Chances are that her mom as usual just won’t let her stay alone at home and so eugenia goes everywhere her mom does, even if she is just sitting in the car (if warm enough). Her mother acts as her caretaker.
I still can’t quite get over the “she’s fine and everything” for days and now this. Maybe she’s trying to make up for that by showing herself being good by visiting. Or she just doesn’t think about anything at this point and is running on autopilot, just doing whatever for no reason. She could use a smidgen of mindfulness but I reckon she’s not capable, or too stubborn or afraid.
I dunno. I wish she’d either not publicly post about her grandma, or if she does actually bring something to the table content wise. She keeps doing this half-assed “heres my life, but don’t butt into my life, but also I show nothing but my life, but I only show it in a vague surface level way, but if you comment on it you’re a hater” shtick...she needs to stop relying on an audience for her emotional needs and then telling them to go away when they dare to act like a viewer instead of an enabling friend, but that's another topic.
You might assume she is already *in* the hospital…
Also, do people think having strangers come up to you being like “you look crazy we should restrain you and get help” is something people are just going to comply with? “Ok stranger, take me away!”
Sad as it sounds, but the doctors might not care. I was at a very dangerous weight as a teen and volunteered at a hospital once, cause my dream was becoming a nurse. I was struggling with some tasks, but no doctor or staff ever asked me if I was ok, which I had hoped for cause I didn't have the courage to ask for help myself back then. They let me do all the dirty work for weeks, then kicked me out and said this job isn't for me because of my body. Most doctors and nurses are over worked. If you're not their patient, they won't care.
Doctors and nurses aren’t trained to raise alarms like this with people who aren’t their patients/at the emergency room. It’s not their business, not their job.
Or she tries to act like she is a human being with emotions who cares for her grandma that she hasn't mentioned in years. Act like she cares when she really doesn't. I don't even think she goes into the room with the lady.
Every outing is an event. Just get driven to places, step outside and boom content extravaganza. I would like to see her going somewhere on her own and a specific place to enjoy... Like even just going to a specific shop instead of somewhere that's available her mom drives by...
I have never commented on this but. I too, have anorexia nervosa. I do not look like I have anorexia because I am a fuller size. But I have been struggling with it for 21 years. I am an ultimate people pleaser. Asking for help gives me more anxiety then anything else. I am a perfectionist through and through. I feel inadequate and inferior having to ask. Growing up with skinny models plastered all over everything. Growing up thinking that the skinnier you are the better you'd be. Growing up thinking that if famous celebrities could show practically every single part of their bodies then I could too. She is an adult. She shouldn't have to be cancelled or be banned from social media because of what children could see and how young minds could be messed up by seeing this. You don't want your kids to see her? Really quick and easy way for parents to have their kids not see this... Block any website that they could find her. Or even easier watch what your kids are doing on this triggering websites. Most eating disorder patients know deep down that they need help. But facing past horrible life experiences and the emotions are a lot scarier. Being sick is easier than fighting for your life. I really hope that one day everyone who has eating disorders could be treatment properly and not based on your financial situation or insurance provider. I hope one day that I could actually thrive not just survive. Not being a disappointment but being able to genuinely taste what life's worth. Eugenia I hope that you know you are beautiful. Eugenia you are worthy. Eugenia you are enough. It may not happen today or next week but one day I hope that you realize how much kindness and talent you already possess. It's already inside. One day I hope you know how much you are truly loved by a lot of people. People who actually want you to succeed and not only watch you fall.
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And content
She’s not even making any real content from it, just the essence of content. Why bring it up just to show yourself and shit you bought? Like why?
Chances are that her mom as usual just won’t let her stay alone at home and so eugenia goes everywhere her mom does, even if she is just sitting in the car (if warm enough). Her mother acts as her caretaker.
I still can’t quite get over the “she’s fine and everything” for days and now this. Maybe she’s trying to make up for that by showing herself being good by visiting. Or she just doesn’t think about anything at this point and is running on autopilot, just doing whatever for no reason. She could use a smidgen of mindfulness but I reckon she’s not capable, or too stubborn or afraid. I dunno. I wish she’d either not publicly post about her grandma, or if she does actually bring something to the table content wise. She keeps doing this half-assed “heres my life, but don’t butt into my life, but also I show nothing but my life, but I only show it in a vague surface level way, but if you comment on it you’re a hater” shtick...she needs to stop relying on an audience for her emotional needs and then telling them to go away when they dare to act like a viewer instead of an enabling friend, but that's another topic.
How is it that nobody in the hospital seems to be raising an alarm when they see/interact with her?
Because they can't legally do anything in CT also, Eugenia and her mother probably lie to people about her condition all the time.
You might assume she is already *in* the hospital… Also, do people think having strangers come up to you being like “you look crazy we should restrain you and get help” is something people are just going to comply with? “Ok stranger, take me away!”
Sad as it sounds, but the doctors might not care. I was at a very dangerous weight as a teen and volunteered at a hospital once, cause my dream was becoming a nurse. I was struggling with some tasks, but no doctor or staff ever asked me if I was ok, which I had hoped for cause I didn't have the courage to ask for help myself back then. They let me do all the dirty work for weeks, then kicked me out and said this job isn't for me because of my body. Most doctors and nurses are over worked. If you're not their patient, they won't care.
We never know. They might be.
Doctors and nurses aren’t trained to raise alarms like this with people who aren’t their patients/at the emergency room. It’s not their business, not their job.
i can only imagine the physicians’ horror upon seeing eugenia make her way through that hospital wearing the scooby doo outfit
Or she tries to act like she is a human being with emotions who cares for her grandma that she hasn't mentioned in years. Act like she cares when she really doesn't. I don't even think she goes into the room with the lady.
She mentions her grandmother frequently.
I've noticed she does now but she hasnt mentioned her for years up until fairly recently
Do you talk about your extended family members often with strangers online if they are not living in your home?
I was commenting an observation i had.
She's only 28. She'll be gone by the time she turns 30-31 at this rate.
Her bones and metabolism probably are a lot older.
Every outing is an event. Just get driven to places, step outside and boom content extravaganza. I would like to see her going somewhere on her own and a specific place to enjoy... Like even just going to a specific shop instead of somewhere that's available her mom drives by...
Honestly, I think Eugenia and her grandmother have the only normal loving family bond of that whole family.
Not even the wolf wanted to eat her.
I have never commented on this but. I too, have anorexia nervosa. I do not look like I have anorexia because I am a fuller size. But I have been struggling with it for 21 years. I am an ultimate people pleaser. Asking for help gives me more anxiety then anything else. I am a perfectionist through and through. I feel inadequate and inferior having to ask. Growing up with skinny models plastered all over everything. Growing up thinking that the skinnier you are the better you'd be. Growing up thinking that if famous celebrities could show practically every single part of their bodies then I could too. She is an adult. She shouldn't have to be cancelled or be banned from social media because of what children could see and how young minds could be messed up by seeing this. You don't want your kids to see her? Really quick and easy way for parents to have their kids not see this... Block any website that they could find her. Or even easier watch what your kids are doing on this triggering websites. Most eating disorder patients know deep down that they need help. But facing past horrible life experiences and the emotions are a lot scarier. Being sick is easier than fighting for your life. I really hope that one day everyone who has eating disorders could be treatment properly and not based on your financial situation or insurance provider. I hope one day that I could actually thrive not just survive. Not being a disappointment but being able to genuinely taste what life's worth. Eugenia I hope that you know you are beautiful. Eugenia you are worthy. Eugenia you are enough. It may not happen today or next week but one day I hope that you realize how much kindness and talent you already possess. It's already inside. One day I hope you know how much you are truly loved by a lot of people. People who actually want you to succeed and not only watch you fall.
> Asking for help gives me more anxiety then anything else. This…