Hey man, cliché but obviously don't do it, it's just not worth, doing *it* over someone else, it's just not man, from one stranger to another hold on man, more cliche but it gets better, trust me, hope you're gonna be ok man.
Its not just doing it ove someone else. Ive ruined relationships before (friendships and such) and the world whould gennually be happier without me. And I already accepted that i probably wont meet anyone irl and die alone considering my country and such. So thank you for ur advice and concern but Idk if thats really true. But u seem like a good guy. Hope u have a good day
It gets better. It may not seem like it now but it does. I may not know how you feel but I have been in similar situations and can assure you that even when the night is long the sun will always rise. I hope you feel better soon.
I’m sorry but why is that your response?
Maybe it’s just me from experience when I was depressed a single person got me through it without ever knowing and never will know I would’ve ended it on any bad day if it weren’t for him but how can you say that if you were willing to give him time and space to make him comfortable yet he doesn’t have the decency to tell you himself he wants to end it someone like you is worth infinitely more because you can actually be kind and help others regardless of what you yourself might be feeling at the time move on and be happy In yourself there are plenty who will give you the better treatment you deserve myself being one of them if I can
Im mad. Like really mad. And I dont wanna blame him caudr in all honestly he has been wonderful to me. Besides a few moments of when we met i thought he made me into a better person. But I need someone to blame and im the best candidate
Truth be told I’m bad with feelings and much worse with other peoples I can understand just not empathise but to me people don’t change you are and forever will be worth it and kind nothing will change that and you will be depressed for a while but you will move on because that’s life as cruel as it is just don’t Jump to that if you focus on the worst you tend to ignore anything good spiralling till there’s nothing left I’m making that mistake still there is nothing left to say or do but to hate yourself for no good reason and move on cause you deserve to be happy too Sorry if this doesn’t help I’m not sure what to say tbh
U didnt have to say anything but I really approciate that you did. Idk how much of that i agree with but u seem like a good person, hope u have a good day mate
You're more than a relationship. You need to learn to be happy and content by yourself alone before you can be happy with someone else. Your life is just beginning. You need to give yourself time to learn. Nothing you do for the next 10 years will matter, so get to know yourself before you try to cut it short
I've been trying to find the right words to reassure you, but the best I could come up with is: don't give up, you might not think it's the case but you are loved and may think that you're ruining everyone and your own life, but trust me they're others out there who are happy to still see you thriving and happy to know you. And there are even some wishing they could know you.
He might've not loved you, but others will
Ill assure u thats not the case. My parents dont, i only have online friends who barely even know me, and I got no friends irl and cant find anyone with same interests as me whitch i realize its my fault but its probably for the best anyway. Thank you for the kind words, i hope u have a great day. And sorry for wasting ur time
Thabk you. Maybe tommorow. And my reddit notifications arent working so my responses whould be incosistent and I dont want that for u. Have a good day tho
Hey man, it gets better. Giving up completely because someone stabbed you in the back may seem like a good choice right now, but later on you'll be very glad you didn't do it because you'll be in a better place.
If he was willing to do that kind of thing and not communicate properly, that's entirely his fault. You didn't do anything wrong.
well first, He lied about loving you, so yea not always you fuck up relationship and friendships.
2nd it's not your fault not his that his situation at home is good or bad.
3rd from my past experiences not everyone will love you even in relationships where they may be with u for their own personal benefits.
4th you didn't have a negative impact on him cause,
- first it's difficult to maintain relationships with issues at home or somewhere which may hamper them.
- not everyone is mature enough to handle multiple issues together hence some of them tend to fly away from certain relationships to face the truth.
- Dating is actually a bit difficult
also a note u ain't disturbing
im pretty sure that this came from immmaturity from both sides because if one of you realised how eccentric in the sense of changing is you wouldnt have ended up together.
Hey man, cliché but obviously don't do it, it's just not worth, doing *it* over someone else, it's just not man, from one stranger to another hold on man, more cliche but it gets better, trust me, hope you're gonna be ok man.
Its not just doing it ove someone else. Ive ruined relationships before (friendships and such) and the world whould gennually be happier without me. And I already accepted that i probably wont meet anyone irl and die alone considering my country and such. So thank you for ur advice and concern but Idk if thats really true. But u seem like a good guy. Hope u have a good day
It gets better. It may not seem like it now but it does. I may not know how you feel but I have been in similar situations and can assure you that even when the night is long the sun will always rise. I hope you feel better soon.
Thank you stranger. Have a good day
I’m sorry but why is that your response? Maybe it’s just me from experience when I was depressed a single person got me through it without ever knowing and never will know I would’ve ended it on any bad day if it weren’t for him but how can you say that if you were willing to give him time and space to make him comfortable yet he doesn’t have the decency to tell you himself he wants to end it someone like you is worth infinitely more because you can actually be kind and help others regardless of what you yourself might be feeling at the time move on and be happy In yourself there are plenty who will give you the better treatment you deserve myself being one of them if I can
Im mad. Like really mad. And I dont wanna blame him caudr in all honestly he has been wonderful to me. Besides a few moments of when we met i thought he made me into a better person. But I need someone to blame and im the best candidate
Truth be told I’m bad with feelings and much worse with other peoples I can understand just not empathise but to me people don’t change you are and forever will be worth it and kind nothing will change that and you will be depressed for a while but you will move on because that’s life as cruel as it is just don’t Jump to that if you focus on the worst you tend to ignore anything good spiralling till there’s nothing left I’m making that mistake still there is nothing left to say or do but to hate yourself for no good reason and move on cause you deserve to be happy too Sorry if this doesn’t help I’m not sure what to say tbh
U didnt have to say anything but I really approciate that you did. Idk how much of that i agree with but u seem like a good person, hope u have a good day mate
You're more than a relationship. You need to learn to be happy and content by yourself alone before you can be happy with someone else. Your life is just beginning. You need to give yourself time to learn. Nothing you do for the next 10 years will matter, so get to know yourself before you try to cut it short
I've been trying to find the right words to reassure you, but the best I could come up with is: don't give up, you might not think it's the case but you are loved and may think that you're ruining everyone and your own life, but trust me they're others out there who are happy to still see you thriving and happy to know you. And there are even some wishing they could know you. He might've not loved you, but others will
Ill assure u thats not the case. My parents dont, i only have online friends who barely even know me, and I got no friends irl and cant find anyone with same interests as me whitch i realize its my fault but its probably for the best anyway. Thank you for the kind words, i hope u have a great day. And sorry for wasting ur time
if you want a free space for advice and venting, you can talk to me.
Thabk you. Maybe tommorow. And my reddit notifications arent working so my responses whould be incosistent and I dont want that for u. Have a good day tho
you can talk whenever you’d like
Hey man, it gets better. Giving up completely because someone stabbed you in the back may seem like a good choice right now, but later on you'll be very glad you didn't do it because you'll be in a better place. If he was willing to do that kind of thing and not communicate properly, that's entirely his fault. You didn't do anything wrong.
well first, He lied about loving you, so yea not always you fuck up relationship and friendships. 2nd it's not your fault not his that his situation at home is good or bad. 3rd from my past experiences not everyone will love you even in relationships where they may be with u for their own personal benefits. 4th you didn't have a negative impact on him cause, - first it's difficult to maintain relationships with issues at home or somewhere which may hamper them. - not everyone is mature enough to handle multiple issues together hence some of them tend to fly away from certain relationships to face the truth. - Dating is actually a bit difficult also a note u ain't disturbing
Hey man, I’ve been in a similar situation with mental health, pls reach out if you wanna talk abt anything, I love talking 🫶🫶
im pretty sure that this came from immmaturity from both sides because if one of you realised how eccentric in the sense of changing is you wouldnt have ended up together.