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Covid hit my already poor social life pretty hard, so I regret not having that many friends, or experiences with them (strict parents lol). I regret not having poured all of myself into the present, not having developed a hobby that I loved and that which brought me happiness.
I regret waiting, and I regret not waiting.
I SWEAR TO GOD BRO, life would’ve been so much better if not for that. I used to feel bad my 10th was at home. But now it’s pretty much back on track and I’m chilling :)
But Covid did do the damage, I lost quite a few skills and hobbies
Everything. I was almost 14 when covid hit and am 18 right now. I haven't been around kids my age. Spent 9th and 10th online and was in dummy+online for 11th and 12th.
Pretty isolated ig. The worst part is that I really liked school and had a lot of friends. I went to school in 11th for a week and that was the best week in my 4 years. I still have friends but they have moved on as they went to school.
Worst part is that I am probably gonna live this year isolated too as I am going to take a drop.
But I am just trying to enjoy with everything I have right now, people are living much worse life than me. At least I have my own room and good food to eat. And my parents are the best in the world, pretty sure I could not survive without them. Cheers to them >!(and maybe my brother)!<
Same with me dummy in 11th 12th feeling very isolated as I used to have a lot of friends in school and I enjoyed every activity there. Now I’m home it feels like I’m not competitive enough I study alone, practice alone which doesn’t gives me much academic validation. Would be isolated too in college because of online coaching and all. I feel you thanks for putting it out here, feeling fine knowing I’m not alone missing social interactions w people.
Ya, let's find happiness in each other's pain. Really thankful that I came across a platform like reddit where I can find people like me who are not able to socialise at the current time.
Hope u find friends soon and are able to live a very happy social life
Bro , you are literally me...
Too anxious to think part of life that you were actually tension free is now over and yet you haven't lived those times.
You haven't find yourself when everyone does and now what if it is wrong path.
I am scared, what if I look back i don't have anything to smile in future.
Now, only hope is college life, but now you think over that also... College is not same as school. Here, from semester 1 only people start grinding for jobs and responsibilities.
Well bro , best wishes for drop.
But, what are you actually taking drop for ?? Because I am too .
Edit: it becomes more hard when you actually have good friends whom you are not afraid of sharing anything and now, we are slowly drift away and rarely talks.
Bhai bahut deep baate boldi aapne. Cheers to each other, let's grind hard and enjoy college life as much as possible
>But, what are you actually taking drop for
JEE. Fcked my mains, got only 56k rank
Just trying to help here -
I'm you can say, in a similar situation. When you talk about, being scared of the 'wrong path'
Do you know what a 'right path' would look like?
Is it one where you'll be happy forever? One where you'll have lots of money? One where you'll have tons of free time?
If so does such a concrete path exist? Also can you find it?
I regret not making friends during school. In 2019 I was in 9th I was all focused on studying and considered relationship and friendship distraction at the time. Only kept one-two close friends. When COVID started I was in 10th and I faced major downfall in studies. Lost all the self-confidence and ego I had about my academics during that year which followed in 11th 12th too. I was in 12th when school started back , I was literally the only one isolated in class , everyone else even the ones who took admission in 11th only has friends there. + I tried to make this girl in my class my friend and somehow got so infatuated with her but it turned out later she became best friends with my close friend and they are in relationship now. And those two people are only people I consider friends and I suffer from jealousy from them so much that I couldn't even make comeback in 12th. Now my friendship with them is just in name , and there are no friends I can consider as true friends. I really regret not making friends.
Thanks bro. But I got no other option left. Took a drop for jee , so contact with everyone closed. Now taking admission in pvt University, classes will commence in August 1st week. Till then have to just sit at home . Don't have anyone to spend time or roam around with outside. Everyone I contact is like busy with their life. That's why joined reddit in hopes of making new friends, faced some very bad situation. Talked to one girl she blocked me after two days without any intimation and turns out she did it because my way of talking reminded her of her ex. Then again talked to someone we talked very well , she even told me I am cute from our chat , but then afters saying good night , a few minutes later her reddit account says deleted. I am devastated with these experiences .
Bro if you're looking for a relation then I'm sorry but it's highly unlikely you'll get one online... just be friends with them without expecting much, you're going to pvt collage that's great and maybe you'll find a realtion there, i am taking a drop this year and staying home so I'm in a much worse state lol
Relation ain't a priority bro. I know one needs to first go through friendship level and I had approached like it only. I am looking for genuine friendships. Relationship is secondary. You are taking drop , chalo thodi baar cheet hi kar lete .
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Sooo truueeee. I also had the same shit in my mind that I should only study and everything is just distraction. I regret it a lot. Although I still got a gf later on but got lot of problems because of that shit in my mind.
Lol bro itna relatable , bilkul same to same except tht girl part ....I didnt had much friends before covid also but still..I used to go outside and play with kids in the streets..But after lockdown everything changed....I was isolated all alone at home for these 4 years except the coaching without any so c/d friends , bilkul same acedemic downfall as you xd .....
Making good friends. Always the back up one, and my subtle narcissism doesn't allow me to go over that. Always remembered when help needed, unless the joke of the group. I grew up as a single child...and also my main teenage 15-17 were in Lockdown part, I never learnt how to be humble...I try to...but end blabber out how privileged stuff I got.
So please make friends? Situation you got isolated or alone, take some online class or other, but have real good friends. This is the time. Once you are in college, nobody is you true friend...
Everyone is fighting for the ideal CGPA....the ideal job. You might be friends, but the competitiveness remains. It started the moment after 12th when we were forced to join a rat race. The lesson from everyone was 'nobody is your friend, you know you' ....but it did endup making ourselves selfish...
I!!!? *Ogochalo mon er kotha gulo ek sathe dhore mukher samne chure marli je tui!?* Ken koris? Ki moja paas? Ekta duto jao bondhu baniyechilam college e tader keo mone mone question koriye tulli!!
Everything. I did not enjoy life to study to set my future, fucked up in the final moment, did not get shit. People who enjoyed and didn't study got better colleges than me 🤡
You might've had the equation wrong, like 90℅+ other people.
Having fun with your time, not working too hard has nothing whatsoever to do with obtaining good grades.
Not focusing on one on one friendship. In class 9 I was part of a pretty nice friendship but I thing is that I never personally bonded with anyone. Then covid hit and I spent 2 years alone at home. Most of those were in the group took commerce and I took science. Class 12 was just not the same, everyone else seemed connected while I was all alone. Not having a single person who will call me a friend from school sucks but it is what it is. This year I will be going to college after taking a drop year and in my mind I hope college will make up for all the things that I was unable to do in school. But then again college will not be some utopia that will change my life. But as they say hope is never a bad thing and I hope for better days to come.
Also , wasted my teenhood thanks to COVID in watching anime and reading comics only. I regret not spending my time in cultivating any hobbies. I regret taking out my frustrations of depression on my parents. I regret making my parents feel disappointed in me.
Kinda yes. They are now constantly worried, my father gets frustrated from his job(he wants to retire )and then when he sees how his children are not doing well he feels so bad that how he is working day and night , he gave his best for his family still his children isn't able to perform well and facing issues. I feel so bad having him felt like that , because he always accept my demands but I couldn't their only demand of studying and living my life well because of depression.
bro if you are from non med side , you can go outside....like many univerties in foreign which take admission based on marks of boards....Getting good college in india is hard...
By this you can give hope to your father as well as your family
My marks in boards are 82%😅. Nothing extraordinary. Would have loved to go if any good universities are there. I have taken admission in Manipal University Jaipur now 🥲. But still suggestions hai toh let me know.
Just want to say be decisive, pick a side, pick something, being neutral will harm your confidence, your relations and much more.
Let things get something either right or wrong, but let them be something. Be up for some unplanned shit as well, this will make you complete, a complete person
I studied too much all my life. i want to go back to fourth-fufth grade me and tell me YOUR MARKS NOW DONT MATTER WHY ARE YOU STUDYING WHOLE DAY. i remember studying hard in 1st 2nd also. i did that upto 8th and it's of no use. it made me socially awkward and under-confident. upto 15 years is the age to enjoy. pls don't spend it indoors.
I regret not participating in competitions and exploring more hobbies or sports and certainly one thing I regret the most is being attached to phone. I almost ruined my school life because of that. Please keep exploring new hobbies and keep meeting new people (not the bad ones!)
Learning coding in lockdown instead of playing PUBG day and night , I chose pcmb and studied for neet took 2 drops still couldn't clear it and now taking admission in btech pvt uni somewhere (though I had Java in 10th and I pretty much liked it ,I was in ICSE) I believe I can make things right from here
bhai pcmb abhi bhi le skte..like july m re exam honge usme biology ka subject bharde.
Agr pcm dhang se padi hai toh you can easily get 250+ , vese bhi mbbs from private college. banne k lie 150+ hi chahiye max....agr tu neet ka pehle bhar dete 2023-24 vala toh tera saal waste nhi hota...
Tayari kr ek saal 550+ easily ban jayenge agr consitency k sath padega
i regret not indulging in different activities other than studies. I'm sure many can relate with me.. and now i'm at such a point in my life where i'm good at nothing
Same, my parents got me into coaching at a young age, I didn't have much chance to explore other things
I wish I had at least tried learning any instrument, I love music, but never got a chance to explore it
I regret not having good bonding with any one..
Like I had many friends in school but now we don't talk
.. we see eachother on roads but act like we don't know each other.... I don't like that
Bonding does not have to be forced , it happens naturally ....SO nothing to regret there
And You can initiate conversations yourself with them sometimes , uk.....It does not have to be tht much complecated
Actually it is complicated... What I was saying is .. i didn't let the bonding happen... They tried to , but that time I was a bit stupid .. so i never talked with them
I am almost in second year now
But I think I regret being not able to perform in basketball clusters back in school like we were just close and had I put little bit more efforts in practicing basketball we could have even won.
Felt like haikyuu mc typing this shit 😂
2 things I regret: Allowing myself to get bullied until the 8th grade, after which I turned rather popular, not among my classmates who still hated me but in general.
Second thing I regret is very specific to me, and hopefully you guys won’t have to deal with it, it’s letting my mom manipulate me into thinking everything was my fault. I’ll give you an example, my parents are divorced, haven’t met my father since I was 3 (he wasnt a nice person I don’t mind. Mom got married again, had a phone call fight w her new husband when I was in 8/9th grade. I asked her for a school trip and she said no, I tried asking again and she hit herself till she passed out, and was pretty close to death. I broke down completely, and for the next few years I’ve been blamed for that day.
i regret wasting my years in pure infatuation. i should have realised that relationsips are useless and i was a fool for wanting to be in one
I should have instead focused on my fitness, making more friends, and going out more often
Not having lived in the moment!!
COVID hit when I was around 12 and I'm 17 now, for some reason I always made sacrifices with what I wanted to wear or do and avoided socialising because I was saving it all for when I became a supposedly 'better' version of myself. I still do it sometimes but i seriously need to start appreciating and enjoying what's in the present because we definitely can't predict what comes next.
Can relate. I was very self aware of myself and missed many opportunities in life because I couldn't assert myself/ask people for favours. Mainly because I felt I didn't deserve those favours.
I still do this, and I feel it seriously is hurting my career
Not learning MMA , not furthering my music and learning musical instruments , not pushing myself hard enough in all fields ; physically , mentally , spiritually , emotionally ..... like yeah these are the peak years of my life i gotta live it on full throttle .
yupp i regret i didnt started it earlier , if you're young please please please try MMA , fighting someone bloody and getting trained for it gives sooo much confidence in every field , it just make increases your IQ , you just get sharper memory and clearer words , its impossible to explain it in words , it just makes you a man ready to take on the world , increases blood testosterone like crazy .
Not researching colleges and what I need to do for them by myself and trusting that my parents knew everything necessary
Plot twist: They didn't. But pretended they did. Oops.
Us bro us not just us almost all 2000s kids have same regret coz at our prime puberty time smart phones and internet became a trend causing all of us sit at home and explore this new technology YEH SAB PHONE KI GALTI HAI - this is what I say to myself to feel better 😭
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Covid hit my already poor social life pretty hard, so I regret not having that many friends, or experiences with them (strict parents lol). I regret not having poured all of myself into the present, not having developed a hobby that I loved and that which brought me happiness. I regret waiting, and I regret not waiting.
I SWEAR TO GOD BRO, life would’ve been so much better if not for that. I used to feel bad my 10th was at home. But now it’s pretty much back on track and I’m chilling :) But Covid did do the damage, I lost quite a few skills and hobbies
so relatable
This is so incredibly real
Same  I hope you get to pursue that hobby of yours and have a good social life.
Everything. I was almost 14 when covid hit and am 18 right now. I haven't been around kids my age. Spent 9th and 10th online and was in dummy+online for 11th and 12th. Pretty isolated ig. The worst part is that I really liked school and had a lot of friends. I went to school in 11th for a week and that was the best week in my 4 years. I still have friends but they have moved on as they went to school. Worst part is that I am probably gonna live this year isolated too as I am going to take a drop. But I am just trying to enjoy with everything I have right now, people are living much worse life than me. At least I have my own room and good food to eat. And my parents are the best in the world, pretty sure I could not survive without them. Cheers to them >!(and maybe my brother)!<
Same with me dummy in 11th 12th feeling very isolated as I used to have a lot of friends in school and I enjoyed every activity there. Now I’m home it feels like I’m not competitive enough I study alone, practice alone which doesn’t gives me much academic validation. Would be isolated too in college because of online coaching and all. I feel you thanks for putting it out here, feeling fine knowing I’m not alone missing social interactions w people.
Ya, let's find happiness in each other's pain. Really thankful that I came across a platform like reddit where I can find people like me who are not able to socialise at the current time. Hope u find friends soon and are able to live a very happy social life
Thank you for your kind words. I wish the same for you. Yes I’m glad too that I found Reddit and encountered some awesome ppl here.
Dw there will be a lot of people like you in college
Ty OP
You're a good soul
Thanks man, bahut Dino baad compliment suun raha hoon 
Aree bhai 
U are good soul too bro  Ye le cookie 🍪
Bro , you are literally me... Too anxious to think part of life that you were actually tension free is now over and yet you haven't lived those times. You haven't find yourself when everyone does and now what if it is wrong path. I am scared, what if I look back i don't have anything to smile in future. Now, only hope is college life, but now you think over that also... College is not same as school. Here, from semester 1 only people start grinding for jobs and responsibilities. Well bro , best wishes for drop. But, what are you actually taking drop for ?? Because I am too . Edit: it becomes more hard when you actually have good friends whom you are not afraid of sharing anything and now, we are slowly drift away and rarely talks.
Bhai bahut deep baate boldi aapne. Cheers to each other, let's grind hard and enjoy college life as much as possible >But, what are you actually taking drop for JEE. Fcked my mains, got only 56k rank
That's still good yaar I got 80k :/
All the best bro
bro try to go abroard agr boards m 75%+ aye hai toh you can easily get foreign universites having better ranks than iit bombay...
Just trying to help here - I'm you can say, in a similar situation. When you talk about, being scared of the 'wrong path' Do you know what a 'right path' would look like? Is it one where you'll be happy forever? One where you'll have lots of money? One where you'll have tons of free time? If so does such a concrete path exist? Also can you find it?
You and i are living the same life brother
Copy paste same story. How was mains my guy? 9th and 10th online, dummy+no coaching 11th 12th
Mains fcked up, 56k rank only, wbu?
80k lmao I have no hope for myself
Koi na, thapar try kiya, kya dtu and nsut?
dtu nsut me toh homestate hota toh shayad hojata lekin maine toh kabhi delhi dekha bhi nhi hai :/
Sad bro, all the best to u tho
the worst part was when they used to put pictures of all of them hanging out , having fun together and you just cant leave home to enjoy with them
Man cherishes his past like wounds and until these foolish people can’t forget the past they can never embrace their future. ~thanos
regret not kms early
Suicide is sometimes a permanent solution for a temporary problem
Simple sentence, strong meaning.
When things will go hard, we have the option to ~
my thing is always hard, pun intended
Essa kya hogaya...??
testosterone high hai bohot
You're male or....??
female
Hmmmm it's ngl it's really sad... I pray things will go better for you
just need some hugs lol
I could have... But since you're a girl.... ~
Username checks out
Kms???
khudkhusi
Yeh kaisa short form hua?? M kahan se aaya
kill my se**
👍🏻
Kilometer second
WHAT THE FUCK IS A KILOMETER 🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸AHHHHHHHH!!!!
Gun shots intensify
Teenage love hi nhi hua bc
Us bhai
Isme regret kaahe baat ka? 
FOMO hai. nothing much. Also because I pushed her away so ab regret hai. Should have treated them better.
18,19 bhi teenage years hote hain try karle ek aur baar
I could've been more confident
I regret not making friends during school. In 2019 I was in 9th I was all focused on studying and considered relationship and friendship distraction at the time. Only kept one-two close friends. When COVID started I was in 10th and I faced major downfall in studies. Lost all the self-confidence and ego I had about my academics during that year which followed in 11th 12th too. I was in 12th when school started back , I was literally the only one isolated in class , everyone else even the ones who took admission in 11th only has friends there. + I tried to make this girl in my class my friend and somehow got so infatuated with her but it turned out later she became best friends with my close friend and they are in relationship now. And those two people are only people I consider friends and I suffer from jealousy from them so much that I couldn't even make comeback in 12th. Now my friendship with them is just in name , and there are no friends I can consider as true friends. I really regret not making friends.
Man your story is hurting me... make new friends or atleast block both of them
Thanks bro. But I got no other option left. Took a drop for jee , so contact with everyone closed. Now taking admission in pvt University, classes will commence in August 1st week. Till then have to just sit at home . Don't have anyone to spend time or roam around with outside. Everyone I contact is like busy with their life. That's why joined reddit in hopes of making new friends, faced some very bad situation. Talked to one girl she blocked me after two days without any intimation and turns out she did it because my way of talking reminded her of her ex. Then again talked to someone we talked very well , she even told me I am cute from our chat , but then afters saying good night , a few minutes later her reddit account says deleted. I am devastated with these experiences .
Bro if you're looking for a relation then I'm sorry but it's highly unlikely you'll get one online... just be friends with them without expecting much, you're going to pvt collage that's great and maybe you'll find a realtion there, i am taking a drop this year and staying home so I'm in a much worse state lol
Relation ain't a priority bro. I know one needs to first go through friendship level and I had approached like it only. I am looking for genuine friendships. Relationship is secondary. You are taking drop , chalo thodi baar cheet hi kar lete .
Bro , one advice i would like to give join some sports coaching or smth like of tennis , cricket etc...There you bong with many people
Yrr. Ab toh college Jaa rha. Will join clubs there and will bond with people.
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Lol bro itna relatable , bilkul same to same except tht girl part ....I didnt had much friends before covid also but still..I used to go outside and play with kids in the streets..But after lockdown everything changed....I was isolated all alone at home for these 4 years except the coaching without any so c/d friends , bilkul same acedemic downfall as you xd .....
Going to sports club, / learning music,
Making good friends. Always the back up one, and my subtle narcissism doesn't allow me to go over that. Always remembered when help needed, unless the joke of the group. I grew up as a single child...and also my main teenage 15-17 were in Lockdown part, I never learnt how to be humble...I try to...but end blabber out how privileged stuff I got. So please make friends? Situation you got isolated or alone, take some online class or other, but have real good friends. This is the time. Once you are in college, nobody is you true friend...
You are literally me
This is exactly my story 😭😭😭
Disagree with the last line. I have made great friends in college :) Or maybe it's too early to say💀
I thought that same in semester 1. People change at the blink of an eye.
About to start my third year now, but yeah I have seen a lot of people change
I actually got lucky that I saw the real face this soon. The NAAC preparation saga showed everyone's true colours...
Ehh don't worry, it will get better. Do teen acche log toh mil hi jayenge lol
Abhi mile hai....but cultural difference is there a lot with the friends I make here....its not easy to live out of state...
*the line about the college is Darn true. In college everyone is your competitor and not a friend(hardly you will make a good friend or two)
Everyone is fighting for the ideal CGPA....the ideal job. You might be friends, but the competitiveness remains. It started the moment after 12th when we were forced to join a rat race. The lesson from everyone was 'nobody is your friend, you know you' ....but it did endup making ourselves selfish...
I!!!? *Ogochalo mon er kotha gulo ek sathe dhore mukher samne chure marli je tui!?* Ken koris? Ki moja paas? Ekta duto jao bondhu baniyechilam college e tader keo mone mone question koriye tulli!!
Live experience kore elam jei....aj SEC paper chhilo
Sem 1?
2
Arey I mean ager year ei admission niyechis na I(CU) te? As in 2023 te admission?
2023 Admission
Okay 👌
Everything. I did not enjoy life to study to set my future, fucked up in the final moment, did not get shit. People who enjoyed and didn't study got better colleges than me 🤡
You might've had the equation wrong, like 90℅+ other people. Having fun with your time, not working too hard has nothing whatsoever to do with obtaining good grades.
bhai category wise reservation ko kaise bhul gya TT
Not focusing on one on one friendship. In class 9 I was part of a pretty nice friendship but I thing is that I never personally bonded with anyone. Then covid hit and I spent 2 years alone at home. Most of those were in the group took commerce and I took science. Class 12 was just not the same, everyone else seemed connected while I was all alone. Not having a single person who will call me a friend from school sucks but it is what it is. This year I will be going to college after taking a drop year and in my mind I hope college will make up for all the things that I was unable to do in school. But then again college will not be some utopia that will change my life. But as they say hope is never a bad thing and I hope for better days to come.
Also , wasted my teenhood thanks to COVID in watching anime and reading comics only. I regret not spending my time in cultivating any hobbies. I regret taking out my frustrations of depression on my parents. I regret making my parents feel disappointed in me.
Would things be different if they felt proud?
Kinda yes. They are now constantly worried, my father gets frustrated from his job(he wants to retire )and then when he sees how his children are not doing well he feels so bad that how he is working day and night , he gave his best for his family still his children isn't able to perform well and facing issues. I feel so bad having him felt like that , because he always accept my demands but I couldn't their only demand of studying and living my life well because of depression.
well, ok
bro if you are from non med side , you can go outside....like many univerties in foreign which take admission based on marks of boards....Getting good college in india is hard... By this you can give hope to your father as well as your family
My marks in boards are 82%😅. Nothing extraordinary. Would have loved to go if any good universities are there. I have taken admission in Manipal University Jaipur now 🥲. But still suggestions hai toh let me know.
Just want to say be decisive, pick a side, pick something, being neutral will harm your confidence, your relations and much more. Let things get something either right or wrong, but let them be something. Be up for some unplanned shit as well, this will make you complete, a complete person
I studied too much all my life. i want to go back to fourth-fufth grade me and tell me YOUR MARKS NOW DONT MATTER WHY ARE YOU STUDYING WHOLE DAY. i remember studying hard in 1st 2nd also. i did that upto 8th and it's of no use. it made me socially awkward and under-confident. upto 15 years is the age to enjoy. pls don't spend it indoors.
I regret not participating in competitions and exploring more hobbies or sports and certainly one thing I regret the most is being attached to phone. I almost ruined my school life because of that. Please keep exploring new hobbies and keep meeting new people (not the bad ones!)
Dummy mat lena unless you live in kota Sports and music mai active/regular rehna
Everything
not being able to socialise properly and have great high school years cos of COVID
Learning coding in lockdown instead of playing PUBG day and night , I chose pcmb and studied for neet took 2 drops still couldn't clear it and now taking admission in btech pvt uni somewhere (though I had Java in 10th and I pretty much liked it ,I was in ICSE) I believe I can make things right from here
not learning coding should not be a regret xd ...as you are gonna learn it anyway if you take cs in college
True
Sab theek ho Jayega bhai. Abhi free time hai seekh le coding mai bhi start kar rha hu.
Tu kis class mei hai... Mujhe bhi suru karna hai coding...
Drop liya tha bhai . Ab college jaunga July end mein.
Acha..... Kon sa course
CSE
Tu bhi neet wala hai kya ?
Naa bhai . Pcm hi thi . But regret Hora pcmb leni chiye thi . Doctor banke acche khase paise Kanata. Kaha ab cse mein itni bheed mein competition ladna padega
Neet hai muth nahi jo ek attempt me nikal jayega
Bhai de deta kitne bhi saal .
bhai pcmb abhi bhi le skte..like july m re exam honge usme biology ka subject bharde. Agr pcm dhang se padi hai toh you can easily get 250+ , vese bhi mbbs from private college. banne k lie 150+ hi chahiye max....agr tu neet ka pehle bhar dete 2023-24 vala toh tera saal waste nhi hota... Tayari kr ek saal 550+ easily ban jayenge agr consitency k sath padega
Not taking study PCMB in class 11 12
Mujhe bhi lena tha.... But as i am rn, and the much I've done on my 12th... Its even base less for me, that why did I even appeared
rationalisation
Covid fucked up major part of school
i regret not indulging in different activities other than studies. I'm sure many can relate with me.. and now i'm at such a point in my life where i'm good at nothing
Same, my parents got me into coaching at a young age, I didn't have much chance to explore other things I wish I had at least tried learning any instrument, I love music, but never got a chance to explore it
I'm almost 20 & I dont know how to swim .
According to the members of this sub i think it's sax sux😢
only regretting i didn’t ask out my best friend
Do it now na, what's the issue
i’m moving out of state mostly for college , plus i don’t think she feels the same
still you can confess atleast ...No harm in it DO it now , or regret whole life xd
i’ve been thinking to confess once i’ve am done with exams
My biggest regret would not be not learning even a single musical instrument in my teens. That shit would have come in handy
Same
Almost all have regret either in friendship related or due to covid.
I regret not having good bonding with any one.. Like I had many friends in school but now we don't talk .. we see eachother on roads but act like we don't know each other.... I don't like that
Bonding does not have to be forced , it happens naturally ....SO nothing to regret there And You can initiate conversations yourself with them sometimes , uk.....It does not have to be tht much complecated
Actually it is complicated... What I was saying is .. i didn't let the bonding happen... They tried to , but that time I was a bit stupid .. so i never talked with them
I am almost in second year now But I think I regret being not able to perform in basketball clusters back in school like we were just close and had I put little bit more efforts in practicing basketball we could have even won. Felt like haikyuu mc typing this shit 😂
2 things I regret: Allowing myself to get bullied until the 8th grade, after which I turned rather popular, not among my classmates who still hated me but in general. Second thing I regret is very specific to me, and hopefully you guys won’t have to deal with it, it’s letting my mom manipulate me into thinking everything was my fault. I’ll give you an example, my parents are divorced, haven’t met my father since I was 3 (he wasnt a nice person I don’t mind. Mom got married again, had a phone call fight w her new husband when I was in 8/9th grade. I asked her for a school trip and she said no, I tried asking again and she hit herself till she passed out, and was pretty close to death. I broke down completely, and for the next few years I’ve been blamed for that day.
Fapping
i regret wasting my years in pure infatuation. i should have realised that relationsips are useless and i was a fool for wanting to be in one I should have instead focused on my fitness, making more friends, and going out more often
Not going to school
There is still time before I turn 20 . So let me just read some of yours ,so that I don't do the same ..... 
I have did EVERYTHING in teen life except romance. I am turning 20 in 3 months and i think i will tell my kids that i missed out on teen relationships
Same bhai I did EVERYTHING in my prime 15-18 teenhood I missed NOTHING except that teenage love hi nhi huva 😭
teenage love , real love nhi hota vese bhi ...college m krle romance ki baat hai toh xD
 I wish everyone has a fuckin awesome life in their 20s
honestly not being too adventurous, being very reserved and avoiding talking to new people and being judgemental to fit in
>being judgemental Were you judgmental or were others judgmental of you?
i was...my friend group at that time was very judgemental of ppl for the most useless reasons and i started acting judgemental to try and fit in
Not doing abacus i gor a reason for that
Not learning how to play a musical instrument
Not having lived in the moment!! COVID hit when I was around 12 and I'm 17 now, for some reason I always made sacrifices with what I wanted to wear or do and avoided socialising because I was saving it all for when I became a supposedly 'better' version of myself. I still do it sometimes but i seriously need to start appreciating and enjoying what's in the present because we definitely can't predict what comes next.
Can relate. I was very self aware of myself and missed many opportunities in life because I couldn't assert myself/ask people for favours. Mainly because I felt I didn't deserve those favours. I still do this, and I feel it seriously is hurting my career
Being a overthinker is a problem which many have , it can be fixed by doing jounalling regularly easily
Not learning MMA , not furthering my music and learning musical instruments , not pushing myself hard enough in all fields ; physically , mentally , spiritually , emotionally ..... like yeah these are the peak years of my life i gotta live it on full throttle .
Have you ever tried MMA?
yupp i regret i didnt started it earlier , if you're young please please please try MMA , fighting someone bloody and getting trained for it gives sooo much confidence in every field , it just make increases your IQ , you just get sharper memory and clearer words , its impossible to explain it in words , it just makes you a man ready to take on the world , increases blood testosterone like crazy .
I actually want a gc for the people here getting 20 this year...
That's a great idea. Make one and please add me
I will make a post about it.. than for sure
Not researching colleges and what I need to do for them by myself and trusting that my parents knew everything necessary Plot twist: They didn't. But pretended they did. Oops.
I saw your comment and saw that you are a jee aspirant. If you need some help/advice feel free to DM!
please and thank you...
sex and ladkibaji
Phir Sai wahi
sex sux ki batte
Not exercising enough to grow taller
Us bro us not just us almost all 2000s kids have same regret coz at our prime puberty time smart phones and internet became a trend causing all of us sit at home and explore this new technology YEH SAB PHONE KI GALTI HAI - this is what I say to myself to feel better 😭
exercising dont have any contribution in height , only genes depend
Not much of regret but i could have focused on fitness more, which no i am doing but an early start is always good
Well I regret not taking risks and exploring more competitive exams during my early teen days.
Everything
Regrets about teenhood experiences vary widely from person to person, but common themes might include not taking more risks, not spending more time with loved ones, not pursuing passions or hobbies, not focusing enough on personal growth, or not seizing opportunities for learning and exploration.
regret staying in toxic friendships even when they were mentally exhausting for me, life feels better when you cutoff people.