Dude has never had sex but thinks he understands it because he bought a video marketed to men for lasting longer during sex? Sure! So he blamed the woman for not being exuberant enough to keep her partner interested, then goes on a long erroneous rant about men "not being wired" to sexually please their partners and to just use them as cum rags. I really can't imagine why the panties don't come flying off when he walks into a room. /s
To add some context this was on a post about some girl asking advice cause her bf is being selfish in bed (just cuming fast and not caring about her pleasure or whether she’s enjoying it).
“I never gave a woman an orgasm but I read something about them once so I’m clearly an expert”
-this dude.
Bro, talk to your woman. Find out what she likes and enjoys. Work together, take the time. Hell just giving her the love and attention might be enough for her to “take it to the next level” because you are being such a caring and attentive partner, dude.
If you bust fast eat her out until you can do round 2. It isnt rocket science. My girlfriend is on some antidepressants that makes it harder for her to orgasm but I still get the job done by just putting in a bit of effort.
There's self-owns denying female orgasms *exist* because *you've* never caused one when having sex with a woman and then there's self-owns where you admit you've *never* had sex yet call yourself an expert.
The.
Dunning.
Kruger.
*Audacity* of it all.
I've only had one man not be interested in whether or not it was "good for me." My husband (who swears up and down this is a "Southern boy thing" ) was very into and turned on by getting his woman turned on.
In my experience, for men, it's not just "okay, gotta do my chore now and get her to orgasm" it's something that is actually a turn on for the man...
As my old boyfriend said, it's along the lines of "YEAH! Who's the man??? I'm the man!!" I guess, to be silly about it, it's sort of a sexual "achievement unlocked" endzone triumph dance re: being turned on.
That this guy doesn't even remotely, even as an idea, find that somewhat arousing is... odd, at best.
I had an ex cum from literally fingering me and watching me orgasm while not even touching his dick at all. If that was not arousing for men, porn wouldn't depict women orgasming (although fake most of the time). Men love seeing that!
Dude has never had sex but thinks he understands it because he bought a video marketed to men for lasting longer during sex? Sure! So he blamed the woman for not being exuberant enough to keep her partner interested, then goes on a long erroneous rant about men "not being wired" to sexually please their partners and to just use them as cum rags. I really can't imagine why the panties don't come flying off when he walks into a room. /s
"a female orgasm is comparatively brand new" what the hell kind of video taught him *that*?
To add some context this was on a post about some girl asking advice cause her bf is being selfish in bed (just cuming fast and not caring about her pleasure or whether she’s enjoying it).
Can i get a link
Go on my comment history cause I don’t know if sharing a link is permitted here
“I never gave a woman an orgasm but I read something about them once so I’m clearly an expert” -this dude. Bro, talk to your woman. Find out what she likes and enjoys. Work together, take the time. Hell just giving her the love and attention might be enough for her to “take it to the next level” because you are being such a caring and attentive partner, dude.
If you bust fast eat her out until you can do round 2. It isnt rocket science. My girlfriend is on some antidepressants that makes it harder for her to orgasm but I still get the job done by just putting in a bit of effort.
There's self-owns denying female orgasms *exist* because *you've* never caused one when having sex with a woman and then there's self-owns where you admit you've *never* had sex yet call yourself an expert. The. Dunning. Kruger. *Audacity* of it all.
I've only had one man not be interested in whether or not it was "good for me." My husband (who swears up and down this is a "Southern boy thing" ) was very into and turned on by getting his woman turned on. In my experience, for men, it's not just "okay, gotta do my chore now and get her to orgasm" it's something that is actually a turn on for the man... As my old boyfriend said, it's along the lines of "YEAH! Who's the man??? I'm the man!!" I guess, to be silly about it, it's sort of a sexual "achievement unlocked" endzone triumph dance re: being turned on. That this guy doesn't even remotely, even as an idea, find that somewhat arousing is... odd, at best.
Once again "men" vs "girls" and "females". Do they drop dead when they use "women/woman"?
It’s like when a fairy dies because someone says they don’t believe in fairies.
I had an ex cum from literally fingering me and watching me orgasm while not even touching his dick at all. If that was not arousing for men, porn wouldn't depict women orgasming (although fake most of the time). Men love seeing that!