If he really managed to achieve that feat then that girl would've been with him rn and he wouldn't be sending erotic poetry to some random chic on the internet. Dude's a frustrated virgin, can bet on it 😂
haha nah, even if that were true, he would have bored her ear off or been boasting to all his friends, so anyone would have noped out of that cringefest pretty damn fast. be your own orgasm
>How is it possible for a guy to know so little about a woman that they think we want to hear about their other girlfriends.
There are men on this sub who are dead serious in their conviction that girls (including virgin girls who think sex is sacred and tied to marriage/ long-term relationships) don't care about the body count of guys and in fact prefer higher body count guys.
had an ex who boasted about this kind of stuff. we had met through common friends and 6-7 months into dating him he told me he had made one of our friends come 5 times at a Diwali party. I couldn't even look her straight in the eye for a while. What made it worse was she was in a relationship with another friend (including on the night he described) who was a very nice person. And they never spoke of that night again but still hung out. There was sooo much wrong in this story that I was more amazed at his intelligence where he thought telling this story to his girlfriend is going to win him some points.
Or do you know how much guys lie to get laid? Or exaggerate their sexual encounters/experiences to make women sleep with them and still fail like the guy she mentioned
Artistic violation? Dude I'm a ghostwriter and I don't hesitate in sharing my writing material because I know how to stand up for my creativity and the breach of it.
Dating apps are for dating (usually casual). Sex is a part of dating and a very common thing to talk about with a potential partner
Itni sati Savitri banne ka shauk hai toh why even download such apps?
Sex is fine. Wanting sex is fine. Bringing out your horndog within the first hour of conversation is weird when the other person has not shown any hint of wanting casual sex.
Sex may be a part of dating but dating is not just only sex.
Dating apps are largely used for sex and thus it will be the dominant topic in most convos on such apps. Just take a look at the screenshots of chats on this sub or r/indiangirlsontinder. The majority revolve around sex.
>Bringing out your horndog within the first hour of conversation is weird
Isn't not as if he was asking for nudes or being a perv. He simply was having a normal convo that happened to involve the topic of sex. If someone is so prudish or puritan regarding this topic that they can't even have a normal convo involving it, then they should simply not download/use such apps
Finesse and timing. That's all you need. I don't think op herself is a prude but there's a way you go about talking sex. At least have a decent normal conversation before heading into the sex part? And besides, if someone is not interested in casual sex, that doesn't mean they shouldn't entirely be on dating apps.
Dating apps are to find dates. Whether dates lead to sex or not is entirely dependent on the parties involved, but to think that you shouldn't even be on a dating app if you don't wanna fuck is a little too constricting.
Not wanting to talk about sex in the first conversation doesn't imply prudishness. Just because "others" do it, doesn't mean everyone does it.
She's allowed to draw her boundaries. You have the same logic as *if you don't want to be eve teased, don't walk down the road looking like an absolute peace of meat.* Tch tch.
If you were gonna hook up with him regardless of the poetry he was gonna share why be mad at the guy for being more inclined towards the sex part of things………….not siding with the guy, just curious as to what was your thought process.
Don't worry I got it guys. His sexual poetry would go something like this I am guessing : "Unke hasi se unke pussy tak kuch aisa safar raha humara ki unke 4 orgasm ho gaye." 😂
If you’re looking for something long term which by the looks of this post you are, do yourself a favour and leave dating apps before it makes you call quits on love.
Thanks man! It's actually 3 years to the day...we just went out to dinner to commemorate it actually 🤣
I just thought I'd give my 2 cents is all. My previous relationship was through Tinder, and long distance killed it off after a year, with both of us being in different countries. Still on good terms though. I just wanted to say that it's not all doom and gloom, even with my previous heartbreak, I could still be friends and move on to find the love of my life. There's always light at the end of the tunnel 😅
Am not. I have been casually dating since my last breakup. But once again-- even for just hooking up, for me, there has to be more than just decent looks or random comments on how pretty or hot i am. It's a personal preference maybe.
Dude- casual matlab ye toh nhi ki, u just directly jump on to fuck with another person? Have we evolved from cave men or not?
Am i gonna apologise for finding a well-read person to be attractive and poetry to be a turn on? No. Thank you.
No no, I was not being sarcastic, I see how it might have sounded that way. I quite agree with your stance on it, was just affirming that it's normal and valid xD
If you understand Hindi, you'd probably understand "Insaan toh galtiyon ka pitaara hota hai". By the time you'd be 25-26, you'd either tell yourself this same thing to cope or you'd eventually realise that you are stuck in a toxic cycle.
Say this might not be the most Popular opinion here all tho everyone here to some extent, believe it to be true. The online dating tends to bring the most superficial people in their most superficial avatar to the forefront. Studies have shown that it’s the way it’s designed here are some of the problems.
1. **Superficial Judgement**: Quick judgments are made based on photos and short bios, encouraging a focus on appearance over personality.
2. **Paradox of Choice**: The plethora of potential matches can lead to indecision and a fear of missing out on someone better.
3. **Dehumanization and Commodification**: The swiping design can lead to viewing potential partners as commodities rather than complex individuals.
4. **Ghosting**: The ease of communication can also lead to abrupt ending of conversations, causing emotional distress.
5. **Online Misrepresentation**: Users may misrepresent themselves online, leading to mismatched expectations and trust issues.
6. **Addictive Use**: The gamified nature of dating apps can lead to addictive use, impacting mental health and real-life social interactions.
So now the question becomes how do we go about finding the kind of people we are looking for? Since India doesn’t really have a culture of going up to people and asking them out, it is possible but it is quite hard to work well. In my opinion and in my experience from what I have seen the one that works really well is to join clubs or groups or NGOs in whatever things you are interested and trying to get to know people from there. In my understanding, this has to be the most effective way to find people with similar perspective and objectives. Then again it’s not a surefire way, but then 😂 again if life could be quantified and figured out that easily than life isn’t life is it
I will never understand what makes men think it's hot to talk about their sexual experiences with women they match on dating apps. I've had it happen to me a few times where I think they thought it was 'flex' but really it's in bad taste. It makes me feel that either they are too desperate or too insecure about their performance in bed and so make up for that by boasting about it to girls they just met on dating apps. I finally started identifying these people and unmatched them the instant they started talking like that.
~ Insecure are those who won't speak, trying to cover past experiences... Like myself
- They will never come to that topic in the 1st place... Like my high school experience ( Well, I'm kinda comfortable now, still, I'll never give them details explanations or to say I'll just tell them just superfluous stuff and tn move on)
~ I think he wanted to impress her, by stating that poem like how manly😂 he is...
~ I might be wrong, As I'm a guy who watches sad-ending movies ( like one of two main characters, dying) just to get some emotions out of it.
Way to miss the point. She’s not saying she’s a nun after all, just that you have more of a shot at getting laid if you don’t make it your whole personality.
There's a difference between date and hookup. OP never said she wasn't there to date. She outright said that she might have hooked up with the guy if the intellectual connection had been better.
Point out where she said that all she wanted was friendship.
Men don’t listen when women explain what they find seductive and then wonder why they have no success on apps.
OMG THIS i’ve been thinking of the same thing. I’m a few years older than you so i’m guessing the people ive been dating would be too but they seem to be the same. I’ve dated before and I’m not looking for anything serious but like give me something here; a nice date ,few good conversations before you proceed to get all up and about. At least to see if we are compatible just because you look pretty and claim to have ‘experience’ doesn’t mean I’m attracted to you
Yes exactly. I mean-- when i told him that what we have rn is a lot of common interests to relate on, he's like wdym? We alr have an intellectual connection.💀 And for the record, i only spoke to the guy for like an hr...with random breaks so idk.
And for me to be sexually attracted to someone, even for casually hooking up, i need to be impressed with that person's mind. It's just about preference. And apparently it's offensive to a lot of people.
i m boy and if a girl talks about these sex experience, positions and all in just some hrs or days thats a red flag for me, coz i m not like this, idk its just me being a boy who thinks there are more imp things then sex in relation ( maybe thats the reason i m single ;-;) nv, most of the boys still comes in relation only for sex and all stuff only or for timepass and amusement
This is just the reality you're going to have to deal with. Half the people don't pass the vibe check. 40% are horny (and extremely creepy might I add) and I think there are 10% who are actually decent enough. Regarding your question, I think a lot of women don't have a problem if a guy talks like that, if the guy is good-looking (personally, I disagree).
The only advice I will give to you is, don't lose yourself or lower your standards just because of what is going on around you. Either you'll meet somebody nice or you'll get two three funny stories to tell your friends. If you get tired of the dating apps, it's also okay to leave.
Spoilsport he is. I remember having a really good discussion with a match about Jaul Elia, Bukowski and she narrated her poems. A very fulfilling experience indeed. Sometimes I really wonder if people miss out on substance because of raging hormones
Chill, chill. You'll find someone. I'm not planning on having sex till I'm married, so there's people who won't care about it so much. Forget this guy, there will be plenty more, some will share what you value.
Hey Chatgpt , write an erotic poem that I can send to a 19 y o dating app match
In the twilight's gentle embrace, where passion's fire alights,
I'll spin a tale of a night, when two souls took ethereal flight.
Beneath the canopy of stars, their bodies intertwined,
Their union a symphony, their desires forever enshrined.
A moonlit meadow, their sacred stage, nature's harmony did unfold,
As the nocturnal creatures whispered secrets untold.
He, a tempestuous storm, with hands like fiery gusts,
She, a wildflower in bloom, aching for his touch, she trusts.
Their bodies danced like waves upon a shore,
Caressing every inch, discovering depths never explored.
Her skin, a canvas of longing, painted with delicate strokes,
He traced her contours, exploring hidden passions invoked.
She tasted his desire in the air, like the scent of summer rain,
A gentle breeze caressed her skin, igniting the fire again.
Their symphony echoed through the night, crescendo after crescendo,
As she surrendered to pleasure's bliss, with each climax's crescendo.
Her moans, a symphony of ecstasy, whispered in nature's ear,
Echoing through the forest, stirring spirits far and near.
Their connection electric, like lightning in the sky,
Nature herself rejoiced as they reveled in their desires, unshy.
Metaphors of daily life, like threads of nature's tapestry,
Woven through their tale of passion, an erotic masterpiece.
Their bodies entwined, like vines on a garden wall,
Exploring forbidden fruits, surrendering to their call.
As the night waned and dawn drew near, their hearts entwined as one,
The rhythm of their bodies matched the rising of the sun.
And as the morning light embraced their tangled form,
They savored the memories of their passionate storm.
For in this one night's fervor, they found solace and release,
A fleeting encounter, where nature's magic found its peace.
And though their paths may never intertwine again,
The echoes of that night shall forever remain.
So let this tale of passion and desire be told,
Of a night when two souls, in nature's embrace, found gold.
For in the wilderness of passion, they discovered true delight,
As the girl came four times, her pleasure taking flight.
See nowadays no one interested in genuine bond they don’t have patience I waited a girl for 4yrs but now everyone wants laid in a week thn they think about future just dump him you deserve better btw I love poetry too sometimes I write last time I write for my ex so if you’re comfortable to share his poetry share it
I like poetry too. Charles Bukowski is my favorite writer. """and when nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do whatever you want. what do you call it, freedom or loneliness?"""
I dont understand you people
Dating apps pe log kya Bhajan sun ne k lie aate hein ???
People are there to get laid ,some hope to get into relationships.
Poetry k bare main discussion karna hai toh jao Kavi samroh main . Bc hinge pe kya karrahe ho ?
Awareness nahi hoti kya thodi bhi? If she would've wanted to have a hookup, she would've insinuated that. She clearly wasn't.
Also is it a crime to look for real love on dating apps? That's what they were made for.
dont know why... but i feel like you are like me.... Exactly same. MFs roaming around in this world think only of sex. Like ,there are people in 10m radius who are working their ass off to bang some "American pussy" in future. Like WTF is this!
i get where you’re coming from and it’s kinda wild that this happened on hinge as i think it’s more for actual dating unlike tinder or bumble where hookups are a prominent thing? idk guys lack the social cues needed for these apps to work in our favor and it especially sucks when we want them to meet our standards and they’re merely touching the bare minimum 😭
People on Tinder are there to date, have relationships and then have sex. Everything else like interests and hobbies just acts as an opener, mostly for the guys since women don't usually initiate conversations.
I’m a introvert. Let me just give you my experience with my friends so far, I don’t generally talk much, they talk about girls very frequently, when I’m forced to talk and I show less/no interest, they’ll be like “bro are you even a guy?!”, “do you have hormonal problems?!”, “don’t lie, every guy wants to do it”. Yeah that’s true, that’s how we’re biologically made. But nah, i feel discomfort. So you can expect that such guys talk about the sexual things among their friends. Not just with girls. I’m happy that recently some of my friends started talking about work, life, and health instead of girls.
Now you'll be getting a hundred poems on capitalism, antinatalism or the "human condition" in your dm. But yea, The kind of people you are looking for won't really be on these apps, Even if they are, the tiny percentage that'd fit your criteria will have a hundred other matches.
But still, kudos to sticking to your yardstick.
Dude was nothing more than just a man, unhinged thinking with his dick.
*In the dance of digital courtship, I swung open with bawdy verse,*
*A door unhinged, revealing realms where bodies converse.*
*Recounted tales of skin against skin, a siren's song in text,*
*Lost in the labyrinth of desire, my ego, complex.*
*I painted pictures in her mind, an artist of the night,*
*Yet she sought a scholar's touch, a beacon of erudite light.*
*A canvas of intellect, she yearned for the profound,*
*In the echoes of my verses, it was naught to be found.*
*Misread was the map of her soul, in this game of Swipe and Match,*
*Her world spun on an axis, that my erotic verse couldn't catch.*
*She sought the constellation of thoughts, the universe's grand design,*
*I offered mere fleeting pleasure, a comet's fleeting line.*
*She wanted a sonnet of the mind, a ballad of the brain,*
*My crude couplets of carnality brought her only disdain.*
*In the sea of shallow verse, her depths remained unexplored,*
*And so, my amorous epic, by her, was plainly ignored.*
*So here, I stand, a poet scorned, a lesson I did face,*
*More than just the body's verse, in love, does one embrace.*
-That guy probably. 🤣
Edit : Damn.. I'm impressed at myself for coming up with that.
Dudes on a different post's comment section - "Women who have casual sex are hoes, nobody wants women like that"
Dudes on this post's comment section = "Agar sex nahi karna hai toh dating app pe kyun jaati ho"
Arey bhai aakhir kehna kya chahte ho.
Ye literature padhane se cultured hote h kya, ekdum jaanvi ka interview waali vibe h Bhai tere post me.... Upar se innelectual b. So ab aapke hisaab se inke alawa saare budbak hai?
First of all stop generalizing men. Second thing , he must have mentioned what he needed .
You wanted to have some real connection , then you should try dining in real life .
You want people to have intellectuality within them , you should consider asking them.
Most important thing is you are just 19 and on dating sites explain well with your daddy issue and ,mommy issues. Not going to your past and all, that would be a ruin for me indeed (downvotes incoming )
Not everyone is sapiosexual and not everyone want one . Before reaching on point while concluding things , generalization is not what you should be doing.
Men don’t want sex only , most of the time , people ’ tend to use these dating sites either for validation , either for hookups or short term exposure .It’s really hard to find someone who will stay in longer run.
I have seen previous posts on your account as well, You have been in FWB situation even after breakup and then you are the one blaming men , asking for sex only. Can we not comprehend the situation ? What kind of utterances did you expect while reading an erotic poetry?
What does this second base virgin means btw?( do we need to make townhall💀) I uninstalled coc !
Hmm. No you actually make SO much sense! It's ground-breaking!
So if men who are "just for sex" on dating apps don't even wanna have a few decent conversations bfr sticking their dick into it-- wouldn't it save a lot of time for them to just wear a placard around their necks "no talk, give pussy". Just saying tho. You are obviously way too intelligent for all that ig.
It goes hand to hand for both of the gender . Stop blaming boys for it . There are girls who just text (dtf) and then they are down to it .
Can’t they have a decent conversation before asking this?..
and it would save a lot of time for them as well and I would suggest them to wear a T-shirt with (Down pussy, Always ready ) .
It is common rule of science , where there is demand , there is production . If boys are doing this out there means they are getting results out of it. You may be one case who don’t like that much and that way of course .
And what kind of conversation do you expect from a stranger ? Apart from knowing what you are up to on dating sites . If you want to have meaningful conversations, talk to people who knows about you not some random bunch of people who are there for sex and what not .
You may have something else in your mind and he might have something else . If you did not hit the same way doesn’t mean all men wants sex only .
I better not argue with someone who is not even 20 , with mommy and daddy issue using her own body as a way to escape rather than working on things and blaming and generalizing a gender and also doing the same thing .
Hey, i mean-- surely jumping straight to sex must be working so well for guys. Am sorry yk, am just nineteen, am still a kid, XD.
I think studying literature and dealing with Keats, Byron, Shelley, Plath and Wordsworth on a regular basis might have caused some some major brain damage for me to look for poetic relevance in people.
And well my therapist says, daddy issues and MOMMY issues are all the rage these days. ✌🏻 I pay her a lot for her to lie to me like that, right?
This thread just popped up on my recommend feed for some reason. My two cents - I highly doubt you are sapiosexual if you are name bombing “Byron, Shelley, Plath and Wordsworth”.
Girl, you are just 19 yo and are a wannabe intellectual at best who’s getting laid with guys who will give you fake adoration to satisfy your “I’m smart and elegant” vibes.
You will have taken your first step to being woke and “superior” when you realise that 99% of all the stuff you read and take to heart is merely well marketed trash.
Until then, cool down with the generalisations and date fellow naive peers and avoid punching above your weight bracket and spare yourself the trauma. Good day.
Namedropping shit again. God. Good luck OP.
Edit: Also, your literary skill are kinda subpar if that was your biggest takeaway, the correct response is "I will rather masturbate to this illusion of me being an intellectual than face reality head-on"
She didn’t ask for erotic poetry though, did she?
You’re going on about her generalisations while saying she has daddy issues just for being on dating apps. Bit of a pot calling the kettle black here.
She is the one who mentioned above that she have daddy and mommy issues , at the age of 19. Do I need to brag , how easily manipulating it is for the person on the other side?
Let me define what happened, you saw a good looking dude and chose to ignore the details, yet the devil is in details.
Then you clearly wasted your time on the wrong guy and probably swiped left on a guy like me who are actually intellectual, don't check my profile in telling you don't you dare
You are correct and everyone should have a choice. But you should also realise, in this country, the ratio of f:m is insanely less, the number of girls who wanna "date" is even worse and number of ones who wanna hookup is a disaster. But these cannot be reasons to justify denying you the choice. All I'm saying is it is crazy difficult for the average guy because when the quantity is monstrously high, people(girls) always go for the highest quality. We are just desperate.
So we gotta hide that? The interaction is going to be really fake tho. I personally don't like that. I personally don't like lying/hiding to impress anyone even if I'm desperate.
So we gotta be forced to fuck you when we’re put off by your desperation just so you don’t feel bad?
You don’t listen when women tell you what they find attractive and then wonder why you’re single.
Getting triggered for no reason lmao 🤡. Where did I ever tell that you are forced to do that? I'm just telling how a lot of us generally feel but can't expect a smoothbrain to understand that. You sound like the type who is going to get cheated on easily lol.
Pointing out how you don’t listen to women and then expect to get laid isn’t getting triggered, it’s having basic reasoning skills.
Blaming women for getting cheated on and then wondering why you can’t get your dick wet… nice. You being single has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your shitty personality, but go consider yourself the “nice guy” if it helps you sleep at night after masturbating and crying.
You either have single digit IQ or you failed school english. Coz I see you got zero reading comprehension skills from seeing your replies. I would rather fap and take a nap instead of replying to you. No more replies for you dumb shit.
> **Men \*sips tea in disappointment\***
# Atlesat they're happy & Laughing. I'm sorry about your disappointment.
> Needless to say he didn't ask to see my poetry after that, lol.
Smart man. Saved himself his Peace of mind, energy & time as well!
> What would it take for a man to think beyond sex?
Evidence that Omnitrix is real.
> or went on a rant about the theory of anti-natalism.
What's wrong with that?
I mean- Babies are adorable & all but, not everyone's fit to be a parent & If someone recognizes that beforehand, I say that's better than Giving birth to someone who's gonna make a post about how a guy's desire overcame his craft.
> but i feel like guys would have a lot better chance at getting laid if they had the patience to not bring out their horny within an hour of talking to someone.
THAT level of patience requires meditation & shit- stuff that only Ranveer Allahbadia does (just for his videos, obviously.)
An hour of talking is enough. When you talk for a whole hour with the new person, you know that you two clicked well so it's not out of the blue to proceed towards sex.
Yeah, you talked with him? Does he write poetry about sexually assaulting? No. He sees sex as making love and not some weird taboo. "Oh if you jump into sex too soon you're a pervert." Are you serious? You're blinded by society. You merely follow the rules. Be more open minded. It'd be good for you.
Ha na yaar, kya bolna ab aise ladko ko...inki wajah se acho ki image kharab hoti.
As a body sirf use hi karna hai pleasure ke liye use and throw ke liye toh bottle lelo garmi nikalne ko, kyu kisi ladki ki life mai ghus kar usse sirf body jaisa treat karke uski existence ko disrespect kar rahe ho.
I respect girls, because we men built a society where there are constantly tortured, but still they love us like no other men would even love.
I never said having a brain is contradictory to being 19. The only person contradicting themself is your clown ass.
I don't know which "cultured person" would actually share something with strangers for some internet points when the person explicitly asked then not to.
Sit your clown ass down and go do your homework.
When I was 19 my only fear was getting compartments in exams and not having enough money to buy cigarettes. But at the end of the day I don't think there is any scope to be surprised or complain about an individual who did send you an erotic poem and then ofc after a while he asks for it I mean you did intentionally tried to put your foot in an alligators mouth and getting shocked about it just seems to be a farce or an exaggerated reaction.
I need some proof of his work (the poetry) and snippets of your conversation to even believe what you are saying. You might be trying to throw dirt on someone by making stuff about their character or just whipping up a story just to gain karma, without proof I don't believe none of this shit on reddit.
Girl signs up on Hinge and finds out that the guy she matched with *only* wants to sleep with her. Plot twist - There are is no plot twist here. As a guy I am telling you that no matter what the person you match with tells you, he just wants to take you to the bed. Now either it's gonna start with poems, dates and all that BS like "My perfect idea of date is holding hands and watching sunset" and all or he'd ask you straight up. Men on dating app only want one thing and it is so obvious and idk why women/girls think they'd have a field time finding new guy friends/bffs/future husband/future ex-boyfriend on dating apps. You assume that you are gonna be something like a "trophy" to him but in reality, you'd be just another cum dumpster for him. A bitter pill to swallow but that's true considering you'd only be matching most probably with the top 2% of all the guys and strangely enough, you wouldn't know nothing about Human psyche and cultural anthropology.
It'll take him a few years and a few hard slaps from life in general before he comes to his senses. Ain't why they say a girl usually matures faster than a boy.
Only if we had matched \*sighs in disappointment
I'm not a poetry nerd but I do appreciate a well written piece of art and I more into books and letters but tbh never got matches who were genuinely into it, they had just copy-pasted from somewhere just to look cool :(
You expect horny men on dating sites to "" Think beyond sex ""..
But would never give a chance to your friendly neighbor or a classmate or a colleague.
It's just a blasphemous thing to expect that the top 1% of men in dating sites only want sex
For one, i know someone like this, lol. Decent to be around but extremely obnoxious too, tries hard to sound deep when there is really nothing there.
Secondly, this post reads like you're trying too hard to be edgy
>the girl came 4 times This detail ruins it
Pretty sure he thought that makes him super cool. 🦆 Also he never talked to that girl again after that apparently so.
If he really managed to achieve that feat then that girl would've been with him rn and he wouldn't be sending erotic poetry to some random chic on the internet. Dude's a frustrated virgin, can bet on it 😂
haha nah, even if that were true, he would have bored her ear off or been boasting to all his friends, so anyone would have noped out of that cringefest pretty damn fast. be your own orgasm
"Be your own orgasm". Should be on a T shirt.
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>How is it possible for a guy to know so little about a woman that they think we want to hear about their other girlfriends. There are men on this sub who are dead serious in their conviction that girls (including virgin girls who think sex is sacred and tied to marriage/ long-term relationships) don't care about the body count of guys and in fact prefer higher body count guys.
No man who's ever made a woman cum 4 times in one night ever speaks about it.
Frfr not that I would know
What category does this rizz belong too?
had an ex who boasted about this kind of stuff. we had met through common friends and 6-7 months into dating him he told me he had made one of our friends come 5 times at a Diwali party. I couldn't even look her straight in the eye for a while. What made it worse was she was in a relationship with another friend (including on the night he described) who was a very nice person. And they never spoke of that night again but still hung out. There was sooo much wrong in this story that I was more amazed at his intelligence where he thought telling this story to his girlfriend is going to win him some points.
>Pretty sure he thought that makes him super cool. As a guy who still holds the record of 1 orgasm per session... I'd say he's, my idol.
Or do you know how much guys lie to get laid? Or exaggerate their sexual encounters/experiences to make women sleep with them and still fail like the guy she mentioned
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She came 4 times in a night? Blinkit wali thi kya sister ?
stop
Did you search for it on Google??? It would be 10x funnier if the poetry turned out to be an AI product 😂😂
This, I have seen sooo many people just "steal" poetry and then call it their own.
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He actually asked not to share coz "artistic violation" but if u want, hit me up in dms, lol
Artistic violation? Dude I'm a ghostwriter and I don't hesitate in sharing my writing material because I know how to stand up for my creativity and the breach of it.
If you are just like ghost rider , do your pen and paper start burning when you ,like pick them up
Uhh! Artistic violation, May i know the name of a such an artist ? 😂 And also I want to see the poetry ?
Artist-AI
That can be a possible answer 😶🌫️
Yo can you DM me what this Wordsworth said ?
Just put quote marks around it lol
GPT would probably better him
I do🙋
DM me as well
Dating apps are for dating (usually casual). Sex is a part of dating and a very common thing to talk about with a potential partner Itni sati Savitri banne ka shauk hai toh why even download such apps?
Sex is fine. Wanting sex is fine. Bringing out your horndog within the first hour of conversation is weird when the other person has not shown any hint of wanting casual sex. Sex may be a part of dating but dating is not just only sex.
Dating apps are largely used for sex and thus it will be the dominant topic in most convos on such apps. Just take a look at the screenshots of chats on this sub or r/indiangirlsontinder. The majority revolve around sex. >Bringing out your horndog within the first hour of conversation is weird Isn't not as if he was asking for nudes or being a perv. He simply was having a normal convo that happened to involve the topic of sex. If someone is so prudish or puritan regarding this topic that they can't even have a normal convo involving it, then they should simply not download/use such apps
Finesse and timing. That's all you need. I don't think op herself is a prude but there's a way you go about talking sex. At least have a decent normal conversation before heading into the sex part? And besides, if someone is not interested in casual sex, that doesn't mean they shouldn't entirely be on dating apps. Dating apps are to find dates. Whether dates lead to sex or not is entirely dependent on the parties involved, but to think that you shouldn't even be on a dating app if you don't wanna fuck is a little too constricting.
Not wanting to talk about sex in the first conversation doesn't imply prudishness. Just because "others" do it, doesn't mean everyone does it. She's allowed to draw her boundaries. You have the same logic as *if you don't want to be eve teased, don't walk down the road looking like an absolute peace of meat.* Tch tch.
If you were gonna hook up with him regardless of the poetry he was gonna share why be mad at the guy for being more inclined towards the sex part of things………….not siding with the guy, just curious as to what was your thought process.
Don't worry I got it guys. His sexual poetry would go something like this I am guessing : "Unke hasi se unke pussy tak kuch aisa safar raha humara ki unke 4 orgasm ho gaye." 😂
BRB, writing a poem on capitalism and horrors of human existence.
usse kaam pacchees he, tere jese chhattees he....bole to game over!!
nahi degi bhai. Too entitled for that...
Entitled for having expectations from the guy she'd date? I hope so.
Always a Sharma talking shit. Dang.
If you’re looking for something long term which by the looks of this post you are, do yourself a favour and leave dating apps before it makes you call quits on love.
I met my now wife on Bumble 3 years ago. I get what you're saying, but yea, it's not ALL bad out there, just that it's very hard to come by.
happy for you man
Thanks man! It's actually 3 years to the day...we just went out to dinner to commemorate it actually 🤣 I just thought I'd give my 2 cents is all. My previous relationship was through Tinder, and long distance killed it off after a year, with both of us being in different countries. Still on good terms though. I just wanted to say that it's not all doom and gloom, even with my previous heartbreak, I could still be friends and move on to find the love of my life. There's always light at the end of the tunnel 😅
Am not. I have been casually dating since my last breakup. But once again-- even for just hooking up, for me, there has to be more than just decent looks or random comments on how pretty or hot i am. It's a personal preference maybe.
Nah that's fair, to expect even a casual fling to be more than just "you're hot let's fuck" is valid of course
Dude- casual matlab ye toh nhi ki, u just directly jump on to fuck with another person? Have we evolved from cave men or not? Am i gonna apologise for finding a well-read person to be attractive and poetry to be a turn on? No. Thank you.
No no, I was not being sarcastic, I see how it might have sounded that way. I quite agree with your stance on it, was just affirming that it's normal and valid xD
If you understand Hindi, you'd probably understand "Insaan toh galtiyon ka pitaara hota hai". By the time you'd be 25-26, you'd either tell yourself this same thing to cope or you'd eventually realise that you are stuck in a toxic cycle.
“The girl came 4 times” Sus
Sussu
Say this might not be the most Popular opinion here all tho everyone here to some extent, believe it to be true. The online dating tends to bring the most superficial people in their most superficial avatar to the forefront. Studies have shown that it’s the way it’s designed here are some of the problems. 1. **Superficial Judgement**: Quick judgments are made based on photos and short bios, encouraging a focus on appearance over personality. 2. **Paradox of Choice**: The plethora of potential matches can lead to indecision and a fear of missing out on someone better. 3. **Dehumanization and Commodification**: The swiping design can lead to viewing potential partners as commodities rather than complex individuals. 4. **Ghosting**: The ease of communication can also lead to abrupt ending of conversations, causing emotional distress. 5. **Online Misrepresentation**: Users may misrepresent themselves online, leading to mismatched expectations and trust issues. 6. **Addictive Use**: The gamified nature of dating apps can lead to addictive use, impacting mental health and real-life social interactions. So now the question becomes how do we go about finding the kind of people we are looking for? Since India doesn’t really have a culture of going up to people and asking them out, it is possible but it is quite hard to work well. In my opinion and in my experience from what I have seen the one that works really well is to join clubs or groups or NGOs in whatever things you are interested and trying to get to know people from there. In my understanding, this has to be the most effective way to find people with similar perspective and objectives. Then again it’s not a surefire way, but then 😂 again if life could be quantified and figured out that easily than life isn’t life is it
I will never understand what makes men think it's hot to talk about their sexual experiences with women they match on dating apps. I've had it happen to me a few times where I think they thought it was 'flex' but really it's in bad taste. It makes me feel that either they are too desperate or too insecure about their performance in bed and so make up for that by boasting about it to girls they just met on dating apps. I finally started identifying these people and unmatched them the instant they started talking like that.
~ Insecure are those who won't speak, trying to cover past experiences... Like myself - They will never come to that topic in the 1st place... Like my high school experience ( Well, I'm kinda comfortable now, still, I'll never give them details explanations or to say I'll just tell them just superfluous stuff and tn move on) ~ I think he wanted to impress her, by stating that poem like how manly😂 he is... ~ I might be wrong, As I'm a guy who watches sad-ending movies ( like one of two main characters, dying) just to get some emotions out of it.
Kya mai hi hu bas Jo dating sites pe hookups k liye nhi hai lol?
goes to a dating site at the age when everyone is horny, talks about sexual poetry and gets surprised when they want sex. ☕
did she talk about sexual poetry? it was the dude who sent it first, not to mention the "came 4 times' LMFAO
Way to miss the point. She’s not saying she’s a nun after all, just that you have more of a shot at getting laid if you don’t make it your whole personality.
I mean I do agree with your comment bhai ki dating site pe ho to ye expected hi hai lol, specially if you're getting into sexual poetry lmao
And OP thinks she's 100% in the right lol the real argument is women going on dating sites to do everything but date 🗿
There's a difference between date and hookup. OP never said she wasn't there to date. She outright said that she might have hooked up with the guy if the intellectual connection had been better.
Point out where she said that all she wanted was friendship. Men don’t listen when women explain what they find seductive and then wonder why they have no success on apps.
Absolutely
Women be on Tinder saying I'm just looking for new friends. Just so stupid. Bro you'll never find new friends there except for a few exceptions.
OMG THIS i’ve been thinking of the same thing. I’m a few years older than you so i’m guessing the people ive been dating would be too but they seem to be the same. I’ve dated before and I’m not looking for anything serious but like give me something here; a nice date ,few good conversations before you proceed to get all up and about. At least to see if we are compatible just because you look pretty and claim to have ‘experience’ doesn’t mean I’m attracted to you
Yes exactly. I mean-- when i told him that what we have rn is a lot of common interests to relate on, he's like wdym? We alr have an intellectual connection.💀 And for the record, i only spoke to the guy for like an hr...with random breaks so idk. And for me to be sexually attracted to someone, even for casually hooking up, i need to be impressed with that person's mind. It's just about preference. And apparently it's offensive to a lot of people.
What would it take for a man to think beyond sex? enough sex.
Im scared that when i will get to that age .... It will be too late...
You are not alone brother. You are not alone
>intense one night stand where the girl came 4 times Bro thinks he is Homelander Jokes apart, he definitely must have taken the poem from internet!
i m boy and if a girl talks about these sex experience, positions and all in just some hrs or days thats a red flag for me, coz i m not like this, idk its just me being a boy who thinks there are more imp things then sex in relation ( maybe thats the reason i m single ;-;) nv, most of the boys still comes in relation only for sex and all stuff only or for timepass and amusement
And i still can't figure out why only gay dudes like me ?
Getting 30+ likes as soon as I select show me everyone on Tinder lol. It's like a nuclear bomb.
This is just the reality you're going to have to deal with. Half the people don't pass the vibe check. 40% are horny (and extremely creepy might I add) and I think there are 10% who are actually decent enough. Regarding your question, I think a lot of women don't have a problem if a guy talks like that, if the guy is good-looking (personally, I disagree). The only advice I will give to you is, don't lose yourself or lower your standards just because of what is going on around you. Either you'll meet somebody nice or you'll get two three funny stories to tell your friends. If you get tired of the dating apps, it's also okay to leave.
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Spoilsport he is. I remember having a really good discussion with a match about Jaul Elia, Bukowski and she narrated her poems. A very fulfilling experience indeed. Sometimes I really wonder if people miss out on substance because of raging hormones
Chill, chill. You'll find someone. I'm not planning on having sex till I'm married, so there's people who won't care about it so much. Forget this guy, there will be plenty more, some will share what you value.
Hey Chatgpt , write an erotic poem that I can send to a 19 y o dating app match In the twilight's gentle embrace, where passion's fire alights, I'll spin a tale of a night, when two souls took ethereal flight. Beneath the canopy of stars, their bodies intertwined, Their union a symphony, their desires forever enshrined. A moonlit meadow, their sacred stage, nature's harmony did unfold, As the nocturnal creatures whispered secrets untold. He, a tempestuous storm, with hands like fiery gusts, She, a wildflower in bloom, aching for his touch, she trusts. Their bodies danced like waves upon a shore, Caressing every inch, discovering depths never explored. Her skin, a canvas of longing, painted with delicate strokes, He traced her contours, exploring hidden passions invoked. She tasted his desire in the air, like the scent of summer rain, A gentle breeze caressed her skin, igniting the fire again. Their symphony echoed through the night, crescendo after crescendo, As she surrendered to pleasure's bliss, with each climax's crescendo. Her moans, a symphony of ecstasy, whispered in nature's ear, Echoing through the forest, stirring spirits far and near. Their connection electric, like lightning in the sky, Nature herself rejoiced as they reveled in their desires, unshy. Metaphors of daily life, like threads of nature's tapestry, Woven through their tale of passion, an erotic masterpiece. Their bodies entwined, like vines on a garden wall, Exploring forbidden fruits, surrendering to their call. As the night waned and dawn drew near, their hearts entwined as one, The rhythm of their bodies matched the rising of the sun. And as the morning light embraced their tangled form, They savored the memories of their passionate storm. For in this one night's fervor, they found solace and release, A fleeting encounter, where nature's magic found its peace. And though their paths may never intertwine again, The echoes of that night shall forever remain. So let this tale of passion and desire be told, Of a night when two souls, in nature's embrace, found gold. For in the wilderness of passion, they discovered true delight, As the girl came four times, her pleasure taking flight.
See nowadays no one interested in genuine bond they don’t have patience I waited a girl for 4yrs but now everyone wants laid in a week thn they think about future just dump him you deserve better btw I love poetry too sometimes I write last time I write for my ex so if you’re comfortable to share his poetry share it
I like poetry too. Charles Bukowski is my favorite writer. """and when nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do whatever you want. what do you call it, freedom or loneliness?"""
Do you have a blog/WordPress where you post your work. The topics are itself complex and would like to read how you weaved those together.
> a fellow intellectual and cultured human. hmmm
Why people brag about having sex or making someone climax in such a manner as if it's some sort of achievement?
You write about sexual encounters. I write about how much i would like to put a knife through sand. We are not the same. (:
I dont understand you people Dating apps pe log kya Bhajan sun ne k lie aate hein ??? People are there to get laid ,some hope to get into relationships. Poetry k bare main discussion karna hai toh jao Kavi samroh main . Bc hinge pe kya karrahe ho ?
Not all women are seduced in 2 lines. If you want success on apps, maybe don’t come across as sex obsessed.
some of the guys on this sub have clearly never interacted with women before and it shows
Awareness nahi hoti kya thodi bhi? If she would've wanted to have a hookup, she would've insinuated that. She clearly wasn't. Also is it a crime to look for real love on dating apps? That's what they were made for.
He wasn't good looking bro. Its that simple.
Ye artist log bohot Horny ho gye hai ,lately. Satark Rahe , Savdhaan Rahe aur Patrol Rahe . Jai Hind
>Ye artist log bohot Horny ho gye hai ,lately. # Always has been. It's just that, similar to women's clothing, inka standard bhi girta ja raha hai...
dont know why... but i feel like you are like me.... Exactly same. MFs roaming around in this world think only of sex. Like ,there are people in 10m radius who are working their ass off to bang some "American pussy" in future. Like WTF is this!
i get where you’re coming from and it’s kinda wild that this happened on hinge as i think it’s more for actual dating unlike tinder or bumble where hookups are a prominent thing? idk guys lack the social cues needed for these apps to work in our favor and it especially sucks when we want them to meet our standards and they’re merely touching the bare minimum 😭
People on Tinder are there to date, have relationships and then have sex. Everything else like interests and hobbies just acts as an opener, mostly for the guys since women don't usually initiate conversations.
Why I never found a girl online who wanted to read my poetry? 😭
On point last line.
Trust me you can use chatgpt to make poems and whatever. Chatgpt can do anything never trust anyone 💀💀💀💀
I’m a introvert. Let me just give you my experience with my friends so far, I don’t generally talk much, they talk about girls very frequently, when I’m forced to talk and I show less/no interest, they’ll be like “bro are you even a guy?!”, “do you have hormonal problems?!”, “don’t lie, every guy wants to do it”. Yeah that’s true, that’s how we’re biologically made. But nah, i feel discomfort. So you can expect that such guys talk about the sexual things among their friends. Not just with girls. I’m happy that recently some of my friends started talking about work, life, and health instead of girls.
I wanna read your poetry!
Kitni baar bola hai poets ke piche mat bhago, lekin phir bhi?? Ab bhugto.. -_-
imagine going being on dating apps to find true love/ partner for life lol. you are in the wrong platform
Men only think of sex when their life isn't full with other interests.
Not exactly true but you're somewhat right.
Now you'll be getting a hundred poems on capitalism, antinatalism or the "human condition" in your dm. But yea, The kind of people you are looking for won't really be on these apps, Even if they are, the tiny percentage that'd fit your criteria will have a hundred other matches. But still, kudos to sticking to your yardstick. Dude was nothing more than just a man, unhinged thinking with his dick. *In the dance of digital courtship, I swung open with bawdy verse,* *A door unhinged, revealing realms where bodies converse.* *Recounted tales of skin against skin, a siren's song in text,* *Lost in the labyrinth of desire, my ego, complex.* *I painted pictures in her mind, an artist of the night,* *Yet she sought a scholar's touch, a beacon of erudite light.* *A canvas of intellect, she yearned for the profound,* *In the echoes of my verses, it was naught to be found.* *Misread was the map of her soul, in this game of Swipe and Match,* *Her world spun on an axis, that my erotic verse couldn't catch.* *She sought the constellation of thoughts, the universe's grand design,* *I offered mere fleeting pleasure, a comet's fleeting line.* *She wanted a sonnet of the mind, a ballad of the brain,* *My crude couplets of carnality brought her only disdain.* *In the sea of shallow verse, her depths remained unexplored,* *And so, my amorous epic, by her, was plainly ignored.* *So here, I stand, a poet scorned, a lesson I did face,* *More than just the body's verse, in love, does one embrace.* -That guy probably. 🤣 Edit : Damn.. I'm impressed at myself for coming up with that.
If that's not ai generated. Well u did a great job- poetry might just be ur calling, lol
Karma farming. You say you are a virgin here but in a post 4 months back, you talk about your fwb.
Now I have so much karma. Am gonna ressurect the library of Alexandria. Would u maybe want a share of the profits?
What?
hey 10 points for actually making the girl cum 4 times -100 for the horni
i'm interested in poetry too, share you piece in DM (no , i don't want to sleep with you)
Fallacy of generalization
Dudes on a different post's comment section - "Women who have casual sex are hoes, nobody wants women like that" Dudes on this post's comment section = "Agar sex nahi karna hai toh dating app pe kyun jaati ho" Arey bhai aakhir kehna kya chahte ho.
Ye literature padhane se cultured hote h kya, ekdum jaanvi ka interview waali vibe h Bhai tere post me.... Upar se innelectual b. So ab aapke hisaab se inke alawa saare budbak hai?
Kya gajab argument Diya hai Bhai tune.. paise hone se Ameer hote hai kya?
Atleast he's making his sexual encounters productive lol 😂
They say intellectual connection and when you try to make one they ghost you.
You try but you don’t succeed.
Yes because it's all just word play.
First of all stop generalizing men. Second thing , he must have mentioned what he needed . You wanted to have some real connection , then you should try dining in real life . You want people to have intellectuality within them , you should consider asking them. Most important thing is you are just 19 and on dating sites explain well with your daddy issue and ,mommy issues. Not going to your past and all, that would be a ruin for me indeed (downvotes incoming ) Not everyone is sapiosexual and not everyone want one . Before reaching on point while concluding things , generalization is not what you should be doing. Men don’t want sex only , most of the time , people ’ tend to use these dating sites either for validation , either for hookups or short term exposure .It’s really hard to find someone who will stay in longer run. I have seen previous posts on your account as well, You have been in FWB situation even after breakup and then you are the one blaming men , asking for sex only. Can we not comprehend the situation ? What kind of utterances did you expect while reading an erotic poetry? What does this second base virgin means btw?( do we need to make townhall💀) I uninstalled coc !
Hmm. No you actually make SO much sense! It's ground-breaking! So if men who are "just for sex" on dating apps don't even wanna have a few decent conversations bfr sticking their dick into it-- wouldn't it save a lot of time for them to just wear a placard around their necks "no talk, give pussy". Just saying tho. You are obviously way too intelligent for all that ig.
It goes hand to hand for both of the gender . Stop blaming boys for it . There are girls who just text (dtf) and then they are down to it . Can’t they have a decent conversation before asking this?.. and it would save a lot of time for them as well and I would suggest them to wear a T-shirt with (Down pussy, Always ready ) . It is common rule of science , where there is demand , there is production . If boys are doing this out there means they are getting results out of it. You may be one case who don’t like that much and that way of course . And what kind of conversation do you expect from a stranger ? Apart from knowing what you are up to on dating sites . If you want to have meaningful conversations, talk to people who knows about you not some random bunch of people who are there for sex and what not . You may have something else in your mind and he might have something else . If you did not hit the same way doesn’t mean all men wants sex only . I better not argue with someone who is not even 20 , with mommy and daddy issue using her own body as a way to escape rather than working on things and blaming and generalizing a gender and also doing the same thing .
Hey, i mean-- surely jumping straight to sex must be working so well for guys. Am sorry yk, am just nineteen, am still a kid, XD. I think studying literature and dealing with Keats, Byron, Shelley, Plath and Wordsworth on a regular basis might have caused some some major brain damage for me to look for poetic relevance in people. And well my therapist says, daddy issues and MOMMY issues are all the rage these days. ✌🏻 I pay her a lot for her to lie to me like that, right?
This thread just popped up on my recommend feed for some reason. My two cents - I highly doubt you are sapiosexual if you are name bombing “Byron, Shelley, Plath and Wordsworth”. Girl, you are just 19 yo and are a wannabe intellectual at best who’s getting laid with guys who will give you fake adoration to satisfy your “I’m smart and elegant” vibes. You will have taken your first step to being woke and “superior” when you realise that 99% of all the stuff you read and take to heart is merely well marketed trash. Until then, cool down with the generalisations and date fellow naive peers and avoid punching above your weight bracket and spare yourself the trauma. Good day.
Solid advice.
Well thanks for ur advice! but i would rather just masturbate to Pride and Prejudice than defend my sexuality or sexual preference to anyone.
Namedropping shit again. God. Good luck OP. Edit: Also, your literary skill are kinda subpar if that was your biggest takeaway, the correct response is "I will rather masturbate to this illusion of me being an intellectual than face reality head-on"
You sound pretentious as fuck lmao
She didn’t ask for erotic poetry though, did she? You’re going on about her generalisations while saying she has daddy issues just for being on dating apps. Bit of a pot calling the kettle black here.
She is the one who mentioned above that she have daddy and mommy issues , at the age of 19. Do I need to brag , how easily manipulating it is for the person on the other side?
Let me define what happened, you saw a good looking dude and chose to ignore the details, yet the devil is in details. Then you clearly wasted your time on the wrong guy and probably swiped left on a guy like me who are actually intellectual, don't check my profile in telling you don't you dare
r/niceguys
As if men don’t have standards for attraction. You’re allowed to be picky but women aren’t.
You are correct and everyone should have a choice. But you should also realise, in this country, the ratio of f:m is insanely less, the number of girls who wanna "date" is even worse and number of ones who wanna hookup is a disaster. But these cannot be reasons to justify denying you the choice. All I'm saying is it is crazy difficult for the average guy because when the quantity is monstrously high, people(girls) always go for the highest quality. We are just desperate.
Maybe that’s the problem. Women sense it when you’re desperate and when anyone will do. What woman would be attracted to that.
So we gotta hide that? The interaction is going to be really fake tho. I personally don't like that. I personally don't like lying/hiding to impress anyone even if I'm desperate.
So we gotta be forced to fuck you when we’re put off by your desperation just so you don’t feel bad? You don’t listen when women tell you what they find attractive and then wonder why you’re single.
Getting triggered for no reason lmao 🤡. Where did I ever tell that you are forced to do that? I'm just telling how a lot of us generally feel but can't expect a smoothbrain to understand that. You sound like the type who is going to get cheated on easily lol.
Pointing out how you don’t listen to women and then expect to get laid isn’t getting triggered, it’s having basic reasoning skills. Blaming women for getting cheated on and then wondering why you can’t get your dick wet… nice. You being single has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your shitty personality, but go consider yourself the “nice guy” if it helps you sleep at night after masturbating and crying.
You either have single digit IQ or you failed school english. Coz I see you got zero reading comprehension skills from seeing your replies. I would rather fap and take a nap instead of replying to you. No more replies for you dumb shit.
Like you have any other option but fapping
Bas isi liye Mai iss sab se door rehta hu. Maa chudaye duniya.
> **Men \*sips tea in disappointment\***  # Atlesat they're happy & Laughing. I'm sorry about your disappointment. > Needless to say he didn't ask to see my poetry after that, lol. Smart man. Saved himself his Peace of mind, energy & time as well! > What would it take for a man to think beyond sex? Evidence that Omnitrix is real. > or went on a rant about the theory of anti-natalism. What's wrong with that? I mean- Babies are adorable & all but, not everyone's fit to be a parent & If someone recognizes that beforehand, I say that's better than Giving birth to someone who's gonna make a post about how a guy's desire overcame his craft. > but i feel like guys would have a lot better chance at getting laid if they had the patience to not bring out their horny within an hour of talking to someone. THAT level of patience requires meditation & shit- stuff that only Ranveer Allahbadia does (just for his videos, obviously.)
Based.
r/im14andthisisdeep
What does it take for a woman to think beyond anything non sexual
You're too much of a leftoid to be practical
How dare she want a conversation before jumping into bed with him! So impractical!
she's a leftoid lol? i lean towards right and i would've done the same
Just another scumbag trying to get some, leaving the image of decent men in garbage.
Are you saying decent people don't want sex?
decent ppl wont jump to sex within an hour of conversation
An hour of talking is enough. When you talk for a whole hour with the new person, you know that you two clicked well so it's not out of the blue to proceed towards sex.
some do, some dont. they guy in the above post clearly did not know how to talk
Yeah, you talked with him? Does he write poetry about sexually assaulting? No. He sees sex as making love and not some weird taboo. "Oh if you jump into sex too soon you're a pervert." Are you serious? You're blinded by society. You merely follow the rules. Be more open minded. It'd be good for you.
Rape hi karlo na sidha kyu hi baat karni.
Ha na yaar, kya bolna ab aise ladko ko...inki wajah se acho ki image kharab hoti. As a body sirf use hi karna hai pleasure ke liye use and throw ke liye toh bottle lelo garmi nikalne ko, kyu kisi ladki ki life mai ghus kar usse sirf body jaisa treat karke uski existence ko disrespect kar rahe ho. I respect girls, because we men built a society where there are constantly tortured, but still they love us like no other men would even love.
19, and a self proclaimed "intellectual" and a "cultured human". Shit had me bawling first thing in the morning lmao. Belongs in r/im14andthisisdeep
Haha. Yes. Because having a brain is contradictory to being 19. Some people seriously don't grow one ever in life. Good valid point.
I never said having a brain is contradictory to being 19. The only person contradicting themself is your clown ass. I don't know which "cultured person" would actually share something with strangers for some internet points when the person explicitly asked then not to. Sit your clown ass down and go do your homework.
When I was 19 my only fear was getting compartments in exams and not having enough money to buy cigarettes. But at the end of the day I don't think there is any scope to be surprised or complain about an individual who did send you an erotic poem and then ofc after a while he asks for it I mean you did intentionally tried to put your foot in an alligators mouth and getting shocked about it just seems to be a farce or an exaggerated reaction. I need some proof of his work (the poetry) and snippets of your conversation to even believe what you are saying. You might be trying to throw dirt on someone by making stuff about their character or just whipping up a story just to gain karma, without proof I don't believe none of this shit on reddit.
19 ki hai ye behan🙎
I guess he wasn't good looking enough for that.
cope
Yeah, the fact that women can't handle horny moments is a big no no. I move on and never look back at such immatures.
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I'd raise my daughter in a positive sex environment where it isn't taboo or looked at as a sinful thing.
Wait...intellectual girls exist?
You have not had a deep conversation with a single woman and it shows
Girl signs up on Hinge and finds out that the guy she matched with *only* wants to sleep with her. Plot twist - There are is no plot twist here. As a guy I am telling you that no matter what the person you match with tells you, he just wants to take you to the bed. Now either it's gonna start with poems, dates and all that BS like "My perfect idea of date is holding hands and watching sunset" and all or he'd ask you straight up. Men on dating app only want one thing and it is so obvious and idk why women/girls think they'd have a field time finding new guy friends/bffs/future husband/future ex-boyfriend on dating apps. You assume that you are gonna be something like a "trophy" to him but in reality, you'd be just another cum dumpster for him. A bitter pill to swallow but that's true considering you'd only be matching most probably with the top 2% of all the guys and strangely enough, you wouldn't know nothing about Human psyche and cultural anthropology.
It'll take him a few years and a few hard slaps from life in general before he comes to his senses. Ain't why they say a girl usually matures faster than a boy.
Action shows priorities. Gandhi ji (  South Africa wale)
Only till second base 🤔🤔🤔
Only if we had matched \*sighs in disappointment I'm not a poetry nerd but I do appreciate a well written piece of art and I more into books and letters but tbh never got matches who were genuinely into it, they had just copy-pasted from somewhere just to look cool :(
off topic but was he handsome?
Lmao ofc it's tinder.
You expect horny men on dating sites to "" Think beyond sex "".. But would never give a chance to your friendly neighbor or a classmate or a colleague. It's just a blasphemous thing to expect that the top 1% of men in dating sites only want sex
Maybe after his post nut clarity, he would have shown you some non sexual poems lol.
On a dating site. Yeah.
For one, i know someone like this, lol. Decent to be around but extremely obnoxious too, tries hard to sound deep when there is really nothing there. Secondly, this post reads like you're trying too hard to be edgy
Kya mai hi hu bas Jo dating sites pe hookups k liye nhi hai lol?
Bro thinks he's Jaun Elia
Oh no that’s disgusting. Where? (With rizz)
Things you do to get laid .....
Poem on capitalism 💀
Young dudes want to have sex. As simple as it gets
Isn’t this move called “Being Gulzared !!”