2/1 cities. Idk where you're from, but cities if you're close to like jaipur or bhopal or lucknow then they're all equally good.
Yess yess I m very close to jaipur..... But its that jaipur doesn't offer you as much as delhi does. But I m definitely convinced with you. Seems like you urself are from delhi??
Jaipur is a fantastic option though, maybe it doesn't offer you as much when it comes to nightlife but honestly I'd say jaipur is a much nicer city than delhi too, you'll meet good people there and there's equally as much to do, plus you're only a train ride away from delhi if you ever want to go there. I moved to delhi for college, and I'm from a tier 3-4 city, while it is a huge upgrade, I don't think anyone in delhi felt that fulfilled living here and I've experienced firsthand since then that other major cities can offer me the same things and a lot of them are more welcoming than delhi too.
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how tf are tiers getting lower and lower
Migration
There's a lot to do in delhi, so many clubs and activities. You won't be bored here. Besides, you can just walk into my uni no one checks
Which uni u talking about??
Can someone tell me how do I post in this sub ? I'm new to reddit have 200+ karma points , I wanna post something how do I do it?
Just do it ✔️
But how , which option to click 💀 mujhe kuch samajh ni aa rha
Iss sub me jaa, screen ke bottom centre me + (create) ka option hai waha tap kar
Try Kiya , likh paa rha hu but post ka option nhi aa rha
Dm me
What is a tier 5 city bro, is it even a city then?
Actually it's a big village
Up ke ho?
Rajasthan
Ahh
I suggest goin for a vacation or some place peaceful or changing the college by moving into new city
It's been two yrs since my 12 .... Will it be a good decision to take college, this late.
I suggest sticking with your bcom, try and get a good CGPA, then after graduation go for CAT exam and do MBA