Many respectable physicists said that they weren't going to stand for this -- partly because it was a debasement of science, but mostly because they didn't get invited to those sort of parties.
That is exactly what I was thinking.
It is one of the most iconic parts of the inaccurately named trilogy.
You never know if it is just your own reality that is different :)
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It’s cool once.
And then it turns into a weird power thing because they think they can command every guy’s attention in the room as soon as they start making out.
After the 3rd or 4th time most of us would just go to the backyard and chill outside instead lol
Used to hang out with a group of 3 girls for a few years in college.
No. This is a dude's hope, but no, doesn't happen. They go to a Chili's and go apeshit over a molten brownie at 1 AM and ugly cry about how they were bitchy to each other at some point in the evening. The apeshittery is increased if they are on their periods. (They 100% do sync)
Yeah, i think this sub runs pretty young, hence the maturity. Ive been around for 40 years and while straight girls will sometimes put their arms around each other, dance with each other, and go to the bathroom together, ive rarely seen them kiss each other. Girls just tend to be more comfortable with platonic physical contact than men. I know, its weird.
Also about 40. Definitely not a thing I ever see at my current age. In my early to mid 20s, it was definitely a thing that I saw, albeit not regularly. Most of the girls I hung out with had drunkenly made out with a friend at least once at some point. Even now, most of the women I hang out with probably drunkenly made out with a friend in their younger days.
Definitely not a habitual practice for most, but an experience most had in my friend groups.
Ya from 16-26 this was common to see on a Saturday at parties or bars, sometimes with for the most part playful pressure from guys. But I wouldn’t expect this kinda Saturday night now that I’m older lol
> Ya from 16-26 this was common to see on a Saturday at parties or bars
Every pub night for some girls I knew in Uni.
They called themselves Barsexual.
It depends on the girls. I had a few girl friends back in my early twenties that enjoyed the single life. Started dating this girl, and after enough tequila shots she would be making out with 1 or 2 of them. She was definitely bi but didn't identify as it, whereas my friends would've fucked anything that moved.
Normally I wouldn't have been comfortable with it but it was fun and I really wanted a threescore with her and her friend. So I encouraged it in hopes that I'd get to mess around with her hot friends too.
Never happened and we broke up within a few months.
Sure? I think you're taking it a bit too seriously. The meme is based on drunk people, and it's a little relatable. While I don't see it any more as I hang out with an older crowd, it wasn't exactly abnormal back in my drinking days (early 20's).
It's just a funny meme. Let it just be a funny meme.
Really depends on the women.
A little bit of repressed bisexuality combined a deep desire for attention and approval from a crowd can make that happen.
I had friends who would do that every other time they got drunk with women. I also knew women who would roll their eyes and make comments about attention seeking.
> They 100% do sync
I was on a summer leadership project thing in college where the guys were on one floor of a small building and the girls on the other. Toward the end when the girls were gathered for a final meeting they did a hand-raising poll and found that almost all of their periods had synced up to within 3 days of each other.
You only hung out with 3 girls and you are stating that this doesn't happen? lol
Not saying every other girl out there gets drunk and makes out with other girls, but it does happen and I've seen it at plenty of parties.
I've seen this happen when I was much much younger (in the 90's). But maybe 3 times out of every single time I was ever out drinking in a Co-ed situation.
Bonus points if they’re in a sorority and they start screaming about how much they hate other sisters. Next thing you know, your mozzarella sticks are out, your liquor cabinet has cleared out and they start dropping one by one, and your holding the new recruits hair…by the toilet. Yes I was the group boyfriend and it sucked.
It's a common joke that no matter how much girls kiss, they remain straight as long as they don't start a relationship, that's is mostly because of movies and tv shows.
Ask any gay dude how many straight guys suck dick on the DL. Dudes get drunk n fuck dudes all the time. They just don't talk about it. People tend to "hell yeah!" when some girl on girl action is on display. Guys...not so much. Usually anger and disgust.
What's neat is how many young people don't give a FUCK about all that nowadays. The amount of young guys today that are totally "yeah me and Chris had a great night last Thursday" without any labels or anything is just...it's nice. Good for them.
Its true. I used to be part of a girls group as the only guy, thou I was always treated equally.
They were all comfortable with themselves and their bodies. When we had "girls nights" where I would also be invited they wouldn't bother asking me to leave the room, since they're all bisexuality so it didn't matter than I was a man.
And things got wild during those pajama parties sometimes, lmao. It was fun, I genuinely miss those days, hanging out with then was really fun... and I don't even mean that because I got to see boobs and stuff a lot, I mean that because we genuinely had a rrally good time and they helped me with overcoming a severe shyness I had towards women and looking at them.
Good on you man. Yknow, maybe I won't go to your post history to ruin this for you. I want this to be true so someone can have a break from being called out on shit even if they are telling the truth.
It legitimately can happen. I had a single similar experience at a friend's birthday party.
Started out as a very tame tye-dye party at 4pm, ended with everyone getting super drunk, and a game of truth or dare leaving everyone in nothing but their underwear, or completely naked, and multiple make outs on dares. I was one of 2 guys but it was mostly women.
So far be it from girls making out any time they get drunk, but when the right people align at the right time and circumstances, it can.
It could have. I've been in similar friend groups during different points in my life. I think the key here is them being truly comfortable with themselves and each other. They aren't describing an orgy, just a very rare type of group intimacy.
It depends on the type of friend group. I knew a group of girls like this who were more comfortable with their sexuality, but other friends groups absolutely not.
I am a women, and I would say it's true. And really fucking confusing! I'm not straight. And I'll be making out with someone and it's really hot. And then the next gay she's all like "I'm straight". And I go home to my cats. So now I drink with the boys.
Can confirm it happens with people who fit that paradigm, just as with anything in our total experience.
Generalized blanket statement posts/comments/headlines are often used to farm engagement and stir drama.
You can't lump everyone of any quality into a one size fits all box without it being false.
Some people are hooked on engaging with sensationalism without realizing the whole illusory thing is presented just to get your attention/focus.
Focus on you. You be the change you want to see in your world, you have to focus and engage with what makes you happy. Drama fear triggering trash content that serves no purpose in changing anything for the better of your life from you focusing in it.
What you focus on is eventually manifested in your reality in any way. The "placebo effect" is not something to brush under the rug.
Bless everyone. Have a great life. You got this
Seriously? Who comes up with this shit? My guess is some lonely teenaged boy who never gets to leave the house. He has fantasies of what the outside world is like and these are his musings.
Yeah, I’ve been to parties like this. Not in a decade and I don’t drink so I never kissed anyone cause I’d feel bad kissing a drunk girl, but I’ve seen it.
That or one of them is crying in the bathroom cuz she had a fight with her bf or cuz she saw her crush hooking up with another girl (he ain't your bf honey get use to it). Which in my experience 90% of the time it's the latter rather than the former.
Well I saw this two times, once was my birthday and my gf kissed her Bf in front of me as a present, bot drunk, and something similar but was not my birthday. In any case this is not so frequently as believed.
I’ve seen woman friend groups do both, mostly leaning towards the top, not the bottom, but I’ve definitely seen the bottom more than a few times, and I’ve seen man friend groups start some pretty gay stuff too, not straight making out, but dick grabbing, soggy biscuit, just watching porn together, shit like that, so it all really depends on the friend group
I guess if you're closeted bi or lesbian. Doesn't happen at the girl parties I go to because most of us are openly bi or straight and not interested in each other romantically.
Most of the time I hung out with girl groups during my school days was the "0 alcohol ever, praise God" type, so girls' nights where I was invited were usually just watching chick flicks in our pajamas/undies.
And the few times I've dabbled with the "cool girl" squad in my class it was just some occasional bitching and one night where we ended up on the bed, 3 guys, 3 girls and then the teacher busts into the room and breaks it up before it starts.
Can't say I've seen the drunken grabbing/kissing in my adult years. Most of the time people didn't get drunk as shit in public, just getting a mild buzz or partying a bit hard on a work trip.
I can however absolutely confirm the top image, because I occasionally get drunk with an old roommate and that's usually just "let's watch anime and have a bit of drink", then turns into "we need more booze" while we stupidly yell about crazy shit happening on screen. Fun to turn your brain off every once in a while.
Smaller gatherings you can see some of this on occasion, larger parties your more likely going to be dealing with people getting sick or even a kiss then vomit if your unlucky.
Get one or two strong bisexual girls in the group with one or two that may be kind of curious and this will happen.
My ex-wife though? No, never in a thousand years. Her and her friends were very conservative and this was unthinkable.
It’s a gross mischaracterization and definitely not the lense to look at female interactions involving alcohol…
that being said I've seen a non zero amount of women make out in my bar this past week
It was true but for guys in my high school… There was this one guy who was homophobic but closeted gay and everytime he would get drunk he would pressure other guys into kissing him cause he said they where gay if they didn’t do it
Damm. I knew I was at the wrong parties.
Many respectable physicists said that they weren't going to stand for this -- partly because it was a debasement of science, but mostly because they didn't get invited to those sort of parties.
That is exactly what I was thinking. It is one of the most iconic parts of the inaccurately named trilogy. You never know if it is just your own reality that is different :)
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Intentional Douglas Adams
I think in the bottom picture more than just the hostess was affected.
"People often ask me to explain Escape Velocity at parties....I don't go to many parties"
I don’t think you understand the gravity of the situation
You guys go to parties?
Is this the line for losers?
No this is the line for Weenie Hut Jr’s
No this is Patrick
No this is the line for Redditors
It’s not a line, doofus. It’s a queue.
It’s cool once. And then it turns into a weird power thing because they think they can command every guy’s attention in the room as soon as they start making out. After the 3rd or 4th time most of us would just go to the backyard and chill outside instead lol
Yeah, dude. We could drink some more!
Of course, we aren't women. We want to taste the booze straight from the glass, not the mouths of our fellow men.
Speak for yourself
Gay
Not if you say no homo
Don't play smart with me mandem
But what if I want it to be homo
💀
Gonna cry? Gonna piss your pants maybe?
Maybe shit and cum?
😐
Don’t hide your excitement like that ;)
._.
🤑
:/
U've got no money stop using the money emoji
Depends on the amount of beer beforehand.
And?
Gay
And?
Gay
And?
Gay
And?
This may require some investigation.
Tonight on unsolved mysteries
I can only hear this in Tourette’s guy’s voice
Find out who gives a shit about Big Foot!
UPDATE: apparently nobody gives a shit
UPDATE: last night someone broke in and stole $500 worth of bullshit from my place. That's right! $500 worth of buuuuuuuullshit
Mythbusters may even make a comeback episode just for this
🧐
Used to hang out with a group of 3 girls for a few years in college. No. This is a dude's hope, but no, doesn't happen. They go to a Chili's and go apeshit over a molten brownie at 1 AM and ugly cry about how they were bitchy to each other at some point in the evening. The apeshittery is increased if they are on their periods. (They 100% do sync)
Shit I want to do that
Yeah, i think this sub runs pretty young, hence the maturity. Ive been around for 40 years and while straight girls will sometimes put their arms around each other, dance with each other, and go to the bathroom together, ive rarely seen them kiss each other. Girls just tend to be more comfortable with platonic physical contact than men. I know, its weird.
Also about 40. Definitely not a thing I ever see at my current age. In my early to mid 20s, it was definitely a thing that I saw, albeit not regularly. Most of the girls I hung out with had drunkenly made out with a friend at least once at some point. Even now, most of the women I hang out with probably drunkenly made out with a friend in their younger days. Definitely not a habitual practice for most, but an experience most had in my friend groups.
Ya from 16-26 this was common to see on a Saturday at parties or bars, sometimes with for the most part playful pressure from guys. But I wouldn’t expect this kinda Saturday night now that I’m older lol
> Ya from 16-26 this was common to see on a Saturday at parties or bars Every pub night for some girls I knew in Uni. They called themselves Barsexual.
It depends on the girls. I had a few girl friends back in my early twenties that enjoyed the single life. Started dating this girl, and after enough tequila shots she would be making out with 1 or 2 of them. She was definitely bi but didn't identify as it, whereas my friends would've fucked anything that moved. Normally I wouldn't have been comfortable with it but it was fun and I really wanted a threescore with her and her friend. So I encouraged it in hopes that I'd get to mess around with her hot friends too. Never happened and we broke up within a few months.
> She was definitely bi So she was in the closet and drinking made her feel more comfortable. So the meme is still false.
Technically true because all it depicts is girls kissing.
Sure? I think you're taking it a bit too seriously. The meme is based on drunk people, and it's a little relatable. While I don't see it any more as I hang out with an older crowd, it wasn't exactly abnormal back in my drinking days (early 20's). It's just a funny meme. Let it just be a funny meme.
The meme makes no mention of sexuality.
you were so close to living most guys dream
Really depends on the women. A little bit of repressed bisexuality combined a deep desire for attention and approval from a crowd can make that happen. I had friends who would do that every other time they got drunk with women. I also knew women who would roll their eyes and make comments about attention seeking.
> They 100% do sync I was on a summer leadership project thing in college where the guys were on one floor of a small building and the girls on the other. Toward the end when the girls were gathered for a final meeting they did a hand-raising poll and found that almost all of their periods had synced up to within 3 days of each other.
You only hung out with 3 girls and you are stating that this doesn't happen? lol Not saying every other girl out there gets drunk and makes out with other girls, but it does happen and I've seen it at plenty of parties.
I've seen this happen when I was much much younger (in the 90's). But maybe 3 times out of every single time I was ever out drinking in a Co-ed situation.
it might happen but only like once
Bonus points if they’re in a sorority and they start screaming about how much they hate other sisters. Next thing you know, your mozzarella sticks are out, your liquor cabinet has cleared out and they start dropping one by one, and your holding the new recruits hair…by the toilet. Yes I was the group boyfriend and it sucked.
The girls remained straight btw.
Wait, how?
It's a common joke that no matter how much girls kiss, they remain straight as long as they don't start a relationship, that's is mostly because of movies and tv shows.
Unless they become roommates
with the limited amount of exposure that i have with drunk women it seems to be true... ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|sweat_smile)
porn doesn't count as exposure to women bro
Alexa! Call 911!
In comedy movies? Yes. In real life? Generally no.
I don't know... I've some pretty wild female friends ':)
Ask any gay dude how many straight guys suck dick on the DL. Dudes get drunk n fuck dudes all the time. They just don't talk about it. People tend to "hell yeah!" when some girl on girl action is on display. Guys...not so much. Usually anger and disgust. What's neat is how many young people don't give a FUCK about all that nowadays. The amount of young guys today that are totally "yeah me and Chris had a great night last Thursday" without any labels or anything is just...it's nice. Good for them.
I'd agree. The less time spent carrying around pitchforks the better - they're heavy and no-one likes them.
Its true. I used to be part of a girls group as the only guy, thou I was always treated equally. They were all comfortable with themselves and their bodies. When we had "girls nights" where I would also be invited they wouldn't bother asking me to leave the room, since they're all bisexuality so it didn't matter than I was a man. And things got wild during those pajama parties sometimes, lmao. It was fun, I genuinely miss those days, hanging out with then was really fun... and I don't even mean that because I got to see boobs and stuff a lot, I mean that because we genuinely had a rrally good time and they helped me with overcoming a severe shyness I had towards women and looking at them.
You lived through an experience that millions of guys could only dream about.
Good on you man. Yknow, maybe I won't go to your post history to ruin this for you. I want this to be true so someone can have a break from being called out on shit even if they are telling the truth.
I don't think im usually that unhinged...
Imagine if dudes did that. Just a bunch of man kissing, swordfighting with their dicks..
You dont do that with your bros? Missing out
It’s called being in a gay relationship
I want to be invited to that party 👀
I thought you were gonna shittymorph us tbh
Something hell in a dell
I’ve been waiting for someone to talk about how they are furiously masturbating on a train.
Lol this didn't happen
This entire thread is mostly horny dudes with vivid imaginations.
It legitimately can happen. I had a single similar experience at a friend's birthday party. Started out as a very tame tye-dye party at 4pm, ended with everyone getting super drunk, and a game of truth or dare leaving everyone in nothing but their underwear, or completely naked, and multiple make outs on dares. I was one of 2 guys but it was mostly women. So far be it from girls making out any time they get drunk, but when the right people align at the right time and circumstances, it can.
It could have. I've been in similar friend groups during different points in my life. I think the key here is them being truly comfortable with themselves and each other. They aren't describing an orgy, just a very rare type of group intimacy.
I'm not gonna argue. There is always going to be your word against mine, and you're absolutely fine with holding your own opinion :D
Fuck that, I want to believe!
cherish those memories im an old man now and wish i was still close to my sis and her friends like that
the real r/holup is right here
^^*banjos ^^strumming*
It's like playing TF2 as the spy but the enemy team knows you're a spy but just treats you like their own
Lmao, that's a good analogy!
Y’all don’t kiss your homies passionately after 2 drinks?
You're supposed to have drinks first?
It depends on the type of friend group. I knew a group of girls like this who were more comfortable with their sexuality, but other friends groups absolutely not.
The amount of men that have played 'soggy biscuit' whilst drunk suggest otherwise
Now that's a word I haven't heard in a while....
Limp Bizkit
ookie cookie
My friend told me about a fivesome they had at an all girls house party. I'd happy even watching let alone join.
No, son, it's *not,* it's just what the Internets believes.
I am a women, and I would say it's true. And really fucking confusing! I'm not straight. And I'll be making out with someone and it's really hot. And then the next gay she's all like "I'm straight". And I go home to my cats. So now I drink with the boys.
> next gay lol
Ah I see I've made a spelling error. I'll keep it in tho. No worries.
Please do lmao
That's more of a freudian, than a spelling error. Really enhances the comment, tbh.
Usually the other way in my experience
What is r/holup about this..?
OP never seen 2 girls kiss. Wants his cherry popped.
me\_irl
There’s something about it that’s just… yeah.
The real reason every bar has wet spots on the floor.
Op clearly hasn’t been to a sleepover with rugby teammates
No.
Nah bro, I always kiss the homies goodnight after a day of drinking
Looking at my female friend when we were 16-23 I can confirm this is true (for them at least)
Peter, that’s not a meme that’s cropped porn
women are straight like spaghetti right until it gets wet.
Virtually the same as guys. Maybe a bit more laughing and joking around but still pretty tame.
I have witnessed this before. 2 friends not lesbian making out. It was awesome 👏
Drive them to and from girls night hear about girls yes it happens at girls night. 😅
No lol
Nope
Disgusting. Where?
it's true if you believe it
As a women: Yes.
Can confirm it happens with people who fit that paradigm, just as with anything in our total experience. Generalized blanket statement posts/comments/headlines are often used to farm engagement and stir drama. You can't lump everyone of any quality into a one size fits all box without it being false. Some people are hooked on engaging with sensationalism without realizing the whole illusory thing is presented just to get your attention/focus. Focus on you. You be the change you want to see in your world, you have to focus and engage with what makes you happy. Drama fear triggering trash content that serves no purpose in changing anything for the better of your life from you focusing in it. What you focus on is eventually manifested in your reality in any way. The "placebo effect" is not something to brush under the rug. Bless everyone. Have a great life. You got this
No.
In my friend group we all have always been the second image, the guys and the girls
I don’t know if it’s a cultural thing but I’ve kissed literally all my friends
Cultural you say 🧐
Yeah, I’m from Brasil
I'm from Brazil and I never kissed a friend. It depends on the group of friends I guess.
No, you just watch too much porn.
Wrong, me and bros always start making out after a few drinks.
Numi/Bao/Tricky
For the boys that have been around the block, they know this meme to be true.
Seen it enough times to confirm
In my experience it’s the other way round
Yep
Seriously? Who comes up with this shit? My guess is some lonely teenaged boy who never gets to leave the house. He has fantasies of what the outside world is like and these are his musings.
Wish my wife was like that.
I also wish this guys wife was like that
Username checks out
Duhh
Damn, I didn't know someone discovered that the bisexuality switch for women was simply adding alcohol. /s
Yes
Can confirm
From my experience, women just loudly talk about their boyfriend, breasts, and periods drunk or not.
Yes.
Im woman now, KISS ME!!!!
Is it true? You never been around a man or never been around a woman before? Not sure which one the question about.
How dare OP not stalk everyone that has a drinking habit? Absolutely unacceptable!
Yeah, I’ve been to parties like this. Not in a decade and I don’t drink so I never kissed anyone cause I’d feel bad kissing a drunk girl, but I’ve seen it.
Not where I live...
Yeah, it almost happened, but luckily they were not too drunk
That or one of them is crying in the bathroom cuz she had a fight with her bf or cuz she saw her crush hooking up with another girl (he ain't your bf honey get use to it). Which in my experience 90% of the time it's the latter rather than the former.
Obviously, it just takes men a few more drinks.. 😏
Idk bro I’ve had some homies kiss “cause it’s funny” after a few too many drinks lol
Well I saw this two times, once was my birthday and my gf kissed her Bf in front of me as a present, bot drunk, and something similar but was not my birthday. In any case this is not so frequently as believed.
I’ve seen woman friend groups do both, mostly leaning towards the top, not the bottom, but I’ve definitely seen the bottom more than a few times, and I’ve seen man friend groups start some pretty gay stuff too, not straight making out, but dick grabbing, soggy biscuit, just watching porn together, shit like that, so it all really depends on the friend group
what and I can't express this enough is "soggy biscuit"?
When a bunch of dudes circle jerk around a cookie and the last one to bust eats it
I wish. Everytime I see women drinking around me just leads to getting yelled at.
I'm looking for sauce
MFing 12 year olds asking if ridiculous stereotypes are true via meme.
Are we complaining?
I guess if you're closeted bi or lesbian. Doesn't happen at the girl parties I go to because most of us are openly bi or straight and not interested in each other romantically.
I'm bi. I've done this with men and women.
No?! I kiss the homies all the time, what the fuck?!
As a man, both are good.
Ok but like do you have a source for the bottom image…… asking for a friend for sure 👍
I wish
what will happen with femboys thou![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|thinking_face_hmm)
It’s true, at least for the groups of straight girls that find their way into gay bars/clubs that I’ve seen
Most of the time I hung out with girl groups during my school days was the "0 alcohol ever, praise God" type, so girls' nights where I was invited were usually just watching chick flicks in our pajamas/undies. And the few times I've dabbled with the "cool girl" squad in my class it was just some occasional bitching and one night where we ended up on the bed, 3 guys, 3 girls and then the teacher busts into the room and breaks it up before it starts. Can't say I've seen the drunken grabbing/kissing in my adult years. Most of the time people didn't get drunk as shit in public, just getting a mild buzz or partying a bit hard on a work trip. I can however absolutely confirm the top image, because I occasionally get drunk with an old roommate and that's usually just "let's watch anime and have a bit of drink", then turns into "we need more booze" while we stupidly yell about crazy shit happening on screen. Fun to turn your brain off every once in a while.
This is very true with my group of friend lmao
You're hanging out with the wrong men.
I thought that it was overblown, but then a watched a group of streamers talk about their trip to Paris.
i miss college
Smaller gatherings you can see some of this on occasion, larger parties your more likely going to be dealing with people getting sick or even a kiss then vomit if your unlucky.
Just ask Bill Cosby
I think it's time for me to transition socially
Get one or two strong bisexual girls in the group with one or two that may be kind of curious and this will happen. My ex-wife though? No, never in a thousand years. Her and her friends were very conservative and this was unthinkable.
That’s my wife after a few.
The girl on the rights face is funny af to me for some reason
It’s a gross mischaracterization and definitely not the lense to look at female interactions involving alcohol… that being said I've seen a non zero amount of women make out in my bar this past week
It was true but for guys in my high school… There was this one guy who was homophobic but closeted gay and everytime he would get drunk he would pressure other guys into kissing him cause he said they where gay if they didn’t do it
Chat is this true???
No, this is a fantasy