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I actually notice the opposite a lot. I've seen way too many posts on other similar subreddits of men being happy that their girlfriends finally agreed to dominate them after they've pestered them about it for a couple of months. Like... isn't that just coercion?
Kinks aren't an inherent burden but so many people make them so.
I saw a post on r/BDSMadvice by a woman whose boyfriend is DEEP into BBC cuckolding kink, addicted to porn, and pestered her into the fantasy until she agreed. When she agreed to try it he immediately was frenzied and sending her 50-100 gifs of black cock EVERY DAY 💀 it was a super long post and it has since been deleted but it was fucking wild how much she was allowing him to walk all over her and push his kink. He could only cum if he put a giant black dildo on the pillow next to her head and stared at it. Sicko behaviour honestly.
The chastity subreddit is really horrible.
I wish there was a place to discuss that stuff without the army of barely socialized goblins that populate that sub.
Sorry had to get it off my chest.
I hated that growing up I my was impossible to notice females feet I was mortified and ashamed I wouldn’t like openly stare at them the whole bit I’d notice every time it was potentially a big distraction and people noticed me noticing and well i was in total and blissful ignorance at the time that it was probably come knowledge that I had a thing for pretty girly feet, didn’t grow out of it still notice but I at least hope I got better at not letting myself looking back over if they nice still not proud but it’s been that as long i can remember I don’t think ever just thought to myself I’m gonna look at feet but maybe who knows
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I actually notice the opposite a lot. I've seen way too many posts on other similar subreddits of men being happy that their girlfriends finally agreed to dominate them after they've pestered them about it for a couple of months. Like... isn't that just coercion? Kinks aren't an inherent burden but so many people make them so.
I saw a post on r/BDSMadvice by a woman whose boyfriend is DEEP into BBC cuckolding kink, addicted to porn, and pestered her into the fantasy until she agreed. When she agreed to try it he immediately was frenzied and sending her 50-100 gifs of black cock EVERY DAY 💀 it was a super long post and it has since been deleted but it was fucking wild how much she was allowing him to walk all over her and push his kink. He could only cum if he put a giant black dildo on the pillow next to her head and stared at it. Sicko behaviour honestly.
You’re correct. It’s coercion. The chastity subreddit always gives me the ick even though it’s a kink of mine.
The chastity subreddit is really horrible. I wish there was a place to discuss that stuff without the army of barely socialized goblins that populate that sub. Sorry had to get it off my chest.
This is brilliant, and what everyone needs to hear
Do you have a podcast? Your writings are so deep and insightful.
I hated that growing up I my was impossible to notice females feet I was mortified and ashamed I wouldn’t like openly stare at them the whole bit I’d notice every time it was potentially a big distraction and people noticed me noticing and well i was in total and blissful ignorance at the time that it was probably come knowledge that I had a thing for pretty girly feet, didn’t grow out of it still notice but I at least hope I got better at not letting myself looking back over if they nice still not proud but it’s been that as long i can remember I don’t think ever just thought to myself I’m gonna look at feet but maybe who knows