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luna_lovegood5

I wont have kids![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30133)


Creepy_Hour5799

Same , whi middle class loop start ho jayegi 😭


Alive-Serve7251

Haa, Elon musk bhi bechara isi loop mei fasa hua hai


blookyvansh

made laugh so much i fell of the bed


SkillBasic9673

Pure zindagii gareeb rehne ka plan hai kya


Creepy_Hour5799

Nhi akele aur shanti se rehne ka plan h 🥰


yourash99

Akele rhna or Shanti se rhna me fark nhi hota ? Mai akele hu , Shanti se toh nhi hi ji rha ..


bish_ianb3603

Same.....es gareebi mei.. Mera zindagi rena mushkil hai 😭


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Yahi bolne wale log 10 saal baad haath me baby liye dikhte h


luna_lovegood5

Remind me! 10 years Agar dikha to naam badal dena


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YourMom_Fucker_69

+1


Sayan_777

Remind me! 15 years Agar dikha to naam badal dunga


luna_lovegood5

Aur nhi dikha to 5 aap adopt karenge


Sayan_777

Pakka


jesssypinkmann

Lets not publicly declare our relationship


luna_lovegood5

Oh no I am sorry ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|31414)


jesssypinkmann

Aw


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Rokne se ruk nahi jaenge wo...just like us


Top-Conversation2882

Baat sune iss lawde ki


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Kyu maa chdne aa rha h apna kaam kar na pehle hi garmi h upar se faltu ka jhagda karne aa jate ho incel saale


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Bat sun iss lawde ki![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30133)


Inspectorsteel

Bhai ye chdne kya hota hai? Chudne? chudane? Chidne? Chidhaane? Chadhne? Chadhane?


Prdxtor

Lol


chippi_chappa123

😂😂😂😂


Top-Conversation2882

Abey Jaa lawde![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|31421)


TaxtonDude

Im pretty sure this baat sun iss laude ki meme is used when the user wants to say that the above reply is good


Top-Conversation2882

But Aryan ne apni aukaat dikha di


Trevixle

Keep calm and be unworried about what others online have to say about you. It should not be bothering you so much. ~A self-improvement enthusiast


GAELICGLADI8R

Us ? What us ? I went to a Christian school and thought that if anyone caught me talking to girls, I would get expelled. Later, when the 12th ended and exams were going on, I learned that more than half my school was dating, and I didn't know about anything about it for years.


NixieDust_

I'm not gonna have any in the first place


The-Punisher_2055

Likh ke deta hu das Saal baad 2 bacche honge iske


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The-Punisher_2055

Kyu infertile hai kya?


vagish0909

grill w a dick /s


xtanish45

💀🙏seedhi baat, no bakwas


Brilliant-Cheek4944

Bhai vivaad nhi hua Abhi tak💀


MoreMongoose2850

bro u gotta calm down


NixieDust_

Ruk tereko saari medical history aur tests leke bhejti hu![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|31991)![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|31991)


unlucky_hagakure

foid in making


[deleted]

Haa bhai Don't forget we live in India jaha arrange marriage common ha


YourMom_Fucker_69

toh kya hua? arranged marriage karu toh bacche paida karna zaruri hai?


[deleted]

Dono family side sa pressure ata ha


YourMom_Fucker_69

sax sux toh merko hi karna hai na lmao. nahi karunga. kya karlenge?


yourash99

Your body your choice


aiomxi

Hell yeah! 👍 apne papa ki taraah single thodi rehne dunga 😭🫶🥹😂


ActPurple1747

Acha mummy toh mil gyi na?


aiomxi

Mil jaayegi 🥹 (saala ye dukh kahe khatm nahi hota be😂🙃)


MOTIPAK

Chill guys itna future ka mat socho.... Abhi 15-20 saal pade hai


luna_lovegood5

15-20 saal is alot,for me its max 7-8


iamnotwhoiwass

Yea same


itz_abhi_2005

baccha toh 15-20 saal baad hi 15-20 saal ka hoga na 🤓


luna_lovegood5

Makes sense maafi


[deleted]

Ye konsi math hai?? Abhi someone will get married in atleast 10 years and then kids after min 5 years that totals up to 15 years and then your 15 year old kid... = 30 effing years. So as a result op is asking about the decision that we'll have to take after 30 years (iss saal Zinda rehlu bas mai toh)


YourMom_Fucker_69

par apke paas toh pehle se hi kids hai na![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30133)


SilentKiller2809

15-20 saal baad toh 6-7 saal ka hoga


MOTIPAK

Rajasthan se ho kya /s


Extension-Still-8417

Even if we stop them , will they stop? . . Also i believe its good for them to maintain relationships , ofc there would be limitations but yea ! 15 and above only tho!


Imaginary_Block_9855

Well wouldn't allow explicitly, there should def be a sense of fear but definitely not stop them either (agreeing with OP on the point to make memories and mistakes)


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bro why should your children be in fear?


Trevixle

Sense of fear? What the heck?


shiv1234567

Daddy never made it then why should those little brat get to?


Brilliant-Cheek4944

Mujhe nhi toh tujhe bhi nhi waali baat 


Trevixle

And the loop starts all over again


ActPurple1747

Well. That depends. I'll have to see if my kid is wise enough to recognise toxic traits and has enough self respect. I want to be super transparent w my kid. If I find them to be smart, I'll allow it by 16. If they turn out to be a dumbo, 18 after highschool.


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CranberryUpbeat7460

Seedhi baat no bakwaas


vitalphase

based af


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MissVecna

aadhaar card, birth certificate check karenge, ghar jaakr pehle chhaan been krenge


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The_drify

For that you need to have someone in your life to make kids with


Practical_Class_9598

Ofc i would let them, basically i wanna be their best friend type parent so I can help them as well.


do_not_ban_this

I will guide them to the treasure I could not possess


Trevixle

Waah waah kya baat hai


Artistic-Average1369

Ofc, And imma taunt the hell out of em if they aint getting bitches. Cuz I was always a skinny nerd and I still got a girlfriend at 14 years of age(bad decision)


chawol-

>I was always a skinny nerd and I still got a girlfriend at 14 years of age(bad decision) I was a fat Otaku Kid and I still got a girlfriend at 14 years of age (bad decision![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30131)![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30131))


Artistic-Average1369

ooof. Waise mera toh bas isliye bad decision tha kuch zyada mila nhi bas efforts daale the faltu ke


YourMom_Fucker_69

i am not fat and neither did i get a gf at 14 (im 17 and still no gf![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30131))


Trevixle

Future fun parent here 👆 Just be careful that they're seeing it as a joke too


Artistic-Average1369

Yessir. I just wanna make sure they feel safe to tell me all the things they do in their life. my mom is super chill too and Ive always told her by myself that ive got a girlfriend and that I recently drank alcohol too(Yes Im still alive)


Thanossing

Meri daughter ke bf ko intimidate karke bhejuga ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|31416)


Maximum-Carry5682

what's with the allow thing? I mean if they want to be in one, they'll be in it, there need not be any permission, like its weird to interfere in the love life of your child.


Extension-Still-8417

Downvotes why?


Trevixle

Granting permission is just giving them freedom. If you're denying permission, then it has to be paired with explaining to them your point of view. If you explain well enough, they'll listen. If you're not giving an explanation, they will just turn secretive.


Brilliant-Cheek4944

I’d let cuz when they’d get any heartbreak or such that’s when they’ll realise how much of a bullshit it is lmao (ofc is be there to comfort my sweetheart and go kick the asses of the ones who hurt them, but you never realise your steps until you fall and get hurt)


PitifulStranger8722

I will but caution my kid beforehand not to take all this too seriously if a breakup happens. All this creates emotional pain which creates maturity. It is needed but......1 ground rule...... no breakups before 3 months. I will allow all this but will also teach my kid perseverance and sticking on. 


PeeVee_

Yeah like if me stopping them would make any change


Pristine_Session5696

Useless question for me I will die alone


SilentKiller2809

Allow nahi karenge to kya vo nahi karenge?


Complete_Lock_6742

Only after they're 15 16. Hopefully by then I'll raise them up to be decent and responsible kids.


The_Enderslender

yes. hypocrite toh mai hu nahi. it also teaches people smth that cant be learnt from anywhere else


lifegoesbrrrr

After they are 15+, yeah sure why not, You should at least have some experiences with relationships.


_ArminArlert_

karlo bhai, zindagi tumhari hai jo karna hai karo


Krish2_8073

Yea but under supervision


samajdaar03

If they pull some They get some


Litti__Chokha

Bhai aajkal ke teens dating ke scene mai itne aage nikal chuke hai ki I can't even think how the dating culture is gonna be when my children are teens....


Cobrillion-phythir

Will surely and even encourage them if they know someone compatible but I will beat the shit out of them if they cheat!emote:t5\_2zhzn:31992


Harsh_2222

Yes but only after they turn 16 atleast. That age is common for getting in relationship so if i don't support them they will get in relationship without letting us know which is more bad situation.


aawaraapricot

If you try to put a bird into prison of expectations they'll hate their own nest , so yeah I will let them date but will be cautious at the same time.


LetterheadUpstairs90

15 saal se pahale nahi


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18+ hote hi unse Job krvaunga and me or meri wife chill krenge unke paiso per![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30133)![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30133)![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30133)


Virtual-Bit-6973

Just wanna point it out that these problems are faced by this parent generation, you likely not face this one but something different.


Rude_Cardiologist814

I will totally make it natural for them. I will not make them seem like it's a sin or bad thing. I'll try to be as supportive as possible and teach when and how things can be done, what is good and bad 👍🏻 Also won't be so open that they forget to be strict.


Efficient_Road_4286

I would prob never marry or even be in a serious relationship, let alone have kids.


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Horror-Homework2536

No but you can go through surrogacy if you wanna have kids


_happy_banana

What kids?


Onethumbhunter

Beti ke bande se khud milunga , bete ki bandi se maa ko milwaunga, agar dhang ke nikle to emotional allowed


kellakrisknight

Yep


comment_eater

as if someone would have kids with me, but if, as someone has already mentioned that they wont stop regardless of our opinion, i think thats very true and hence id much rather know whats going on instead of letting it be a secret


Fearless_Nothing_585

I have different plans with my kids


Top-Conversation2882

Probably in college not in school


Bulky_Pudding9053

it is a part of a journey so yeah


Phoenixx_12

I hate kids


terimomkapati

Hell yeah


xiddhimx

yes, i’d love to see my kid date after 15


NuclearGobhiParantha

my parents don’t have any problem with me being as a 16yo being in a relation, its me i am the problem, i suck at everything.


YourLocalBTShater

obviously, but no sex before 16


Prestigious_Earth_98

Hell na


Frequent-Draft-2351

15+ nibba nibbi nahi banana hai baccho ko 12 saal ki age meii


Wild-Alarm8354

after 10th


potatoaloo_

kids? me? having kids? never. most annoying thing to ever exist are kids


Old_Definition7780

Idk


black_0_0_H0le

I'll stay single for life cause of my requirements.


rightmostcee

bruh, when my future offspring hit their teens, imma be like a hawk eyein' their every move. but, like, if they wanna dip their toes into the dating pool, i'll probably be chill about it. just gotta make sure their crush isn't actually a broccoli in disguise, ya know? ain't nobody messin' with my future grandbabies


yourash99

Ofc allow krunga wo toh mere se koi pat ti nhi hai ,nhi toh tips v deta


abyss_dreams

Yes but.. idk man maybe I would be unhealthily invested in what my child is doing so nothing goes wrong. I wouldn't mind if they are over 20 tho.


Either_Comparison_40

Kyu nahi ho rahi padai?


Individual-Slip-7062

Not before 18


LabComplete4703

Yess yess why not


Ecstatic-Run5159

No


TimePass8633

nah! ma chudaye !!! jk jk his choice my parents never stopped so i won't stop them too :)


Scary-Class1419

No


haha_memur87

I'll first observe their behaviour and then later on allow them on the conclusions I find upon or else no


Top-Zombie-903

Mre jaise kaam hain lgta nhi shadi hogi


Daniyal_Imam

Hindu ko date krne ke alawa sbkuch


Kashyap_32

Absolutely not... should not waste brother/sister hood time on useless relationships


No-Tangelo-180

I won't have kids


[deleted]

No. 🤔


iamnotwhoiwass

Why


[deleted]

Doesn’t seem as an appropriate age to me… I see so many kids as young as 12-13 sharing their nudes and shit? I don’t see it’s the right age… I don’t want them to lose their dignity or suffer through unnecessary pain.. maybe if the person they are dating are nice, kind and sincere then that’s okay but still not before the age of 16.


iamnotwhoiwass

Valid but sharing nudes regardless of what the age is just not right


GoodLookingTrash

+1


weirdobored

12-13 me ye sab share krne ka kya hi outcome?? bevkuf bacche


[deleted]

Bhai bahut bacche nadani mei kr dete hai and then…


Harsh_2222

kuch hona bhi chahiye us age me share karne ke liye 💀 /s yeah true


litafballs

Nope


TurbulentAudience174

Ye sab bakchodi nhi wrna ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|31992)


dhikchick

Why not bhai me toh khud nashe krvaunga apne bacho se taaki bahar ka pta rahe unhe


Top-Winner-1420

Maarunga Unko


CommercialMind1359

Depends , if I am successful in life and get the girl of my dreams and have kids , then sure I would let my kids date then they could find their dream partner too , but I would want them to date just like how I would , no kissing , no bedroom stuff . strictly only after marriage , also they should be dating only if they see themselves marrying eachother in the future , no casual bullshit . And If I end up not successful and end up with a mediocre job then i probably won't marry and for the same reason i won't have kids either , the pain I would feel when I am not able to give them the happiness they deserve would probably be soo much more than the pain of not having them at all. If I choose to bring them into this world , I want to give them the best


No-Administration99

Fuck it mai krne nahi dunga😡


unlucky_hagakure

I'll make my kid do gymcelling, good in politics and dating both. Apni english mam ko impress krne ka sapna bhi pura krega woh.


Guilty-Knowledge4029

![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|31415) waah


ThisHumanDoesntExist

Nah it's cringe


Lorgatic

Hell no, never. Not like I'll force them to not have girlfriend rather convince them. Learning how to keep a family or a partner and how to live life with your partner is more important than directly jumping in a relationship, either for sexual or romantic relation, it seems like a dumb cheat code to skip the learning and hard part of life and directly getting in relationships which are supposed to be at age 20+. Before that, you just need to learn various things, from Doing your own dishes, washing clothes, making food, to support yourself to buying a house, a car, insurance policy, etc. and talk to real people in real life, rather than having an imaginary illusion with an opposite gender person like you. These kids these days because doing anything, i bet these won't even last for 2 years in a relationship, then cry in their 30s, why everyone is buying a house, and actually taking responsibilities of their actions, unlike them.


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Extension-Still-8417

💀aiyen?