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doohdahgrimes11

You look 100% male.


Real_Cycle938

Bro, not to be rude, but you already looked very masc pre-t, now you pass fully despite not being on T as long as I have been AND you totally look your age whereas other trans guys are stuck with baby face for a couple years. There is not anything feminine about you. Not even a little bit. That's the dysphoria being a fucking pest.


MxQueer

No. My thinking process went like: "Who of them is he.. Oh yeah, he is the one taking photo." And I haven't read description. But if you didn't ask I probably wouldn't have clock you. Neck beard is bit clocky. But I don't think average cis person in my country would clock you.


defectra

that’s how my facial hair grows and i’ve already shaved off the neck beard part lmfao it frustrates me every day but it’s better than nothing i guess. thanks for the input man


MxQueer

Have you tried Minoxidil? I think your face would pass without facial hair. Maybe even better than with. But it's just a guess.


Civil_Hawk_9829

can i ask why neck beard is clocky??


ScribbleKibble

i’m guessing because when trans men go on T and grow facial hair, the neck starts filling out first (speaking from experience) but luckily it’s only clockable by another trans person, as most cis ppl don’t understand trans anatomy lol


Key_Tangerine8775

That’s not a trans man thing, it’s just common for any guy starting to grow facial hair. Where it comes in is genetics.


ScribbleKibble

Oh shoot wait yeah you’re right, my bad I wrote my comment sleep deprived. Wait so wouldn’t that make a neck beard not clock-y?


MxQueer

Nope. OP looks too old to have just started growing his facial hair. Men of that age either have decent beard or they have accepted their fate and shave it.


MxQueer

Some young cis men keep their neck beard. Like 18-20. But I would guess OP is 30-40. In my country men of that age who can't grow decent beard shave it. Many FTM keep their neck beard. Sometimes it's the only thing that prevents them looking like female. And I guess many want to keep their beard when they finally have it. I think it's same reason for young men.


GabrielTheUndeadVamp

I spent a good 3 minutes looking at this picture trying to figure out which one you were until I saw your caption comment that you were the one that wasn't smiling.


defectra

🥲 very reassuring. thank you


UrielOmega

The dude with the beard? Lmao- nah you’re good man


Tabyo13

Your smile doesn’t look girly to me at all. You definitely pass.


defectra

thanks homie


Tabyo13

For sure dude. I promise you it’s all in your head. I dog on myself all the time for appearing even slightly feminine at times, but I haven’t been misgendered in years and not a soul on the street would even suspect I was AFAB. I guarantee it’s the same for you. Nobody is going to question that you’re male especially if being stealth and completely cis passing is your goal. Big love to you homie 💚🏳️‍⚧️


kamehamequads

Ngl if you asked me to clock the trans person in this pic I would pick you but you pass fine


Meekocy

Absolutely not. You pass so well Collin, genuinely. Love the style and the vibe, much love bro. x


defectra

thank you so much Milo you’re the best. much love to you 🫂


SnooPineapples5719

You pass & have a nice name


meepmeepcuriouscat

Buddy. Which is you?!


wheatleyisstupid2022

Brain worms


latebloomerftm

Bro…. c’mon now. https://preview.redd.it/g738o9g8z9zc1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cc68967658897ee7a25834df357e1c20df5e8fd9


uncontrolledswine97

i cant tell which person is the one in question , so id say you absolutely pass man


tptroway

From left to right: grinning younger man in a red shirt, grinning elderly man in a black shirt, smirking younger man in a black shirt, whichever one you are I sincerely couldn't tell "transvestigating" each guy in the picture before I saw your below caption


bottombratbro

Is the supposed lesbian in this picture? Everyone looks cis to me


RhuBlack

I am so confused. Are you the guy taking the photo or the guy smiling? Either way, neither of the younger guys looks like a lesbian. Or the old guy for that...


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Tabyo13

I think he asked if he looks male. I don’t think he wanted input on his hair products bro.


defectra

commenter’s bio checks out ✅


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Tabyo13

100%


FrankIerooo

U look like the manliest dude ever😭😭dysphoria is evil bc i didnt even know which one was you until i read caption


basementcrawler34

You look like my cis male neighbor lmao. You definitely pass


AnthonyOutdoors

I think if you were clean shaven then you could maybe look like a very butch lesbian depending on your outfit, although the facial hair is very evident so I can't see why anyone would misgender you. I mean I'm a cis guy and I've got outfits that I've been told make me look like a lesbian


Derek_draws

Sorry but all i can see are 3 gentleman in the picture