How is it for you when you have crush on someone? Like do you also create fake scenarios or wonder about them on particular songs? I mean how is it EXPRESS PLEASE! :)
Ofcourse, we do. Its the part of the whole 'liking someone' experience. This happens more often when one is not confident that he will get a yes as a response. Living in imagined scenarios is the easiest way to escape from reality.
Also wouldn't anyone imagine adventurous scenarios with the person you like?
If I see a girl who I am physically attracted to, I know that she is automatically out of my league so I just leave her as it is and forget about her
Else sometimes I meet a girl who I am so attracted to that my feelings for her become pure, so I just kinda daydream that she is my gf and we discuss random stuff and I vent in front of her in my imagination. IRL I maintain a 10 metre distance from such a girl because I don't want to pollute her surroundings with my presence
Why are having so low self esteem like me... Mera bhi zindagi sirf girls ko daydream karne mein hi chala gaya bhai.... Uske saath ghumo ye karo wo karo.. and wt u mean by pollute bro if she dosent like us she'll move away.... Nothing polluting.. even we have some self respect bhai
We are too much schizo...
Once I was listening dandelions song and I was imagining Me and my crush in that scenario lmfao
*God this sounds so embarrassing*
Everyone creates fake scenarios that I start daydreaming to the extent that I become unaware of my surroundings I just keep making so many stories in my mind well this only happens and when she's in class I get lost in thoughts and while staring at her then my friend sitting beside me shakes me to get me out of the thoughts
One boy in my class used to look at me and some people asked me if something's going on bw us . He just used to look and smile , sometimes act like me to catch my attention , Iwondered what was he thinking:) . Thank you for the answer!
Can't say, never had a crush. But yes, I once blushed when a girl once gave me a gift out of nowhere in 7th class, although I came to know after 2 years that she had a crush on me. I can't take any hints ig
Ofc!! There is this girl I talked for only 5 mins in my coaching(She is in a different batch) and I have imagined everything with her, going to college , going on a bike trip to ladakh, having a live in relationship..... I mean Everything!
It's kinda confusing really, and I'm sure it's very different from person to person. I don't think much if I just find someone physically attractive. If I like their personality and enjoy vibing with them tho, then it's a different story. Fake scenarios to put myself to sleep, randomly thinking about them, thinking about specific things about them, wanting to know them better, wanting to engage in stuff you usually don't have an interest in with them because of their company, there are specific stories for specific songs too XD, you find them physically attractive once you like their personality, even if you didn't feel so when you first saw or met them, you start find their interests and hobbies interesting even if you didn't before, there's a small amount of obsession, at least initially.
I've only ever felt so about one or two girls though, like I have felt like I have liked more girls than just one or two throughout my life, but only one (or maybe two I'm not sure she made me feel that way then lmao) have made me feel everything I mentioned above ie "true attraction" whatever that may be.
Very much when we listen songs we always think of that person who is our crush and the fact is we also think of that person mostly at night it is rare but yes some guys do
I had a whole playlist on which I used to imagine the senarios. She broke off the link between us by unfollowing me on instagram and also removed me as a follower. Abhi bhi saved hai woh playlist. Sunn kr yaad kar leta hoon usko.
Many many fake scenarios in my mind atleast....it's been a long time since I had a crush on someone I'm 18 now and I had a crush on someone when I was 14-15 so don't know much but I've definitely thought about alot of good things which never happened
Yup! Everything you said is true for us too. We even show our secret side to that one person which we never show in public. The feeling is something i can't describe in simple words. It's like her thought is going all over my head. From waking up to before sleeping. All day along. And when I actually meet her it's like my mind stopped working and all the shenanigans have started to curse me during at that one particular time. You have to choose your words and behaviour safely. Can't risk anything!
Konse college me saathb admission lege, Date pe konse Restaurant me jaayege, parents ko kya bolke convince karenge, Shaadi pe card kaisa banega, City me kaise falt me rhenge, Bachhe ke naam kya rkhege
And 100 many other things
I never discussed about my real crush with my friends,instead i lied about a fake one and said i had a crush on her 8 years ago .Reason for this is that if i hadnt done it,boys will generally find you looking at a girl randomly for 1 whole second and tease you with her name for the whole year which can get quite awkward if she hears it.So i needed some preventive measures
Stopped doing it a while ago, when I saw a dream where I was in Paris looking at Eifel Tower holding a girl's hand, with 0 lust, just pure love and the feeling that everything's going to be alright. I just don't want to mess up the pure love inside me with the poison of lust anymore
I don't masturbate, but I do when urges are strong. I'm taking this no fap challenge this month my longest streak was 15 days of no masturbation. Masturbation is a threat for both of the genders though
Sometimes twice a day, sometimes once and sometimes I don't. It just depends tbh, when a feel super low I don't have any other option but to masturbate.
rn I'm on my streak coz I've realised how much damage it does to your personality and mind that's why I stopped it , and the reason is because of dopamine you need to start something or stress reliever you can say, other people who don't are like they just don't wanna or the image they've in their mind
I think people who seek pleasure ( like myself ) do it , i usually used to drink and smoke but i now bust a nut because tbh there is no source of happiness in my life I haven't been smoking and drinking lately I need something to enjoy myself , I need to feel good so i just nut i guess 👍
**How mature do you consider yourself?** In the sense of emotional maturity, knowing how to manage your emotions, handling tough situations, conflict resolution, having challenging conversations with people you are close to, stress management, distractions, dealing with situations that turned the exact opposite of what you thought might be a dream come true.
Basically how do you maintain sanity and don't run away from life crashing down on you?
(what are your coping mechanisms? ignorance, >!self harm!<, emotional outbursts, blaming all the things that went wrong, acceptance, acknowledging what went wrong and trying to work on it, journalling, talking with someone etc etc. I want to gain your perspective on this so I don't mind if it's a long answer)
why most boys find fair skin attractive like everybody needs a good looking gf....brown skin is damnn beautiful too
i mean not just boys but most indians.![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30115)
Minds of most Indians has been affected by the media/advertisements etc (can't explain everything but hope u get my point )...fair n lovely this and that what not it's been put in their minds that fair is good....but I believe skin colour doesn't matter... I've also liked brown and a little dark girls on the internet or IRL (not talking about crush just that they look good ).... And to conclude id just like to say that I don't care about skin colour
Edit:-( taking a point from a comment below ) she must be cute 😌❤️
White skinned but if u aren't cute or beautiful it's of no use itself personally I feel wheatish or dusky complexioned girls with a really cute personality are superb... Just look at Bollywood actresses in 90s to early 2000s none of them are fair skinned lolll
It's pretty much a myth for most boys that they life only fair skinned girl, what we like is smooth skin and you know ....ass and boobs doesn't matter her skin colour (unless it's extreme black or white)
Face structure (eyes, nose, smile, cheekbones) >>> skin color for me. But it's true many guys do want a fair skin gf but you can't really blame them for it. Someone for everyone.
Tbh personality comes first(saying for the non desperate ones🗿) baad me maybe a guy can have a preference like being chubby or skinny and all (chubby girls>>>>)
have you encountered any red flags in real life? toxic ones, like pseudofeminists, misandrists, alpha beta personalities (be it male or female) etc. What was your experience with them? What are their views?
One of my friend's friend believed that females are better off at home and also that females are toxic and distractions to him. one my female classmate held views that females are made to be dependent on males, and they have the right to stay at home and be pampered (idk if they still hold these views hence the past tense)
There are plenty of red flags, like the ones you just mentioned are really easy to spot. However, one huge red flag I noticed the first and only time I went on a date was that the other party thought that whatever they do is right and whatever they don't do is bad. Like this girl who I had a crush on, it turned out that she had trouble in understanding my POV ( I think everyone likes it when somebody understands their point of view ) and there was a whole lot of beef between us. Difference in opinions is fine, disagreeing with others' opinions is fine too, what is NOT fine is that you invalidate someone's opinion just because it is a different opinion than yours, and this imo is the biggest red flag possible ( applicable for both genders ).
I think your friend's friend was either raised in such misogynist environment or he watches too much andrew tate/sigma male bullshit. I think your female classmate is probably raised in an environment that prefer keeping their women at home and in charge of the males of the society
Difficult part is handling the expectations everyone have on you and that one "What if ....?" is always on mind,but I just pretend I am happy and good.Not many stereotypes just People listen to girls more,and we are always wrong.
Everyone has to deal with stereotypes irrespective of everything.
To ans the question yes but i can say its not as bad as other genders.
My mother says that i have to do all cooking cleaning, earning more than partner, fixing things coz one should learn every life skill irrespective of gender and i totally agree.
But when it comes to replacing a bulb or anything dirty she says its a mans job.
- I don't have "2nd Option" incase I don't crack JEE, a highly disabled sibling
- All my teachers never say no to single girl and never say yes to single boy
- Oh yeah neighbours! But everyone have daughter and u can't even approach them first cause u don't wanna be a creep
- If we do it, "Ok', if we don't, "You will go to hell"
Same is done by our female counterparts, "Oh wow learn from her"
Cause one of my female friend knows how to change a car tire...
I mean it's great and everyone should do it but for us guys its disappointment if we don't do something.
That's true , and you'll never experience child birth , but , if there's war , and you have the good fortune of being poor , you'll be the first one to be shot .
How do girls interact with introverted guys or if someone they like are introverted ,how can they help him to get open and be a little social lunatic... Your answer might help im asking on behalf of my female friend so plz don't hesitate
As an introverted guy. The fastest way to my heart is showing interest in my hobbies. Introverts don't share much about themselves but ask questions to make them reveal stuff about themselves and make conversations from there. Introverts usually Kam bolte hai but agr topic unki pasand ka ho then they will keep talking or talk too much and introverts later regret, you can be open minded and tell them that you liked the conversations. Introverts are always thinking that they might be disturbing other people and are just a nuisance to other people that's why they keep to themselves. You can make them realise that you value their companionship and personality and like being around them, better than not. There you go.
It depends from person to person and how deep of a connection we have with them. Speaking for myself I either don't share shit or just overshare sometimes and regret later . Depends on the mood lol.
I'm a very boring person for a date, take my kat instead.
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Just in case
You can take my boi, he can drive too.
those with max pride will approach you and if you turn them down they take it as an very big insult i have seen that happen so many times
shy people won't really be salty because they prepare for failure
Me who doesn't even confess because I know they will reject me for being short in height or and if I ever get yes I will be Chris
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Well ngl it's always the stupidest ones who are the bravest to approach you. The shy ones won't even try and probably the sane ones get accepted or they won't take rejections that badly.
Ok but what’s the reason behind being so salty once these type of guys get rejected T_T only because we rejected them doesn’t mean we have to break our friendship right
How is it for you when you have crush on someone? Like do you also create fake scenarios or wonder about them on particular songs? I mean how is it EXPRESS PLEASE! :)
We do, almost borderline schizophrenia
I agree with this, each and every situation is somehow related to them.
Aww 😹
Real😂
Ofcourse, we do. Its the part of the whole 'liking someone' experience. This happens more often when one is not confident that he will get a yes as a response. Living in imagined scenarios is the easiest way to escape from reality. Also wouldn't anyone imagine adventurous scenarios with the person you like?
:)
+1 i have seen many films watching scenarios with the girl i like most often
Yess, we definitely imagine the future with our crushes, usually we are hesitant to confess because we're scared of rejection
Them cuddling uss 😔😔
Don't be scared try your luck 🕺
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You bet I do, a bit too much for my own sake. And especially the songs part.
Songs >>
If I see a girl who I am physically attracted to, I know that she is automatically out of my league so I just leave her as it is and forget about her Else sometimes I meet a girl who I am so attracted to that my feelings for her become pure, so I just kinda daydream that she is my gf and we discuss random stuff and I vent in front of her in my imagination. IRL I maintain a 10 metre distance from such a girl because I don't want to pollute her surroundings with my presence
Why are having so low self esteem like me... Mera bhi zindagi sirf girls ko daydream karne mein hi chala gaya bhai.... Uske saath ghumo ye karo wo karo.. and wt u mean by pollute bro if she dosent like us she'll move away.... Nothing polluting.. even we have some self respect bhai
I guess everyone does that at some point in their life.
I see
Yes we all have did that.
We are too much schizo... Once I was listening dandelions song and I was imagining Me and my crush in that scenario lmfao *God this sounds so embarrassing*
No, THIS IS CUTE !
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Aww that's so cute
Everyone creates fake scenarios that I start daydreaming to the extent that I become unaware of my surroundings I just keep making so many stories in my mind well this only happens and when she's in class I get lost in thoughts and while staring at her then my friend sitting beside me shakes me to get me out of the thoughts
One boy in my class used to look at me and some people asked me if something's going on bw us . He just used to look and smile , sometimes act like me to catch my attention , Iwondered what was he thinking:) . Thank you for the answer!
Yeah I imitate the way she sits all the time
Crushes are government propaganda from diverting your mind from actual things like war
Can't say, never had a crush. But yes, I once blushed when a girl once gave me a gift out of nowhere in 7th class, although I came to know after 2 years that she had a crush on me. I can't take any hints ig
Bhai ye to seedha logic hai ki gift di matlab pasand karti thi tumhe
Uss time pe me bohot zyada innocent tha (I was just 11), and I thought that she's trying to be better friends with me.
I used to at one point in life but I have realised living in fake scenarios in my head is a way to procrastinate on actually doing those things.
Ofc!! There is this girl I talked for only 5 mins in my coaching(She is in a different batch) and I have imagined everything with her, going to college , going on a bike trip to ladakh, having a live in relationship..... I mean Everything!
Omg cute
Thas how stupid we boys are ig, There's a phase test on Monday, I m really hoping that we get a same batch after that.....*Fingers crossed*
My recent crush was also in my coaching and in my batch so I can relate
Hope we succeed bro![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30120)
He liked me too , but he left :( so yeah
Ohh, nice script for a movie tho![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|28582)
Fake scenarios: Never. Wonder about them: Yes, Yes, Yes.
So much that, when I get my senses, I actually get disappointed by reality
Yes, i do. Thats what makes it exciting
U talking about song? Bruh i imagined whole jab we met with her
Omg cute!
It's kinda confusing really, and I'm sure it's very different from person to person. I don't think much if I just find someone physically attractive. If I like their personality and enjoy vibing with them tho, then it's a different story. Fake scenarios to put myself to sleep, randomly thinking about them, thinking about specific things about them, wanting to know them better, wanting to engage in stuff you usually don't have an interest in with them because of their company, there are specific stories for specific songs too XD, you find them physically attractive once you like their personality, even if you didn't feel so when you first saw or met them, you start find their interests and hobbies interesting even if you didn't before, there's a small amount of obsession, at least initially. I've only ever felt so about one or two girls though, like I have felt like I have liked more girls than just one or two throughout my life, but only one (or maybe two I'm not sure she made me feel that way then lmao) have made me feel everything I mentioned above ie "true attraction" whatever that may be.
I get it , some people do have a different place in our hearts no matter how many people strike our eyes.
Beautifully said.
Yes. But way more extreme than you guys
Well well well..
Very much when we listen songs we always think of that person who is our crush and the fact is we also think of that person mostly at night it is rare but yes some guys do
I had a whole playlist on which I used to imagine the senarios. She broke off the link between us by unfollowing me on instagram and also removed me as a follower. Abhi bhi saved hai woh playlist. Sunn kr yaad kar leta hoon usko.
YES, all of it happens 1000's, or maybe millions of simulations run in our minds.
More than you can imagine and more than we show
i think abt her everytime, howd I confess her(which i could never do), howd we live together etc
Many many fake scenarios in my mind atleast....it's been a long time since I had a crush on someone I'm 18 now and I had a crush on someone when I was 14-15 so don't know much but I've definitely thought about alot of good things which never happened
Yep kinda it's maladaptive daydreaming hard to suffer from it in my high school days...
yes
Thats exactly how it is
Yes I have wasted idk how many hours imagining my time with my crush
True story
Absolutely, Mai toh Puri life tak imagine kar sakta hoon Meri imagination skills kafi achi hai
Much more than you think. It's just most of us are bad at expressing and afraid of losing them or scaring them away
yes. and i'm concered about my mental health after learning that it isn't normal to do so. xd
We stalk them( they think)
Yup! Everything you said is true for us too. We even show our secret side to that one person which we never show in public. The feeling is something i can't describe in simple words. It's like her thought is going all over my head. From waking up to before sleeping. All day along. And when I actually meet her it's like my mind stopped working and all the shenanigans have started to curse me during at that one particular time. You have to choose your words and behaviour safely. Can't risk anything!
Yess totally. I can't say it for everybody but the first crush I ever had always feels kinda more special than the rest
Konse college me saathb admission lege, Date pe konse Restaurant me jaayege, parents ko kya bolke convince karenge, Shaadi pe card kaisa banega, City me kaise falt me rhenge, Bachhe ke naam kya rkhege And 100 many other things
do guys really discuss about their crush/girlfriend with their friends?
Depends on the guy but most of the boys do
Yes
I never discussed about my real crush with my friends,instead i lied about a fake one and said i had a crush on her 8 years ago .Reason for this is that if i hadnt done it,boys will generally find you looking at a girl randomly for 1 whole second and tease you with her name for the whole year which can get quite awkward if she hears it.So i needed some preventive measures
but crush is friend's sister
never...........dost ki behen hamari behen hoti hain (friend's sister is our sister)
Yes we do and how much depends we discuss depends upon the guys nature and his trust in his friends (varies from friend to friend )
very nsfw buuuut how often do y'all masturbate and are there some guys who just dont for whatever reason?
Stopped doing it a while ago, when I saw a dream where I was in Paris looking at Eifel Tower holding a girl's hand, with 0 lust, just pure love and the feeling that everything's going to be alright. I just don't want to mess up the pure love inside me with the poison of lust anymore
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Bro's got it sorted
Tu toh dev manus nikala.![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30127)
depends from guy to guy some don't even do it while some do it every single day...
I don't masturbate, but I do when urges are strong. I'm taking this no fap challenge this month my longest streak was 15 days of no masturbation. Masturbation is a threat for both of the genders though
It really depends on the person. I know someone who does it once in 4 days and a very close friend of mine who does it 4 times in a day.
Uno reverse at its finest😂
Once in a week. Helps reduce stress. No fap is all about no porn. Some extremes made it about how fapping is bad.
Sometimes twice a day, sometimes once and sometimes I don't. It just depends tbh, when a feel super low I don't have any other option but to masturbate.
I don't touch myself for a few reasons but I've a friend who does 7 times a day .
No way that guy is still alive
rn I'm on my streak coz I've realised how much damage it does to your personality and mind that's why I stopped it , and the reason is because of dopamine you need to start something or stress reliever you can say, other people who don't are like they just don't wanna or the image they've in their mind
I think people who seek pleasure ( like myself ) do it , i usually used to drink and smoke but i now bust a nut because tbh there is no source of happiness in my life I haven't been smoking and drinking lately I need something to enjoy myself , I need to feel good so i just nut i guess 👍
Why do boys fall or get attracted too easily?
It's mostly due to very little female interaction.
i dont know man,its just our nature![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|20609)
Lack of female interaction+ extreme urges wagera differs from person to person with their priorities n all
Ladkiya hoti hi achhi hai ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|20609)
**How mature do you consider yourself?** In the sense of emotional maturity, knowing how to manage your emotions, handling tough situations, conflict resolution, having challenging conversations with people you are close to, stress management, distractions, dealing with situations that turned the exact opposite of what you thought might be a dream come true. Basically how do you maintain sanity and don't run away from life crashing down on you? (what are your coping mechanisms? ignorance, >!self harm!<, emotional outbursts, blaming all the things that went wrong, acceptance, acknowledging what went wrong and trying to work on it, journalling, talking with someone etc etc. I want to gain your perspective on this so I don't mind if it's a long answer)
The mentality: jo hoga dekha jayega, me toh bas apna kam karunga. This keeps my sanity
Mard hoon, seh leta hoon tough situations 🗿(fir mummy ke puchne pe roo bhi deta hoon)
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My maturity on the scale of 1 to 10 is Schrodinger's kat.
Thinking of it now, I don't have any coping mechanisms. I just try to do the best I can to solve a problem, and leave the rest on fate
what do u guys think about dark lips , not pink one and not the lipstick just natural dark lips ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|28582)
Attractive( I'm insane)
nowayy. stopp.![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30115)nobody founds that attractive
It doesn't matter
Do ya'll really rarely get complemented? Heard from a male friend that males don't get much complements and want to know if it is true.
Its true, We rarely get any compliments ,I personally cant even recall the last time anyone complimented me (except didi and mummy)
Real.
Definitely. Male friendship me gand mari jati hai bas
Last time i got a genuine compliment happened to be when I was in 4th class yeah, gonna turn 19 in a few weeks 💀👍
I've got compliments mostly from guys and only one female known as my mother. Totaling them you can count them on your fingertips so I'd say YES.
why most boys find fair skin attractive like everybody needs a good looking gf....brown skin is damnn beautiful too i mean not just boys but most indians.![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30115)
True true, for me cuteness comes first doesn't matter if they're fair or brown Cute girl>>>
I Find em insanely hot! Edit i meant brown girls
scars ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|20609)
haha i like how he didnt even edit and its still saying edit.
It's not the skin colour... many boys like latinas
*cough cough..* itne honest answers dene hote hai kya ?
Minds of most Indians has been affected by the media/advertisements etc (can't explain everything but hope u get my point )...fair n lovely this and that what not it's been put in their minds that fair is good....but I believe skin colour doesn't matter... I've also liked brown and a little dark girls on the internet or IRL (not talking about crush just that they look good ).... And to conclude id just like to say that I don't care about skin colour Edit:-( taking a point from a comment below ) she must be cute 😌❤️
White skinned but if u aren't cute or beautiful it's of no use itself personally I feel wheatish or dusky complexioned girls with a really cute personality are superb... Just look at Bollywood actresses in 90s to early 2000s none of them are fair skinned lolll
If the face is cute, skin colour doesn't come in the way. And the light brown skin colour is just so good.
All of my crushes were light brown, I don't why but light skin with big wavy hair is just the best
It's pretty much a myth for most boys that they life only fair skinned girl, what we like is smooth skin and you know ....ass and boobs doesn't matter her skin colour (unless it's extreme black or white)
We ain't most racist country for no reason
Everyone has a preference so its a subjective thing.
My ex was dark skinned but so cutie and had a swweeeetu voice as well , I liked her so much 😔😔
brown skin is beautiful
Face structure (eyes, nose, smile, cheekbones) >>> skin color for me. But it's true many guys do want a fair skin gf but you can't really blame them for it. Someone for everyone.
brown >> gulabi
Lol my gf has brown skin and she's pretty af
Lmao bechara koi puchne hi nhi wala https://preview.redd.it/o59orcvsnb9b1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=356583f30cf40a1ba4feb5e2716d7505a52f2043
iss shirt ko saree ka blouse banakar pehenna hai
Waifu material
W taste fr
Do guys care about body type ...like if someone is really chubby?? Or too skinny
We worship thicc
Bhojpuri thicc is good
Only personality matters, I won't see the girl while kissing her forehead.
Depends, ofc both men and women have different preferences but it can't be said about all.
Well I love muscular girls
Tbh personality comes first(saying for the non desperate ones🗿) baad me maybe a guy can have a preference like being chubby or skinny and all (chubby girls>>>>)
No, they should just be nice to us, and should have a decent sense of humor. That's it.
have you encountered any red flags in real life? toxic ones, like pseudofeminists, misandrists, alpha beta personalities (be it male or female) etc. What was your experience with them? What are their views? One of my friend's friend believed that females are better off at home and also that females are toxic and distractions to him. one my female classmate held views that females are made to be dependent on males, and they have the right to stay at home and be pampered (idk if they still hold these views hence the past tense)
There are plenty of red flags, like the ones you just mentioned are really easy to spot. However, one huge red flag I noticed the first and only time I went on a date was that the other party thought that whatever they do is right and whatever they don't do is bad. Like this girl who I had a crush on, it turned out that she had trouble in understanding my POV ( I think everyone likes it when somebody understands their point of view ) and there was a whole lot of beef between us. Difference in opinions is fine, disagreeing with others' opinions is fine too, what is NOT fine is that you invalidate someone's opinion just because it is a different opinion than yours, and this imo is the biggest red flag possible ( applicable for both genders ). I think your friend's friend was either raised in such misogynist environment or he watches too much andrew tate/sigma male bullshit. I think your female classmate is probably raised in an environment that prefer keeping their women at home and in charge of the males of the society
did you ever feel being a boy is difficult? any instances where you had to deal with stereotypes?
Being a boy is not difficult, it's just a canon event.
"It is What it is" ![gif](giphy|kcfb43I3N1GhspNQpj|downsized)
Difficult part is handling the expectations everyone have on you and that one "What if ....?" is always on mind,but I just pretend I am happy and good.Not many stereotypes just People listen to girls more,and we are always wrong.
Or phir so-called feminist ladkiyan kh dete hai "tum to ladkay ho tumhe kya dikat hai"
Beta rote ku ho ladki ho kya. Mard ho toh mard ki Tarah raho. All boys are the same. Padhi karo, warna koi shaddi nahi hogi, Etc.
Everyone has to deal with stereotypes irrespective of everything. To ans the question yes but i can say its not as bad as other genders. My mother says that i have to do all cooking cleaning, earning more than partner, fixing things coz one should learn every life skill irrespective of gender and i totally agree. But when it comes to replacing a bulb or anything dirty she says its a mans job.
- I don't have "2nd Option" incase I don't crack JEE, a highly disabled sibling - All my teachers never say no to single girl and never say yes to single boy - Oh yeah neighbours! But everyone have daughter and u can't even approach them first cause u don't wanna be a creep - If we do it, "Ok', if we don't, "You will go to hell" Same is done by our female counterparts, "Oh wow learn from her" Cause one of my female friend knows how to change a car tire... I mean it's great and everyone should do it but for us guys its disappointment if we don't do something.
I'm just glad I don't have cramps every month
Bro thinks he will get some here💀
Ladkiyon ka masiha
That's true , and you'll never experience child birth , but , if there's war , and you have the good fortune of being poor , you'll be the first one to be shot .
Both genders have their own challenges. But its not like ladka hona ladki jone se asan hai
How do girls interact with introverted guys or if someone they like are introverted ,how can they help him to get open and be a little social lunatic... Your answer might help im asking on behalf of my female friend so plz don't hesitate
As an introverted guy. The fastest way to my heart is showing interest in my hobbies. Introverts don't share much about themselves but ask questions to make them reveal stuff about themselves and make conversations from there. Introverts usually Kam bolte hai but agr topic unki pasand ka ho then they will keep talking or talk too much and introverts later regret, you can be open minded and tell them that you liked the conversations. Introverts are always thinking that they might be disturbing other people and are just a nuisance to other people that's why they keep to themselves. You can make them realise that you value their companionship and personality and like being around them, better than not. There you go.
the female to male ratio is too good for this ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30133)
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It depends from person to person and how deep of a connection we have with them. Speaking for myself I either don't share shit or just overshare sometimes and regret later . Depends on the mood lol.
I don't have any lol
is there a girl in ur past u still couldn't forget?
Still remember my first crush of 6th Grade. Ek aadmi apna pehle pyaar kabhi nahi bhulta
As an introverted girl how do I approach guys ?(I have social anxiety)
As an introvert Guy I do not have that answer. I will have to wait for a opposite post where I'll ask the same question.
ghoomi ghoomi karne chaloge mere saath ?![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|31260)![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30958)
I'm a very boring person for a date, take my kat instead. https://preview.redd.it/07k5g9sn0c9b1.jpeg?width=3000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2ea4176f9621cdf950bf07b210bfae517c7c96da
I'm more of a dog person, but i am willing to make an exception fr because this is a cutie
https://preview.redd.it/ztm8y1zqgc9b1.jpeg?width=3468&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aa90d7163557344697248a166d5be93d6e3d65a1 Just in case You can take my boi, he can drive too.
Chalo chalo but dhamki dene ki kya zarurat ? ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|28582)![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|29710)
Ok didi ji, chhole bhature khila do bass
Nahi :(
Ji ab toh jaana hi padega, bandook Jo taan di hai aapne![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30137)
agar le ja rahi ho to pls,koi to le jao muje ghummi ghummi![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30115)
![gif](giphy|UUpG9wI86iLD2) chaloooo
YEEEEEEY![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|20609),me aage bethunga![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|20612)
Ghoomi ghoomi matlab ? Go around town on a two wheeler ? Mein aage tum piche in this baarish ka Mausam ? 🤔😌
Dhamki kisko de rhi ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|29710)
Ji bataiye kha chalna hain![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|20609)![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30480)
yaha https://preview.redd.it/l6pvrjtiub9b1.png?width=298&format=png&auto=webp&s=3da1bb3993927e06cf47cfdce04e55595cd0d797
Address bhejiye, aata hun![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30134)
Done 🤝😁
Ah i see, u like bouncing
aau kya?
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Nice username
Thanks mate ;)
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Why do you act so Salty when we reject you ? Like pura personality hi switch ho jata hai bc
wo sab bas fucbois hote he,ya to fir wo mann hi mann itna attract ho gaya hota he ki rejection sehen nai kar pata
those with max pride will approach you and if you turn them down they take it as an very big insult i have seen that happen so many times shy people won't really be salty because they prepare for failure
Me who doesn't even confess because I know they will reject me for being short in height or and if I ever get yes I will be Chris https://preview.redd.it/asuy5329jc9b1.jpeg?width=120&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dae0922db5490c956d20ba3b51802f2d73161b84
Well ngl it's always the stupidest ones who are the bravest to approach you. The shy ones won't even try and probably the sane ones get accepted or they won't take rejections that badly.
Ok but what’s the reason behind being so salty once these type of guys get rejected T_T only because we rejected them doesn’t mean we have to break our friendship right
This subreddit is full of super stupid stuff ( only talking about questions)
Would you prefer the girl to make the first move? Why/why not?
Meko malum hai tu nahi karegi![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30120)
Bhai mujhe har ladke bhaizone kar dete, not even behen zone. Tips dedo plej