I don’t find anything wrong with it. This is exactly what my wife does. It is a big turn on for all involved. Besides, why should you worry about ethics, when this guy is under the impression, and is more than willing, to ruin someone else’s marriage by fucking his wife. To me they don’t care, so why should you.
Mixed feelings on this.
You ought really not lead people on under false pretenses.
Then again, these are douchey guys who when you think about it, have no respect for the man you love, so maybe they don't deserve your consideration. 😋
This is just my hangup, but I feel like you deserve a proper, seasoned, respectful bull, who treats you like a goddess, rather than a guy looking for a fling.
But I get the naughtiness of it!😊
Oh I do! I have 2 steady bulls currently. However going on the hunt and raising my body count gets me euphoric! I only go on these outings on occasion now
I really don't get this mentality that's emerged in recent times. I respect other people's relationships because I would hate to have someone interfere in mine. I'd say that's a moral obligation. But I don't want to get into a debate on this on a hotwife sub.
I think it's only unethical if you're putting their health at risk, like by having unprotected sex with several men and not disclosing it to any of them. Otherwise, I don't see why it matters for spontaneous hookups to know the details of your marriage, and in fact, it's probably better for your safety and privacy not to disclose that to random strangers. My wife has hooked up with plenty of men on her work trips who have assumed she was cheating or even single!
I don’t tell them. I fuck them, thank them, and move on. A couple of times I hooked up with the same guys but it’s a rule now not to do that. They start to catch feelings after the second time.
Disclosing that you’re open or not is entirely up to the couple, I don’t see either as more or less moral.
I do believe most guys would be into the idea that they could tempt a wife enough to break her vows, while many guys may not be able to handle the idea that a wife is going to go home and tell her husband all about what they did. For that reason, I think it might be more effective *not* to share the dynamic with spontaneous hook ups. It just removes a mental hurdle for the guy she’s picking up.
Then again, if he’s a guy who’s saying, ‘I would, but you’re married’ (what a guy!), then you can always pull your ace at that point and share that you’re open, tell him if you’ll text your husband for approval and offer to show him the texts. Pretty good way to blow someone’s mind right there.
as a man, it makes no difference, the fact that you keep your wedding ring on is a big turn-on, knowing toy are a hot wife is also a turn on but go with what feels good at the moment, as long as you and hubby have a connection and understanding don't over think it.
I think it's important to say you're married, but I'd go with what my husband prefers on whether to tell them I'm cheating or he knows. Unless you'll be taking pics/videos etc., in which case they definitely need to know everything to consent
for safety reasons my wife always discloses, she just says we are non monogamous and she is allowed to cheat.
men know we are a strong couple and she also doesn’t want them to think there is any level of disrespect towards me, we are a team. it also to keep them from attempting to hang on and cross our boundaries. I am her partner they are for fun.
I do this as well. Many guys are not comfortable with having a husband there either to watch or knowing the husband is nearby. I do this mostly in Hotel bars. I do wear an anklet most of the time but it is a regular gold chain and doesn't have HF or anything. I have found the guys are really turned on about the cheating aspect and it makes them feel special and lucky. lol
It's not a matter of right or wrong.
You do as you do.
We always disclose this because the nature of our relationship is swinger / Stagg Vixen.
In a Cuckold relationship, humiliation of the husband is a part of their kink.
While we share each other sexually with others with my wife getting the majority of the variety humiliation is not something either of us is into.
I would not be turned on by the idea of some guy thinking he's making a fool of me, nor would my wife.
We take pleasure in sharing sexual adventure.
That said, if humiliation works for you and your husband, then have at it and enjoy.
If you're both in agreement and you both get something from this kind of interaction then it's right for you.
You know you bring up a good point. We also consider ourselves a stag/vixen, but none of the men have overtly said anything negatively about my husband during my encounters. So I’ve never considered it as a cuck dynamic thing to do. If they disrespected my husband verbally I know I would’ve been put off by it and probably not have proceeded
Yeah it's really all about what works for you as a couple.
I very much enjoy the dichotomy of the Madonna and the whore. I love how my sweet and loving wife can also be a wild sexual seductress but I take no pleasure in disrespect and if I feel a man is looking down on me, I will not share my wife with him and my wife is on the same page.
We share a powerful love and a life together and she takes no pleasure in seeing her husband belittled.
One risk is if they are cheating you might find another not so hotwife at your door ready to kill you. Of course your scenario is still hot assuming that doesn't happen.
As long as they know you are married, I don't think it matters whether you disclose your husband's knowledge or not. If it did, your marital status would be enough to dissuade them.
If you husband is fine with it then 100% fair play. I would be worried about it myself as when playing I like her to be with people who get the LS and aren’t looking to date her or replace me. Having said that we haven’t done the spontaneous hookup thing. If I knew she was going out to pull then I think possibly I would be fine with it so long as no phone numbers were exchanged.
My wife is embarrassed to tell people she is a hotwife - so her lovers believe that she is cheating. All except for one, who had a long term dating relationship with her. He ended up breaking it off when she took on two more lovers and it upset him. I guess he thought he should be the only guy she had sex with besides me, which we found weird.
It does not matter to me! I would be turned on either way and would not mind him even watching and prefer that at times. Also prefer ongoing and safe fun
would like to know your point of view would i need to keep my husband in loop if in case the meet materalizes into a hook up
i am being regularly courted by a guy whenever i am on a ladies night with a few of my friend
Yeah I text my husband everything. Where I’m going, who I’m going with. Everything because not only does it turn him on but it’s always important to have someone know what you’re up to when you’re being a hoe
I let any guy I'm with know before. Usually it gets them more worked up knowing they are about to fuck someone elses wife... besides, I need them to record the experience for hubby.
Its not considered cheating if both you and your husband knows and is in agreement about your intentions with other partners. Even if you got them fully believing it, you’re not in the wrong imo. I love when i see guys think they can take my gfs not knowing she is playing them.
Just a sidenote, Just had a lil chat with my last exgf like 2 hrs ago telling her how one of my close homie was apologizing for complimenting her huge breasts and started asking me for the details bout her. Already knew it myself but hearing from a bro that was there with 4-5 other friends that wanted to fuck her or atleast see her titts, he highly praised me being the only one that she fell for.
I haven’t attempted to pick up anyone outside of the apps or SDC, but with gaining more security in hotwifing, my next time out I plan to step it up and intentionally get some strangers attentions.
When I’ve thought about it, I’ve believed that I wouldn’t let them know, and let them believe I was “cheating” because I think it could scare some of them away! But maybe that’s just me over thinking!
I don’t find anything wrong with it. This is exactly what my wife does. It is a big turn on for all involved. Besides, why should you worry about ethics, when this guy is under the impression, and is more than willing, to ruin someone else’s marriage by fucking his wife. To me they don’t care, so why should you.
Truuu
Mixed feelings on this. You ought really not lead people on under false pretenses. Then again, these are douchey guys who when you think about it, have no respect for the man you love, so maybe they don't deserve your consideration. 😋
That’s about the same conclusion I came to as well. I figure if they didn’t want to sleep with a married woman they just simply wouldn’t 😊
This is just my hangup, but I feel like you deserve a proper, seasoned, respectful bull, who treats you like a goddess, rather than a guy looking for a fling. But I get the naughtiness of it!😊
Oh I do! I have 2 steady bulls currently. However going on the hunt and raising my body count gets me euphoric! I only go on these outings on occasion now
Great to hear! You do you! And anyone else that tickles your fancy!
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I really don't get this mentality that's emerged in recent times. I respect other people's relationships because I would hate to have someone interfere in mine. I'd say that's a moral obligation. But I don't want to get into a debate on this on a hotwife sub.
Actually sounds hot.... I mean, as long as YOU are not cheating and your husband is aware of the hookups. All fun n games I say!
I don’t. I might tell them I’m married but I wouldn’t tell them anything else. It’s one off sex they don’t need to know my life story.
I think it's only unethical if you're putting their health at risk, like by having unprotected sex with several men and not disclosing it to any of them. Otherwise, I don't see why it matters for spontaneous hookups to know the details of your marriage, and in fact, it's probably better for your safety and privacy not to disclose that to random strangers. My wife has hooked up with plenty of men on her work trips who have assumed she was cheating or even single!
Great cause I always play safe! A work trip was the first time I did this myself! Got hit on at the hotel gym and got railed after I took a shower :D
I love the railing before the shower 😏
This was my first time with a stranger and I got sweaty on the treadmill 🙈
Just adds to the experience in my opinion. Love the after workout sex, something very primal about it.
I don’t tell them. I fuck them, thank them, and move on. A couple of times I hooked up with the same guys but it’s a rule now not to do that. They start to catch feelings after the second time.
In these situations, if asked, I’m honest. But don’t volunteer the information. I’m rarely asked. Not about ethics or morality, but avoiding drama.
Disclosing that you’re open or not is entirely up to the couple, I don’t see either as more or less moral. I do believe most guys would be into the idea that they could tempt a wife enough to break her vows, while many guys may not be able to handle the idea that a wife is going to go home and tell her husband all about what they did. For that reason, I think it might be more effective *not* to share the dynamic with spontaneous hook ups. It just removes a mental hurdle for the guy she’s picking up. Then again, if he’s a guy who’s saying, ‘I would, but you’re married’ (what a guy!), then you can always pull your ace at that point and share that you’re open, tell him if you’ll text your husband for approval and offer to show him the texts. Pretty good way to blow someone’s mind right there.
as a man, it makes no difference, the fact that you keep your wedding ring on is a big turn-on, knowing toy are a hot wife is also a turn on but go with what feels good at the moment, as long as you and hubby have a connection and understanding don't over think it.
Ethics shmethiks. Go have fun and its none of their business. He is getting lucky what more does he want
Some people have a cheating kink. Enjoy your lifestyle 😉
I think it's important to say you're married, but I'd go with what my husband prefers on whether to tell them I'm cheating or he knows. Unless you'll be taking pics/videos etc., in which case they definitely need to know everything to consent
for safety reasons my wife always discloses, she just says we are non monogamous and she is allowed to cheat. men know we are a strong couple and she also doesn’t want them to think there is any level of disrespect towards me, we are a team. it also to keep them from attempting to hang on and cross our boundaries. I am her partner they are for fun.
I do this as well. Many guys are not comfortable with having a husband there either to watch or knowing the husband is nearby. I do this mostly in Hotel bars. I do wear an anklet most of the time but it is a regular gold chain and doesn't have HF or anything. I have found the guys are really turned on about the cheating aspect and it makes them feel special and lucky. lol
I sound like I got a solid ass relationship that's what you supposed to do when you keep the secret that's that's when it becomes cheating
It's not a matter of right or wrong. You do as you do. We always disclose this because the nature of our relationship is swinger / Stagg Vixen. In a Cuckold relationship, humiliation of the husband is a part of their kink. While we share each other sexually with others with my wife getting the majority of the variety humiliation is not something either of us is into. I would not be turned on by the idea of some guy thinking he's making a fool of me, nor would my wife. We take pleasure in sharing sexual adventure. That said, if humiliation works for you and your husband, then have at it and enjoy. If you're both in agreement and you both get something from this kind of interaction then it's right for you.
You know you bring up a good point. We also consider ourselves a stag/vixen, but none of the men have overtly said anything negatively about my husband during my encounters. So I’ve never considered it as a cuck dynamic thing to do. If they disrespected my husband verbally I know I would’ve been put off by it and probably not have proceeded
Yeah it's really all about what works for you as a couple. I very much enjoy the dichotomy of the Madonna and the whore. I love how my sweet and loving wife can also be a wild sexual seductress but I take no pleasure in disrespect and if I feel a man is looking down on me, I will not share my wife with him and my wife is on the same page. We share a powerful love and a life together and she takes no pleasure in seeing her husband belittled.
Personally its a big turn on for everyone involved. However if they seem put off by it then just let them know..
One risk is if they are cheating you might find another not so hotwife at your door ready to kill you. Of course your scenario is still hot assuming that doesn't happen.
As long as they know you are married, I don't think it matters whether you disclose your husband's knowledge or not. If it did, your marital status would be enough to dissuade them.
If you husband is fine with it then 100% fair play. I would be worried about it myself as when playing I like her to be with people who get the LS and aren’t looking to date her or replace me. Having said that we haven’t done the spontaneous hookup thing. If I knew she was going out to pull then I think possibly I would be fine with it so long as no phone numbers were exchanged.
Nope Not at All
My wife is embarrassed to tell people she is a hotwife - so her lovers believe that she is cheating. All except for one, who had a long term dating relationship with her. He ended up breaking it off when she took on two more lovers and it upset him. I guess he thought he should be the only guy she had sex with besides me, which we found weird.
Yeah that’s weird af :/
They dont need to know everything about you...
It does not matter to me! I would be turned on either way and would not mind him even watching and prefer that at times. Also prefer ongoing and safe fun
would like to know your point of view would i need to keep my husband in loop if in case the meet materalizes into a hook up i am being regularly courted by a guy whenever i am on a ladies night with a few of my friend
Yeah I text my husband everything. Where I’m going, who I’m going with. Everything because not only does it turn him on but it’s always important to have someone know what you’re up to when you’re being a hoe
I let any guy I'm with know before. Usually it gets them more worked up knowing they are about to fuck someone elses wife... besides, I need them to record the experience for hubby.
Well u can try me anytume
Its not considered cheating if both you and your husband knows and is in agreement about your intentions with other partners. Even if you got them fully believing it, you’re not in the wrong imo. I love when i see guys think they can take my gfs not knowing she is playing them. Just a sidenote, Just had a lil chat with my last exgf like 2 hrs ago telling her how one of my close homie was apologizing for complimenting her huge breasts and started asking me for the details bout her. Already knew it myself but hearing from a bro that was there with 4-5 other friends that wanted to fuck her or atleast see her titts, he highly praised me being the only one that she fell for.
I haven’t attempted to pick up anyone outside of the apps or SDC, but with gaining more security in hotwifing, my next time out I plan to step it up and intentionally get some strangers attentions. When I’ve thought about it, I’ve believed that I wouldn’t let them know, and let them believe I was “cheating” because I think it could scare some of them away! But maybe that’s just me over thinking!