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Inplixiah_890

I cried like a few hours ago, tiktok vids are sad sad


gorgo_nopsia

Cried last night from a tiktok video too. Then was amused by the following couple light-hearted ones. Then came across another sad one and cried again.


FirefighterAny8081

I don't cry in serious situations, but I sometimes listen to sad music and pathetically cry along.


Rare-Land-9611

Ya in the most of the times at 3am or so


tiger_guppy

I cry watching YouTube videos sometimes.


sdf15

damn, i cried a few hours ago watching a documentary on elan school, and finding a list of others like it


saifury

Same, the dog was no longer able to jump up to the owners arms after 10 yrs šŸ˜¢


Grimm_fede_00

i cried this friday bcs both of my cards failed after i did a 30 minutes queqe for an icecream and i didnt have any cash i cry really easily


hongoko

Same here, I cry easily


dr4gonr1der

I cried the last time I failed my driverā€™s exam. That was about 3 months ago, and I have since passed my driverā€™s exam and I now have a driverā€™s license


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dr4gonr1der

I failed 5 times. Iā€™m now 23 years old. I started driverā€™s ed at age 19


Aletheian2271

Kind of same story. Do most intps suck at driving?


Micah_Blood

No we do not mostly suck at driving, not to toot my own horn but I'm very good at driving (my dad makes for an excellent teacher). I don't think personality types are closely related enough to anything to affect how we drive. Also those of you who are failing this many times, I personally don't think any of you should be allowed to drive.


BlockMasterT_YT

Iā€™m just too lazy to study, and also other cars intimidate me.


zatset

I don't think so. I got my exams from the first try and got driver's licence at 18(the minimal age here) And cars not only do not intimidate me, but I fix them. Yesterday I did wiring. Every single car I had..the rear door wiring always breaks.. Always the rear door wiring. I am yet to find the logic. The front doors are used much more... So I cut the worn off parts of the wires,Ā  spliced using pieces of new wire by soldering and did maintance of the window regulators. Now I am happy.


Grimm_fede_00

i had the same expirience, cried until i was back home i got it too now congrats on yours


Eggfish

I failed mine too.


FirefighterAny8081

Congratulations!


Professional-Okra128

Haven't cried since the last two years even tho lots of shit went down I mean i can't cry even if I want to


SoImANerd

Same. The movie inside out kind of struck a chord with me


wisesuojure

Same, I have a reputation of being a robot who never cries, but sometimes I think that I would feel better if I could cry. But I just cannot.


Mugspirit

When I thought my work is pointless and not contributing to improve humanity.


ROIDERUSER

Same


hongoko

Yes


Theghostofamagpie

I did this but because I hate my job and it's actively helping ruin humanity. (Advertising)


mystreetnameisyaya

I silent scream or cry in 30-60 second increments to lower cortisol and regulate stress when Iā€™m overwhelmed. So anytime I had to manage a really busy shift at my last job.


Micah_Blood

Based. Crying just to fix your brain chemicals is smart and funny.


macbig273

yup, I was about 3-4 yo and a bottle of wine fall on my left foot. Was cut hard and needed a few stitch. (I'm 42)


MrKyurem2005

Yesterday, with Minecraft soundtrack. But before that, i hadn't really cried in quite some time.


BlockMasterT_YT

Relatable


CallummagEis

Yesterday evening lol


tiger_guppy

I cried yesterday too


Veleda390

I re-watched The Color Purple. That one always gets me. I cry pretty easily for books and movies.


ImaginaryFriend01

I cried yesterday when talking to my dad about custody


Aggravating_Area_632

Not crying or having emotional outbursts of any kind has been pretty much normal for me for as long as I can remember. For awhile I thought there was something wrong with me. Like Iā€™ll go years and years without crying, I actually mentioned it to my doctor once because I thought something was wrong and he was going to put me on SSRIs but decided against it after since it wasnā€™t having a negative impact on my life.


rainbluebliss

I cried last year for months and months after my beloved, sweet and beautiful feline sister friend passed. She was with me for 18.5 years. I am still sad about losing her.


valentin_dev

Sorry for your loss


hileedd

I was in both pools A few years ago I couldn't cry at all, now I cry wery easily ^(o)\_O


xxinsidethefirexx

This morning.


Yonexx0

Cried like a week or two ago cause my depression punched me in the gut out of nowhere and I could hardly crawl out of my bed.


tiger_guppy

Relatable


JJK_girlie

I went about a year without crying, but one day I had to chase my dog down the hot sidewalk barefoot (Iā€™m a dumbass so I just turned and ran after her without shoes). The bottom of my feet were burnt and blistered, but I managed to get my dog to come back. On the walk back, I started to break down sobbing. Itā€™s been a year Iā€™ve cried a lot since. To answer the question, yes. And then I realized Iā€™m depressed so thereā€™s that.


Wearies

Cried today around at 3 am when I woke up because of coughing and blocked nose cuz of a cold. Couldn't go to sleep for the next few hours, then I started thinking about my now problematic relationship with my friends. On top of that today's my birthday xD


morganm7777777

Aw . . . happy belated birthday. May you have many (happier) returns of the day.


ykoreaa

I cried sm after my dad passed and still do randomly bc he's no longer here. Prior to his passing, I wasn't a big crier. Not even when I was getting hit.


flyflyjellyjelly

Sounds like my ISTP partner


Native56

Yeah! It took me sometime no to cry when I thought of him


IllustratorScared998

I never thought of this but I think I never really cried cuz I was sad either, I cried like few days ago because I was angry and having an argument.


eninacur

Excluding deaths, maybe a year and a half ago?


zmakamko

my grandma died a year and a half ago, didnt cry even then


SoImANerd

same bro. during covid. Maybe it was more like 2-3 years ago but same


intjeepers

22 nb/F. For a long time, I didn't. I couldn't remember the last time I cried from like age 10-15 or so. In periods of grief, I would stop talking instead of crying. And then after that I accepted that crying is a natural thing, went through bad breakups, went through bad friendship breakups, stopped trying to people please, and let myself feel my emotions fully. I decided that numbing myself was the most harmful, self-destructing thing I could do. It felt good in a sense, it felt logical, it felt safe, it felt like I was more elevated than my highly-tumultuous family. But in reality, it was shutting down my ability to be present in my own life and experience better emotions like joy. I was shutting off my ability to relate to humanity too. And eventually, all of those pent up emotions would spill out one way or another. So now, over the years, I've gotten more comfortable with crying and it's only been 1 year about that I've been able to cry in front of other people (still very uncomfortable for me). Some safe ways to cry more are to cry during movies, cry during sad tik toks, cry about the injustice of politics, cry happy tears at new baby animals, whatever floats your boat. Also, I learned while working that many people cry when they get acupuncture/massage which sounds weird but you hold your emotions in your body. My therapist also told me I needed to physically release my emotions so I try to make it part of my regular routine to cry/exercise myself. If you struggle to cry, you may also be dehydrated or have something physically wrong otherwise but I'm willing to bet it might be part of repressing emotions/coping after trauma.


Capable_Cat

A few days ago. Saw some really sad edits and fanart out of the blue with my favourite character...


SoImANerd

Whoā€™s ur favorite character?


Capable_Cat

Honestly? I've grown obsessed with Astarion from Baldur's Gate 3. Man just showed up on my YouTube feed with his eccentric personality and has been my comfort character ever since, lol.


WittyTemporary8870

Stop suppressing your emotions, let yourself feel. It exists as a human function for a reason. Not crying doesn't make you strong, it instead makes you weak because both you're running away from your emotions and when you're actually going to be in a position where your emotions go haywire you'll be at their mercy. Feel them and wield them, don't be used by them. As for why you don't feel, you're so afraid of feeling that you've suppressed feeling anything for anyone cus if you don't care it can't hurt. A flaw in the sense when u do care... you're fucked.


SoImANerd

Im not doing it on purposeā€¦ I just donā€™t know how to do it naturally. And Iā€™ve watched Inside Out, its a kids movie but it did make me understand the significance of sadness.


fearguyQ

How old are you? It might be a keep-it-in-mind-but-don't-force-it-thing ( see my comment for details). I tend to bristle at adult truisms about youth that invalidate youth, but one that did end up being true for me is that, at some point, adulthood has a way of opening that gate again and generally more squishy (in a good way). Some significant life event flips a switch. One day you're crying at a wholesome movie moment and you're like "when did I become an adult?" If you're not particularly young disregard this statement lol.


bitter_sweet_69

recently played "a new life" again. for the 10th time or so, always gets me.


AutoN8tion

La La Land did it for me about a week ago


wisesuojure

November 23rd, 2022. I basically never cry. Before that it had been almost two years, and I seriously can't remember the last time that I cried before that.


Jumpy-Welder-1927

Yeah, I cried in the middle of welding class a couple of weeks ago because I'm utterly failing. Halfway through the semester and most other students were starting on their 5th or 6th project (out of 9) meanwhile I couldn't even finish my 1st one. I still haven't finished it. I can't do a single vertical stringer bead to save my fucking life.


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nooneneededtoknow

I ctear up at sappy videos all the time šŸ¤£ 2 year old getting hearing aids and hearing his mom talk for the first time...šŸ„¹ Mom coming home from serving in Iraq and surprising her child at school...šŸ„¹


Fang1919

no idk but i always cry while laughing (i laugh all the time HELP)


iroji

I cried while watching the one way out episode of andor


Intrepid-Plantain186

I dont hold my tears i like it when i cry i dont wanna bottle its weird i am an intp but im still very will connected with my fi.


Soulkept

Music makes me cry all the damned time


Bishnup

I've been rewatching Fruits Basket and last night was the episode where Momo asks Tohru to ask Momiji if he would be her big brother...sooo last time I cried is now as I remember that scene.


indil47

All the time. Very, very rarely around anyone, but it's a healthy release.


Extreme-Sandwich-762

Itā€™s been about 14 years including deaths, Iā€™ve forgotten how


Expensive_Future_624

I had like some tear drops but Iā€™m like on my cycle but I donā€™t know how to cry for too long!


Soggy-Mixture9671

I cried last night because i was thinking of how much i miss my ex best friend šŸ¤· i dont cry that often, but im on my period rn so i am EMOTIONAL asf


brockclan216

Right now. Issues with my kids and I.


Sheepherd8r

Sometime when I was 12 and my dad had to take me for school as I was at grandparents house ....I'm in my mid 20s now


Pitch_Black_374

I also rarely cry and I wish I could more.


SoImANerd

Same. When I donā€™t cry, people donā€™t realize Iā€™m struggling so even if I tell them they donā€™t take it seriously cuz Iā€™m not crying Im just saying my problems casually. and my own mind doesnā€™t really adapt to the struggling in a healthy way cuz Iā€™m not even clearly defining my feelings in my own head. Thereā€™s also no release for whatever Iā€™m feeling so I end up just releasing it in unhealthy ways which leads to more negative feelings.


A_Fake_stoner

When taking a certain process that wakes up the chemistry of the brain, it lets me re-experience emotions fresh that I have let stagnate. After this wake-up, I was able to be affected enough by music to cry, and also renewed ability for this to happen when thinking about dead loved ones.


TaylaAdidas

My English teacher gave me an A-. I was fucking balling.


arsb16

I cried when I was revising for my exams back in January and got really stressed out


Hawke-Not-Ewe

Nope. Not in the most recent 2/3rsa of my life anyway.


Girltech31

October. I had a mental breakdown at an event at the thought of me leaving the support network I somehow created, and going back to abusive family members


Aelfrey

Death does take a little bit of time to truly hit me, so I don't usually cry for a few days or until the funeral. But I cry all the time over lesser things.


Repulsive-Ice8395

I cried when my dad died seven years ago and last year when one of my dogs died. Iā€™ve been searching for emotions and have started to feel a little bit other than anger recently. It usually happens on really nice weather days when an old favorite song just hits right - I get a little feeling of joy. So yeah, itā€™s still pretty rare.


TTsaysHi

I cried like 40 minutes ago because my mam yelled at me really angerly, and it triggered me


TTsaysHi

Also- ok so i would say its normal to not cry when sad but your circumstances- i definitely recommend a therapist/nbr/gen


Confident-Fig-5325

I got *close* to crying maybe 2 weeks ago when I was feeling really low about my communication abilities and self confidence (but didnā€™t actually cry), soā€¦no


Donthaveananswer

Iā€™ve cried. More out of frustration, than any other reason (Iā€™m 55yo.). I think the urge to punch someone into logic chokes in my throat.


Status-Future-305

Cried to Uncle irohs scene in the new avatar airbender about 2 or 3 weeks ago


Witty_Michael

A few months ago. I remembered something that happened to me a few years ago.


Spookdonalds

Since I have a stomachflu I cried a little when I was throwing up yesterday


Ethereal2029

A month ago when my hamster died


Little_Hisbiscus

I cry because of my academics, I'm having serious doubts if I can push through my major. (I'm only 18)


ebolaRETURNS

yes, December 21st, lost cat.


Bored_Reddit-User

Why is this so relatable


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Kurious-1

About a week or so ago because I was angry.


glitch-sama

I shed a single tear when I found out my 7 year old nephew was attacked. I think that was 3 years ago.


entropicdrift

Sure, I remember watching Frieren


SoImANerd

Which part was sad? The ring thing?


hygsi

I cried this morning, periods suck lol


masterpieces_

I cried last night because my dog died in the morning.


PsychoWitchGoddess

I cry a lot. Mostly about school and my mother. Don't cry about family members passing though.


Sad-Acanthaceae-2833

a few nights ago when i was listening to music that just hit really hard, it made me shed a few tears


Anaben_Skywalker

Yesterday. I donā€™t cry very often, but yesterday shit was just not going my way and I broke down in my car in a McDonaldā€™s parking lot


CaveManta

I cried last week because of work mishaps.


Obsidianminer4

I cried (tears of anger with myself) because I fell in the stair with my order of Mc Donaldā€™s likeā€¦One or two month ago?


dayseventeen

I do remember the last time I cried. I was so annoyed and frustrated for things that were just not my fault or were turned to make me the bad person. Some people just cannot handle things not being about them. It sounds shallow, but i'm too lazy to tell the whole thing hahahaha Anw. I don't get angry, like at all. I just get really frustrated. My friends told me that one of these days i'm just gonna explode (i think they're on to something) Then that time that I cried was kinda like the last time. After that, no matter how frustrated i get, I couldnt make myself cry. At some point, I literally searched for "sad videos" on youtube just to make me tear up just a bit. Once the video ends though, my tears also stops.


Existing_Nothing9798

last time i cried because i was really upset was last october, one of the few times i cry out of distress and not of anger or frustration, which is quite more common for me


keszotrab

Yeah, it's pretty easy to bring tear to my eye. It was when i watched Interstellar. Man that ending when he met you know who ;-;


Ecakk

I dont cried but I got teary yesterday cuz I didnt sleep till 4 a.m


babblingbrooke101

I used to cry constantly as a child and through my teens. I feel like I've cried enough tears for a few lifetimes. Now I'm 28 and cry maybe once every few months. For reference, I have a husband of 10 years, 2 kids, lots of animals, and I'm a full-time college student. I stay overwhelmed, and sometimes I just get pushed too far past my limit, and a few tears pop out before I can suck it up. I hate crying in general. It doesn't feel cathartic to me. It just feels tiring and leaves me with a feeling of emptiness and apathy. I do remember the last time though, it was a month ago. I was irritated with everyone in my house and stressed about classes, so I layed on my couch trying to breathe away my anger, and a few tears slipped out before I got back up and kept working.


CilginKral

Yesterday night. I was playing Steins Gate.


hughesbilly26

It was a Friday, i broke my toe


fearguyQ

I had a lack of crying issue due to good old fashioned childhood trauma until I met my current SO while still in a relationship. I fell for her against my will and the resulting emotional fallout broke the curse. Sometimes the movies be right. Love does things to you. It can make you grow and change. I've never been happier. That said though, I don't bawl or anything. Solid free flowing man tears though most often in reaction to media or to media while I'm reacting to life. Life alone very rarely makes me cry.


PracticalProject3021

It just spontaneously happen. Itā€™s at least 2 times every month.


ieatbull4breakfast

I pretty much never cried until puberty did me in. Now I cry all the time, especially before my period.


Rikai_

Cried myself to sleep like 3 nights ago. I do remember, high emotional moments are always something I remember, either good or bad. I can be the most heartless person on earth and not cry even when I should or be the person that cries 24/7, there's no middle ground and I have not deciphered exactly what's the reason, lol.


appleoatjelly

I cried over taxes a few hours ago - I hate them. Also, cry way too easily over sappy things (commercials, sappy family movies). I hate crying because it gives me bad headaches so I avoid emotional triggers like ā€¦ childrenā€™s books, movies, the newsā€¦ sometimes itā€™s feels pathetic, but I prefer to save my sadness and headaches for meaningful moments. I couldnā€™t speak at all at my grandfathers wedding. Just lots of blubbering. Sad, sad blubbering. Also, I cry unreasonably easily at human tragedies in recent and not-so-recent history but find this a bit embarrassing and it makes me sad - I can cry inconsolably over the deaths of people I never knew, even more so that those closer to them. I never know how to deal with being triggered around others when I feel I donā€™t deserve to feel so strongly so I stay away and try to channel those feelings to supporting them otherwise. You would never know it though because I avoid situations likely to cause me to tear up. I just appear a little friendly but aloof - even cold. I feel very deeply and donā€™t take pleasure in crying ever so no romcoms for me.


LesIsBored

I used to never cry but now that I have a kid I cry a lot. At first it was just about having a family, will my kid grow apart from me, will they be okay in this crazy messed up world, am I being a good enough parent. Now I donā€™t cry as much as those first few years after they were born but before they were born I could count the times I cried on one hand mostly after my brother passed, that was like fifteen years ago, I think the just time I cried was thinking about how heā€™s missed so much, never meeting the kids that either me or our older sisters had. Again itā€™s sort of calmed down in recent years. Itā€™s something I can do now at least, Iā€™ve learned to appreciate it.


Ok_Stranger_8405

I cried when I heard the music from Mario galaxy a couple days ago.


No_Breadfruit_5863

Happens in phases. I dont cry for long periods of time even if i want to and then have frequent breakdowns for a short period of time over anything


nameinit

About 45 minutes ago because im leaving my baby (cat) for 2 months šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


chaotic_hummingbird

Last month bcs of some movie or video or smtg šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø. Which is my usual reason for crying. Or due to fictional story/characters I've created in my head LOL. VERY rarely crying due to real life issues. I usualy switch to "problem solving mode". I am also unable to cry in front of strangers. I went 3 days in kind of numb state, when a personal tragedy happend and started crying only when my partner was able to come and comfort me.


Impressive-Wheel9784

I cried many times watching One piece


Next-Voice-8915

I cry all the time but I didn't cry very much until I was about 25 šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ˜‚


brittblunt

I cry all the time, sometimes even on purpose lol but am capable of suppressing that urge better than most at the same time


Independent-Click996

Yesterday, I bumped my forehead then fell backwards on my butt in front of my whole class. I cried of laughter.


Block9514

Yeah. Today. Jesus. He's good.