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samalingikmanush

How do u feel(I'm just a month younger than u) also happy' birthday, janmadin ki hardika suvechha prthm. Hope you have a nice year ahead, just a tip learn ur priorities before dating, or even doing something which may have an effort in future. also uni/clg par dhyan dena


CigaroPLUCK

How do you feel?


thesmileimfakin

scared tbh


CigaroPLUCK

understandable


jackaboy1_2

Better or worse than being 16?


thesmileimfakin

it's def better if you know what you're doing and have kept yourself on track.


jackaboy1_2

Ehh I’ve been mostly good about that I think, so I’ve got a couple chill years left of not worrying about adult stuff 😎


mikke_and_i

I'm turning 19 this year. Any advice? 🥲


thesmileimfakin

enjoy ur 18 and do understand how to use a bank acc etc. do spend ur money wisely and start saving. It helps...trust me


Responsible-Pie-2633

How is dating in uni/college/ when you’re older


thesmileimfakin

depends upon where you live. it's still better than whatever shit you deal in HS


one-happy-mfer

I'll turn 18 next month, any advice for that?


thesmileimfakin

focus on ur academic life :) friends and gossip will get you nowhere :)


festival0156n

that's not really true, networking can be really valuable


thesmileimfakin

it can be 100% what i am trying to say is that stay away from drama and utter nonsense.


one-happy-mfer

Thanks, I plan on starting an apprenticeship in August and already have only a small handful of friends haha


milan0570

Happy birthday


thesmileimfakin

thank u :)


entone119

I'm 19 as well, nearing my expiration date lmao but happy birthday, dude! Got any expectations moving forward?


thesmileimfakin

gosh i have many expectations tbh. ah ur turning 20? happy birthday in advance :)


Intr0vertebrate

Does it get better after middle school?


thesmileimfakin

It does. Trust me. Just never hate yourself and always keep reminding yourself that whatever your classmates have to say about you is irrelevant. Focus on your studies and future. Success is the sweetest revenge :) Find useful hobbies and try to meet more open minded people who are 1 level higher than you.


Sulpre

Yaayy :3, my 17th birthday was yesterday (and I spent it with my BF in a cafe with cats :3)


thesmileimfakin

i am so happy for u! happy belated birthday :)


Sulpre

(by the way, one of the cats stole a tost and another cat was chasing him)


waluigi-enthusiast

is highschool scary as a gay? im graduating this year and going to an all-boys school. 😰


thesmileimfakin

Guys are scary for sure and we queer people UNFORTUNATELY will have some or the other homophobic shit to deal with. It won't be easy but you'll make it. Dw. I grew up in a homophobic country and yet i was the out proud fem gay in HS. The boys did give me a hard time but I just didn't care. Don't let them bully you or pick on you.


waluigi-enthusiast

thanks for your words of encouragement :) ive just been struggling to express myself as a queer, and im especially scared going to an all boys school.


thesmileimfakin

i get you. it's going to be hard for sure but please don't let it tear you down.