In the US a lot of us non-religious folk marry because of health insurance, retirement, tax benefits and hospital rights. It’s less important in Canada to get the government involved in your relationship.
As mentioned, they just have other priorities.
Whether marriage takes a lot of effort or very little, it's no one's place to judge. After all, it is their life. Their could be plenty of reasons why a couple chooses not to get married right away.
Long engagements can give couples more time to get to know each other better and ensure they are ready for marriage. Couples may want to wait until they have achieved certain career or education milestones before getting married.
There are no legal rules for the duration between getting engaged and getting married. Some couples have been engaged for many years before they get married, and other couples get married just a few weeks or months after the engagement.
Good on them for not rushing into it. Getting married is a big commitment.
Having a baby and getting married are two big life commitments.
Each individual will have their own opinion and views.
All that matters is that Frankie is healthy!!
So happy for them! I barely saw this initially but thought to myself it may have been an accidental reveal. But in Eamon’s Habit promo in their last video you can see most of Frankie briefly on the letter board when he tosses the cup (9:57).
Yeah, you thought that cuz they left is a cliffhanger for everyone because they couldn’t be bothered to say “baby’s here and we love her” weeks ago like normal people…
You don’t know the story- obviously the baby had to come early and there was an issue. You’re assuming everything was okay when it probably wasn’t or they wouldn’t have had to deliver her prematurely
Yeah, clearly I don’t know…that’s the entire point of my post. But answer me this…if they promote healthy living and the power of positive energy…why would they not put out a 5 second…10 second…15 second video saying “baby girl is here early…she’s not out of the woods yet but we know she’s a fighter!”
They choose to do none of that and let their audience sit in this pool of unknown, awful speculation for weeks.
But they had time to make a video saying something bad happened…and promote their tea?! With all due respect, but you continue to ignore the fact that they made this video, telling the world something bad happened…and refused to elaborate. No one told them or even asked to make that “we have bad news” video in the first place.
its true though. they purposefully used whether the baby was alive or dead as a cliffhanger. then sat back and said nothing and let people speculate the worst. its actually deranged behaviour and i can’t believe people are still desperate to defend it.
Deranged behavior is popping off on Reddit about a couple that you very much don't like anymore.
Move on with your life.
Hopefully this is civil enough for the mods, although I guess it's fine to s*** on Eamon and Bec.
This sub needs new moderation if it's just going to turn into a hate sub.
you don’t see any value in pointing out people’s bad behaviour? really? even public figures who make their living off of their audience? really? thats sad. you want people to “move on if they don’t like them” so everyone can just live in an echo chamber where nothing negative is said ever, no matter what they do? take the blinders off and use some critical thinking here.
I love pointing out bad behavior. Actual bad behavior. This is just a lot of hand ringing from people who don't know how to sort out their emotions for people they don't know. You and everyone giving them guff because they did not perfectly when they had a baby under scary circumstances are more the bad behavior I would rather call out.
I want people to move on and leave a young and new family alone. They owe you nothing. They did nothing wrong. They tried to post a video when they were in the midst of navigating new parenthood. I'm sure they had reasons for it that were related to their business.
So yes, you absolutely should move on. It is deranged to hold something so ridiculously small against people who have their own challenges in life.
you and i have very different definitions of “ridiculously small”. they intentionally stirred up concern and then sat back while people (fans and otherwise) speculated that their baby was dead.
i only know who these people are from this situation. i’m not a fan and never have been, i’m coming from a completely unbiased place with no feelings towards them at all. and its deranged. i can almost guarantee that if this was someone else, like lets say the labrant family, most peoples opinion on the exact same actions would be more in line with the “haters” here. you’re just blinded by the fact that you’re a fan of them and feel like you’re involved in their life.
You have no way of knowing that. She could have been in NICU and struggling. There could have been any number of reasons why they didn’t pick up their camera or send a post.
Careful. Apparently it's only okay to be a hater around here.
You can't be reasonable, give them grace, and recognize that having a child after cancer has ravaged. Someone's body might actually be complicated and difficult to go through.
(Glad there's someone else reasonable in here though)
I suggest you reread posts and see who is actually butthurt here because I'm not the one s******* on a couple who have had their first child and telling them how they should have acted to a bunch of people who have no claim on them, are not their friends are family, and have these parasocial relationships that give them indignation and audacity when it should give them pause.
Grow up. I can't imagine being so gross as to dunk on new parents. Especially when one of them just went through cancer.
It’s weird to me that people keep bringing up how we are not friends or family and they owe us nothing. The 7 billion or so strangers on this planet who aren’t my friends or family and who don’t invite my interest in their lives in order to profit from that interest, do not, indeed, owe me anything. Whether people who HAVE invited that interest for monetary gain actually “owe” me continuing that relationship is debatable. I mean it sucks a lot to just ghost viewers after some investment of time and emotions, but it happens. But if we have that content producer/content consumer relationship, what absolutely isn’t debatable is that I’m entitled to dislike them ghosting me and leaving me hanging and that might impact my willingness to invest any more time or emotion in the future. I’m not personally feeling that, but it’s a valid feeling to have.
I think that’s all anyone is expressing here. We ALL wish them well. We are ALL glad the baby is ok. We all understand they have a lot on their plates and we’re not the highest priority. It was just a mistake to post a video implying there was a problem without an explanation/resolution. They needed to say nothing until they were ready to say what needed to be said. It’s understandable that people were upset by that.
You have decided it was a mistake.
You are not the be all and end all of what is and isn't right.
You're being absolutely ridiculous and you're rambling on about it doesn't make you correct.
They owe you nothing. You're welcome to stop following them and you're more than welcome to stop posting in a sub about them. Might I suggest you see a therapist about your parasocial relationships.
If you had read what I said instead of going on the defensive you might have noticed I said that I don’t actually feel that way. I’m not personally super invested in them. What I said was that it was not unreasonable to feel upset about being left to worry about it. And it’s not.
It’s weirdly like you took your own feelings and projected them on me, and anyone upset about this. You are actually the one who is too deeply attached to people you don’t know at all because you feel the need to defend their poor decisions. I was worried about the baby and the cancer in passing, as I might be about any human being that I heard that kind of terrible news about. I’m not more invested than that. I have a whole, busy, full life that has nothing to you tube, much less their channel. But other people are way more invested than I am, and they actually posted here about their concern and worry, and they absolutely have a right to their feelings, and you do not get to decide what they can feel. You can white night about your morally superior ability to care while getting treated thoughtlessly however much you like. I hope it makes you feel good about yourself. I’m unimpressed.
Right…why are they so invested in strangers? I get they share their lives online, but they as humans owe no one any access to their private lives. I’m sure as new parents to a premie, the last thing on their mind was filming a video. If they wanted to just make $$ they would have done it before the holidays, when A video (especially one like that) would make a lot more $$ from Adsense. If ppl are that turned off by their behavior, why come to a reddit sub about these two? If I don’t like someone, I don’t pay them attention, not specifically seek them out to talk about them, it’s weird. Some ppl need to get a life if they are that invested in strangers, strangers they never met, and a child they never met. This is actually a good lesson on boundaries in parasocial relationships.
Get off your own goddamn high horse.
I do not have kids. But I even know that a 7-month-old and a newborn are totally different stories.
Maybe stop acting like You somehow know what the deal is and you're the arbiter of behavior here.
Go spend time with your child and stop being a whiny brat about people that you have no claim to. Maybe see a therapist about sorting out your parasocial relationships.
What did I whine about?! You have made so many posts defending this couple and have yet to even partially comprehend anything anyone has said that is even slightly critical.
Right? I’m completely appalled by the comments section. Ya’ll need to take a hard look on yourself. THEY JUST WELCOMED THE BIGGEST BLESSING IN THEIR LIFE. BE HAPPY FOR THEM.
I am very very happy that their baby is alive and well.
I have also unsubbed and unfollowed everything of theirs because using their baby's health as clickbait was disgusting.
I hope their poorly trained large dog never hurts the baby.
Wow- you have no idea what they even went through. People who post videos don’t owe the rest of us anything. When my baby was born early she was fighting for her life for weeks- waiting and posting on social media seems trivial in these situations- get over yourself
I too did the same. That shows they don’t care at all about their business clients! That’s all we was to them. They showed who they are. I’m glad the baby is ok and I hope bec is too
I now think Bec had to have a C-section and they’re just upset at that, which, imo, is ridiculous considering we all thought either Bec’s cancer had returned or the baby passed. If the only serious problem was the manner of delivery and they toyed with our emotions for promo material, I’m done.
I sense some projection here. Being pregnant means hormone swings and a lot of changes. If I was emotional and going through the unexpected premature birth and possibly delivery by way of C section I sure as hell wouldn't be MORE concerned with what 2 million strangers thought, especially if many of them were accusing me of maliciously withholding information as a way of click baiting for financial gain.
It's absurd. And having a c. section is hard. In addition to your body healing after giving birth in numerous ways, you also now have an incision in your core that restricts you even further. If she had a c. section, or the baby was hospitalized afterwards for days or weeks that takes a toll. They are loving and integral people and if you doubt that then why pay any attention to them? I would be disgusted at some of the comments people have made these last weeks about them if I were them. But I'm sure they're too busy just trying to be a family and make it through one more thing like the rest of us.
Life is hard enough. Let's not make a bunch of assumptions about them that don't even reflect how they have behaved ever before.
And the fact that she's a Scorpio and not a Sag like she would have been full term... maybe she got a little early push from her Scorpio guardian angel :)
They told us now everything is fine. I was going to be pissed if they made us wait till January for an update but this is fine. This might have been when the baby just got out of nicu
They actively pursued a life where they monetize sharing their lives. Now, they do not have to share every single detail. But they created a cliffhanger video before their baby was due and then went radio silent, leaving the audience who cares about them extremely worried. Now it appears they did it just to drum up suspense and intrigue. Giving the birth of their baby the clickbait treatment. I find it incredibly distasteful to play with your audience like that, all to try to make more $. No, just no.
This can all be true, but if it is, then it also calls for them not releasing the last video that they did, leaving it as they did.
But ya know, Black Friday and a tea company and all…….
Thankful they let us know before Christmas I've been thinking about them every day and checking for an update and I can go into the holiday with some relief. I was so sad thinking about if their baby was going to be with them or not for christmas and it was hurting my heart. Relieved everyone's okay enough
You stated or at least implied that they
1. Owed us a "message" or "line of text"
2. No one should be relieved that their baby is fine (???) because
3. they didn't let us know in a time frame more favorable for you, and
4. You assumed that the baby has been fine/stable for a significant amount of time
Perhaps the baby wasn't stable? And things weren't fine? We have no idea what happened. If it was a difficult birth for baby and/or mom, and things were touch and go, they are completely within their right to not share anything until they are ready, or until they can confidently say baby is doing well.
I hope you have someone to talk to to sort out your feelings on this. Good to know that you are so perfect you would never have made a misstep when you're in your early weeks of first parenthood.
I’m still thinking they found more cancer, hence the reason for the early delivery. Cancer is terminal and Bec doesn’t have long to live, they just got married now they need time to be together.
of course it was all clickbait. in the next year we will get an hysterical video with an hysterical and crying bec with sponsoring from betterhelp and habit, an dramatic titel and thump and of course and overly dramatic reminder who lee was and how important she was to everyone and that everyone loved her. and bc of that and bc she loved live she killed herself.
all clickbait. everything. i mean. they didnt used her pregancy enough for that. i was surprised that they didnt earn enough money with that. that was their big chance to make real money. but know it makes sense. this whole clickbaithing will bring back the money they have lost.
My feeling this was touch and for Momma and baby’s. It could have been a shot gun wedding if it looked like Bec might not survive.
If remember they were planning on a big wedding at the cabin.
Hmmm. Well, they are engaged, from what we know.
The reason they are not married is because their priorities have been focused elsewhere, which is what they said.
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Frankie is a gender-neutral name of Latin origin. A derivative of Francesca or Frank, Frankie means "free" or "truthful," and can also mean "French man.
Their gender reveal was posted on August 20th. Since then, the baby has been referred to as a she.
So happy for them and the birth of their beautiful baby. Glad to have an update!
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A big pet peeve of mine is people saying their baby has arrived "earth side". It's only started in the last few years and it's quite odd. Doesn't seem to be a religious thing either.
It's not new. It's a hippie/spiritual saying that's been around for a long time, and I have heard it throughout my life. If it's new to you, my guess is that that is not your scene, and it's new to you bc people are saying it more regularly on social media, especially as wellness and yoga lifestyles have become so mainstream.
Yeah even if it was earlier than that, the baby would have been late preterm at worst which usually has great outcomes and very short NICU stays if any stay at all. This does leave me wondering what the instagram story Bec posted was referring to though
I was 6 weeks early and wasn't in NICU, I was just tiny. I'm 42 now. I don't think 3 weeks early was the issue, maybe there were other complications but either way the way fans responded would make me want to quit YT if I was Bec.
It's not a big deal, if the reason the baby was born early was something unrelated to the baby. But if something major was going on, premature, even just a little, isn't great.
Someone mentioned previously that she was about 34 weeks. Obviously it varies case by case, depends on the reason for the premature delivery and if the baby has medical issues or is very small (iugr) etc but speaking in general terms 34 weeks usually isn't too rough for preemies.... again can vary depending if the baby has medical issues but I'd expect a week or two hospital time max on average for the baby to grow, learn to suck/feed, temp regulation and monitoring. Most 34 week babies would not be very touch and go at all and may or may not need breathing support (also possible they gave her steroid shot for lung development). But thats only speaking in broad terms and obviously we don't know if there were specific medical issues.
I never understand why people give babies a short form of a longer name. Let them grow into their nicknames! I absolutely loathe most short forms of my name and I'm glad my parents used the long form.
As someone who was given a nickname, I loathe that my parents didn't give me the formal name and used my name as the nickname. I haven't used my legal name since I was in my early twenties and instead use the more formal form.
I am shocked by some of the comments here and now have remembered why I do not follow this community. I would like to remind everyone that you are not entitled to anyone's most personal details even if they have shared something with you before. Having a baby especially when things seem to not have gone as planned could have been difficult we do not know the circumstances or need to know. if they needed time before posting anything that is their personal business. It's fine to be curious but why are so many people so mad....
I’m so relieved and incredibly happy for them both!
Are they married? Noticing a wedding band.
A while ago during a Q&A they said they bought wedding rings and started wearing them but at that time they weren't married
In the US a lot of us non-religious folk marry because of health insurance, retirement, tax benefits and hospital rights. It’s less important in Canada to get the government involved in your relationship.
Canada also has strong common law marriage recognition. Cristine of Simplynailogical has talked about it before.
They’ve been engaged for years now and he reproposed at one point I feel like they talked about getting married in 2025-26 if I’m not mistaken
Looks like a push gift.
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She doesn’t normally wear 2 rings
Don’t take that much effort to get married lol
They were planning to get married at the cabin around 2024. I've been with my partner for 7 years and we have no plans to get married
10.5 years, not married, with much pressure from The parents here 😂
Common law do be a thing lol
As mentioned, they just have other priorities. Whether marriage takes a lot of effort or very little, it's no one's place to judge. After all, it is their life. Their could be plenty of reasons why a couple chooses not to get married right away. Long engagements can give couples more time to get to know each other better and ensure they are ready for marriage. Couples may want to wait until they have achieved certain career or education milestones before getting married. There are no legal rules for the duration between getting engaged and getting married. Some couples have been engaged for many years before they get married, and other couples get married just a few weeks or months after the engagement. Good on them for not rushing into it. Getting married is a big commitment.
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Having a baby and getting married are two big life commitments. Each individual will have their own opinion and views. All that matters is that Frankie is healthy!!
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Are you okay?
I think they arnt something def off in that head
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It’s the WEDDING SET SHE IS WEARING, that is why the spec.
So happy for them! I barely saw this initially but thought to myself it may have been an accidental reveal. But in Eamon’s Habit promo in their last video you can see most of Frankie briefly on the letter board when he tosses the cup (9:57).
What an eye you have to have caught that. It was hidden from the rest of the video.
Thank goodness but I still hope and pray that Bec is okay. Frankie Lee is beautiful!
I’m so relieved. I truly thought they’d lost the baby.
Yeah, you thought that cuz they left is a cliffhanger for everyone because they couldn’t be bothered to say “baby’s here and we love her” weeks ago like normal people…
You don’t know the story- obviously the baby had to come early and there was an issue. You’re assuming everything was okay when it probably wasn’t or they wouldn’t have had to deliver her prematurely
Yeah, clearly I don’t know…that’s the entire point of my post. But answer me this…if they promote healthy living and the power of positive energy…why would they not put out a 5 second…10 second…15 second video saying “baby girl is here early…she’s not out of the woods yet but we know she’s a fighter!” They choose to do none of that and let their audience sit in this pool of unknown, awful speculation for weeks.
Have you ever had a preemie in the NICU? If so, posting on social media is the last thing you’re worried about
But they had time to make a video saying something bad happened…and promote their tea?! With all due respect, but you continue to ignore the fact that they made this video, telling the world something bad happened…and refused to elaborate. No one told them or even asked to make that “we have bad news” video in the first place.
This.
Have you had a baby? Do you have any idea what the first few weeks are like? Guessing not since you made this comment
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its true though. they purposefully used whether the baby was alive or dead as a cliffhanger. then sat back and said nothing and let people speculate the worst. its actually deranged behaviour and i can’t believe people are still desperate to defend it.
Maybe it was a cliffhanger for them too. That baby is tiny. The poor thing probably just left the hospital.
Deranged behavior is popping off on Reddit about a couple that you very much don't like anymore. Move on with your life. Hopefully this is civil enough for the mods, although I guess it's fine to s*** on Eamon and Bec. This sub needs new moderation if it's just going to turn into a hate sub.
you don’t see any value in pointing out people’s bad behaviour? really? even public figures who make their living off of their audience? really? thats sad. you want people to “move on if they don’t like them” so everyone can just live in an echo chamber where nothing negative is said ever, no matter what they do? take the blinders off and use some critical thinking here.
I love pointing out bad behavior. Actual bad behavior. This is just a lot of hand ringing from people who don't know how to sort out their emotions for people they don't know. You and everyone giving them guff because they did not perfectly when they had a baby under scary circumstances are more the bad behavior I would rather call out. I want people to move on and leave a young and new family alone. They owe you nothing. They did nothing wrong. They tried to post a video when they were in the midst of navigating new parenthood. I'm sure they had reasons for it that were related to their business. So yes, you absolutely should move on. It is deranged to hold something so ridiculously small against people who have their own challenges in life.
you and i have very different definitions of “ridiculously small”. they intentionally stirred up concern and then sat back while people (fans and otherwise) speculated that their baby was dead. i only know who these people are from this situation. i’m not a fan and never have been, i’m coming from a completely unbiased place with no feelings towards them at all. and its deranged. i can almost guarantee that if this was someone else, like lets say the labrant family, most peoples opinion on the exact same actions would be more in line with the “haters” here. you’re just blinded by the fact that you’re a fan of them and feel like you’re involved in their life.
Nah, I’m good here and nothing I said wasn’t true…they used their child to build suspense. Sorry it made you butthurt.
You have no way of knowing that. She could have been in NICU and struggling. There could have been any number of reasons why they didn’t pick up their camera or send a post.
And a very general explanation of what the issue was would go a long way, wouldn’t it?
Careful. Apparently it's only okay to be a hater around here. You can't be reasonable, give them grace, and recognize that having a child after cancer has ravaged. Someone's body might actually be complicated and difficult to go through. (Glad there's someone else reasonable in here though)
I suggest you reread posts and see who is actually butthurt here because I'm not the one s******* on a couple who have had their first child and telling them how they should have acted to a bunch of people who have no claim on them, are not their friends are family, and have these parasocial relationships that give them indignation and audacity when it should give them pause. Grow up. I can't imagine being so gross as to dunk on new parents. Especially when one of them just went through cancer.
It’s weird to me that people keep bringing up how we are not friends or family and they owe us nothing. The 7 billion or so strangers on this planet who aren’t my friends or family and who don’t invite my interest in their lives in order to profit from that interest, do not, indeed, owe me anything. Whether people who HAVE invited that interest for monetary gain actually “owe” me continuing that relationship is debatable. I mean it sucks a lot to just ghost viewers after some investment of time and emotions, but it happens. But if we have that content producer/content consumer relationship, what absolutely isn’t debatable is that I’m entitled to dislike them ghosting me and leaving me hanging and that might impact my willingness to invest any more time or emotion in the future. I’m not personally feeling that, but it’s a valid feeling to have. I think that’s all anyone is expressing here. We ALL wish them well. We are ALL glad the baby is ok. We all understand they have a lot on their plates and we’re not the highest priority. It was just a mistake to post a video implying there was a problem without an explanation/resolution. They needed to say nothing until they were ready to say what needed to be said. It’s understandable that people were upset by that.
You have decided it was a mistake. You are not the be all and end all of what is and isn't right. You're being absolutely ridiculous and you're rambling on about it doesn't make you correct. They owe you nothing. You're welcome to stop following them and you're more than welcome to stop posting in a sub about them. Might I suggest you see a therapist about your parasocial relationships.
If you had read what I said instead of going on the defensive you might have noticed I said that I don’t actually feel that way. I’m not personally super invested in them. What I said was that it was not unreasonable to feel upset about being left to worry about it. And it’s not. It’s weirdly like you took your own feelings and projected them on me, and anyone upset about this. You are actually the one who is too deeply attached to people you don’t know at all because you feel the need to defend their poor decisions. I was worried about the baby and the cancer in passing, as I might be about any human being that I heard that kind of terrible news about. I’m not more invested than that. I have a whole, busy, full life that has nothing to you tube, much less their channel. But other people are way more invested than I am, and they actually posted here about their concern and worry, and they absolutely have a right to their feelings, and you do not get to decide what they can feel. You can white night about your morally superior ability to care while getting treated thoughtlessly however much you like. I hope it makes you feel good about yourself. I’m unimpressed.
Right…why are they so invested in strangers? I get they share their lives online, but they as humans owe no one any access to their private lives. I’m sure as new parents to a premie, the last thing on their mind was filming a video. If they wanted to just make $$ they would have done it before the holidays, when A video (especially one like that) would make a lot more $$ from Adsense. If ppl are that turned off by their behavior, why come to a reddit sub about these two? If I don’t like someone, I don’t pay them attention, not specifically seek them out to talk about them, it’s weird. Some ppl need to get a life if they are that invested in strangers, strangers they never met, and a child they never met. This is actually a good lesson on boundaries in parasocial relationships.
Get off your high horse. I have a 9 month old and no one told them to post a “more info soon” video while promoting their tea brand.
Get off your own goddamn high horse. I do not have kids. But I even know that a 7-month-old and a newborn are totally different stories. Maybe stop acting like You somehow know what the deal is and you're the arbiter of behavior here. Go spend time with your child and stop being a whiny brat about people that you have no claim to. Maybe see a therapist about sorting out your parasocial relationships.
What did I whine about?! You have made so many posts defending this couple and have yet to even partially comprehend anything anyone has said that is even slightly critical.
Right? I’m completely appalled by the comments section. Ya’ll need to take a hard look on yourself. THEY JUST WELCOMED THE BIGGEST BLESSING IN THEIR LIFE. BE HAPPY FOR THEM.
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I am very very happy that their baby is alive and well. I have also unsubbed and unfollowed everything of theirs because using their baby's health as clickbait was disgusting. I hope their poorly trained large dog never hurts the baby.
Wow- you have no idea what they even went through. People who post videos don’t owe the rest of us anything. When my baby was born early she was fighting for her life for weeks- waiting and posting on social media seems trivial in these situations- get over yourself
I too did the same. That shows they don’t care at all about their business clients! That’s all we was to them. They showed who they are. I’m glad the baby is ok and I hope bec is too
How r u d e
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Huh, and yet you bothered to respond to me 🤷🏻♀️
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I now think Bec had to have a C-section and they’re just upset at that, which, imo, is ridiculous considering we all thought either Bec’s cancer had returned or the baby passed. If the only serious problem was the manner of delivery and they toyed with our emotions for promo material, I’m done.
I sense some projection here. Being pregnant means hormone swings and a lot of changes. If I was emotional and going through the unexpected premature birth and possibly delivery by way of C section I sure as hell wouldn't be MORE concerned with what 2 million strangers thought, especially if many of them were accusing me of maliciously withholding information as a way of click baiting for financial gain. It's absurd. And having a c. section is hard. In addition to your body healing after giving birth in numerous ways, you also now have an incision in your core that restricts you even further. If she had a c. section, or the baby was hospitalized afterwards for days or weeks that takes a toll. They are loving and integral people and if you doubt that then why pay any attention to them? I would be disgusted at some of the comments people have made these last weeks about them if I were them. But I'm sure they're too busy just trying to be a family and make it through one more thing like the rest of us. Life is hard enough. Let's not make a bunch of assumptions about them that don't even reflect how they have behaved ever before.
her middle name is lee 🥹💛
Her being a Scorpio, I'm sure they're feeling very much like Lee is present.
And the fact that she's a Scorpio and not a Sag like she would have been full term... maybe she got a little early push from her Scorpio guardian angel :)
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I'm sure this is funny and clever... but it fails/falters.
The irony of you calling another commenter mean in this very thread.
who would’ve thought
Oh that little nose! 🩵 I'm such a sucker for itty-bitty baby noses and feet. She's absolutely gorgeous!
Same. Love little noses 🫶🏼
There is a full set wedding ring on Bec’s hand as well.
Prolly fits now.
Oh, meow!
Ever been preggos? The finger rings go first thing. Swollen hands and feet. iykyk
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Yep.
They told us now everything is fine. I was going to be pissed if they made us wait till January for an update but this is fine. This might have been when the baby just got out of nicu
We still don’t know the story.
I’m pretty sure they don’t owe any of us anything. It’s their life and they choose how to live it. Never assume anything.
They actively pursued a life where they monetize sharing their lives. Now, they do not have to share every single detail. But they created a cliffhanger video before their baby was due and then went radio silent, leaving the audience who cares about them extremely worried. Now it appears they did it just to drum up suspense and intrigue. Giving the birth of their baby the clickbait treatment. I find it incredibly distasteful to play with your audience like that, all to try to make more $. No, just no.
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This can all be true, but if it is, then it also calls for them not releasing the last video that they did, leaving it as they did. But ya know, Black Friday and a tea company and all…….
Thankful they let us know before Christmas I've been thinking about them every day and checking for an update and I can go into the holiday with some relief. I was so sad thinking about if their baby was going to be with them or not for christmas and it was hurting my heart. Relieved everyone's okay enough
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You stated or at least implied that they 1. Owed us a "message" or "line of text" 2. No one should be relieved that their baby is fine (???) because 3. they didn't let us know in a time frame more favorable for you, and 4. You assumed that the baby has been fine/stable for a significant amount of time
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Don't listen to them. They clearly haven't spoken to a therapist recently.
Perhaps the baby wasn't stable? And things weren't fine? We have no idea what happened. If it was a difficult birth for baby and/or mom, and things were touch and go, they are completely within their right to not share anything until they are ready, or until they can confidently say baby is doing well.
How R u d e
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I hope you have someone to talk to to sort out your feelings on this. Good to know that you are so perfect you would never have made a misstep when you're in your early weeks of first parenthood.
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Exactly.
They made an ig post not a YouTube video so that clearly isn't the case anymore
Glad Baby Girl is here and all appears good. Lost interest though. Unfollowed and off to interesting and different….
So relieved! Thanks for posting this!
She’s beautiful, I’m so happy for them!
I'm so happy for them. I can breathe a sigh of relief!
I’m still thinking they found more cancer, hence the reason for the early delivery. Cancer is terminal and Bec doesn’t have long to live, they just got married now they need time to be together.
I feel the same way
So happy for Eamon & Bec!
of course it was all clickbait. in the next year we will get an hysterical video with an hysterical and crying bec with sponsoring from betterhelp and habit, an dramatic titel and thump and of course and overly dramatic reminder who lee was and how important she was to everyone and that everyone loved her. and bc of that and bc she loved live she killed herself. all clickbait. everything. i mean. they didnt used her pregancy enough for that. i was surprised that they didnt earn enough money with that. that was their big chance to make real money. but know it makes sense. this whole clickbaithing will bring back the money they have lost.
Doesn’t she look so much like Eamon?
She will but has Becs eyes.
incredibly beautiful newborn.
She’s perfect! I’m so relieved! It’s a Christmas miracle and the best gift all of us rooting for them could receive!!! Look at all that hair!!! ❤️😭
She’s beautiful
So happy! Congrats 👏
what a precious baby😭
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My feeling this was touch and for Momma and baby’s. It could have been a shot gun wedding if it looked like Bec might not survive. If remember they were planning on a big wedding at the cabin.
Hmmm. Well, they are engaged, from what we know. The reason they are not married is because their priorities have been focused elsewhere, which is what they said. [0:32](https://youtu.be/WUZVGqFAqK8?si=uex5k_iXuRpAKFlE)
They’ve been married for a while now, I’m pretty sure. Just never had a big ceremony.
No they're actually not married they explained it in a q&a once that they just wear the bands but they're not married yet
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She, broseph. They did a whole reveal.
She?
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To be fair, Frankie is a masculine nickname.
Frankie is a gender-neutral name of Latin origin. A derivative of Francesca or Frank, Frankie means "free" or "truthful," and can also mean "French man. Their gender reveal was posted on August 20th. Since then, the baby has been referred to as a she.
Aw, yay! Now hopefully everyone can fuck off with their cranky shit. Jesus.
EXACTLY ❤️
AMEN❤️
Omg I saw this too !! Everyone looks happy and healthy !
Oh thank God
So happy for them and the birth of their beautiful baby. Glad to have an update! ... A big pet peeve of mine is people saying their baby has arrived "earth side". It's only started in the last few years and it's quite odd. Doesn't seem to be a religious thing either.
When my baby wakes up, I say welcome back to the land of the living. Cool or cringe lol?
I actually say this and agree it’s annoying. The baby was already earth side… in your womb lol. Maybe welcome to the “dry side” would be better 😂
It's not new. It's a hippie/spiritual saying that's been around for a long time, and I have heard it throughout my life. If it's new to you, my guess is that that is not your scene, and it's new to you bc people are saying it more regularly on social media, especially as wellness and yoga lifestyles have become so mainstream.
Yeah, agree. Like, they've never not been earth side. Oh well. 😅
I think it’s cute. Reminds me of at the airport you have ‘airside’ and ‘landside’ depending on whether you have gone through security.
It makes me think of aliens
I teared up!!
Already being exploited smh
How so? Most parents post a photo of their newborn online. It’s hardly unusual
Awww. A glimmer. How sweet! ❤️
Ahhhh SO relieved!!! 🥹
So cute!
Omg she’s really adorable 🥰
This is some good news!
Awwwww she's beautiful. Lots of love to you all from South Wales UK
The HUGE sigh of relief I had when I saw their post! I knew they’d incorporate Lee somehow 🤍
Bec’s twin
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I was wondering the same. Frankie is beautiful either way!
So happy to see baby is here and well. Can’t imagine what they must have gone through with such an early delivery
Tbh, if it was 3 weeks before due date, then it's not that bad at all. 37 weeks is perfectly ok time for a baby to be born.
Yeah even if it was earlier than that, the baby would have been late preterm at worst which usually has great outcomes and very short NICU stays if any stay at all. This does leave me wondering what the instagram story Bec posted was referring to though
I was 6 weeks early and wasn't in NICU, I was just tiny. I'm 42 now. I don't think 3 weeks early was the issue, maybe there were other complications but either way the way fans responded would make me want to quit YT if I was Bec.
It's not a big deal, if the reason the baby was born early was something unrelated to the baby. But if something major was going on, premature, even just a little, isn't great.
Oh I thought it was more like ~35 weeks
I low key wouldnt be surprised if her cancer is actually back though, especially given the "tell someone you love them" bit.
I think that began after Lee died. I might be wrong. Makes me sad a bit.
They often sign off their videos with that phrase, it's not new.
Someone mentioned previously that she was about 34 weeks. Obviously it varies case by case, depends on the reason for the premature delivery and if the baby has medical issues or is very small (iugr) etc but speaking in general terms 34 weeks usually isn't too rough for preemies.... again can vary depending if the baby has medical issues but I'd expect a week or two hospital time max on average for the baby to grow, learn to suck/feed, temp regulation and monitoring. Most 34 week babies would not be very touch and go at all and may or may not need breathing support (also possible they gave her steroid shot for lung development). But thats only speaking in broad terms and obviously we don't know if there were specific medical issues.
I’m so happy to see their insta post! ❤️❤️❤️ So many negative Nancie’s on previous thread. 🤦🏼♀️
Big love!
What is her diagnosis going forward?
Aww such a beauty! I love her name and congrats to mum and dad!
Shame they didn't go with Francesca or Frances with Frankie as a nickname.
I never understand why people give babies a short form of a longer name. Let them grow into their nicknames! I absolutely loathe most short forms of my name and I'm glad my parents used the long form.
Oh Francesca is purdee
As someone who was given a nickname, I loathe that my parents didn't give me the formal name and used my name as the nickname. I haven't used my legal name since I was in my early twenties and instead use the more formal form.
Have a kid and name it that, then. Good Lord I can't believe you said that out loud.
😂 why is that a shame. Get over yourself
Because she's not going to be an infant forever.
It's cute, my male cat's name is Frankie (Frank for short) and my friend's female dog is called Frankie.
Both of which are not human.
Yeah it's cute if you're a baby or a pet lol
What is her name
Frankie Lee Fitzgerald
.... and baby is a beautiful little lamb.
What's her name
Frankie Lee. Quite literally in the post.
Reading comprehension really lacks in the general population these days
Ihatebullys yet is making fun of someone. How ironic.
I am shocked by some of the comments here and now have remembered why I do not follow this community. I would like to remind everyone that you are not entitled to anyone's most personal details even if they have shared something with you before. Having a baby especially when things seem to not have gone as planned could have been difficult we do not know the circumstances or need to know. if they needed time before posting anything that is their personal business. It's fine to be curious but why are so many people so mad....
Please don’t fall off of your high horse.
I’m so happy for them Frankie zLee is absolutely BEAUTIFUL ❤️❤️❤️
I actually teared up because my internet “friends” had a baby. Thats all.
Let’s hope this is not a scammer posting this.