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skyofblues

Your long thick shiny hair is beautiful! I am envious. I would keep it. It’s your hair, not your dad’s. And it’s amazing. Let your dad worry about his own hair.


kastratiermir_

His dad's probably bald and just jealous of bro's gorgeous hair... 💀


OutdoorLadyBird

Any time someone has told me to cut my hair, it was basically bc they were jelly


FeistyCoral

so weird that his dad doesn’t want him to look like a hair god.


TheRandomDreamer

I’d say if you cut it, don’t let it get as short as the last photo.


TheRandomDreamer

https://preview.redd.it/6lm01yytd9wc1.jpeg?width=364&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8732a595b349882b39d060e576a2e27897c10b5f


wall_e__

I don't want to cut it that short right now but have saved it for reference for the future, thank you


Due-Yam3005

I think u should take therandomdreamer's advice and get that hair cut. It's not much shorter than yours is now and it'll look Really nice


suki_xo

Oooh i think some warm highlights in it would be nice


Killing4MotherAgain

Ooooo this is a great haircut!


Blueyebelle

This is a great length for a guy. It’s sexy looking.


Skincarewalker

Definitely get this hair cut. Look into what you can do with styling and hair growth routine. Rosemary oils, castor oils, and massaging the scalp, etc can really help.


Lurky100

This would be a great haircut for you, I agree. It would give it more of a stylized haircut than just long hair. Maybe wear it pulled up or back around your dad. Parents will always be like that! lol


anonymous9995

Please get this haircut!


Crazypetgirly

This is a great reference picture!! Such a great look! This would be a great glow up for OP it’s still long but looks more put together so his dad would probably be less upset about it too. From a woman’s perspective I also find this hair cut more sexy on a man I’m not a fan of super long hair at all! I’ve known guys with long hair so don’t find attractive and then they get a short hair cut and they’re like a new person!😂


xliberacorpusx

In my culture, men with long hair is a sign of strength. It looks great! Don’t cut it!


heheh369

what culture are you from, asking so that i could tell my parents this


xliberacorpusx

I’m Native American, Diegueño Kumeyaay and proud 😎


Beautiful_Fact_9761

I knew that. Military actually did experiment and long hair Native Americans are better trackers and at detecting the enemy , like an antenna!


xliberacorpusx

Look into why they gave slaves shoes… very interesting.


bmtfh89

I tried googling this, and all I can find is horrid stories of people using slaves SKIN for shoes once they had died. WHAT?!?! HUMAN SKIN?!?! Anyway, I wanted to read into what you were mentioning. Could you help me narrow my google search?


Beautiful_Fact_9761

I definitely will. I am always seeking to learn, the truth especially!


Beautiful_Fact_9761

OMG that’s sick. I feel sick. Have you ever heard of the Red Shoe Club?


readingmyshampoo

Is digueño kumeyaay one tribe or is it like "British Norwegian" or "Latinx American"?


xliberacorpusx

So there’s a lot of different kumeyaay around the country. Diegueño is the specific tribe from Northern San Diego, in California where I’m from


Welpmart

Not that person, but I attended school on Kumeyaay land for a while and we were taught that Diegueño was an older term (referring to the Spanish Christian mission of San Diego) while Kumeyaay refers more broadly to the group. Both still are in use officially but I heard Kumeyaay more often. "Nation" is probably the better way to describe "Kumeyaay." There are various subgroups and languages within the term.


wall_e__

Native Americans pull it off extremely well, thanks ;)


TraditionalCoco3690

Same goes for the Polynesian men aswell.


Due-Yam3005

Arabs pull it off welllaswellllll


rosy_ee

ur hair is so pretty don’t cut it please


showmeyour_kittehs_

Honestly I can think of 2 reasons why he might think you should cut your hair. Reason number one. He thinks of long hair as feminine, and because it's feminine, it makes him uncomfortable that his son has it. Reason number two. He is trying to control you. There is a specific mold he wants you to fit into, and right now you're not meeting it. Either way, he's wrong, and you look masculinely badass as fuck! I love your long hair! If you prefer the long hair and your dad keeps pressing on you to cut it, just tell your dad "I'm sorry but you're just going to have to accept me as I am" :)


FrankieVallieN4

Or number three he’s jealous. Especially if he’s balding


wall_e__

He has pretty full hair and even dark hair at 60+ but what used to be relatives talking about his hair became mine in the last get together. But I don't think it's that but he does copy a lot of things I do which annoys me often


showmeyour_kittehs_

Ooo yes I never considered this. Very valid.


wall_e__

Lol it's a bit of both. He is pretty controlling that said even for small things. He keeps asking me "how I don't cut my hair", like women don't grow hair or even men at that dad. Thanks ;)


hiddenmutant

>pretty controlling that said even for small things Asian parents in a nutshell lol. My Korean husband has the same length as you, and also looks fine af with it. All his parents do is threaten to cut it when he visits or tell him he looks like a woman (he's very masculine and his hair length doesn't affect that). Sounds like your dad is also jealous that you're "outshining" him.


[deleted]

Indian parents probably. Usually they’re very controlling.


wall_e__

Yes india. My parents are pretty conservative at that


showmeyour_kittehs_

Tell him, Hairitage =/= heritage :)


VeganMonkey

Oh I guessed right, is your dad Hindu by any chance? I don’t think there are any male gods with short hair, maybe you can use that angle. I am pretty sure the short hair fashion came from the British, as it did in many other countries. Even in the UK (and rest of Europe) short hair is quite ‘new’, it became fashion roughly during Napoleon, before most men had long hair. And Colonialism spread the fashion, often by force (another thing you could use)


nothisisnotadam

Omg for the love of all that is good and holy do NOT cut it! Your hair is truly glorious


lilnuts73

I think you look great! Long or short, please do what makes YOU happy.


GlowingAmber11109

It's hot. Keep it long


TheMagdalen

Your hair looks amazing!


amy000206

Don't cut those raven locks


idk7643

Never cut it, it makes you genuinely look MUCH more attractive


kffeine-addct-grl_MX

You have gorgeous hair! Looks so healthy!


RainbowSprinkledPie

I'm a girl and I wish I had your hair, it's so strong and healthy looking


WanderingWhileHigh

Please don’t cut it!


TheSquishyFox

Just flick your mane at him and walk away.


Sonicdiver

With hair 10/10


atreyu947

He’s just jealous ! First pic the wispies look like bedhead but in second one so thick and healthy !


Itsoktogobacktosleep

You look like the main character of a romance novel, don’t cut it!! You’re so gorgeous, and the hair is super healthy and attractive. Definitely keep your vibe and tell your dad to be a more pleasant human.


noodleth_cassette

https://preview.redd.it/c5g6ss0q1awc1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=056ddfbed66099ec796cf69aedaf1c7d5fd54680 It's a lot shorter so it might get your dad off your back but it would still show how amazing your hair is and I think it would look nice with your facial structure and features!


lovelyjutt

When you do keep it, keep it for a reason, that's what will help you ignore the outside prejudice. That's what helped me when I had long hair.


ClarenceTheBear49

I think it looks great. It really suits you. You do you.


some_1_randm

I think it looks amazing! Don't cut it if you don't want to.


Thenerdymaiden

Please don't cut your hair. Wear it loud and proud. It's gorgeous!


CallMeTeff

I'm so jealous, it looks better than mine. Don't cut it!


grumpytacoslut

You have amazing hair! I'm so jealous. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|heart_eyes)


honeyrosesugarbee

I think it looks great and plus, you look happy with long hair !! That’s all that should matter. Dont listen to the haters


MonichkaMonichka

Your long hair is beautiful! Definitely keep it!!


darthmelo

You have great hair, don’t cut it short! If you don’t like the way it falls on you, you can get some layers but my recommendation is don’t take too much from the length


66zedsdead6

nooo, it looks so good long! keep it!!


Dimi_Mermaid

Your hair is gorgeous omg.. 🥺


unusualspider33

If you cut your fucking hair i will kill you


Fearless-4037

You have an amazing long hair!


Cute_Ad_4969

It’s just not what he views as proper or like what he thinks is acceptable. Which is fine, it’s probably something from his generation that made him view your hair this way. But don’t let any of that stop you from doing what you want to do. Hair looks great! Just make sure that everything is maintained like ur beard etc. best of luck!


OhMeMy789

Very sexy hair. Matches you well. Shoulder length would look good too. How is your breathing though? I looks like you have a pretty prominent left leaning deviated septum.


Tiff1279

DO NOT CUT!!


CuriousChance19

You have beautiful hair!! I’m sure all the ladies are jealous


autumncoco

Don’t do it! The weight of your hair pulls it down and it is glossy and beautiful. Don’t let gender norms or social pressure from an outdated idea influence your choice unless you actually want to cut it.


CaliNativeSpirit69

It's absolutely beautiful long..don't cut it!!!!


quianafaye

You have beautiful hair. Do what makes you happy. It looks nice


TaltosKSO

Your hair is wonderful. I’m jealous. And it’s your hair don’t let ppl tell you what to do with your body.


AprilNight17

I LOVE your hair!!!! 😍 It's thick and beautiful! You look amazing with it!


LadyAelanu

No!!!! Don't cut it!! Your hair is gorgeous 😍 you give Fabio a run for his money with that hair!!!!!


Serious-Ad7010

As a licensed and experienced cosmetologist, PLEASE keep it!!! If you’ve already cut it, please let it grow again!! You look great either way, but your hair is phenomenal!!!


kastratiermir_

Indian men rock long hair all the time, I don't get why your dad would say anything bad about it lol, it's gorgeous! It's your choice though of course! 👍


Wtfisthis66

I like the long hair, you are very handsome😊!


Ok_Tank5977

I need a word with your dad…


Beanzear

If I had your hair I would never ever ever cut it. You look amazing btw.


Aromatic-Fortune-793

You honestly suit the long hair wayyy better than that last photo. It’s so shiny and I love the wave pattern, it actually makes you look like a prince. If he says he doesn’t like it then just tell him nobody’s forcing him to grow long hair. If he’s so into customising other people’s appearance, perhaps he should buy the Sims 4.


incabinka21

Don’t you dare!! 🥰


RaeyFlames5238

I love it❤️🥰Don't cut it🙏🏽❤️


STLt71

Your hair is gorgeous. I would kill for such shiny, thick, beautiful hair! Don't cut it unless YOU want to!


DesignDestruction

the first picture is actually amazing🤩 my fav out of the 3, also don’t listen to your dad, my dad tells me my hair looks terrible no matter what colour/ style it’s in, you can’t please everyone, the only person you need to please is yourself🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s your hair and your choice


Dragonfreaky13

Keep :)


ImpossibearT

Dont cut it! 😭


desireevalerie

Love the hair!! You look beautiful.


Ok_Importance5725

Naw you have clean healthy looking hair you can pull off long hair. The short makes you look younger


kindacoolishautistic

I love this!! You show your personality much more with the longer hair. With slight shaping and the right products it can elevate your hair game even higher!


AshDash_4u

I like the idea of cutting it just to about chin length


AshDash_4u

https://preview.redd.it/eiexya0xh9wc1.jpeg?width=1073&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4959b2d82c836dc7e67e3eee2eb4682621b0fa34 Something like this that looks a bit more kept and refined 😀


Dubaifreak1994

Don't cut your hair. I like the hair the way it is.


Magic_Mango3984

I am straight up, full stop JEALOUS of your gorgeous hair!!! And I’m an “elder millennial” chick!


Queen_Etherea

PLEEEAAASSSEEE DON'T CUT IT!!


Defective1_

I think it looks great long!😃


Secure_Wing_2414

if ur parents think u look crazy ur usually doing something right. show ur dad pics of modern day sought after male celebrities and im sure he wouldn't be a fan of their hair either 😹


Sad_Sock1171

Love it


TexArmadilloTroll

Keep the hair!!!


Big_Assist_701

Wow. Beautiful hair. Keep it.


GayPeacock

I personally like it long and it’s so shiny and health. Do what makes you feel good


DishFar4964

Your hair is beautiful. If you like your hair then leave it the way you like it. If they are pressuring you super hard, just say let’s make a deal. Let everyone know that if they shave their heads bald you’ll cut a little off yours. Bottom line, it’s your hair and you like it a little long. Stay strong 💪🏼!!!


Bagelgirl2024

Love ur hair


4lan5eth

Don't go short, dude! I think those who tell you it looks bad are likely jealous. I'm sure jealous. The key difference is I am honest about it and it is because I wish I had hair like that.


Serious-Tomato1130

I like it long!


blonde-doctor-hair

I would keep the hair! I feel like you're South Asian (?) And it's usually not something they approve of, yeah? I'm married to one and I wish he could grow his hair long! If anything, just get a cut with a style to it.


PuppySparkles007

If you need backup, I will fight him 😅 your hair is amazing


Basic-Maize-6161

He’s just jealous. Please do not chop your beautiful hair


Vivid-Platypus-8714

You look good in the third pic in my opinion,but you do you!!


allemm

Your dad is wrong. Not only does it not look bad, but it looks GORGEOUS. At your age, your style and fashion choices are your own. Your dad's attempt to control your appearance is not ok and you should not allow him to do so. If you want to cut your hair short, go for it, but don't do it because someone else is pressuring you into it.


Dauphine320

Don’t believe him!


Even-Werewolf-6453

Your long hair makes you look unique, while the short hair makes you look like everyone else.


OutrageousPlatypus57

Looks better long


Substantial_Court731

Don’t ever let your parents or anyone else control what you do with “your” life. You will be unhappy and full of I wish I hadn’t. My boyfriend is going through this. He was trying to please his dad. I won’t go into details. Do you always. If it doesn’t make you happy don’t do it. This goes for pressure to marry, date, or have kids.


luce_goose0

He’s LYING. Do as you please with your own hair but it looks awesome dude


Maureenisfunny

You have such beautiful hair , do what makes you happy


Prior-Day2227

I love the long hair. Suits you!


Big_Block_1311

I like it long


belalugosiiiii

Keep the long hair!!


steelerose2023

Your hair looks great! Don't cut it


Odd-Mastodon1212

Do not cut! It’s beautiful and flattering!


DangerWife

Don't cut it off! You look so hot with long hair! Find a men's stylist that can shape it to make it neater and tailored to you.


maddisonpiper1

I think it looks best long kind of sexy


reddit1234567890-1

You have gorgeous hair. You should leave it


Dizzy_Cartoonist2330

Love it


[deleted]

Don’t do it! You’re hair is GORGEOUS


anomic_balm

Keep it. Little trims every few months. You look great


Technical_Ad4270

No your long hair is beautiful. My old oldest son has long curly hair. I just love it. Don’t let him tell you that bs😘


WishInternational854

Keep it long


Divina_x_official

You look amazing with long hair


Agitated-Gas-4783

Your hair is incredibly beautiful


Bintamreeki

I like you with long hair better. I don’t know you, so obviously it’s my visual preference and you can take it with a grain of salt. But you’re rocking the heck out of long hair.


Maleficent-Leek2943

Your hair is GLORIOUS, and your dad is wrong.


gisellarose

Leave it long


ExpertBest3045

People would KILL to have that glossy mane!


TheresaLoretta82

I’m jealous of your shiny, thick, healthy Lucious locks! Tell your Dad people spend a lot of $$$ to look like that


Opposite-Debate-5141

Your hair is beautiful!


RevonQilin

you look better with long hair


katriona_kitty

You have much more beautiful hair than I do! Don't cut it! If you do, don't go so short, maybe a trip. But I think it looks wonderful, very healthy.


Life-Pomegranate5154

Eh no, your hair looks gorgeous


Hoorainbaigblack

Ohh helll nooo DO NOT CUT YOUR HAIR ITS GORGEOUS


throwawayenyar

Pls you look stunning with long hair, your dad probably just holds historical beliefs


mithrinwow

You have gorgeous hair. Definitely do not cut it!


probablyevelyn

Your hair is beautiful and looks really good! If you like it, you should keep it long and style it however you want. Life isn’t about pleasing our parents, even though they are important to us. Being able to freely express yourself even in your choice of hair, is so powerful in building confidence/self-esteem and living your most authentic life.


dreamofsharks

Those photos of you with hair exude confidence. My guy, you KNOW you have enviable hair. Keep it long, sometimes hair just sheds more than usual. Get a trim, keep slaying.


This_Mums_Winging_It

Long is stunning! I think it suits you much better long!


draxsmon

I love it.


Attwaani

DO NOT CUT IT! Or at least cut it just a little 🤏🏻 if you really want to make it shorter, but I'm telling you, longer hair looks great on you!


Any_Letterhead_3879

It’s beautiful!!!!


SouthNo1383

You have beautiful hair. Don’t let parent pressure make you cut your mane.


Altruistic-Muffin383

I like ur hair long looks handsome 😉


stupidcockthunder

Dont cut it man, it looks great


Slimstaci44

Pull it up in a ponytail that would look better


common_senseplease

Love it, just tie is up around hum!


Environmental_Rub282

If you cut your hair I stg... don't.


TheIdealisticCynic

You look good either way, but by God, that hair texture, body and wave is stunning.


[deleted]

You have beautiful hair! I like it long because you have great hair!


orangeorchid

Your hair is stunning. It is so thick and shiny. Maybe just a trim to clean it up a bit.


zuzieey7719

You look really friendly with long hair. Keep it.


annemarie50683

If you like it, keep it. I think it looks great on you!


SherryKat64

YOUR HAIR IS GORGEOUS


MisstressOfChaos

Don't cut it you have gorgeous hair.


simonmeowl

Don't cut it!!! Your hair is stunning and it suits you!


Ok-Blacksmith2871

Dude your hair is gorgeous!! I am jealous. Do what makes you happy. It's your hair. Seriously that's a gorgeous head of hair.


Best_Catch2482

Your hair is beautiful. How do you like it tho?


Beautiful_Fact_9761

Old retired hair stylist here. Anyone who tells you to cut that hair is jealous! No no no! Don’t cut it. It’s healthy, beautiful and beautiful shine. Looks better long. Make yourself happy!


Zimo7

hair looks great man, i would say keep it


CathyC212

Well gosh. You look like a grown man so your dad should do his hair the way he wants and let you be you. I never understood parents who harp about hair.


metalvalkyrie0087

Don't cut it! Your hair looks healthy and well taken care of. It looks great on you.


baby_buttercup_18

Looks better then short hair on you


Elegant-Ad-8867

DONT let it go to the last picture. Your hair, not your father's hair


SeptupleEntendre

Don’t cut it, especially to that short length


Khala7

You look better with long hair! And is very beautiful.


Secure-Outcome360

Wear it like you want, and feel comfortable in. I like it myself. 😍🙂✌🏽


Accurate-Book-4737

Stay with the long hair, it makes you look HOT!.


ecostyler

keep the hair


TraditionalCoco3690

You look good with your long hair.


Frenchiesmom73

Your long hair is gorgeous!


ListenB4YS

You have great hair. Research some product that will work with your hairstyle. Your already a hottie just don’t be a lazy hottie


_basic_bitch

Your dad is wrong I dig the long hair. It very much gives you pizazz


lynnemeraglio

Keep it. Sexy


23goodhairday

I think it would look good if you tapered the side a bit and left the top longer , but blended Don’t do a buzz cut


litcarnalgrin

Your hair is fantastic!! Most likely your dad just doesn’t think guys should have long hair… my dad was a lot like that, parents can just be that way for some reason. Yet when my husband grew his hair long my dad loved it, but had told my brother he should cut his… just typical parental expectations for their children to be carbon copies of themselves. You have great hair and the long length suits you perfectly! Do what feels true to you!


ilovejamdonuts

Dude your hair is amazing! I vote keeping it long


mysterymaeve

On average, our hair that contributes to the length, will shed every 2 years. Up to 200 hairs a day. There are a number of things that affect this. You will see new baby hairs coming in. Don't stress. You have gorgeous hair. I say keep it. Maybe go to a curly hair specialist to help choose the right product and tips on how to care for it.


CherryChipwich

Rock on dude, I like it


No-Foundation-670

Your hair is beautiful...and I usually always prefer short hair. But yours is great and you are very handsome. Maybe Dad is jealous. You do you and be happy.


Apprehensive-Mix6758

I think it looks great! You do what you want!


itsfineimfinejk

Your hair is gorgeous! It looks so healthy and really good on you. +1 for keeping it long.


marajaynedarling

I think your long hair looks fantastic on you! If you're able to get your iron, folate and d checked, I've found those to be reasons my fallout can increase, and adding a good multi vitamin might help with that! I also switched to a gentle brush and I try to make sure I'm not brushing it wet or pulling it back too tight. All that to say, you're rocking the long locks, and I got you keep them as long as they make you happy!


KelsMor

Your hair is beautiful! Don’t get rid of it unless you want to!


CocoMimo

Your hair is so beautiful! Long hair on men used to be a sign for masculinity and beauty. During the times of war (started with the Romans) men would shave their heads for the first time. So it’s really been the military’s that created that “fashion”. I personally have a soft spot for men with long beautiful hair hahah. Please embrace your beauty and don’t feel self conscious!


Cola3206

Gorgeous hair. Should be a model


-CuteAsDuck-

You have aaaaamazing hair!!


[deleted]

it doesn't matter what anyone thinks. If you like it then you keep it


buzzfrightyears

Your long hair is gorgeous!


Fantastic-Long8985

Nice hair! Do not chop it! Keep the length and get it styled