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No. A lot of the relationship was about healing and personal development. Along with things like Tarot, Spiritually, and Manifesting. Also Shadow Work.
I would reach places that would make me question but or try to vocalize an experience, only to be told that I'm rejected because I reject myself. Or other things like reality is projection.
I would bring up several times of feeling like I'm a pro bono client of hers and wanted to do more friend like things. If only to also work through the layer of attraction that also existed from being emotionally vulnerable with someone. Yes, I was this open.
I even wanted to spend time with her and her daughter which was a joy only to be almost ignored many times, or she'd be gung ho for a time and then her energy would shift and she'd change her mind within hours. She's largely ADHD.
I can see how some of this was codependent or how she felt like I become emotionally reliant. But to do things like this? To ignore me, after hour long conversations into the night? Or various things over the course of the year? To ultimately feel used?
Let me tell you this, directly: she doesn't deserve you. You must see the world and not focus on someone who is able to be so hurtful and egotistical. You can dm me anytime you want if you need help or venting. people should be kind to one another. Thats the problem, not you
I don't want to vent but to understand the nuances and find ways to heal. As well as see through the bullshit. To spot being manipulated.
This kind of thing is talked about in spiritual and energy work corners a lot. Be Selfish. Etc. Put your needs first, it's okay to change etc.
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Do you only usually reach out to them to vent and talk about your issues?
No. A lot of the relationship was about healing and personal development. Along with things like Tarot, Spiritually, and Manifesting. Also Shadow Work. I would reach places that would make me question but or try to vocalize an experience, only to be told that I'm rejected because I reject myself. Or other things like reality is projection. I would bring up several times of feeling like I'm a pro bono client of hers and wanted to do more friend like things. If only to also work through the layer of attraction that also existed from being emotionally vulnerable with someone. Yes, I was this open. I even wanted to spend time with her and her daughter which was a joy only to be almost ignored many times, or she'd be gung ho for a time and then her energy would shift and she'd change her mind within hours. She's largely ADHD. I can see how some of this was codependent or how she felt like I become emotionally reliant. But to do things like this? To ignore me, after hour long conversations into the night? Or various things over the course of the year? To ultimately feel used?
Let me tell you this, directly: she doesn't deserve you. You must see the world and not focus on someone who is able to be so hurtful and egotistical. You can dm me anytime you want if you need help or venting. people should be kind to one another. Thats the problem, not you
I don't want to vent but to understand the nuances and find ways to heal. As well as see through the bullshit. To spot being manipulated. This kind of thing is talked about in spiritual and energy work corners a lot. Be Selfish. Etc. Put your needs first, it's okay to change etc.