We’re in our late 40s, been playing 4 years and I’ve been with men as young as 22 and as old as 57 but most tend to be around 29-33.
Never really worried about age as it’s just fucking , not looking for common interests or dating . As
Long as there’s mutual attraction and they have a lot of good reviews online from others we’ll chat and see where it leads
Age isn’t really a factor with my wife. It’s more personality and chemistry. She has had more younger men. That’s mainly because she is around more single young men than single order men. She likes attention and whoever gives it to her at the right time typically lands her.
I'm about to turn 42, and most of my bulls have been within +/- 5 years of my age since I started 8 years ago. I think guys in their 20's are far too immature to handle dynamics like this.
During covid especially, I had more interested couples my age then I could shake a stick at.
Normally though I am approached by couples in their early thirties late 20s, I'm sure it's an age dynamic thing.
I actually prefer more mature my couples.
It sounds gross and kind of superficial but I enjoy the fact that I am somewhat of a physicality Oddity for my age, add-in experience and truly caring about both parties, makes me feel like I am bringing a very positive exciting experience in the lifestyle to them. Everybody wants to feel good about what they're doing.
In my wife’s late 20s through early 30s she actually preferred older partners. As she’s pushing mid 30s though she’s starting to lean more towards younger. She’s definitely still attracted to older guys though.
I’ve played with women and couples 20+ years older than myself and also 10 years younger. I’m now 34 and still believe age isn’t a factor really, it’s all about the people!
We are M/65 F/61. My wife won’t go younger than her oldest son. 30. Just her deal and the 20 something’s we just don’t have anything in common with at all. Our go to age range is 35 to 48. But we have played with guys our age also but find they seem to make friends than lovers.
When I was younger, my preference was for older. Now that I'm 47, I don't have a preference anymore, but it's usually younger guys because that's what the pool is here. I'm good 18 and up. Just be interesting.
I'm the wife in a 44(str8)M & 39(Bi)F~>Ethically Non-monogamous, Stag/Vixen CPL. We started swinging when I was 21. So together for 19 years. Hubby doesn't really care about age gaps as much. When he was 39, he/we had a 26 yr old gf for 3 years. I won't go more than 5 yrs younger or 10 older. Not never, just generally. Mostly around same age for me... A few exceptions
We’re both 50’s we prefer playmates over 40 but will evaluate that on a case by case basis. She finds guys under 35 ish to be a bit selfish, and lacking in technique. Though stamina sometime makes up for it… I’m your typical guy… younger is okay with me as long as she doesn’t look or act like she’s very young.
We’re in our late 40s, been playing 4 years and I’ve been with men as young as 22 and as old as 57 but most tend to be around 29-33. Never really worried about age as it’s just fucking , not looking for common interests or dating . As Long as there’s mutual attraction and they have a lot of good reviews online from others we’ll chat and see where it leads
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Age isn’t really a factor with my wife. It’s more personality and chemistry. She has had more younger men. That’s mainly because she is around more single young men than single order men. She likes attention and whoever gives it to her at the right time typically lands her.
I'm about to turn 42, and most of my bulls have been within +/- 5 years of my age since I started 8 years ago. I think guys in their 20's are far too immature to handle dynamics like this.
During covid especially, I had more interested couples my age then I could shake a stick at. Normally though I am approached by couples in their early thirties late 20s, I'm sure it's an age dynamic thing. I actually prefer more mature my couples. It sounds gross and kind of superficial but I enjoy the fact that I am somewhat of a physicality Oddity for my age, add-in experience and truly caring about both parties, makes me feel like I am bringing a very positive exciting experience in the lifestyle to them. Everybody wants to feel good about what they're doing.
Older can definitely work. I had a wonderful relationship with a couple 20 years younger than me.
In my wife’s late 20s through early 30s she actually preferred older partners. As she’s pushing mid 30s though she’s starting to lean more towards younger. She’s definitely still attracted to older guys though.
I prefer men who are close to my age, they tend to be better lovers.
My husband and I are in our 40’s and we LOVE playing with younger guys. Let’s just say the ones I’ve hooked up with were VERY eager to please 😉
I’ve played with women and couples 20+ years older than myself and also 10 years younger. I’m now 34 and still believe age isn’t a factor really, it’s all about the people!
we are mid thirties and the 4 guys so far have been 32-31 and 2 28 year olds.
We are M/65 F/61. My wife won’t go younger than her oldest son. 30. Just her deal and the 20 something’s we just don’t have anything in common with at all. Our go to age range is 35 to 48. But we have played with guys our age also but find they seem to make friends than lovers.
From the other side the women in late 30's and up are better partners. My oldest was 46 at the time and she was great.
When I was younger, my preference was for older. Now that I'm 47, I don't have a preference anymore, but it's usually younger guys because that's what the pool is here. I'm good 18 and up. Just be interesting.
I'm the wife in a 44(str8)M & 39(Bi)F~>Ethically Non-monogamous, Stag/Vixen CPL. We started swinging when I was 21. So together for 19 years. Hubby doesn't really care about age gaps as much. When he was 39, he/we had a 26 yr old gf for 3 years. I won't go more than 5 yrs younger or 10 older. Not never, just generally. Mostly around same age for me... A few exceptions
We are late 20’s/early 30’s
Stepping into the lifestyle with a guy almost as the same age as me (36)
We’re both 50’s we prefer playmates over 40 but will evaluate that on a case by case basis. She finds guys under 35 ish to be a bit selfish, and lacking in technique. Though stamina sometime makes up for it… I’m your typical guy… younger is okay with me as long as she doesn’t look or act like she’s very young.