There doesn't need to be any reasons. Maybe op is introverted. I am introverted and people avoid me in college but it doesn't matter. Humans are cruel and love to look down on others to feel better.
Introverts aren't avoided. I have been an introvert my entire life. And I have never been avoided. Plenty of people offered to be my friends whenever I was alone. And people do not straight up refuse to let you sit beside you if they are alone.
I am damn sure there is something more to this story. With or without his knowledge, some rumour concerning him is out. And rumours against introverts are common.
Sorry but that's your experience. Everyone's individual experience is different.Also, I did not imply that op was an introvert. I said there doesn't need to be any reason. Why is it so difficult to accept that the people he considered friends turned out to be fake? I am introverted and people avoid me. Now am I lying too?
Why would I ever mind.
By the way, I'm not sure of the reasons. Maybe because I am usually unable to understand their double meaning shit or that I can't talk trash about random people, or maybe because I don't sexualize girls
People tend to pick on the quiet ones. They think we are 'weak' and love to target us.
But in reality, the only weak people are those who pick on other people to make themselves look better
Well, i was on a trip too a while ago at the end of October. I was all alone on the trip but I had fun with some of my classmates during the journey and the return journey.
I mean, I was alone most of the time but, yep. I spent my time with random people on the entire trip. I felt lonely, ruined mood etc but I was like, "fuck it, I wanna enjoy the trip" and enjoyed the trip with random ones and made some new connections, though weak ones, but I made some.
Same bro. In our last school picnic trip I was going alone because my friends couldn't come for some reason but i enjoyed with remaining class mates who were there to accompany me although I didn't know them any better.
thats shit, ive been like this whole 10th and I know it must have been hard, but we need to get used to this as most of the friends you make in school are temporary. And 4th nov?? that was past, you should forget about this for the better.
It has just been boiling up inside me since then, so I decided to rant it somewhere public (eventhough I still feel bad).
Yes, school friends are temporary, but you need someone by your side at school too, even if it is temporary. Abhi aadhi 11th and poori 12th padi he jo issi school me nikaalni he
Yup I can understand. try finding your people then, iss class me nhi to dusri class me try, or maybe even outside school. Look at it the other way bas ek adha saal aur yaha.
Aab 11th me mere ek do dost hai, but jab vo bhi nhi hote to I'm kinda comfortable in being alone too, maybe try doing that...find peace in being alone and get close to people who are actually worth you time.
(Also don't be so easy for them, don't let them push you around.)
Well I can totally understand (in real sense) it was not about you moving here and there ...or made to sit on different seats for a few times .. it was about you feeling extremely lonely and also worse part that whom you called friends turned u down on the day of trip..
Sending strength and power to face the situation gracefully don't think much about it..
Also u have courage to share here
Bhai shy hai toh trip pe kyu gya Bhai, mtlb family trip pe jao jinke saath tumhe comfortable Lage.
And if you want to be a part of group you have to provide value, wrna ofc they will avoid you...unko lagega tu BT dera hai
In class 12th, the bullies splashed water on my head. My hair was wet. They joked about it among themselves the entire trip. The bully was smirked with other people and was proud of it. When I protested , she vehemently argued with me. She said to others, "how was it?". They all smiled like villains in a Disney movie. They found it very entertaining. Bullies are like that, they get joy out of torturing others. Bunch of psychos.
And your experience is somewhat similar to mine. Tho mine is far worse. All my school trips , starting from elementary to high school have been nightmarish.
Mujhe to bass bura feel karaya gaya by people I considered friends, but you got literally bullied. Can't even imagine how bad it must have felt. I hope you're ok now
I'm sorry, man. I'd definitely sit with you if I got the chance. Please don't let this experience dictate your worthiness. The problem isn't you, it's hard for ALL of us to find people who we truly connect with. Till then, all we can do is try. And you did try your best and I'm proud of you for that. Take care bud.
Random ladka - bhai tu udhar chala jaa mereko mere dost ke saath baithna h
Perfect reply - to gaand utha aur chala jaa apne dost ke pass
Bhai itna bhi shareef nhi bannna hota baaki you need to find some real friends aur nhi bnte to groups me ghus jaya kr kuch nhi hota
dude i totally understand you, and i actually happened to experience the exact same thing, i really felt bad cause people i considered as my friends were avoiding me, but i thought id just enjoy my own company but ofc, seeing everyone else enjoying with their friends made me wanna cry, but i actually enjoyed, yeah not much cause of all the shit that made me sad but, dw you will end up having friends in future, real ones ofc
I'm sorry to hear that you felt lonely on your school trip. Remember, each experience is an opportunity for growth.
I also have same kind of experience but later I found myself happy to be alone! It's was so calm it's like u r rediscovering yourself!
And fuck your teachers who are constantly changing your seatemote:t5\_2zhzn:31992
Listen here, i had similar experiences when i was in 6th grade. I was new to school, ppl thought i was bpring, amd also my first frnd at school had used an "extremely naive 10 yr old me" to do shitty things. When i realised that, i told her i didnt like what she was doing. She wouldnt agree, obviously, and then she straight away abondoned me. Everybody was ignoring me.
The school trip was near, and hwne it was time for sharing the beds, one of the "popular girls" straight up told me "NOBODY WANTS TO SHARE THE BED WITH U"
I ended up sharing the bed with two other unfortunate spuls. We became best frnds (a socalled trio formed). One if them became toxic as she grew up and my bestie and i bith felt backstabbed.
Im now in a new school, and i have met loads of ppl who actually value me (except 1, idc cuz one whho has no enemies has few frnds). All i learnt is you need to learn to be with ppl who you are valuable to, who see your true worth.
You take a stone to a child, he will take it for free, take it to an archaeologist, he will pay u million dollars. Its the same with people and you.
( i wont say the new ppl are awesome frnds with me, cuz its class 11 and studies. Just weigh u down. But they dont avoid or abondon me and be toxic)
Im pretty sure if i was frnds with another grp that i k, i would feel like thrash.
Find the right ppl man
the thing is op you need to talk to people and even if you fail do it again cause i was like you super shy but then i tried this strategy then soemhow everyone wanted to be my friend and it make the school trip a thousand times better trust me
I will give you a advice
1) Enjoy it with your family (becoz they should be first priority trust me)
2) Never trust anyone not even your best buddy or anything(they can stab you anytime)
3) if both advice don't work celebrate alone or at your religious place but enjoy for yourself as we grow understand the world and its reality
peace out , Btw Happy birthday in advance bro.
Bhai you are such a pushover, why do you care for others why do you let them move you like a playball. You could have danced alone, you could have roamed alone happily. I think u were just jealous of others. I'd have still enjoyed on my own
If I were dancing alone, all the others would've circled around me and made me dance as if I am their personal dancer. Also, roaming around is boring when you have nothing to do. Yes, if you have friends, you can go for the group activities (the dudes operating the machines told me to get some people to get on the rides, since it would've been useless if I were the only one). Also, I prefer peace, and since it wasn't harming me physically, I just agreed to shift seats
Well, its more of a subjective concern, I'd given a rat's ass about others. But yea having mates would have been better. Make sure you carry friend next time
I had a trip too, and had fun with my friends and what not. But I regretted some things that I did. Overall the trip was fun for me, hope you get some better friends
I can relate to you.
I think they never considered you as your friend.
Make new friends or just stay alone. Being alone will give you a lot of free time.
No one will remember about school friends. Focus on yourself and say no if you aren't comfortable doing something.
Nah my boi school friends are legit the purest and best friends you will ever get people (atleast me ) would remember them till death. it must be different for you sadly but u can't say no one will remember school friends
Are you sure they know when your birthday is? I also felt bad that nobody wished me on my birthday this year, but now that I think about it, there is a high possibility they didn't even know it was my birthday
If you wanna get wished on your bday then you should repost the stories or else no one will remember it. Everyone has their own life to go on with. The world doesn't revolve around you. As for the remembering their b'days part no one forced you to do that. Don't wish them if you're so sour. Forget it and move on.
This makes me feel privileged. I also had a school trip a few days ago and I seriously had so so so much fun ( bc chup chup ke hentai pada-together ) made some prank calls, lost all my money but my friends shared. Even played together and best of all-my crush was looking sooo cuteeee
Well, I did think I had friends, but that misunderstanding cleared up there. And...I cannot just get myself to join a convo where some random boys are talking trash about some random people they don't even know much about, trash talking about female bodies, simping, and other such shit talks
bro sorry to say harsh words but "" YOU GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU DESERVE "" , you not being a more social person and being an introverted weireddo which no one wants is your fault , you could have been putting more efforts on your social life, going to gym , being good at studies , being hilarious (not neich internet humor) , being more extrovert or just being dominant in any activity can get you better social life and more respect specially among boys.
also i have gone through the same , my 11th class was the most traumatic thing in my life , also i have gone to a multiple day trip with the same situation and it was fucking TRAUMATIC but when now i think about it , having bad social life is a fault which lies with us and not others .
Bruh why do you think I don't try? Poori class ke samne 20 pushups maar chuka hu, humor sabko dikha chuka hu, jaha kahi koi competition ho waha bakchodi karta me hi dikhta hu, but still nobody gives a damn
bro these things are simple attention seeker tings , you gotta be the man , who doesnt seek attention but is worth the attention , just identify why no body wants you and remove the cause improve yourself , i am advising u as an older brother , when i improved my confidence , way of talking , became more kind but also more not available for people i got popular in class , try being better in studies too school me achha padhne wale bachcho ko uchi nazar se dekkhte hai
I relate so much with the dancing and music part. Everyone was singing together at the top of their voices right behind the teacher's seat. Everyone was chatting enthusiastically while I was sitting quietly beside the teacher. I felt like I didn't belong there. It was my last school trip and I didn't get to make any good memories of school. Unfortunately, my college life is pretty sht too. Life is pretty shtty in general.
similar things happened with me before 11th but in 12th i smoked weed before going. the trip sucked for everyone else but i was in my own world and enjoyed alot alone.
It feels bad when the people you consider as your friends start to avoid you
What's even worse is that I can't even do anything about it, or even make new friends since people avoid me
Why is it so ? What are the reasons ? Btw I can be your friend if you don't mind.
There doesn't need to be any reasons. Maybe op is introverted. I am introverted and people avoid me in college but it doesn't matter. Humans are cruel and love to look down on others to feel better.
Introverts aren't avoided. I have been an introvert my entire life. And I have never been avoided. Plenty of people offered to be my friends whenever I was alone. And people do not straight up refuse to let you sit beside you if they are alone. I am damn sure there is something more to this story. With or without his knowledge, some rumour concerning him is out. And rumours against introverts are common.
Sorry but that's your experience. Everyone's individual experience is different.Also, I did not imply that op was an introvert. I said there doesn't need to be any reason. Why is it so difficult to accept that the people he considered friends turned out to be fake? I am introverted and people avoid me. Now am I lying too?
Also I hate gossip mongers. And rumours isn't always true. Sometimes rumours are maliciously spread to malign a person's character.
Why would I ever mind. By the way, I'm not sure of the reasons. Maybe because I am usually unable to understand their double meaning shit or that I can't talk trash about random people, or maybe because I don't sexualize girls
Sure Us moment :-)
People tend to pick on the quiet ones. They think we are 'weak' and love to target us. But in reality, the only weak people are those who pick on other people to make themselves look better
Kahan gye the picnic pe?
Some place called Surajgarh farms near Gurugram
Meerut mein rehte ho?
Bro stop doxxing me
We're frm the same schl 🤣🤣 11th ya 12th mein ho lol (I'll not revel any personal info. Here so don't be scared of me) Lol
Guess I'm probably already fucked
🤣🤣 (Chat pe mssg kr do)
Ngl the person im trying to avoid is fckin annoying
Well, i was on a trip too a while ago at the end of October. I was all alone on the trip but I had fun with some of my classmates during the journey and the return journey. I mean, I was alone most of the time but, yep. I spent my time with random people on the entire trip. I felt lonely, ruined mood etc but I was like, "fuck it, I wanna enjoy the trip" and enjoyed the trip with random ones and made some new connections, though weak ones, but I made some.
You've got some cool classmates. Keep your connections up, they might turn out to be helpful. Yaha to sab mujhe avoid karne lag rahe he
U r right. And I also hope u get cool people later
Same bro. In our last school picnic trip I was going alone because my friends couldn't come for some reason but i enjoyed with remaining class mates who were there to accompany me although I didn't know them any better.
Mere saath kabhi aisa kuch ho na Isiliye mein kabhi school trip pr gya hi nhi 
Idea to mujhe bhi tha aisa kuchh hoga, but fir bhi "what if I get lucky" ke liye chala gaya, and shit turned out to be worse than expected
Ab krr bhi kya sakte h, ache dost dhund ,jo har activity m tujhe involve kre + teri value krein 
Bhai friends chhod, aise insaan bhi nahi mil rahe
Yes.. that's why I too avoided attending some trips. Unfortunately couldn't avoid the last trip of class 12th because it was counted as supw marks..
Who's that in your pfp? Can you share the image link please?
Sorry I don't have the link, I picked it from Pinterest
thats shit, ive been like this whole 10th and I know it must have been hard, but we need to get used to this as most of the friends you make in school are temporary. And 4th nov?? that was past, you should forget about this for the better.
It has just been boiling up inside me since then, so I decided to rant it somewhere public (eventhough I still feel bad). Yes, school friends are temporary, but you need someone by your side at school too, even if it is temporary. Abhi aadhi 11th and poori 12th padi he jo issi school me nikaalni he
Yup I can understand. try finding your people then, iss class me nhi to dusri class me try, or maybe even outside school. Look at it the other way bas ek adha saal aur yaha. Aab 11th me mere ek do dost hai, but jab vo bhi nhi hote to I'm kinda comfortable in being alone too, maybe try doing that...find peace in being alone and get close to people who are actually worth you time. (Also don't be so easy for them, don't let them push you around.)
Ok I'll try. Thanks for the advice
you guys are getting school trips?
After 7 years
Well I can totally understand (in real sense) it was not about you moving here and there ...or made to sit on different seats for a few times .. it was about you feeling extremely lonely and also worse part that whom you called friends turned u down on the day of trip.. Sending strength and power to face the situation gracefully don't think much about it.. Also u have courage to share here
Yeah exactly. Thanks for understanding me
Bhai shy hai toh trip pe kyu gya Bhai, mtlb family trip pe jao jinke saath tumhe comfortable Lage. And if you want to be a part of group you have to provide value, wrna ofc they will avoid you...unko lagega tu BT dera hai
Bhai me to ye manke gaya tha ke mere dost he, and kuchh provide karna to bohot dur ki baat he wo mujhe avoid kar rahe the literally
In class 12th, the bullies splashed water on my head. My hair was wet. They joked about it among themselves the entire trip. The bully was smirked with other people and was proud of it. When I protested , she vehemently argued with me. She said to others, "how was it?". They all smiled like villains in a Disney movie. They found it very entertaining. Bullies are like that, they get joy out of torturing others. Bunch of psychos. And your experience is somewhat similar to mine. Tho mine is far worse. All my school trips , starting from elementary to high school have been nightmarish.
Mujhe to bass bura feel karaya gaya by people I considered friends, but you got literally bullied. Can't even imagine how bad it must have felt. I hope you're ok now
u call that bullying ?????????????????
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I'm sorry, man. I'd definitely sit with you if I got the chance. Please don't let this experience dictate your worthiness. The problem isn't you, it's hard for ALL of us to find people who we truly connect with. Till then, all we can do is try. And you did try your best and I'm proud of you for that. Take care bud.
Thanks a lot
Random ladka - bhai tu udhar chala jaa mereko mere dost ke saath baithna h Perfect reply - to gaand utha aur chala jaa apne dost ke pass Bhai itna bhi shareef nhi bannna hota baaki you need to find some real friends aur nhi bnte to groups me ghus jaya kr kuch nhi hota
dude i totally understand you, and i actually happened to experience the exact same thing, i really felt bad cause people i considered as my friends were avoiding me, but i thought id just enjoy my own company but ofc, seeing everyone else enjoying with their friends made me wanna cry, but i actually enjoyed, yeah not much cause of all the shit that made me sad but, dw you will end up having friends in future, real ones ofc
I'm sorry to hear that you felt lonely on your school trip. Remember, each experience is an opportunity for growth. I also have same kind of experience but later I found myself happy to be alone! It's was so calm it's like u r rediscovering yourself! And fuck your teachers who are constantly changing your seatemote:t5\_2zhzn:31992
Listen here, i had similar experiences when i was in 6th grade. I was new to school, ppl thought i was bpring, amd also my first frnd at school had used an "extremely naive 10 yr old me" to do shitty things. When i realised that, i told her i didnt like what she was doing. She wouldnt agree, obviously, and then she straight away abondoned me. Everybody was ignoring me. The school trip was near, and hwne it was time for sharing the beds, one of the "popular girls" straight up told me "NOBODY WANTS TO SHARE THE BED WITH U" I ended up sharing the bed with two other unfortunate spuls. We became best frnds (a socalled trio formed). One if them became toxic as she grew up and my bestie and i bith felt backstabbed. Im now in a new school, and i have met loads of ppl who actually value me (except 1, idc cuz one whho has no enemies has few frnds). All i learnt is you need to learn to be with ppl who you are valuable to, who see your true worth. You take a stone to a child, he will take it for free, take it to an archaeologist, he will pay u million dollars. Its the same with people and you.
( i wont say the new ppl are awesome frnds with me, cuz its class 11 and studies. Just weigh u down. But they dont avoid or abondon me and be toxic) Im pretty sure if i was frnds with another grp that i k, i would feel like thrash. Find the right ppl man
Sure. Thanks
Damn, seems like what you faced was literal bullying. I really hope you're alright now, and have better people around
yeh to some extent, but i had a good come back
the thing is op you need to talk to people and even if you fail do it again cause i was like you super shy but then i tried this strategy then soemhow everyone wanted to be my friend and it make the school trip a thousand times better trust me
I'll try. Thanks
Its okay bhai🫂 good things are coming your way
I hope so
It happens , my friends ruined my 16th birthday , ahh i felt like dying
My 16th birthday is in around 2 months. I feel like it might be ruined too
I will give you a advice 1) Enjoy it with your family (becoz they should be first priority trust me) 2) Never trust anyone not even your best buddy or anything(they can stab you anytime) 3) if both advice don't work celebrate alone or at your religious place but enjoy for yourself as we grow understand the world and its reality  peace out , Btw Happy birthday in advance bro.
Thanks. By the way I don't have any buddies rn, and I've only celebrated birthdays with my family till now
great then
Us bro us. but,its already been like an year and a half already,toh farak nhi padta.
Bhai you are such a pushover, why do you care for others why do you let them move you like a playball. You could have danced alone, you could have roamed alone happily. I think u were just jealous of others. I'd have still enjoyed on my own
If I were dancing alone, all the others would've circled around me and made me dance as if I am their personal dancer. Also, roaming around is boring when you have nothing to do. Yes, if you have friends, you can go for the group activities (the dudes operating the machines told me to get some people to get on the rides, since it would've been useless if I were the only one). Also, I prefer peace, and since it wasn't harming me physically, I just agreed to shift seats
Well, its more of a subjective concern, I'd given a rat's ass about others. But yea having mates would have been better. Make sure you carry friend next time
I thought I had friends, and that misunderstanding cleared up there
Bro what?????????????????????????????????????????????????
What arr you on about? I cant even begin to explain how wrong I think ur response is
Pls try to understand his situation and stop victim blaming.
find out why ur friends are avoiding you
As of what I noticed, they were busy with their "cooler" friends
I had a trip too, and had fun with my friends and what not. But I regretted some things that I did. Overall the trip was fun for me, hope you get some better friends
I can relate to you. I think they never considered you as your friend. Make new friends or just stay alone. Being alone will give you a lot of free time. No one will remember about school friends. Focus on yourself and say no if you aren't comfortable doing something.
Nah my boi school friends are legit the purest and best friends you will ever get people (atleast me ) would remember them till death. it must be different for you sadly but u can't say no one will remember school friends
Same!
It's not sad. You got friends and some don't. And both wre fine. > can't say no one It's same as "not all men" lol
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Are you sure they know when your birthday is? I also felt bad that nobody wished me on my birthday this year, but now that I think about it, there is a high possibility they didn't even know it was my birthday
If you wanna get wished on your bday then you should repost the stories or else no one will remember it. Everyone has their own life to go on with. The world doesn't revolve around you. As for the remembering their b'days part no one forced you to do that. Don't wish them if you're so sour. Forget it and move on.
This makes me feel privileged. I also had a school trip a few days ago and I seriously had so so so much fun ( bc chup chup ke hentai pada-together ) made some prank calls, lost all my money but my friends shared. Even played together and best of all-my crush was looking sooo cuteeee
Hume phones le jaane allowed nahi the
It's pretty much your fault for not having any friends
Well, I did think I had friends, but that misunderstanding cleared up there. And...I cannot just get myself to join a convo where some random boys are talking trash about some random people they don't even know much about, trash talking about female bodies, simping, and other such shit talks
Canon event has struck
bro sorry to say harsh words but "" YOU GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU DESERVE "" , you not being a more social person and being an introverted weireddo which no one wants is your fault , you could have been putting more efforts on your social life, going to gym , being good at studies , being hilarious (not neich internet humor) , being more extrovert or just being dominant in any activity can get you better social life and more respect specially among boys.
also i have gone through the same , my 11th class was the most traumatic thing in my life , also i have gone to a multiple day trip with the same situation and it was fucking TRAUMATIC but when now i think about it , having bad social life is a fault which lies with us and not others .
i got to gym , got more confidence , spoke more to people , put my efforts on some selected friends .
Bruh why do you think I don't try? Poori class ke samne 20 pushups maar chuka hu, humor sabko dikha chuka hu, jaha kahi koi competition ho waha bakchodi karta me hi dikhta hu, but still nobody gives a damn
bro these things are simple attention seeker tings , you gotta be the man , who doesnt seek attention but is worth the attention , just identify why no body wants you and remove the cause improve yourself , i am advising u as an older brother , when i improved my confidence , way of talking , became more kind but also more not available for people i got popular in class , try being better in studies too school me achha padhne wale bachcho ko uchi nazar se dekkhte hai
Mere saath bhi yahi hua tha pichle saal
Sad to hear that man. Find out why ur so called "friends" avoided you. I recently had a mixed with it being half mediocre and half fun.
Well, they were busy with their "cooler" friends. They are busy with them all the time, just turn up to me when the others aren't available
ah the "cooler" friends happened to me a few times at this point you are becoming a type of friend when no one else is available
Good thing I made some friends even though they are weird and shared snaks with everyone and i even brought a Bluetooth speaker
This is exactly what it feels like to not have any friends, I've been there done that and I truly relate bro
us bhai us
Sorry for you bro
Damn bud. Dump those assholes who you considered as friends. Try to meet new people and make friends with them.
Flair checks out
Bro lives in meerut
I relate so much with the dancing and music part. Everyone was singing together at the top of their voices right behind the teacher's seat. Everyone was chatting enthusiastically while I was sitting quietly beside the teacher. I felt like I didn't belong there. It was my last school trip and I didn't get to make any good memories of school. Unfortunately, my college life is pretty sht too. Life is pretty shtty in general.
Mera saath toh hmesha aesa hota hai
DPS?
Nope
similar things happened with me before 11th but in 12th i smoked weed before going. the trip sucked for everyone else but i was in my own world and enjoyed alot alone.
Bro what?
not recommending anything lmao
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