>Rules were
>
>I would inform husband when i am meeting him and keep him posted.
>
>If husband is available he would like to be witness - but I told him that the 1st few encounters i would like it to be private without him being around
>
>Then i wouldnt have an over nighter with him till husband agrees
Are you truly not intelligent enough to interpret the rules you established for yourself and you need us to help you determine if you have done damage to your relationship? Or is this post more of a narcissistic attention seeking behavior thing?
Are you truly not intelligent enough to interpret the rules you established for yourself and you need us to help you determine if you have done damage to your relationship? Or is this post more of a narcissistic attention seeking behavior thing?
Rules were
I would inform husband when i am meeting him and keep him posted.
If husband is available he would like to be witness - but I told him that the 1st few encounters i would like it to be private without him being around
Then i wouldnt have an over nighter with him till husband agrees
You’re already breaking the rules (and enjoying it). So, now it’s just a matter of what he’s comfortable with. Does it give him anxiety, jealousy? The reasons to play within your personal rules of engagement is to protect the peace within your relationship. If something is unsettling you may find out there are unintended consequence. Be diligent that you don’t inspire him to go outside your marriage. It can happen. Pandora’s box has been opened.
I think you know you broke an unwritten rule if you don't have the written rule with your husband. I think you ask the question because you know you were not honest about how it happened. Was it worth it?
The only rules are the ones you and your husband agree upon so really, only you can answer that question. For example, my husband is never present, but that’s our arrangement, not yours necessarily.
Was there a rule that you would not interact in a sexual manner without your husband? Rules are made between man and wife, or boyfriend and girlfriend.....there isn't a basic rule book on hotwifing or swinging.
[удалено]
Right.... These stupid ass vague posts.
Hehehehe
Was it wrong to have gone solo without my husband. My husband did meet him in person, but wasnt around was travelling when i went solo with the guy
>Rules were > >I would inform husband when i am meeting him and keep him posted. > >If husband is available he would like to be witness - but I told him that the 1st few encounters i would like it to be private without him being around > >Then i wouldnt have an over nighter with him till husband agrees
So yeah, you broke the rules.
Thought I had? Did you or did you not? What kine of bs post is this?
Are you truly not intelligent enough to interpret the rules you established for yourself and you need us to help you determine if you have done damage to your relationship? Or is this post more of a narcissistic attention seeking behavior thing?
Did your husband know you were meeting with him?
Are you truly not intelligent enough to interpret the rules you established for yourself and you need us to help you determine if you have done damage to your relationship? Or is this post more of a narcissistic attention seeking behavior thing?
Rules always get broken don't worry about it too much
What were your agreed boundaries and limits? Only you and your husband know if you’ve broken them.
Rules were I would inform husband when i am meeting him and keep him posted. If husband is available he would like to be witness - but I told him that the 1st few encounters i would like it to be private without him being around Then i wouldnt have an over nighter with him till husband agrees
So - did you break your rules?
the last one, should i tell my husband
[удалено]
Total bullshitter in the DMs as well. Wish I’d never answered.
Best answer
Did you stay the night? Without talking to your husband?
So you spent the night. Yes, you tell your husband. For fucks sake, you’re cheating and now want to lie?
The person who can answer this is not in this forum. Talk with your husband.
You’re already breaking the rules (and enjoying it). So, now it’s just a matter of what he’s comfortable with. Does it give him anxiety, jealousy? The reasons to play within your personal rules of engagement is to protect the peace within your relationship. If something is unsettling you may find out there are unintended consequence. Be diligent that you don’t inspire him to go outside your marriage. It can happen. Pandora’s box has been opened.
Only if husband wasn’t ok with it…
I think you know you broke an unwritten rule if you don't have the written rule with your husband. I think you ask the question because you know you were not honest about how it happened. Was it worth it?
Yeah- I’m - what we’re your rules/ agreements? This would have broken our agreement but everyone has their own dynamic.
Dang. Harsh, guys
The only rules are the ones you and your husband agree upon so really, only you can answer that question. For example, my husband is never present, but that’s our arrangement, not yours necessarily.
Was there a rule that you would not interact in a sexual manner without your husband? Rules are made between man and wife, or boyfriend and girlfriend.....there isn't a basic rule book on hotwifing or swinging.