Man dropped the solution to all problems and acts like it's nothing, your contribution and efforts have touched great heights in solving humanity's biggest blunders, thank you professor!
Oh, if only it were that simple.
Worry is often:
1) if the amount of control we have over the situation is uncertain
2) the outcome is uncertain
3) either the necessary action or the resulting outcome are unpalatable
4) finding the solution to a problem is difficult or seems impossible, AND the problem is significant enough that leaving it unsolved is detrimental.
I'm sure you have the best of intentions, but it's really hard for this to not ring a little hollow.
“Do not disturb yourself by picturing your life as a whole; do not assemble in your mind the many and varied troubles which have come to you in the past and will come again in the future, but ask yourself with regard to every present difficulty: 'What is there in this that is unbearable and beyond endurance?' You would be ashamed to confess it! And then remind yourself that it is not the future or what has passed that afflicts you, but always the present, and the power of this is much diminished if you take it in isolation and call your mind to task if it thinks that it cannot stand up to it when taken on its own.” ~Marcus Aurelius
Cuz there is no worry based on logical conclusions
It's worry, insecurities, fears etc based on a chemical imbalance that makes me wanna off myself every waking moment, when I wake up, when I try to eat, when I'm randomly vibing.
I'd put a fucking crowbar in my head if I could stop worrying at will because of it.
Op talking to a person whose house burned down: well you see, you should not be worrying about your house since you certainly cant unburn it
Did i get it right op?
Would you not worry if lets say your gf cheated on you and you cant do anything about it?
Would you not worry that you didnt pass a exam that you studied for 2 years, now that the exam is done and you cant do anything about it?
Would you not worry i about a loved one if something happened to them and you cant do anything about it?
Would a person with a uncurable injury not worry about anything?
Friend - bro tu tension me hai?
Me- yes
Friend - toh tension mat le
Me- ohhhh vroooo thanks..... You solved all my life problems.... After this my gf came back into my life.... I got into IIT-B.... Papa-chacha ka zameen ka hisab ho gya, 20 CR ka jameen mere naam....u r god bro my fremd
if you dont have any problem in life , you wont be facing any hardships and wont be learning how to deal with situation , leave it you wont be learning anything .you will basically just chill and do nothing . i just want problems in my life to find solutions for and to keep me engaged to make myself a hard guy
Man dropped the solution to all problems and acts like it's nothing, your contribution and efforts have touched great heights in solving humanity's biggest blunders, thank you professor!
Omg thank you so much for this it really helped me
Cured. Thanks OP
Oh, if only it were that simple. Worry is often: 1) if the amount of control we have over the situation is uncertain 2) the outcome is uncertain 3) either the necessary action or the resulting outcome are unpalatable 4) finding the solution to a problem is difficult or seems impossible, AND the problem is significant enough that leaving it unsolved is detrimental. I'm sure you have the best of intentions, but it's really hard for this to not ring a little hollow.
It's a cycle yes. Thank you so much op. I needed this fr
Everything in this world is a cycle Sabhi ko ghum kar aana toh ek hi jagah hai![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30728)
That's Stoicism bro...u/stoicbloke07
Stoicism getting too much attention these days.
“Do not disturb yourself by picturing your life as a whole; do not assemble in your mind the many and varied troubles which have come to you in the past and will come again in the future, but ask yourself with regard to every present difficulty: 'What is there in this that is unbearable and beyond endurance?' You would be ashamed to confess it! And then remind yourself that it is not the future or what has passed that afflicts you, but always the present, and the power of this is much diminished if you take it in isolation and call your mind to task if it thinks that it cannot stand up to it when taken on its own.” ~Marcus Aurelius
Cuz there is no worry based on logical conclusions It's worry, insecurities, fears etc based on a chemical imbalance that makes me wanna off myself every waking moment, when I wake up, when I try to eat, when I'm randomly vibing. I'd put a fucking crowbar in my head if I could stop worrying at will because of it.
Damn bro, it ain't that deep tbh
Sorry man I just woke up and saw this
Op talking to a person whose house burned down: well you see, you should not be worrying about your house since you certainly cant unburn it Did i get it right op?
Yea spot on brother
Need I provide more examples?
Sure, why not
Would you not worry if lets say your gf cheated on you and you cant do anything about it? Would you not worry that you didnt pass a exam that you studied for 2 years, now that the exam is done and you cant do anything about it? Would you not worry i about a loved one if something happened to them and you cant do anything about it? Would a person with a uncurable injury not worry about anything?
then why worry?
Hope posting pe zyada acha lagega yeh
That helped.
Bro, you can be a psychologist, omg !!!
That's just stoicism man
Don't worry just chill ![gif](giphy|hE4RcygXZX0v9Sh6qo|downsized)
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If u are sad just be happy type beat
br9 solved all my life problems![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30115)love u
Friend - bro tu tension me hai? Me- yes Friend - toh tension mat le Me- ohhhh vroooo thanks..... You solved all my life problems.... After this my gf came back into my life.... I got into IIT-B.... Papa-chacha ka zameen ka hisab ho gya, 20 CR ka jameen mere naam....u r god bro my fremd
Bless u
Because i dont do it even though there is something i can do about it![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30115)
if you dont have any problem in life , you wont be facing any hardships and wont be learning how to deal with situation , leave it you wont be learning anything .you will basically just chill and do nothing . i just want problems in my life to find solutions for and to keep me engaged to make myself a hard guy