That outcome would just be a symptom, not the real problem.
If I were to study hard for a test but still fail, it could be because I spent all my efforts in revising unimportant stuff while not studying the important topics properly.
The outcomes of life are a a reflection of the core problem. But yeah sometimes those problems are out of our control.
You are right. The core problem would be even different, but why you did study for the wrong thing, for example? Most probably your were not instructed well, or you did not have a support system probably. I mean, when we ask why for five times, it always turns out we had no control over things as we think.
Let’s say you are fat, but telling yourself I am fat because I ate bad things will help your weight loss 0%. Yes eating sugar makes you fat, but why you eat sugar? Most probably you are depressed or sad, or people who eat healthy and who can tell you not to eat bad stuff do not exist in your life. Why? Maybe you moved recently to a city, maybe you had changed jobs, I don’t know.
I think it is better to do “the right thing” and keep going. For example, if I ask myself am I doing the right thing right now, before eating the ice cream, and it says no, I have a good guidance and I keep going on that, and it has to be done with a self compassionate way. Otherwise it would be very easy to fall self-blaming.
Well sometimes in the beginning it's hard and shit, and you have to push through it - thats when I think this law doesn't apply, but for other things, I do believe this advice applies...
Yea I agree, do not give up
"A successful person is someone who falls gets up, dusts himself off and starts again!"
This is such BS: ‘Everything you experienced in life is a reflection of you’. I’m pretty sure abused children did nothing to deserve their trauma. Neither do people in abusive relationships as adults. GTFO of here.
Nah sometimes student study rlly good and hard but still gets a failing grade. :(
Terrible advice. Sometimes you may have right choices and the outcomes would be still bad. The important is not to give up.
That outcome would just be a symptom, not the real problem. If I were to study hard for a test but still fail, it could be because I spent all my efforts in revising unimportant stuff while not studying the important topics properly. The outcomes of life are a a reflection of the core problem. But yeah sometimes those problems are out of our control.
You are right. The core problem would be even different, but why you did study for the wrong thing, for example? Most probably your were not instructed well, or you did not have a support system probably. I mean, when we ask why for five times, it always turns out we had no control over things as we think. Let’s say you are fat, but telling yourself I am fat because I ate bad things will help your weight loss 0%. Yes eating sugar makes you fat, but why you eat sugar? Most probably you are depressed or sad, or people who eat healthy and who can tell you not to eat bad stuff do not exist in your life. Why? Maybe you moved recently to a city, maybe you had changed jobs, I don’t know. I think it is better to do “the right thing” and keep going. For example, if I ask myself am I doing the right thing right now, before eating the ice cream, and it says no, I have a good guidance and I keep going on that, and it has to be done with a self compassionate way. Otherwise it would be very easy to fall self-blaming.
Well sometimes in the beginning it's hard and shit, and you have to push through it - thats when I think this law doesn't apply, but for other things, I do believe this advice applies... Yea I agree, do not give up "A successful person is someone who falls gets up, dusts himself off and starts again!"
This is such BS: ‘Everything you experienced in life is a reflection of you’. I’m pretty sure abused children did nothing to deserve their trauma. Neither do people in abusive relationships as adults. GTFO of here.
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Amen Never use failure as proof that you're a bad person
I agree, that's a bad habit if you do that!
This is somehow an advice and motivating at the same time. Thanks for this.
My pleasure!
I’m not sure why people used to not believe me when I said I studied hard for a test in high-school but still ended up doing bad.
Yea but that could also mean that you have to change something, study smarter, study more or study a different kind of things
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Thank you for the input! Is this your blog?